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Occupation: teachers assistant
Member Since: September 25, 2007
Answers: 44
Last Update: June 27, 2008
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hi i have this really angry-red boil thing on my vag. it doesnt hurt and it only itches sometimes, but im scared to scratch it in case it bursts. ive never had sex and i masturbate with my hands but not excessively.
what is it?? (link)
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these sympyoms often relate to syphilis and you do not have to have sex to contract the disease
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I am a 22 year old female & I'm having a huge delimma. Ok so I started hanging out with this girl let's call her Jill ... she is married to let's say Bob. I been hanging out over there for about 3 months. Jill has 4 kids && only 2 of them are Bob's but he is not certain because Jill just revealed that the youngest one might not be his. I cant lie I have been attracted to Bob since the first day I met him but HE IS MARRIED. I know it's wrong. Jill has cheated on him so much ... just within the last 3 months she has revealed stuff to me that I could not even grasp, stuff that you dont do when you are married && in love. Only she doesn't love him she just wants him to be in love with her while she is out sleeping with other people. She wants to be happy but will do everything to make sure he isnt. Well I went to his work to get some stuff && sent him a text message. He thought it was Jill trying to set him because they just had a fight. Well we met up, talked, kissed, && now he has moved all his stuff out of their house, took the 2 kids that he thinks is his, && is buying a new house. If we are not hanging out we are on the phone or texting each other. I know this is wrong but I cant help the way I feel. This is not the first time they split so I dont feel as if this is my fault. I kinda look at it as fate ... they broke up before && if he left && didnt come back he wouldn't of met me. What do I do? Should I leave him alone or jump in the fire? (link)
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i do think you kinda put yourself in a bad position with envolving yourself with a married man even if jill cheats on him i mean do you want to be like jill i say if you really like this guy talk to him and if he seems like hes still in love with jill then let it alone but if he does seem like he want so go through with being eperated then i see no problem with you having some sort of relationship with him but make sure his wife knows you really shouldnt be sneaking around if you really like him you can wait a bit for this whole brak up to go through
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what are some tips on playing hard to get but still showing the guy that you like him....
f/15 (link)
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i think one of the best things to do is make it seem like your busy or wanted but still make time for him so that you come across as wanted and so he feels hes worth your time as well
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Female - My boyfriend ran into an old friend not to long ago and I asked one of our friends about her, apparently they had dated and he was obsessed with her. He's been acting weird and giving her things, fighting over her with his friend jokingly (Who had dated her too)"I told her this first" "She likes me more" type of stuff. Doing things like waiting for her, things he's never done with me. He talks about her with me 24/7 and tells me she’s jealous of me. I finally managed the courage and asked him about this "Obsession" and he admitted to it but he said he loves me and not to worry because "She said she wouldn't date him" last time he asked her to come back. I'm wondering if I should worry about this, I don't want to be hurt. Is there a chance he will actually cheat? (link)
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you should be worried especially at the part when he said "she wouldn't date me" now you have to question youself and think well if she did like him would he cheat or leave me for her and from my point of view it seems so my advice is be aware and if this continues get out of this situation before you do get hurt because none of us want to be with someone who'd rather be with someone else
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ok i fell in love wit the boy of my dreams last summer. everything was great untill october wen i found out he had been cheating on me the entire time. we broke up and he left me for the other girl. around january we decicded to give it another chance. well i kept acusing him of cheating on me and i had my friends stock him. so we break up again. i miss him so much i dont know wat 2 do should i get back with him or just let it go. he was my first luv and i just cant let go (link)
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honey as hard as it is you just need to let go you cant keep hurting yourself by starting a relationship with the man who hurt you and didnt treat you as he should i say try your best to move one and look for other guys that are more worth your time and coul actually treat you well and with respect
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Are you insecure about your new relationship about your new boy/girl friend? Do you know if there cheating on you, but they might not or might be? (link)
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no i cant say im insecure with my relationship i have found a erally great guy and sometimes i cant believe its true and how he puts up with a crazy girlfriend like me but i trust him enough not to cheat on me and i trust my own judgment on finding a guy that wont hurt me sure sometimes i question things but everyone does that and thats completely normal
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well, i've been with my boyfriend for about 11 months. and the thing is, i'm not sure how i feel at the moment. i KNOW i can do better, because he treats me bad at times, and he gets too overly paranoid. he gets paranoid by saying that i can't talk to guys. -___-" and he got mad at me for going to target after school with my friend, which is a girl. because he says that there are probably guys there... but anywho.. i seem to be annoyed with him often also. but yet when something happens that could possibly break us up.. that's when i start getting scared.. but i don't do anything about it. i don't get as scared as i used to.. but i still get scared and nervous. when he used to say "never let me go" i feel touched and stuff, and he said that to me today, i didn't feel anything.. i just changed the subject. So, what's going on? am i losing feelings for him? am i not getting enough sleep or something? or am i just annoyed with him at the moment..?
what should i do? please & thank you! (link)
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it really does sound like your falling out of love with him and maybe this isnt such a bad thing either i mean do you really want that controlling of a boyfriend? maybe you should take a break from him and find someone who can possibly treat you better and if you feel like you still do care about him maybe you should talk to him about his issue with trusting you because trust is the basis of a strong relationship
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ok i met this guy at a party and we hooked up a cuople times and grinded and i mean we hooked up allot.. and i was leaving he asked for my number and he alls me all the time...and i think he really loves me alot thats what he syad beacuse i no i fell in love with this kid in less then a week. and he said his crazy about me..and you know you meet people at clubs and there all fake well his that guy he calls me none stop and txts me everyday since we met and im suppose to be going out with him this weeknd ...amd i stupid...or should i be worried or something...do you really think he loves me ...is this even possible please help !! ??? (link)
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i honestly dont think you have known eachother long enough to decide if your in love or if hes in love with you i mean im all for you giving him a chance just be careful because you dont know much about him and he sounds clingy and although i dont think there is love right now i do believe there could be a chance of love with him in the future after you guys spend moer time together just be careful
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Hi, my name's Rae. I'm 18 years old, female, and I'm of 100% Korean decent. I have the most amazing fiance, Christian. He's 19, male, and super Irish (He even has red hair!). Anyways, the point that I'm trying to get at is that we're obviously different nationality wise. We're in an interracial relationship and a lot of people seem to be bothered by it! I honestly don't understand what's so wrong with us. We love eachother and I don't think your ethnicity or skin color have anything to do with it. So, I was wondering what kind of opinions any of you have about this subject matter. All advice is welcome, but please be serious and honest. Thank you! (link)
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from my experience as i am also in an inter racial relationship is that for some reason people are uncomfortable with it this is most likely because it is something newer to us and some people tend to be hard headed and set in their ways and still think their own race is superior so they see it as an embarrassment if someone of their own "superior" race becomes involved with someone of a different race all of this is foolish and you really shouldnt let it affect you and your happieness i wish you good luck and i hope i gave you some answers
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13/f
well ive only half wayed finger myself
im scared im going to cut my uterus if i do
and also..
im not thinkin about sex
im just asking...
when the guy pops your cherry...
does blood come out right away?
or later? (link)
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ewww wait a couple years
sex can wait and no you dont
always bleed and sometimes
it comes later
whatever your retarded
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ok so to start i go to a house school its were you get home schooled at some one eles house im 13 another girl is 13 my sister is 12 and the boy is 12 also and one day at school the boy was talking about his ex girlfriend and one thing he said was his girlfriend was "loded" do you think that its ok for a 12 year old to say stuff like that because im worried about him do you think i should stop freakin because of a stupid thing he said thanks (link)
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loaded? well that would just mean she has alot of money and thats not an extremely bad thing to say about someone so just blow it off its no big deal
haha well my bad but who says loaded why not well endowed or stacked haha t made a fool outta myself lol its all good tho
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ok so my bff and a guy had a major thing at the begining of last school year. It kind or died away when she moved on. A few months later i started hanging out with that guy. We got close, she really doesnt like it when we hang out im not sure if she is jealous even though she is the one who left him or what but she doesnt like it. anyways ok so me and this guy were hangin out one night and i lost my virginty to him. this was like 2 months ago and i still havent told my friend. she knows everything about me but this ahh should i tell her and take the chance of her being really mad or just live by the "what she doesnt know wont hurt her" standard???!?!!?
helpppp (link)
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honestly i dont think you should tell her.
its over now and what good is telling her goin to do? if you and that boy still had a thing then i would tell her but if not yea what she dont know wont hurt her. its not like what you did was wrong so if you feel guilty or that you should tell her just do that but if it was me id just let it blow over
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Ok. So i'm not a virgin, but my boyfriend is, and I want to have sex with him and all, but I don't know how to start off. Like I don't want to have to tell him what to do ("ok, take your pants off", "Come here," "do this do that") you know?
So is there anything I can do to make him want to be in control. We talk about it and stuff and he tells me all that he WANTS to do, but it never happens. Does that mean he's scared of me? I like him and all and think hes overly sexy but he's not that experienced and stuff. I don't know how to get him to warm up to anything either. I've always gone out with more experienced guys.
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it sounds like he really wants to do stuff with you but hes afraid that he wont be up to your standards all guys are like this just reassure him when he is doin little things then move his hands on you to encourage him that your ready
he should get the hint and start doing things he wants to do to you and i guess if not you take the lead for this one time and next time it will be more comfortable and fimilliar to him and hell take the lead
well good luck i hope everything works out
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14/f Ive never had a boyfriend. I want to have a guy that I can just be with we dont need to have the boyfriend girlfriend title. Im not extremely talkative but to those I really know I am. What could I do to put myself more out there, and to get noticed more and not be nervous about having a relationship? (link)
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thats kinda hard to give specific advice because with experience comes comfort so the more involved with boys you become the more comfortable you will become in having n actuall relationship. as far as getting more out there try to be more social and maybe try a new sport crack a joke every once and awhile and people will notice
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Has anyone tried out her exercises dvds and gotten results? Also, are they safe to play in the house in front of my family? They're not ultra-conservative, but there aren't really any moves that are too.. you know? (link)
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haha well to stay on the safe side id deffinetly not play it in front of family but i have heard it gives a very good workout and is quite enjoyable
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me and my girlfriend were doing stuff and she gave me a blow job and swallowed most of it but there was some left on the tip of my penis so when i put it back in my pants could it have got on my hand and when i fingered her got her pregnant.
btw there was like a 2 to 3 minutes inbetween me putting it in my pants and then me fingering her (link)
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it is highly highly unlikely sperm can only survive at body temperature
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Taebo amped comes with like 4 different dvds to workout to and this weight called an amplifier. i was thinking about buying it, has anybody used it? does it show good results? if so, how long did it take ti see the results? thnx in advance to whoever can help me :]! (link)
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i didnt actually purchase it but we did it as a track warm up and it was very effective for me i got amazing results within a month or two
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I am pregnant and I am trying to predict if my baby is a girl or boy on my own. I have a doctor's appointment to find out on December 20th, but I just want to try and guess. I have a book that is called How To Pick The Sex Of Your Baby, but it is filled with things to do before conceiving to better your chances of male or female. I was just wanting to hear some ways you've heard of to tell (like someone once told me if your belly is low, it's a boy and if it's high, it's a girl). This is just for fun. No links please. (link)
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my aunt told me about this really fun one
you put a piece of paper on your belly and tie a string around a pen or pencil and start moving it around then you stop and let the pen lightly touch the paper and if the pen moves up and down its a boy and if it moves side to side its a girl cool huh?
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There is this guy I've been crushing on for about a year. We are friends, but everytime we are like, "Let's hang out." it kind of just never happens, because there is nothing to do around here. Well, people have been telling me to just tell him I like him, but I'm scared. So for Christmas, I was thinking of doing something like getting him a hersey kiss and putting it on a piece of paper saying, "I don't have the guts to give you a real one, so I guess this chocolate kiss will have to do. Merry Christmas." Is that too cheesy? What other things can I do that will make him smile? (link)
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that has to be the cutest thing ive ever heard go for it
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How do you break up with a guy without hurting his feelings? But without telling him the truth, he is bigger and i'm not physically attracted to that? We were friends before we started dating and i want to go back to being friends? Thanks!
16/f (link)
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you can always make it bitter sweet which wont hurt his feelings as much say something like
"alot of stuff has been going on with me lately and ive been thinking that maybe we'd just be better of just being friends again"
then say something like
"ill never regret being with you its just i want things to be simple again like they were when we were just friends"
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