Should I be worried? Will he cheat on me or leave me for her
Question Posted Tuesday March 25 2008, 3:27 am
Female - My boyfriend ran into an old friend not to long ago and I asked one of our friends about her, apparently they had dated and he was obsessed with her. He's been acting weird and giving her things, fighting over her with his friend jokingly (Who had dated her too)"I told her this first" "She likes me more" type of stuff. Doing things like waiting for her, things he's never done with me. He talks about her with me 24/7 and tells me she’s jealous of me. I finally managed the courage and asked him about this "Obsession" and he admitted to it but he said he loves me and not to worry because "She said she wouldn't date him" last time he asked her to come back. I'm wondering if I should worry about this, I don't want to be hurt. Is there a chance he will actually cheat?
khadiya answered Tuesday March 25 2008, 6:04 pm: It is something to worry about. If she took him back he would cheat. Especially if he is constantly talking about her and throwing her in your face. Stay on your toes, but dont be super supspious because you will end up pushing him away. [ khadiya's advice column | Ask khadiya A Question ]
lilly123 answered Tuesday March 25 2008, 5:39 pm: im sorry to tell you this but,
if he seems to be apparently "obssesed" with her
thats a problem, its not fair to you that his with you but theres another girl on his mind. if he said that she wouldnt date him maybe thats jus a cover-up his telling you what he wants you to think. You need to see if he seriously does still have deep feelings for this girl, if he does its best for both of you that it should be over [ lilly123's advice column | Ask lilly123 A Question ]
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