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I've liked my best friend's neightbor for a long time, but the only problem is: she liked him too. I understand because they're neighbors and really good friends, but he's one of my really good friends too. He says he's liked me since around the same time I started liking him. But this summer, my friend said that he started messing around with her. He even kissed her once. But he says he doesn't remember any of that. He even admitted this fall she was just a friend and he really liked me. But a couple months later, things got pretty rocky and he stopped saying I love you and my friend said that he said he didn't like me anymore. A couple weeks ago she came to school crying because she lost her virginity to him. Yeah, that's right. I talked to him about it and he admited it, adding that he wished it was me. Hello? I told him that she said that he didn't like me, and he said he does. Now he's saying I love you again and asking me to come over alone. I secretly want this but I don't want to hurt my best friend. My question is who's lying and what are his motives? (link)
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ok this is a typical guy using both of you girls. hes not worth ruining your friendship over. hes just trying to get sex from both of you and screwing with both of your heads. and hes obviously lying to both of you and thats just gonna cause drama in you friendship. DUMP THE ASSHOLE!!
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im 14 and my girlfriend is 13. we have been going out for 4 months. she told me that she wants to make out with me. part of me wants too but the other part says no because we kissed for the first time last night at a dance. do you think i should make out with her now or not? if not how long should i wait? (link)
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Just wait until you feel like you are ready. if she wants to and you want to, i see no problem with it.
also, anyplace you guys are would be a good place to make out, sitting down or standing up works. where ever you guys are comfortable :)
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Not that this needs to be figured out like, now, but I figured I'd ask you guys for your opinions. I'm 18/f, he's 20/m if it matters.
There's a dance coming up here, and I want to go, because I love dances - they're fun, and an excuse for me to get overdressed, lol.
The problem is my boyfriend really isn't much of a dancer. I don't really want to go alone. I hinted to him that there was a dance and my friend was trying to convince me to go, but he didn't really say anything on the subject.
So - I guess what I really wanna know is if I should ask him to come with me anyway, even though he doesn't really like dances, or if I should just go alone.
Please lay off the chatspeak. If I have to read your answer twice to understand it, you're not getting a five. (link)
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simple, just ask him if he wants to go and mention that he doesnt really have to dance, that you just to be with him, if he says no, then go alone and have fun with your friends.
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ok, well i have a REALLY BIG crush on this guy, lets call him dan. well i wanted to know if you guys think he has a crush on me. ok, well, everytime i look at him he is looking back (sometimes i see it out of the corned of my eye) and then today in PA (sewing) my tetcher said my name wrong because she has trounle pernouncing it and i wen to correct her but dan corrected her for me (i sit at the table behind him) and when my table was talking about birthdays and i said mine, he looked back and it looked like he was memorizing the date.
thanks,
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well i think its a definite possibility, he seems to take notice of things that are about you which is good. him looking at you is also a very good sign. i would say to talk to him or try to make conversation with him and maybe even ask him out.
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I'm a 14 yrs old girl, my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 2 months now and he's changed. He also thought i was cheating on him because i thought we were broken up so i told another boy we would talk. well I know my boyfriend still likes me and i still like him too. He never shows emotion like i never kno if he's mad sad or if he even cares but i know he cares. Since i don't kno he gets mad a lot. We also hardly talk and now he's talking about sex. Which i've been thinking about but why should i give him what he wants if he doesn't give me what i want someone to talk to. Should I stay with him to find out why he acts this way or if somethings going on that I don't know? or Should leave him alone and find someone new? but you have to keep in mind he doesn't tell me alot so there is alot I don't know about him. (link)
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hmmm......well first of all, dont sleep with the guy if this is how he acts. and dont ever let him tell you who you can or cannot talk to. dont ever a guy push you around like that. from what i can tell, i'd say either figure out why he acts like this and fix it quick or dump him and find a better who will talk to you because communication is the key to a good relationship.
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Heres my proble im female and im 16 I hope you can help,so to make a long story short i fell for my best guy friend and he lead me on for like 6 months im crazy about him it got to the point where he has become me security blanket. i've been going through a really tough time in my life right now and hes been there for me i'd tell him i loved him and hed say i love too but he wouldnt date me and i asked if him it was okay that im so dependant on him, and he told me yes its fine im here for you etc. and just recently out of the blue he was like you call me too much, I cant be your security balnket anymore plus he met someone and basically he was like here ill give you some space get over me and like now we dont really talk hes ina erlationship with this new girl of his , im so hurt cause he just like left and he promise he'd always be there for me and he promised me alot of things but he did lead me ona nd now hes basically doesnt want anything to do with me and he told me left like he did because he got sick of being my friend and i know that, thats not really the main reason why its because of this new girl and i dont know im still in love with hima nd hes my best guy friend and im so confused and hes said oh im sorry a million times but i just cant forgive him a part of me wants to hate him so much but i jsut cant because i love him and he was the first guy ive ever fallen for and ive cried so much overhim and i just cant let go of him and accpet that he did what he did out of all the people i truey care about he walked out me just like my parents did, How can I get over him i need to so bad all he does is hurt me (link)
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Well, i can honestly say that i've been through the exact same thing 4 years ago so i know exactly what you are going through. i fell for my best guy friend just as we started to get really close, at the same time my paretns split up and one of them totally walked out on our family. I know it hurts so bad when someone says they will always be there and then they just leave like you guys didntt even have a friendship, ecspecially when you are having personal family problems. Plus i'm still trying to get over this guy because i wont get him outta my life. and its been 4 years.
I'd say screw him.............hes just gonna keep hurting you and comming in and out of your life just because he KNOWS HE CAN. and that wont be good for you. you def. need time away from this guys.
Plus since you love him, even just being in his life and being his friend, you will have to see him with his girlfriend and that will kill you, trust me. that will make it 10 times worse. i would say screw him for now and try to talk to another friend that you know what leave you and get through your family problems before you try to deal with him. hope i helped some.
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hello.there is this guy i like and i think he likes me too cause i can see the way he looks at me. should i get his number and initiate some conversation with him? (link)
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Yes, i think you should. just waiting could take forever because maybe hes really shy. Then again, if hes not interested, at least you will find out now instead of wasting all the time wondering.
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ok sorry if this gets long. ok so theres this boy(chris) and we went out awile ago but we continued to mess around. i love him. and i told him this and he said we are to young to know what love is im 15 and hes 17. i know i love him. we dont mess around to much aymore b/c its hard to see each other b/c he moved about a hour and a half away. but we talk online once in awhile. well he was drunk one night and i wasnt online but he was talkin to one of my friends and told her he loves me and wants to be with me bt its hard b/c of the distance. and he also told her not to tell me b/c he doesnt want to get my hopes up b/c we cant be together b/c of the distance. but my friend ofcourse told me this. i want to talk to him about this but i dont know how to do it. if he wanted me to know he would tell me wouldnt he?and how do i talk to him about it b/c im not supposed to know?
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just being it up on your own, ask him "do you love me and do you want to be with me" obvioiusly not that blunt btu something along those lines. you know him better than i do so you'll know how to word it better. and i know you think you love him but there will so many loves in your life. so dont base your entire life on just this one guy. good luck!
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I'm male, 17, and in high school.
Two of my friends, let's call them Enrique and Polly, went out for about nine months. Enrique is probably my best friend, and during this time, I became good friends with Polly as well. Recently (a few months ago or so), they broke up, and they've both gone through ups and downs, getting back together, breaking up again, dating other people, etc. Finally, it seems that they've really broken it off. I hang out with both of them a lot, but separately, because they feel awkward together. And I'm starting to get the impression that Polly likes me.
Now, the complicated part. I've had a purely physical (f-buddy) relationship with a girl I know, let's call her Edna, for the past month or so. We've made out many times and had sex once, and the tricky part is that we're both emotionally shy, and I'm not sure how she feels about me. She may want something more out of the relationship, and I'm confused as to whether she just wants an open thing going like we already have or if she would care if I dated someone else.
Unfortunately, long story short, Polly and I ended up making out. We got caught up in the moment and a lot of feelings came out, but now I'm in an unusual place. Polly feels that we need to tell Enrique. Enrique is going to be very upset when he hears this. As an added element, I'm worried about what Edna will think, since I'm not sure what she wants out of our relationship. I'm really confused as to what I should do here. (link)
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hmmm well this could get tricky, trying to be friends with everyone and not hurt anybody is difficult, i've been there. i think first of all, deal with edna, tell her the truth, be like i kinda did some stuff with another girl and i want to know what you want from me andhow you feel about me and blah blah blah. after that if polly really really has the need to tell enrique then tell him. honesty is the best policy and if he really is your best friend he will understand.
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ok. theres this guy that i like. his names ricky. and hes a major hottie. and i think he likes me but im not sure. ok. and he wants to hang this weekend. i dont know what were gonna do yet. but he was saying he wants to hook up with me. and i dont know if thats kissing or sex. but im not worried about that right now. ok. and like he seems like he likes me. but then sometimes he doesnt. like.....i dont know how to explain it. but anyways...like hes nice to me. and seems fun to hang with. and i like him alot!! and i really wanna hang out with him. and do a lil more. =] ha. but anyways....do u think he likes me or just wants to get some....? cause im a virgin. and he aint gonna get that. he might get kissing and maybe a lil more. but not that.
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i think you are absolutly right by saying "he aint gonna get that" because if hes telling you he wants to hook up with you then that means he doesnt look at you like a girlfriend or someone he has respect for ya know? so i say have fun with him while you can, but dont like him so much that you get hurt at the end. because most guys only have one thing on their mind and they dont care who they hurt, i've had plenty of those in my life so far. good luck hun.
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ok, i have a boyfriend and im head over heels in love with him but i have a problem...he is using me...i know he is, he knows he is, everyone knows he is. im not sure what to do...i cant let go of him, ive tried...but i just run right back to him. we are on a break right now and there is this really great guy that likes me and i tried "talking" to him but i cant...i just cant seem to let go of my boyfriend. i know this sounds mushy and gushy but i love him so much i just cant let him go...ok the guy that likes me we will just give him a name "josh" well i went over to josh's house sat. night and watched a movie but anything i did just made me want my boyfriend even more...i know its crazy right...my boyfriend has cheated on me the whole 9 yards, but i still cant let go...what should i do? (link)
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ok hun, YOU HAVE TO LET HIM GO, this "josh" guy seems like a great guy and trust me, i know exactly how hard it is to let go, but you have to. do you really want him to be using you for the rest of your life??? do you know how many other loves you will find?? a ton!! i think the best thing to do is cut yourself off from contact with your "boyfriend" and give this josh guy a chance but make it clear that you just got out of a very serious relationship and take it slow. i hope i helped and good luck. just remember to be strong.
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I recently started going out with a friend of mine who I have known for about 2 years and really liked his personality, however I have only been going out with him for about 4 days and he has already become really clingy and needy, saying he misses me a lot and saying things like he only wants to talk to me. Its really putting me off him so how can i tell him without hurting his feelings to stop being so needy? (link)
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well first of all, no matter what you do, dont break up with him, maybe hes just confused about how he should act. ecspecially if he hasnt had many girlfriends before you. or maybe he thinks that you want him to be that needy and clingy. i would just say " ya know "babe, hun, whatever you call him" you dont always have to talk to me, i want you to ahve a life too" or "i really like you and still want to be with you but we dont have to spend every moment together" but just make sure he knows that you arnt dumping him because then things will get bad and he will get defensive and you will end up single.
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13/f ok so i have this bf and i am so freaked becasue we are goign to stay home and see a movie this weekend but i dont know if he is the type to make a move how do i tell if he is liek that and how or when he will makle the move (link)
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just relax hun, when its right it will happen. dont stress over it because hes prolly stressing over it and you guys wont have any fun if you are BOTH stressing. just relax and enjoy his company and when its right, it will happen. and there is no way to tell for sure when he is or when he isnt gonna make a move, maybe hes waiting for you to.
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14/f. My friend Kate introduced me to one of her close guy friends about 3 weeks ago named Warren. I sort of like him now but I'm not sure if he likes me back. Kate said that Warren considers me one of his friends, but I don't want to just be his friend. I'm afraid that if I get too far in this friendship with him, we could never have anything more. Any ideas on how to turn this around so he knows that I'm willing to take things further with him? thanx. I RATE.
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flirt with him so he knows you are interested. make him see this, dont be shy either, start looking your best everytime you go see him. make him see you more than a friend and he will think of you more than a friend
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Here goes my story I already know this girl for almost two years now and lately she is quite acting really wierd for the past three months now.. It goes like this I usually hear my name with one of her friends. Whenever I get close to her,her friends kinda laugh and they do some signallings with her. I usually catch her staring at me or doing eye contact.. And one thing she really cares for me like always keeps on telling me what things to do, What to wear and etc...At one time we have this contest about a play in English class.. At the back stage she suddenly said that she wants to put her hankerchief inside my pocket oh for pete's sake she could just put it inside her own pocket.. Im quite sure her pockets is empty.. And sometimes whenever I tease her she get's really mad Im mean not that Mad like in joking manner..and to top it all off when me and my classmates went on a practice at her house I notice something's wrong I noticed that all her relatives (ie, uncle,cousins,her mom) kinda smile at me and stared at me for a few seconds maybe she told her relatives about me. Well that's about it well I could put more examples but it's gonna be quite too long for just an advice hope this helps.. (link)
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well by what you told me, i think she does have some type of feelings for you...........you can usually tell by what her friends and family say when you are around or how they act.
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My boyfriend and I are constantly getting into debates about everything, especially religion and politics. We usually don't get that worked up, but I'm afraid it's going to do our relationship damage in the long-run. Is debating normal? Or should we avoid doing it in case we start fighting and potentially ruin our relationship? Do other people have experience with this...?
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yes, very healthy relationships start like this actually. its good to have different opinions. and debating it very healthy to get the others opinion. just make sure one of you stays a little bit calm so it doesnt start into a big arguement. and no matter what DONT LET IT RUIN A GOOD RELATIONSHIP
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I have a boyfriend and hes 2 years older than me and i know he kissed people. The problem is i never kissed anyone and i dont wanna mess up and like make a fool of myself and i dont want to tell him i never kissed before so i need help !How do you kiss?.. =/
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hmmm.......well i think you should stop being nervous and be very confident in yourself. kissing is not very difficult, not too tight of lips and not too much tongue and thats all there is to it. when it happens it will come naturaly to you. so dont sweat it and look forward to your first kiss cuz its amazing!! enjoy.
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Well, i dated this guy last year(my freshmen year, i'm now a sophomore). I broke up with him b/c we dated for two weeks and haden't even held hands yet. I totally regretted it and I know that i should have just talked to him about it instead of ending it right there. Finally this year, I told him how i felt but he said that he just wanted to be friends. Some friends we are, he gives me the "go to hell" look everytime i see him. He's now dating this girl for 2 months and he's STILL all i ever think about! I know that he doesn't feel the same way about me as i do about him but i'm still not over him!! HELP!! (link)
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I know it seems hard right now to hear this, but time heals everything, and its so trie. you will get over him eventually. try going buy hunting with some friends at the mall. it will help to see other possibilities
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I want to get my boyfriend something really special this year,but I don't know of something thoughtful i could get him, can someone please give me some romantic gift ideas that my b/f would like?? GUYS---what would you like your girlfriend to get you for christmas that's romantic??? please help me!! budget is pretty tight too, please help!! thanks (link)
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just one word...........boxers, guys love them, or a new cd, or a new shirt, or a new video game, some guys actually like chocolate too.
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Heyy!,
Is it wrong for an 13 year old and an 11 year old to go out?..I really need someones opinion!!! (link)
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No its not, i think anything under a 10 year age difference is just fine
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