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Hey sorry its long but I dont kno what to do. I love my boyfriend with all my heart n I could never love anyone this much. He is my whole world, he means everything n more to me. He has cheated on me a few times n I've cheated on him. But anyways this last time he cheated on me, he promised n swore on my life that he would never do it again, n said he loved me more then anything n he couldnt live without me. But now this girl is telling me that he tells her he misses her n wishes he could turn back tha hands of time, but he says tha same thing to me. We've been together 3 years, n we've broken up before n I just cant even live..I cant go on without him, I go crazy, we've been through so much, n I hurt myself whenever we fight...What do I do :( (link)
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i went through the same thing. dont blame him if u dont kinow for sure hes sayin it. maybe that girl is just trying to break yall up.. but just try to catch him and if u find out hes telling her that then u should know what to do.. break up with him even tho its hard,
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Hey yall im the chick that asked if i should try again with my ex because i was having a lot of dreams and blah blah blah...anyways everyone that answered me back told me to go for it which made me happy but the only thing that bothers me is my friends...they all know the situation (most of them) and they dont like him because i got really depressed over him and stuff and for some reason whenever i talk about him i feel like their like ' omg what a loser she why cant she just forget this guy is it that hard? ' and i feel weird talkin about him and if we did get back together id talk about him a lot cuz he means sooo much to me! and my bffl talks about her bf 24/7 and she has a new one like every week and its so annoying! anyways what do i do since i feel so self concious talkin about him. thanks... (link)
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my firends used to do that to me cuz i got all depressed over this boy that i went out with for 9 motnsh he cheated on me one night when he went ot a prty with his boys.. and i got all depreessed and always was like i wanna be with him so bad and i cant live without him and my friends got aggrivated but they stood behind me and trusted my choices and emotions and if ur firends where tru then they would understand and they would want to be there for you. if ur friedns dont then u shoudl just learn to respect that cuz u cant change the way they feel about it. but just go for the boy.
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ok well theres this guy who is really nice, hott, funny, sweet, and just PERFECT!! all tha gurl'z adore him!!! and i feel soo lucky that he constantly flirt'z w/ me! It'z been lyke 3 months that we've been flirting (NO JOKE) and i mean that'z pretty long. We act lyke a couple and evrythin..like he tries to kiss me, and he licks me and stuff..but i mean i dont wanna kiss him unless we are actually goin steady..i SERIOUSLY Need some help becuz im wayyyyy too afriad of asking him out myself..if u have any ideas..PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!! ILL RATE U!!!! (link)
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i think that mayube u should get one of ur freiends to ask him if he likes you and if they say he does then u should ask him out so u know you wont get rejected. or u can get one of his firends to hook yall up
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hi
I'm 27 years old male from Windhoek,Namibia.
my girlfriend and i broke up after two years of healthy relationhsip.i still love her very much though and i'm pleading day and night for her to give it another try.i know her decision was made by the influence of some of her family. her family pretents alot with me,but i don't have a problem with them.altough i'm now living 400km away from her i still can't get her out of my mind.she was and still is the best thing that has ever happen to me.
please help me..what do i do to get her back.
Thank you
Haroldt (link)
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i think that if she really loves you then it wouldnt matter wht her family sayes even tho blood is thicker then water..do yall talk still?
im you do then maybe you should just spill ur heart out to her but dont scare her away. and tell her exactly how you feel. if it doesnt work then maybe tall should just be firnends, i know thats hard but you'll eventually have to move on.good luck and im sorry about wht happened between yall
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sorry, this is gonna be kinda long...ok, this guy i am with, and love with all my heart, lets call him...Bob...now, Bob, has been making certain, well, comments, that makes me think that he wants to be with me for ever. like, one day i was talking about how whenever i get married my mom is not gonna like the guy, so i was gonna get a friend (lets call her Sally) to do what the mother does in a wedding...and he goes "don't let Sally do anythign special" so i was like "she'll prolly be a bridesmaid" and then i discussed soem dumb ideas a freind of mine had...lets call her Sandy...and i told him we wanted to do a double wedding in a cowboy theme. and he goes "i am not dressing up like a cowboy"
does that mean that he wants to marry me, or is planning to or what? it has stuck in my head and i just want to know if there could be a further meaning behind it. (link)
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im not trying to be mean but you are still younf and theres a 10% chance that yall are guinna get married. he probally loves you dearly and he probally wants to marry you and he probally loves you with all ur heart but chances are yall probally arent gunnaget married. but answering ur question, yes it seems like he does wnt to marry you.
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Alrighty, well this is about that boy Jake that i wrote about before. As I said Jake calls me everyday and I like him a lot, but yesterday we were talking on the phone and hes like god how come you never call me or talk to me in school? Im sick of your sh!t I always have to call you but w/e forget it im sick of it and Im not calling you anymore! And he was yelling at me and all and I was telling him im sorry and all and hes like w/e it doesnt matter if you call me now or what i dont care. Well i said the reason i didnt was because i didnt know if he wanted me to, and he said that was the stupidest thing he has ever heard because he doesnt know if i want him to call me so thats not an excuse. And he kept saying that it didnt matter because the only reason that i would start talking to him was because he said something. So today I was looking for my friend during homeroom and i went up to him and asked if he saw her and he just walked away from me! I dont know what to do im so upset, i left school early because i was feeling sick worrying about it so much and i could focus :(!!
Someone please help me (link)
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if ur firned didnt care then he wouldnt have tooken it so personally. i think u should call him tonight and say just tell him how u feel and tell him that u truly are sorry adn should start calling more then u do0.and if he doensnt get over it and forgive you then just give him some time to co0l off and let him realize that he was to0 dramatic. and he'll eventually tell you hes sorry....hopefully
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theres this kid who at one point i "loved" and its been really hard for me to let him go. i finally thought i stopped liking him but hes always ther in the back of my mind. so theres this other kid im friends with and a little while ago someone told me he liked me, so i kinda started to like him back after a while cuz hes nice, cute, ya know... well anyways hes kinda quiet so it was hard for me to come out and tell him i thought i liked him, so i just kept quiet and we went on being friends. yesterday he came over and it was the first time we ever hung out alone(of course the whole fam had to be home!lol) but anyways, we talked and stuff but after he left i kinda thought about it and decided that idk if i really like him as more than a friend. i basically know the kid i cant get over will never like me again and i might have a chance with the other one, but im having so much trouble deciding how i really feel about both of them... ahh wicked confused lol if you have any advice/can realte please let me know! (link)
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ifu feel like u and the boy you so cal "love" are never going to be together again and u like the other kid then u hsould just go out with him because i think that he can help you get over the other boy like me for instance me and my ex went out for about 9 months adn we were madly in love with eachother. well he switched sko0ls but we still lived in the same town and we kinda just started fading. and he wouldnt call me as much as he did and then i found out that he had cheated on me and the reason why he wouldnt keep in touch with me anymore was becasue he couldnt be around me and act like nothing was rong when really everything was so when i found out about it i threw the chain he gave to me at him and ran off crying (meaning we broke up) a week later i founf out that he had to go to rehab and i couldnt talk to him for about 6 months.. i never had the chance to tell him that i wuold give him another chance since i loved him so incredibly much and i couldnt live without him. i started becoming suicidal and i had to be put on depression pills because even months after we broke up i would still jsut sit in my bed for hours and cry over him. but needless to say, this other boy that i had been good firnds with asked me out and i sed yes.. i finally started gettin over my exand got off my depression pills. he kinda saved me and picked me up and put me back on track. i will always have a spot in my heart for my ex and no one can change that.. my ex just recntly got out of rehab and i was the first girl he called. i never gave him a chance to explain himself and we talked for hours on the fone adn decided that being firneds is gunna be hard but its the best thing for us b/c if we go out again then there is a chance that i can gethurt. so no matter how much u love him, you need to try to move on because u dont need to get ur little heart shattered again. i know this is really long so ill cut it short. so my advice to you is that you should go out with that new boy and just try to make everything ccoool with ur ex and just be firneds its hard, i would know, but its the best thing 4 u and for him so neither of u can get hurt again. you will aways have a spot in ur heart for him but u just have to move on.sorry so long and i hope i helped u at least a little bit
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it took me almost a year to get over my ex boyfriend and even then i still wasn't all the way over him..i loved him so much and i still do only i was moving on sorta but now all the sudden im having tons of dreams about him and like all of them are of me and him being together and bein happy and shit, its freakin weird. i miss him so much..like hes my world and he makes me feel like i can be myself and he wont judge me or anything. i have no idea what to do. please dont tell me to move on because my hearts telling me not to. my bffl is neighbors with him and me and her and other people are going to this 4 story haunted house around halloween and shes bringing her boyfriend (most likely) and i want him to go..is that stupid even though we aren't together? should i try and make things work between us or what should i say/do??? thanks sooo much. (link)
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u should tell him to go and i know exactly wht ur going through except my boyfirnd had sex with a different girl and then had to go to rehab so i never had the chance to work it out with him. so dont miss that oppourtunity just try to make things work b.c if u dont then u will end up like me...alone and heartbroken.
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I recently started liking my friend, "Ray". We were hanging out a couple weeks ago & we were flirting a lot. Then we kissed.. Twice. The next day, I talked to him & he admitted that he has a girlfriend! Does this make me a slut, because I didn't know that he was cheating on his girlfriend! (link)
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THIS DOES NOT MAKE U LOOK LIKE A SLUT. IT MAKES HIM LOOK LIKE AN ASS. I DONT THINK U SHOULD GO OUT WITH HIM BECUASE CHANCES ARE IF HE CHEATED ON HHIS G.F THEN MOST LIKELY HE WILL CHEAT ON U. BUT DONT WORRY UR NOT A SLUT IT WAS AN INNOCENT KISS!
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I've noticed lately that a lot of guys have started liking me. It doesn't really faze me, but today this guy came up to me & said that his friend thought I was cute. I said I was flattered & asked to meet him. The poor guy was too shy to talk to me! I feel kind of bad because I could have easily just walked over there & talked to him. Should I ask him out? (link)
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I THINK THAT U CAN GET HIM TO OPEN UP A LITTLE BIT. BY GOING OUT WITH HIM. BUT DONT GO OUT WITH HIM IF U FEEL BAD MAKE SURE U GO OUT WITH HIM CUZ U LIKE HIM!
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hey everyone ok im gay for starters and i have been made fun of my whole life for it and now people at work are starting too and i think im going to kill myself so please talk to me.:( (link)
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first of all why do people make fun of you? i deffinatly dont think u should kill urslef i ithink maybe u should go see a counselor. and try to make new friends. please dont do anythign stupid because it isnt worth giving up ur life. if u need a friend to talk to or if u need to talk about this situation more then please im me on x6xtonix9x im usually always on so feel free to im me
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umm theres this guy that likes me alot and he is def. not my type...... but my friends tell him i lik him bc they feel bad for him... But i dont like him... Im going icekating on my birthday and soo is he.... he is giving me this real diamond ring and asking me out... what should i do? (link)
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just becuase hes "def. not ur type"oesnt mean u cant give him a chance. but dont use him for material things ex: that ring for ur b-day... u never know if u can have smtn good unless u give it a try i dno maybe if u gave him a chance then u might like him.. but tell ur friends to stop telling him that u like him because thats so0o0o0o0o0o0o0o wrong u just dont do that no matter how bad u feel for sumone. either talk to him in person and tell him that u dont like him but do it in a nice way.. or u should just give him a chance and if it dont work out then break it off with him.
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My boyfriend & best friend are very close. My best friend even hooked us up. The thing is, my best friend is always messing around with my boyfriend. They always play fight and laugh about it, but to me it's flirting. I get extremely jealous but try to play it off thinking they're just good friends. My best friend is the kind of person who if I told her about it would think I'm crazy but then flirt with him even more! I love them both, but I can't help feeling that they have some sort of feelings for eachother. He tells me he loves me and my best friend is just a friend, nothing more. Am I crazy for thinking this? Could there be something going on between them? (link)
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i dont think there is anything goin on b.w them i think that maybe u shouuld just accept ur emotions and deal with them. its tottaly normal to get territorial when it comes to boys but just let it go and dont react off of it b.c if she was ur true friend then she wouldnt want to hook up with him maybe shes just a flirtatcious person and she doesnt realize it. as for ur boyfirnd if he "loves" you then he wouldnt even think about being with ur bestfriend boys are also very flirtatcious people and they really dont know it. its just a natural thing for ppl to flirt and i know it makes u mad but just know that they bboth love u dearly and they wouldnt do anything to hurt you!!
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I am a 23 year old female who has been friends with another 23 year old female for 10 years. We have always been very close and we have also been intimate in the past WITH my boyfriends consent. Now she has been going out with my boyfriends brother for a year and a half and now lives with him. I really miss being able to get drunk with her and kiss her and being intimate without any worries and now we can't. My boyfriend could care less if we were like that again because he understands my sexuality, but his brother is completely jealous of us even being in the same room together. It sucks. I wish I could get over it but I can't and I can't get her out of my head, I miss having that close friendship, I could never have that again because no one knows me like she does. Sometimes I think she sends me signs that she misses me like that too, but I am so confused about this! I don't really know what my question is except dizzy wonder on how she is feeling (I don't want to ask her and confuse her too if she ISN'T confused). Maybe I am wondering if I should force these thoughts away and tear them from myself like a limb from my body, keep this as a haunting secert that burdens me every day, or keep hoping something will change. Thank You to anyone who is able to answer this confusing question. (link)
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it is understandable if her boyfriend dont want yall to be together i htink u should deff. talk to the girl and tell her how u feel. u cant change her boyfriends feelings he doesnt want yall to be together then theres just nothing u can do. all i can say is that u talk to the girl maybe call her or something and tell her u miss her adn u think its messed ujp that yall cant be firends anymrore. im sorry i couldnt help too much i justs dont know wht its lsike to be intimate with somone of the same sex and i dont think i ever will but good luck and i hope evrything works out!
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ok, i have been with this guy for a while, and the only time i ever see him happy is when we are together, and our mutual friends say the same thing, but he keeps pushing me away, his mom died in his arms 3 years ago and he was really close to her, some one told me it sounds like he loves me cuz he doesnt wanna lose me. does anyone have any ideas???? please help me! (link)
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i think he loves u but he has alot of things on hiss mind jsut give him some time and try not to get to0 close so he will feel that u respect his feelings. i hope evrything goes good with yall go0d luck hope i helped out some
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Ok I am a 13 year old girl and I like this boy at school, and he likes me to but only as a friend. He thinks he's to young to be my boyfriend but I realy realy like him and I want him to be my boyfriend, what should I do?? (link)
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if he inlywantrs to be friends then u have to respect that and move on.
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last night me and my boyfriend talked 4 2hours (longest since summer :) ...anyways he asked me if i had been fingered b4 and i had been but see it happend when i was goin out with him so i got really quiet and sad bcz of what ive done!!..how can i tell him i kissed (made-out) and got well i didnt rly let him do it all the way but how can i tell him i cheated on him...
i dont think he'll wanna talk to me again and im supposed to see him on the 29th.. :/..plz help me! (link)
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how long have yall been going out?
i think that if you really like him then you need to bne honest and tell him wht happened. tell him that it makes u sad to think about it and tell him u made a really bif mistake and you want to make things better b-w the 2 of you. tlk to him and tell him that if there is anything you could take back it would be that. say it might be hard to trust me again but just know that im really sorry and i hope that we can work through this. i hope i helped good luck
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i like this boy pierre!! He'z a sophmore and the runningback for the varsity. He's cute funny and ohhh so many girls like him. He lives in my neiqhborhood n we've had sex...a lot. i wanna qet things moving furthur you kno..i want him 2 b my boyfriend. All he says is that he doesn't know andthat so many girls have hurt him before..is he afraid of commitment? i do more than enough just to see his face. Theonly reason i go to school is 2 see his face at the end of the day!What do i do..or say? He tells me he likes me and that hez not just gonna say he loves me to make me feel better..im qlad hez truthful...? (link)
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well first of all u shouldnt have sex with a bot when ur not going out with him like u said the other day ur stealling chaeating sneaking out and lying for him. i think ur just using ur self up and u shouldnt be doing that. i htink that u should just try to find someone new.. i mean im not trying to sound like a bitch but i think hes using you.
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Ok, I am 44 yrs. old and my husband is 47, we have been married about 6 months, and are professonal decent people. My problem is my husband is not interested in making love to me, when we first married, we had a decent sex life,. then no more for the past several months. If I bring it up he gets mad. Says hes just tired,or could be his antidepressants he takes, etc.. But he has time to be internet addicted, and reads a lot, anything to keep from being with me. I had caught him on the net several times talking to men, over a year ago, but he had a excuse for that, he was "just messing" with the gay guys for a laugh. Now I wonder. Ive tried talking to him but about this, but he dosent want to discuss it. So what do I do? I love my husband dearly but what do I do, Lonely (link)
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may be your husband is gay(as u sed uve caught him tlkn to guys). i mean im only 15 years old so i dont know what its like to be married but i do know about sex. maybe its just getting boring for him so go look at books and stuff and see if he wants to try any new postions or something.. hope i helped good luck hope thinkgs get better!
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well i have this prob with the boy im goin oout with ...we've beem goin out for about 5 days now..or more...but the thing is that he never calls me and ..he always has me callin him...im not afard to ask him why its just i dont know how .....so plz help me (link)
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MAYBE HE THINKS THAT IT WILL AGRIVATE U IF HE CALLS U SO HE DONT BOTHER. ANOTHER THING THAT IS HARD TO ACCEPT ISS THAT HE ISNT THAT INTEREDTED IN YOU(NOT TRYING TO BE MEAN BBUT IT COULD BNE POSSIBLE) SO JUST TLAK TO HIM AND TELL HIM THAT U WANT TO HEAR FROM HIM MORE INSTEAD OF YOU MAKING ALL THE EFFORT TO GET IN TOUCH WITH HIM, IF YOU DONT CUMMUNICATE WITH THE BOY THEN HE WONT KNOW THAT SOMETHINGS WRONG SO JUST TLK TO HIM!!
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