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best friend + boyfriend = ?
My boyfriend & best friend are very close. My best friend even hooked us up. The thing is, my best friend is always messing around with my boyfriend. They always play fight and laugh about it, but to me it's flirting. I get extremely jealous but try to play it off thinking they're just good friends. My best friend is the kind of person who if I told her about it would think I'm crazy but then flirt with him even more! I love them both, but I can't help feeling that they have some sort of feelings for eachother. He tells me he loves me and my best friend is just a friend, nothing more. Am I crazy for thinking this? Could there be something going on between them?
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I was in tha same exact position, n it turns out something was going on with them n I found out from another friend. They always wrote letters to each other n stuff. We all got in a huge fight n I had to choose between my boyfriend n best friend, n he had to do tha same. My boyfriend chose me cuz he loves me, n I chose him for tha same reason. I couldnt let him go cuz im so in love with him. I realized that I couldnt trust my friend at all, n it was all her fault. We never talk anymore n I hate her lol. But me n my boyfriend are still together. So I think you should try talking to both of them about this, cuz you never kno..something could be going on, n you dont deserve to be hurt like that. Goodluck hun. Ask me anything :) xOx
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I had the exact same problem. Just try to deal with your jelous feeling. I know its hard but im sure they dont realize that they look like theyre interested in each other. But you mite want to talk to your boyfriend about how you feel. And possibly your friend too. And if they are/were/get into a situation where they would be alone together and you dont/didnt/wouldnt feel comfotable with it..make sure you tell them. Hope i helped
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hey..no just relax..they are just friends...i have the same problem..i just had to learn not to be so jealous..yea its hard and i sometimes get mad..but you have to understand..you might be to secure..if you keep being like that then he might go somewhere else because all you do is bicker about the same thing over and over again..you naw mean?...just trust him..it will be fine..well peace out..
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Not yet but in the near future there will be!
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You should confront your friend & ask her why she's flirting w/ your guy. Say that it bugs you & that you wish that she'd stop. If that doesn't work, either try hooking her up w/ a guy or else maybe it's time to end this friendship. Hope that helps!
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i dont think anything is goign on between them, buy hey you never know. Just think about it like this, they are really good friends so they will always have feelings for each other. but if he wanted to be with her would he still be with you? Just stick with it a little longer and if it still bothers you later down the road then confront them with your feelings.
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I think you should wait a little longer and If they keep it goin sit down with them and figure out if they do have feelings for eachother, but If they think your completely crazy just join in, in there little fights and flirting and you could even make your friend see that It hurts you to see them flirt and touch eachother
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i dont think there is anything goin on b.w them i think that maybe u shouuld just accept ur emotions and deal with them. its tottaly normal to get territorial when it comes to boys but just let it go and dont react off of it b.c if she was ur true friend then she wouldnt want to hook up with him maybe shes just a flirtatcious person and she doesnt realize it. as for ur boyfirnd if he "loves" you then he wouldnt even think about being with ur bestfriend boys are also very flirtatcious people and they really dont know it. its just a natural thing for ppl to flirt and i know it makes u mad but just know that they bboth love u dearly and they wouldnt do anything to hurt you!!
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Just think about it, their best friends, so there might always be something between them.. but then again if there is something going on then you'll just have to trust that one of them would tell you the truth. Being in a 'love triangle' can be confusing.. try to keep things straight and dont get too jealous because it might be nothing.
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