Last year i went to this valentines day dance. my best friend had a girlfriend and i didnt and i felt like a "tag-along". he has so many girls that like him and i think it might happen again this year. i was thinking that i might try to ask someone too but i dont really like anyone so i dont have anyone to ask. I was just going to find someone that i liked a little bit and ask her but im not sure. Should i ask somebody or should i go alone like last year? What should i do? Please help.
Well, if you find someone you like, then go for it! But don't just ask someone if you don't like them. If you end up not liking anyone by the Valentine's Day Dance, then just go and hangout. You don't necessarily have to tag-along with your best friend the whole night, you can just go and hang out with everyone. Hope you find someone =)
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ok ive been asking questions about my boyfriend...like me not thinking he cared about me and stuff well yesterday i passed out and couldnt breathe and i think it scared him and i think he relized how much he loves now that it happend to me...he is constantly telling me how much he loves me and how much he needs me...
do you think that becasue of what happend hes relizing how muhc he loves and cares about me???
thanks a bunch!
XxXxAbabiiXxXx
Yeah he probably is. You know that saying, "You don't realize what you have until it's gone"? That's probably what he was thinking--because he might have thought he was going to lose you. Now that he knows he loves you, he wants to make sure you know it ♥
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Hey, Im 13, and my boyfriend and I have been going out for about a couple months. And he asked me if he could finger me. I want him to, but will it hurt? I hurd that it does, but im not really sure. And then he asked me later in the future (a month or so from now) if we could have sex. I want to but im scared it will hurt to much or i'll get pregnent. XoXO **AmberO**
I'm just giving you my opinion, so you can either take it or leave it. If he fingers you than it might hurt, depending on how "loose" you are. I think you should NOT have sex. You're 13! And even if you weren't 13, you've still only been with your boyfriend for a few months! I'm 13 also and I think if I had sex at my age I would regret it for the rest of my life. You will probably regret it too. IF you do it, it will probably hurt since it will be your first time. There's a chance you could get pregnant, but if he wears a condom, there's a slim chance. The only way you could get pregnant when he wears a condom is if the condom breaks. And DONT tell him to wear 2+ condoms because then there is a higher chance of the condom breaking. PLUS: What happens if you get pregnant? Then what are you going to do? What if your boyfriend breaks up with you? Then you'll be a single thirteen or fourteen year old mother. You know what will happen to your reputation if people find out? What's going to happen with all your friends? You have so many questions to ask yourself about this. If I had a say in this, I would tell you it wouldn't be a good idea to do this. But I really don't have a say. It's all your decision. Sometimes decisions in life are going to be hard to make, but you're going to have to make them eventually. Make a good choice and don't get yourself hurt out in the real world ♥
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there r 3 girls i like at my school, but they all have bfs already with no sign of breaking up, ive been really good friends with them for a while and have gone out with them in the past, i just really miss having a gf and im lookin for advice
ps-dont say look for other girls cuz every1 else at my school is too preppy and green
I know you want one--but you don't need a girlfriend. I'm sure they aren't going to stay with their boyfriends forever. Once they break up..start hanging out with those girls. Talk to them a lot, and give hints that you like them. In the meantime--just hang out with your guy friends and have FUN ♥
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I have a friend that has a boy friend and she likes another guy but shes stuck in the middle and this guy she's known longer then her boyfriend.She ask my advice but I dont know what to tell her so PLEASE help me out you said there would be an honest answer.Her boy friends nice he waits for her before and after school.But the other guy is a guy that she can really connect with and this guy Knows alot more about her.So Can you give me the closest advice possible.I'm 13 and my friends 13 were both girls.
Well if this other guy (that's not her boyfriend) is good friends with her, she might not want to go out with him. I mean--it would be great--but when they break up..they'd probably lose their friendship. That wouldn't be too good. But if she doesn't like her boyfriend that much, she can't really stay with him--you know what I mean? I can't really tell you who she should go out with..and you can't really tell her. She has to decide on her own. Tell her what I told you, and tell her to think about what would happen if she broke up with her boyfriend//went out with her friend//etc. and what the consequences would be. Hope this helped..♥
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when making out... does the girls bottom lip go inbetween the guys lips? ive been told that but then how is the tounge involved?
It really doesn't matter who's goes where. It works both ways--so do whatever you guys want! ♥
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Okay this boy in my year iv'e known him since first school and we've always been good friends. Im 13 by the way.I've been out with him a couple of times but nothing serious just a laugh really. I've always had something for him and a couple of weeks ago he asked me out I said no because i didn't think it was right.Then he asked again and i still felt the same. But now i REALLY REALLY like him.He blanked me today and I feel as though i have no more chances?He's not the same with me and he hardly talks to me. Am i right or can someone out there help?? Thanks xxx
He already asked twice so he's realizing you "don't" like him. But you really DO. If you want him to know that, the only way for him to find out is if you tell him. Or you could just talk to him, hang out with him, and of course..flirt. Hopefully he'll eventually realize you like him. Good luck ♥
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Hi, I was just browsing the net when I came across this! So heres the
thing, I'm sure it's over told, I really like this guy at my school. I
find that he's hard to read though, like somedays he'll act like he's
really into me, and likes me, but others he doesn't say a word and acts
uninterested. So, here's what makes me think he is; He teases me in a
flirty way sometimes, and seems to like it when I laugh. He remembers
stuff that we've talked about before, even if I said it like in front
of the class, or mumbled it under my breath. This one time in class, he
was talking and when he said the word "amazing" he was definitly
looking at me. Sometimes he'll smile at me in the halls. When I needed help
with the copier he helped me, and seemed sort of nervous, more so
because it was just us, rather than around all of his freinds and class
mates. I also think he might have been staring at me a couple of times,
it's yet to be proven. But, we really have no connection outside of
school. Somedays, it's like he hasn't noticed me in the room, or
sneaking looks at him, I want him to see me! I've been flirting as
discretly yet noticably as humanly possible! I think he's noticed, but I
think maybe were both being to shy. I would ask him out, but I really
don't want to be rejected from him. I really like him so much. I don't
know too much about him either, I know that he hunts, likes fish (as in
pets), plays football, and loves poker and card games. He knows that
I'm in Tae Kwon Do, and am a vegetarian, and also that I've volunteered,
he even said I was special when I said I volunteered without a
sarcastic tone. I think he likes me too, but he's making it hard, or maybe I'm
not reading him right, either way, please help!
Hoplessly in Love
Sounds like he definately likes you. You should just talk to him more! Ask him if he wants to hang out after school! I'm sure he'll say yes--unless he's too shy. Just get to know him more. Good luck =)
Oh yeah--welcome to Advicenators. Enjoy your stay ♥
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Im 15/f and i really like this boy that is 13 and he likes me too. we are very close we talk on the phone and he even had told me that he had fallen in love with me.Everyone thinks that we go out cause we always together. I dont know what do to because he ask me out, and he is waiting for an answer, whats holdin me back is his age and that peoples might be talking like am too old for him, So im really confused what should I do?
If you both like each other--the age shouldn't matter. It's only two years anyway. If you're worrying so much about your age difference, then maybe your just not ready to go out with him.
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I need a way to dump this guy im going out with but like not, its not you, its me thing cuz thats soooo old, anyway..just plz ill rate high if you give me a way to dump him and i just wanna it to be the way it was were we were good friends..but i odnt want it to change when i dump him and i dont want him to hate me!
Thanx in advance
xoxo
-confused
Just be like "I was happy with us being good friends before..and I want to keep it that way. I like being your friend and I don't want that to change. So I want us to just be friends, before something worse happens." Hope this helped you.
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tomrrow im going to my boyfriends house...i go there all the time and my mom knows him and shes met his parents before...the thing is she trys to get WAY to involved...she wants me to bring cookies over there! she wants to "fix them up a plate of cookies and brownies" and me give them to his family...come on...THATS SO EMBARASSING! shes like oh but it would be so giving...i dont know how to tell her without fighting..hellpp
If he's your boyfriend, you should feel comfortable with it. It's almost Christmas, and it might be nice to do something? I'm not saying you HAVE to do the cookies and brownies, but maybe something? If you REALLY don't want to bring 'em over, then just tell your mom you don't really want to do it. Tell her the truth about how you feel. Hope I helped, good luck =)
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I really like this boy in my school. He likes me too..I know because he told me so. I wanna go out with him so bad but when my friend asked him for me, he said I don't know. He said he would do it himself, when he saw me or at a special time (like Christmas). Well, he's seen me since then and I have talked to him on the phone but he hasn't asked me yet. What should I do?
Thanks For The Help!
Justyne
He's probably just nervous! Talk to your friend and ask her to find out what's going on. It might be hard for him to ask you out. OR maybe..he's just waiting till Christmas! So it can be special! Just be patient and wait for him to do it when he feels comfortable (if he's going to ask you out). Hope everything works out for you :)
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okay so im a 16 year old girl who likes a 14 year old boy, I honestly dont care what people think about it, but thats not myproblem. my problem is, i like him a lot, and hes a really friendly guy and i met him not too long ago so yeah but i cant tell if theres anything there yet, like, im friends with his sister, and ill call for his sister to talk to her, and the guy i like will pick up and talk to me too...and i asked his sister if he always does that, as in pick up the phone and talk to her friends at the same time she is, and she said, hes NEVER done that before, so i thought that was really cool, and so yeah, i went to a party at his house yesterday a christmas party and everyyyyone was there, which was a lot of fun, so we were hanging out, and i told his sister that i was gonna put my jacket in her room, so i ran upstairs and 10 girls followed me, and it was really crowded up stairs like REALLY crowded, and then adults came up too so i was like stuck, and my someone opens the guy that i likes door, and he kinda looks out and sees me and then the door closed, you hear him run and open the door and he goes "JENN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" and i was like HEYYY! and then we chilled for the ENTIRE night, we were up in his room just laughing at everything possible he was shooting his air soft gun at kids that botherd him we were just being dumb lol, then we went up to his attic thing where he has this HUGE car racing thing set up and everyone was up there, and me and him were talking and he kept on looking at me, a lot, he was just looking at me and stuff, and yeah, so thats how it was the whole night, and then at the very end we were on his trampoline and i had to go so i jumped off cuz he was talking to everyone, and he goes "JENN!" and jumps off and hugs me and then he was like "ill probably see you in a year" and im like " DUDE...SLEEPOVER REMEMBER?!" and he was like OH YEAH! and so yeah, cuz were ALL having a sleep over like 30538304 of us together so itll be a lot of fun but what my question is, is do you think there is ANYTHING there?? because i mean i know you guys dont know him or me, but hes 14 and im 16. I really like him and all and hes just a REALLY nice guy, so i dontknow if hes just REALLY nice and always happy to see me and talk to me on the phone or if he has a lil sumthin for me....oh, and he broke up with his gf 2 weeks ago and he said that he found out that 20 girls like him at his school and i was like "well are you gonna ask one of em out" and he was like " I dont kno, theres this one that i might but i dont know what the concept of it is, like i dont get it* and im like * well...if you want her to be your GF then you ask her to be your gf...if you want her to just go out on a date with you, then you just go out on a date* and he was like * I dont know, they all want me to be their bf* and i was like * well do what you wanna do :) its up to you* and he was liek * yeahh* and so yeah, he still hasnt asked her out or anything so HELP ME PLEASEEE I dont know what i should do, i really like him
Wow-long question. It sounds like he really likes you, but I don't know him..he may just be very friendly. But he sounds like a great guy. You guys are like close friends (it seems) now. Talk to his sister and see what's up. If you trust her enough, maybe you could tell her that you like him. I mean, if you're going to go out with him, she's going to find out eventually! I'm sure he likes you..he's younger than you, and he's probably happy that you enjoy hanging with him. If you really feel comfortable with him, you could just tell him you like him. He may like you and it may work out! But just be careful that you don't ruin your friendship though! :)
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What the hell do i get my boyfriend for xmas? of course, he told me not to get him anything but i have to. im lost for ideas. hes 13..he likes pink floyd, jimi hendrix, and ppl. help me please
As KatsObsession (sp?) said, you could get him a band t-shirt of one of the bands he likes. You would probably find loads of band t-shirts at Hot Topic (great store). Also, if he doesn't have the CDs already, you could get him a CD of bands he likes. Just think..be creative. Good luck :P
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i am a 13 year old girl with a lot of friends. boys and girls. but mostly boys. im a girly girl though not a tomboy or anything. when i am with my guy friends i am totally normal and myself.the only problem is that whenever i am going out with a guy, i get nervous. i dont really act myself around him. do you know anything to help me over come this problem?
Just pretend that you're NOT going out with him. Pretend he's just one of your guy friends. That way you can just act around him like you act around all your friends. Don't be nervous! I understand what it's like..but if you be yourself, you'll have a much better time when your with him. Hope everything works for you :)
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ok well I'm going out with this guy.. we're both 13, and hes made-out a lot b4, and I haven't made-out yet, and I'm trying to avoid it.. i mean what if i mess up. plz helP!
Don't worry about it! Everone thinks they are going to mess up, but you'll probably do just fine! If you're not shy or anything, maybe you could talk your boyfriend about it? I don't know your boyfriend, so I don't know how he'll react, but you could try, I guess. Good luck :)
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ok well this guy has liked me for awhile and i have liked him.. well we've been really good friends but alright so today he asked me out again for like the 10th time but I've always said we were 2 good of friends.. but i said yeah this time as long as if we break up we'll still be friends ya kno?.. and then he was like rushing me cuz he had to go.. and i said yes..and all he said was ok cool thank you g2g bye and signed off.. and its just a little weird.. so im not sure what to think of it, and I am starting to have second thoughts now because it doesnt seem like he really likes me and that maybe he just asked me out again because i really like him. oh well idk.. please help!
Eh, I've been through that before. It was good that you mentioned you wanted to stay friends, but I'm not sure if you should have said "yes" right away, even if he WAS in a rush. I'm sure he likes you, if he's asked you out about ten times. He might just be a little excited you finally said yes. Talk to him, hang out with him, spend time with him, etc. Then you'll be able to decide whether you like him enough or not, and whether he likes you or not. If you don't like him, DON'T stay with him! Break up with him, and explain why you did. AND make sure you include that you still want to be friends! If you realize you DO like him, then great! Go along with your everyday life and when you guys decide to break up, then continue to be friends. You just need to go talk to him about everything. Good luck :)
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1) what is the difference between making out and kissing i thought that making out is just when you do it for a long time but im not sure
2) what does bi mean
Well kissing is like just when you touch lips for a moment. Making out is also known as french kissing, where you use your tongue. You also do it (usually) for a longer amount of time than just kissing. "Bi" is a shortened version of "bisexual". That means that a person is interested or likes both genders, male and female, no matter what gender you are.
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Every body at my school has a boyfriend ir girlfriend.. I act myself and every thing.. What I am getting to is What do Guys look for in a girl!! and plz nothing Gross
Not everybody has a boy/girlfriend. Even if they DO act themselves. I can't tell you exactly what guys look for in a girl, because I'm a girl. BUT they probably just want you to be yourself (as you said) so they can see and know who you really are. Just keep doing what you're doing and the right guy will come around when you least expect it ;)
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I broke up with my boyfriend Saturday. I thought I only liked him as a friend, but now that I am without him, I realise I really miss him and like him. I think since we barely hang out, I started liking him less. He cried when we broke up. I hope he doesn't hate me. I am going to talk to him tomorrow if I see him before he goes to practice. I want to go back out with him. I was PMSing, so I guess that screwed up with my emotions. What should I say to him to clear this all up and so we can get back together? I'm really bad at doing this, but I want this to work out. Help..can you give me an example on what to say?
Aww..Well you have to see if he still likes you first. Then you could just talk to him, and explain to him exactly what you said to me. I'm sure he'll understand. Don't leave ANYTHING out when you tell him, include everything. Good luck, hope everything works out =)
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