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Hey, Im 13, and my boyfriend and I have been going out for about a couple months. And he asked me if he could finger me. I want him to, but will it hurt? I hurd that it does, but im not really sure. And then he asked me later in the future (a month or so from now) if we could have sex. I want to but im scared it will hurt to much or i'll get pregnent. XoXO **AmberO**
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I'm just giving you my opinion, so you can either take it or leave it. If he fingers you than it might hurt, depending on how "loose" you are. I think you should NOT have sex. You're 13! And even if you weren't 13, you've still only been with your boyfriend for a few months! I'm 13 also and I think if I had sex at my age I would regret it for the rest of my life. You will probably regret it too. IF you do it, it will probably hurt since it will be your first time. There's a chance you could get pregnant, but if he wears a condom, there's a slim chance. The only way you could get pregnant when he wears a condom is if the condom breaks. And DONT tell him to wear 2+ condoms because then there is a higher chance of the condom breaking. PLUS: What happens if you get pregnant? Then what are you going to do? What if your boyfriend breaks up with you? Then you'll be a single thirteen or fourteen year old mother. You know what will happen to your reputation if people find out? What's going to happen with all your friends? You have <b>so</b> many questions to ask yourself about this. If I had a say in this, I would tell you it wouldn't be a good idea to do this. But I really don't have a say. It's all your decision. Sometimes decisions in life are going to be hard to make, but you're going to have to make them eventually. Make a good choice and don't get yourself hurt out in the real world ♥
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you really dont need to have sex with him. you need to save yourself for marriage. what if you get married and you cant give your husband all of you because youve already given a part of yourself away? youre only 13, you arent ready for sex. would you want to get pregnant or an STD? its putting yourself in danger. yure still a kid, stay that way. im realizing lately that i need to embrace being a kid while i still can. dont rush into adulthood because later youll wish you hadnt. fingering is pointless. it will just hurt you and give your boyfriend a reason to pressure you into sex. if he only wants to be with you if youll let him do things to you, you shouldnt be with him anyway. save yourself.
x3 KaTiE LyNn
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Nope, getting fingered won't hurt. It will hurt if he uses more than one finger and if you are tight "down there". DO NOT have sex with your boyfriend because you will regret and if you are asking this questions to us, it means that you are worried and you aren't ready. You have to be ready and inlove with your boyfriend to have sex (that's what I think). It will hurt but once your boyfriend fingers you, you'll be looser "down there". If you go on birth control, it will help not get you pregnant. Also, if he wears a condom, you won't get pregnant, unless it breaks. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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