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im so sick of not having a bf. im 13, 5'1" 128 lbs. blonde perfect teeth, no braces. anything a guy would want! the thing is i have NEVER had a bf. my frend has and she is really really unattractive. she has hideous crooked yellow teeth and puffy frizzy hair. i dont mean to be mean but i really hate the fact that an ugly grl has had 7 bfs and i had none. please please help!

Well, maybe it's time that you ask a guy you like out. That is what I would do. they might not like your personality though I don't know but that might be it. Some guys don't really care about your apperience they care about the person inside. Some don't like the outside like uglyness but the inside is what they fell in love with. Hope I helped I am always here if you need me. ~Chrissie

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13/female

my grandma wont let me have a boyfriend and all of these guys like me and i like one of them but i cant have a boyfriend but the thing is i have gone behind her back and dated like 3 guys (not at the same time) and she didnt find out so should i just go out with him or not and how would i convince her to say yes bc my mom did alot of bad things with guys when she was my age and my grandma thinks i will turn in to her but i wont so can you help i rate 5's

Talk to your grandma and explain why you want to go out with this guy. Say that it's just a date you won't do anything and keep your word and also say you aren't your mom. Beg her to listen and even if she still says no. I would go out with him but keep it as a sercret relationship until she does say you can have one and then you come home the next day and tell her you just got with the guy you were with but pretend like you just go the boyfriend today. That might have been a little confusing but I hope I helped and I am always here and I can explain it to you more if you like just leave me a message in my inbox. Hope I was a help!
>3~Chrissie

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Ok, where to start? I'm a freshman in high-school, and I totally hate high-school. I mean, its not THAT bad, but I'd prefer middle school, anyday. Last year, (in 8th grade) I had it all. Great friends, boyfriends, pretty decent grades, and everybody liked me pretty much. I was Ms. Perfect, and I was supposedly SUPER-HOT, or so everybody said. Now, I feel like crap. I'm always trying to be someone I'm not. My best friend moved away, far and we barely ever keep it contact. My other best friend, well we don't even ever hang out because I ditched her for my current best friend, and so now she had better friends, and I'm just a nobody. And my new best friend, well we've only been friends for about a year, not entirely, but the fights we get into, its unbelievable. I haven't fought like I gought with her, with my other friends for two years. I mean, she's a good friend, but gets pissed easily, I mean we're two different people, I've talked to her about it before, but ehh. I don't know what to do. Now, guys. Yeah, people still like me, but not as much. There's lots more prettier girls! And life, my social life is horrible, my parents don't let me do shit. Guys, I've had two big crushes that both liked me but things got screwed up because I was too shy. I know how people say, that if you're popular and stuff in middle school, in high school you won't be, and vice-versa. I don't know what to do about ALL of this. Please help with everyhting, get my life back o track anfd better., Thanks os much!

Okay well, in middle school you were a big fish in a small pond and now in high school you are a small fish in a big pond. What that means is that yeah we were popular and everything in middle school but you were with less people and now you are with more people so that there is more people look at and so you are the smaller one. [hope that helped a little.] But also what I am saying people still like you but they like others to they still think you are pretty because you can't really change that they just like more people. It happens all the time just you have to go with the flow, but really try not to be someone you aren't because last year you were your self right??, yeah and that is what they liked so just be yourself and maybe something might workout and things won't be the same as they used to be but you can come close to it if you do what I said. Hope I helped>3~Chrissie I'm always here if you need me!

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Please read! This is the most confusing and hurtful thing that happened to me!

I have a boyfriend and I really love him. Even though I still am going out with him I've liked this guy soooo much this whole year! This guy knew that I liked him and he liked me to. Like 2 weeks ago him and his girlfriend broke up. While they were going out he was telling me that he really does like me and that he wants to go out with me. Well, he asked me out but I was still going out with my boyfriend. This weekend we didnt talk much. When I did he told me he wasnt over his ex girlfriend! I dont know what to do! Im heart broken! He told me he liked me and now I`m not in the picture anymore. He forgot about me and moved on! Please help! What did I do to change his mind that quick. I cant talk to him about this and I wont so please dont tell me to! Help! Im so confused and hurt.

OKay, well he was probaly embarrssed when he broke up with his girl friend for you and then you didn't brake up with yours for him and then you couldn't go with him because you did have a boyfriend already. He is trying to get you jealous so you will brake up with your b/f to go with him and that is what he is shooting for. It happens all the time. Hope I helped >3~Chrissie

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My boyfriend says that I ignore him! And I don't think I am! I talk to him whenever I see him and between almost every class and everything! I dunno if because usually my friends are around he doesn't want to talk or what. I've tried talking to him more and talking to him when no one else is around. Is he just like really shy or what? Cause it's like really annoying when he says that I don't talk to him or else I ignore him! Help!

Well, you have to ask yourself... Does he talk to you or are you always talking to him. That answer is probaly you are always being the one to come out and talk to him. SoooOOo tell him that. Also tell him that you do not understand when you are ignoring him and tell him everything you told me about you always talk to him and stuff. Be honest and maybe if he doesn't understand your point of view who knows you guys were maybe never meant to be.....hope I helped but I hope that you guys will work this out and you'll compromise...>3~Chrissie

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Recently, I broke up with my boyfriend (I ama female, if you were wondering). I'm 16 and he is 15. Although, it was a teenage relationship, we did love each other. It might not have been that deep and meaningful kind where people get married, but it was love nonetheless. Whenever we hung out, I'd get butterflies and I would be happy, something I haven't felt in a while. Towards the last few days before I broke up with him, he wasn't really there. I felt like he was avoiding me, he wouldn't tell me anything when I did ask him, and we barely talked. Then the day before I did end it, he told me he wasn't sure if he wanted to be with me or not, which made me decide to end it. On the day we broke up, I cried...a lot. Then, that was it. Every now and then I'll think about him and get a bit sad, but otherwise I am very happy. Being as he was my first love, I relaized there will be others and that I should move on, and I am trying to be positive.I can't help but feel guilty that I am not that sad over our breakup. Any advice?

Good for you for braking up and thinking of positive. I know braking up with our first love is hard but you have to and sure you'll be sadder then you have ever been but you did good thinking of positive and more. And it was a good thing you did brake up you both didn't seem to pleased with each other.>3 Chrissie

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I'm sixteen years old, and I'm in a long distance relationship. (I'm a girl.) I mean long distance. I used to live in Mississippi, but my parents moved to California about a year ago. I met this guy through my sister, they were really good friends when we lived there, and we completely hit it off. We've been together for a year now, and I fly out there every chance I get. I mean things were serious, he has bought me a ring and everything, and we always talked about how we were gonna get married, how many children we'd have, etc. Lately, things have been kind of rough. He gets so angry with me about everything I say, and it gets scary. I admit, sometimes I do bring it on myself, but he always gets entirely too pissed. Tonight, I was talking to him about my friend, and he kept talking about how ugly and disgusting she is, and I asked him if when we broke up, he said that same stuff about me. He got completely pissed off, said I was fucking someone out here, and that I was a liar, and all I ever do is start shit with him. Well, we broke up. I'm feeling really fucking alone and empty right now. I just need to know how to feel better.. I can't stop thinking about it and I'm going insane. I want him back so fucking badly, he's my best fucking friend in the whole world and I really, really, REALLY am hurting. I thought we would make up, so I didn't take it seriously, and then his mom made him get off the phone, and I just knew it was over. I was crying really badly, and I told him and I hated him and I wished that he was dead. I regret it so fucking much, but he's not gonna care. Please, just give me some advice on how to get over him, or get him back and stop pissing him off, or something.

Well, I think your relationship is kinda over. But you could try to get it back and tell him that you didn't mean anything and you were just asking him a question didn't mean I wanted to brake up. Tell him the truth and be honest with him. Tell him you love him dearly and you really don't want to lose him. But maybe losing him might be for the best you know? Sometimes friends and bf and gf get to close like in relationship wise and then they start fighting and stuff and braking the relationship is sometimes for the best. I hope I helped And tell me how it goes.>3 ~Chrissie

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okay, im 14/f and i havent had a boyfriend yet all my friends have at least been asked out and many have had boyfriends..no one has asked me yet and im old fashioned i wont ask a guy out i really want a boyfriend and all my friends have one i think im ugly and thats why no one asked me out please help me--desperate

Well, they are up and downs about boyfriends. Sometimes they are a good thing and sometimes they brake your heart and you are really sad. Don't rush into these type of things and don't be a follower. Have a boyfriend because you love him and that he means alot to you. I hope I helped! Oh and no one is ugly there is someone in the world for everyone~!~Chrissie

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im gonna restate this

my best friend broke up with her boyfriend last year in like march. during the summeri started to like him and she didnt seem to have a problem and i was always waiting there with me until he came online. then he asked me if i liked him and i was being stupid and said no. so then my friend asked him if he liked me and he said not anymore cuz she doesnt like me.. so she told me and i felt pretty stupid but got over it. a couple days ago i was talking to him online and flirting with him and i started to really like him again. so on friday i was online with him and i told him i was sorta dissapointed because no one was coming to watch me play basketball the night cuz they all had something to do. i didnt tell him what time it was or anything, i just told him what my teams record was and the name. i think he went online to the website and looked up the schedule. so anyway when i got there i didnt even notice he was there. right before the first half was over i was walking outside with my friend to get a drink and he said hi, but i didnt know it was him. after i came back in he said my name so i looked and i got all nervous, but i said hi back. after the game i was walking out but my dad was pushing me out of the gym so i noticed that he got off the bench as soon as i came in from the court but i never got to talk to him. i dunno if he likes me or not.

I think he does. But does he know for sure that you like him? so you have to tell him. And any guy that would like someone would care to come to a game if they didn't care then they wouldn't come to support you you know? ~Chrissie

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okay so was goin out wit this really cool guy and i loved to b with him we always had fun. well i just found out that he broke up with me a few days ago because he liked another gurl and he was waiting for her to like him back! and now i feel really used! and i was soo mad! i really wanna talk to him and tell him how i feel. and i wanna get over him soo bad! and i thought that i did! but then i looked in his profile and all and its all about this other gurl and how hes crazy about her! how can i get over this guy? and how can i talk to him about it w/o lookin desperate.. or looking like i want him back? (cuz i dont)

Well, just right out tell him how you feel. And maybe tell his girlfriend what he did to you and tell her you can have him I am just warning you, and good luck. Just something nice, simple, and explaining your point. Tell him right to his face and tell him that is really wrong and you broke my heart and you are soo mean. And if he doesn't seem to care say I hope you won't do it again and bye and walk away. That will hopefully help you on getting over him. And if it doesn't just try and looking at some other guys that you know won't be like the other one. Hope I helped and I am always here!~Chrissie

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ok i like this guy and i have liked him for about 7 months. we went out twice. the first time only for a day then the sencond time for a week. the only reason he broke up with me he said was cuz he cheated on me but i didnt care but he didnt believe me. now we are good friends. but i want to be more than friends i want to go out with him.but he has a gf but she is realli ugly and im prettier than her her. and i look batter(body wise) im not making fun of her but i want him. wut should i do
kaitlin /14/ florida

You, should tell him that you really like him more then friends and hope that we can become that. Also explain to him that you really didn't care that he cheated on you, but you were glad he was so honest that told you. Tell him that you really want to be with him now and if there was any possible way that could happen?. Hope I helped!~Chrissie

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ok well there's this guy and he likes me and 3 of my other friends and he's obsessed w/ me and i don't mean to sound conceited but its so annoying and all he talks to me about is how hot i am and one of his favorite lines to say online is "you love me wut?" and he always does this and he's always like "i want you hardcore on the bathroom in the shower" and stuff like that and its really sickening and i want him to stop..but i mean he's one of my friends..and i hate when he does that..and he's just the most annoying person ever..and i'm sick of him saying that stuff..but i don't know how to say it..how should i tell him that he's so annoying and i want him to stop saying that kind of stuff to me..?

Well, what you have to do is say to him, "I really don't like you more then friends and I hope we can still be friends but nothing more. I am sorry but I really don't like you and I hope you can understand that, so please stop obsessing with me." That will work and if it doesn't tell me and we'll work something out that'll I'll help. I know it may sound mean and that you'll feel bad but you have to and it'll be for the best! Hope I helped!~Chrissie

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i love this kid pat that is 2 years older then me.over the summer he stole my bike thats how i fell in love with him. nd he was my first kiss!! like real kiss. any way we made out 5 6 times in the past. were in a fight right now. i still like him though.opps i mean love. any way he likes this girl liz. but he always make me laugh like last nite.. he was flirting w/ me be4 we got into a fight.. idk should i tell him i love him to death and i would do any thing for him? or noo? please help
i rate high

Well, did your fight mean you broke up?? If so then you should tell him that you want to be together again and that really like him. And if he does get into the relationship again then tell him you really love him to death. But if he says no I don't want to be together with you, then you come in and say but I really Really love you and I would do anything for you. If your fight means you are still together but taking some time off, say I really love you and I don't want to fight with you I just want us to be a happy couple and love each other to death. But don't come right off before you have even talked and go I love you to death he might think you are obsessed and might not want you back. Hope I helped!!I am always here!

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Female 13 single
I think i like 3 guys. one is madly in love with me. one doesn't even know i exist (the on i like the most) and one who flirts w/ me ALL the time and my friend thinks that he wants me to know that he likes me. i dont know what to do and i'm so confused!! can someone at least give me a lil bit of advice? not that "follow your heart" crap real. life. advice

-seriously confused

okay well, you should go with the number 3 one with the one that always flirts with u. and if that doesn't work try number 1. Hope I helpedalways here if ya need me!

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I know this is weird...But whats a descrete way of giving the guy you like a hug? :P Besides just walking up and hugging him. Sorry this is weird...But I rate high :)

Hugging is a way to show someone you really like them and hugging is AWESOME~! Walking up to someone and hugging them isn't really anything bad right!>3 Chrissie

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I like this guy i work with so much it hurts. He tells me all his personal stuff about his family and and his ex giirl fiend.We have a lot in common. He even gave me a mix CD. I give him free potato chips from the store that i work in. He always seems happy to see me. When he walks in he has a great big cool aid smile on his face. But there is a problem he never asked for my phone #. What's with that. I am way to shy to ask him for his. My question is does this guy like me? Or does he see me as just as a friend what am i doing wrong? how do i get him to take me seriously?

Well, I don't think he really likes you soo you have to just be friends and deal with that. Maybe you'll find someone better then him Hope i helped! ~Chrissie

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im so ttoaly lost i really need help. Nothin feels right between me and my boyfriend. we have been going out for a while and well everything was great and now nothing feels right... i mean he is doing things he knows will piss me off and hes not really telling me anyhinghting anymore... i dont know what to do and i really need help and some one jsut to tlak to...... PLEASE HELP ME !!!!!

Well, maybe he doesn't like you anymore and you don't like him so much. I Think you might be tired of each other. I would brake up with him because he does stuff he knows makes you mad. He isn't being such a great boyfriend right. Well, before you brake up with him, talk to him and find out why he being like that. Find out if he will agree to solve the problem and find a solution if he doesn't want to take charges and hint hint that is braking up with him I know you may not want to and you will really feel that is the wrong choice but it's for the best. Hope I helped!! I am always here if you need me!~Chrissie

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i have a boyfriend, and we were having some problems over the past week! Then over the weekend my friend(lets name her A.) came up to me and said that my boyfriend was going to break up with me, and i was all upset!! Then on monday at school, someone told me that my boyfriend went to the movies with some people and was planning on meeting a girl there...(i found out later that it was the girl named A., the girl that told me that he was going to break up with me) luckly she didnt show!! Then i heard from someone else that my boyfirend was planning on making-out with her.... and so then i talked to my boyfriend on the phone that night and was like what is going on, and he told me his story and that the making-out thing wasnt true but meeting a girl there was true( he said that they were just going as friends)!!! Then i was like then why didnt you tell me you wanted to meet her,(they have never met before, they just know each other through me)and he just said that she invited me to see a movie and he said yes....and he went and everything but the girl said she couldnt go like 5 minutes before...i just dotn know what to do,should i give him another chance or dump him????

please help me!!!!

(in the past he cheated on one of his past girl-friends)

Well, I don't think he is all that good of a boyfriend. He maybe just needs sometime to his self to think of what he wants and who he is. Rumors really hurt people like you have found that they have hurt you. If let's say the you thought and heard the rumor was real and not made up. You have no proof unless someone gives you proof then it was made up to get someone mad at someone. Find out for sure if it is real or not if it is real and you are sure then you should brake up with him. U obsivouly don't trust him for many ways. Hope I helped !!I am always here!Chrissie

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my friend has this guy that she has been on and off with for what seems like forever. They both still like eachother and yesterday she wore his clothes and boxers (yeah...) to school. Should she ask him out?

YEah I think so that would be a good idea. It sounds as though that they are kinda already together but not together u know. Like in a special relationsip. >3Chrissie

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I just started at this new school, although i;ve been there about 2 yrs ago. I met up with an old friend and we feelin eachother. But me..i aint the type of girl who haves boyfriends in school cuz they be acting immature. He's a year older then me....But im trying to see if i should give this a chance. holla back

yeah give him a shot !!! but i don't know if u should ask the guy out olny in u really really really like him wait for him to ask u

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