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should i dump him or should i give him another chance???


Question Posted Wednesday February 23 2005, 10:00 pm

i have a boyfriend, and we were having some problems over the past week! Then over the weekend my friend(lets name her A.) came up to me and said that my boyfriend was going to break up with me, and i was all upset!! Then on monday at school, someone told me that my boyfriend went to the movies with some people and was planning on meeting a girl there...(i found out later that it was the girl named A., the girl that told me that he was going to break up with me) luckly she didnt show!! Then i heard from someone else that my boyfirend was planning on making-out with her.... and so then i talked to my boyfriend on the phone that night and was like what is going on, and he told me his story and that the making-out thing wasnt true but meeting a girl there was true( he said that they were just going as friends)!!! Then i was like then why didnt you tell me you wanted to meet her,(they have never met before, they just know each other through me)and he just said that she invited me to see a movie and he said yes....and he went and everything but the girl said she couldnt go like 5 minutes before...i just dotn know what to do,should i give him another chance or dump him????

please help me!!!!

(in the past he cheated on one of his past girl-friends)


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gcfreakadoodle answered Friday February 25 2005, 5:18 pm:
DUmp him you should have already if he cheated on you no man is worth the aggervation

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mylinhthan answered Thursday February 24 2005, 6:39 pm:
anonymous -

I wouldn't put all the blame on your boyfriend, it seems like your friend A is the culprit. I mean, she knows you and him were dating, yet she invited him to a movie without telling you. Seems a bit suspicious if you ask me.

With your boyfriend, I agree that it's wrong of him not to tell you about the incident. I don't know how long you've been dating him, but if it's been awhile and he's been loyal the entire time, I'd give him another chance. Just because he cheated on one of his past girlfriends, doesn't mean he'll cheat on you. Maybe his ex was just a biatch lol.

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Sherry answered Thursday February 24 2005, 6:39 pm:
Okay, dont dump him. He didnt do anything wrong, yes he should have told you he was meeting her but he didnt. And in the end, they didnt even meet. He hasint done anything so yeah. Just let it go..

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XXcrazy4evaXX answered Thursday February 24 2005, 11:17 am:
Well, I don't think he is all that good of a boyfriend. He maybe just needs sometime to his self to think of what he wants and who he is. Rumors really hurt people like you have found that they have hurt you. If let's say the you thought and heard the rumor was real and not made up. You have no proof unless someone gives you proof then it was made up to get someone mad at someone. Find out for sure if it is real or not if it is real and you are sure then you should brake up with him. U obsivouly don't trust him for many ways. Hope I helped !!I am always here!Chrissie

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your_hot answered Thursday February 24 2005, 7:57 am:
i think you should dump him . as horrible as that sounds hes scum . and not good for youu . nobody likes cheaterrrs!!

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Get-RealGirl answered Thursday February 24 2005, 1:59 am:
i think you should wait a while. if hes acting suspicious snope around if you dont want him anymore dump him now if you do wait a while and see.

p.s think before you act you might look like a total loser.

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TheTeenGirl answered Thursday February 24 2005, 12:35 am:
Well, let me tell you, theres really no answer for this one, the thing is, your guy probably, or could have most likely been lying to you, I am thinking this because he didn't tell you. And it sounds like he felt the need to hide from you, and you will probably end up splitting up because of his cheating problem. I knpw hearing this sucks, but unless you think you could talk to him, then I am thinking dumping him is the way to go.

-TheTeenGirl

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pinkpanther01 answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 10:39 pm:
well i think "A" is a witch lol and that you should wait a while and see what happens and you better because im your best friend lol! you no i am hahaha
love your kelsey welsey lol muah xoxox

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