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i really like this guy and sent him a valintines, we stared texting each other then all of a sudden he stopped. now he wont text bak! i really miss him but dont want him to think that im dessperate! so how can i get him to start texting me again without sounding dessperate?
ps im 16/f (link)
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hey~ he might have just stopped texting because something happened that he really needs to take care of. Just keep trying to text him, and if you know his phone number, just try to call him once. I'm sure he won't think you're desperate.Hey, if you guys starting texting each other after you sent him valentine stuff, then I'm sure that that must mean that he some what likes you.Right? Just keep texting him by just greeting him, saying "what's up". Tell him the stuff that you really want to tell him. but take it slow. Sorry if I'm of no help what so ever...good luck and hope i helped
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okay theres this boy..his names jake and me and him arent together but he likes me and i relaly like him and im in texsa on vacation and he was like i miss you so much..and theni went out for the day wt myparents and i came back and hes acting differnt..like he doesnt care about me anymore :-/ and i seriously will go crazy if what we have is fadding away cause REALLY care about him..what should i say too im to see if we are both still on the same page? (link)
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Talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. If you really like him, you won't let him go.Good luck, 'n hope I helped.
-tori
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My best friend and I were both dumped by this one guy, and we both still like him. Just about everyone says that he still likes me, but I don't want to hurt her feelings and I also don't want to take a risk and ask him out again, because he's the kind of nice guy that will say "yes" just to advoid hurting your feelings. That and he seems to be just cycling through girls right now, one of my other friends says that it's just his hormones kicking in, but I just can't believe that even though it's possible. However both his best friend and his little brother say that he really likes me, so what if he asks me out? I *really* like him, but again I don't want to lose a friend over it, but because he and I are pretty close friends, it seems that that's gonna happen, no matter what. What should I do? Is there a way to adviod losing a friend?
(If it helps any, all 3 of us are 14) (link)
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Hey, well, I'm gonna say this. Friends last forever, guys don't. You're 14, you still have time to find the right guy. You don't wanna lose your friend over this guy, so talk to her about it, if she gets mad over it just right when you bring it up, then she's not a friend worth keeping.However, if she tries to understand and listen, then take it from there. You guys will settle it all if she listens.And I can't really answer you're question is there's a way to avoid losing a friend, 'cause to me, that's not predictable.Good luck,'n Hope I helped.
-tori
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My Boyfriend and me just had a little fight , well the head cheerleader heard about it and now she's al over my boyfriend and were not even broken up , well we made up and she still wants him , she like bends down in front of him with her cheerleader clothes on or she trys to sit with us and well she drives me crazy , but the thing is my boyfriend dosnt like her and he's the star Quarterback on the football team, and he tells her to back off , is he the good kind of boyfriend every gurl wants? plz help (link)
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He seems like a good boyfriend because he tells her to back off, and he stays to who he really likes, which is you. I don't know about him being the kind of boyfriend that every girl wants though.Hope I helped.
-tori
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Should i ask out a girl everyone hates in school? (link)
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Yeah~ ask her out! Just because people hate her, doesn't mean you can't ask her out or like her. Good luck, 'n hope I helped.
-tori
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well..i really like this kid..and he asked me out one time and i said no because i didn't really know him and everything. but now i know him and i REALLY like him. he knows i like him and he tells me he still likes me..but he hasn't asked me out again and he flirts with EVERYONE..and he know it makes me upset but he still does it. what should i do? (link)
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I think he's not asking you out because he might be scared to get rejected again.And if you two like each other, ask him out! There's absolutely NO rule that says "Guys have to ask the girls out only." Well, I used to like this guy, and he liked me, and he asked me out and I said no also. So he went around flirting with all these other girls, and it made me mad. When we finally went out, I asked him, and he said he wanted to see how I would react. That could be his reason. Good luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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hey well....my ex boyfriend and me were best friends b4 we went out...(the entire reason i didnt wanna date him) but now that we broke up after almost a year of dating every time i read something about relationships being torn apart i break down and cry...but now that he broke up with me ive started to cut myself and go into deep depressions...i want him bak bc when i was with him...there was never a time when i wasnt happy...he could make me smile no matter how sad i was...he might have made a few mistakes but so have i...i juss want him to b happy but i also juss want him to say that in order for him to b happy he needs to b with me...i also started smokking when he broke up with me...idk what to do...my life is going to hell since he broke up with me...idk waht to do...i want him bak but i want him to b happy...
signed ~*lost...
P.S.- y cant i b happy??? (link)
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...I can relate.After my ex-boyfriend dumped me, I cut myself,stopped eating, and ended up in the hospital 'cause of that.I wanted the same things you do. I wanted him back,wanted to be happy, and I wanted him to be happy. I told him that, and he said he couldn't be happy if all I did was hurt myself. We're just really good friends now. So, do you really think he'll be happy if you cut yourself and continue smoking? I don't think so. Just because a relationship is broken up, doesn't mean that they don't care about you anymore. And I can understand how hard it is to let someone you really love go. That's one of the hardest things in life. Tell him how you feel, and if he just doesn't feel the same way about you, then just let it go.It'll be hard, but you have to. And you can't be happy because you're not letting yourself be happy. You're cutting yourself, crying over him, and smoking. Doing those things, will NOT make you happy. You'll get over it eventually, just hang out with your friends a lot more, and have fun. Hope I helped!
-tori
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i like this girl. but she has a bf. i think she likes me. but im not sure., she told me im hot. i think she was kiding. so what sould i do.
thanks.... p.s. peace (link)
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You said a key word there. You THINK she was kidding. Ya never know, she might really like you. But honestly..you should lay off for a while until her relationship with this other guy is over.However, that doesn't mean you can't talk to her and hang out with her.Good luck, 'n Hope I helped.
-tori
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Situation: Ex boyfriend moved to another state.. i mean.. i love him soo much! i havent see him since he left... 2 months ago.. And I talked to him recently.. he says hes moving back here.. Hes the guy I lost my virginity to...
Situation: I'm engaged right now.. but I think if my Ex came back... i would do something I will regret..
I know I love both guys..and both guys love me.. so how do I choose? (link)
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Yeah, you're right, you will regret it if your ex came back and you get married to the other dude. Take it slow with the other guy. This is kinda stuipd,but this is how I helped my friend decide: we got marbles and a weigher, and everything she liked about one guy, got a marble on one side of the weigher, and so on and so on. It helped her a lot. And just follow your heart. It never lies. Good luck, 'n Hope I helped.
-tori
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Well.....me and my friend like the same guy.I'v like him since i was little and he likes me to.But then there my friend she likes him.And I dont know what to do cause me and this boy want to go out but then there my friend.What should i do about this cause i dont want to lose a friend but i want to go out wit this boy.What should i do?
-Amanda Marie (link)
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You should talk to your friend about this first. Don't go behind her back. And "friends last forever". Who's more important? your friend, or this guy?Think about it. If she says it's okay with her, then go out with him. Good luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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14/f/9th grade
Ok my ex is stopping me from having a bf...
His friends like me and they wanna go out w/me, but they couldn't do that 2 him. This makes no sense b-c his friends say that he doesn't like me anymore, and we went out in 7th grade so I don't hink he likes me anymore! What should I do b-c I really want a bf right now, but HE kind of is stopping that...my life sux..HELP ME PLEASE! I will rate ya 5...seriously!
-cOnFuSeD-
P.S. I was in love w/this boy, and now I am like so over him, so what does this mean? (link)
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It doesn't really matter what your ex says unless you two are really good friends now. And plus, ya'll aren't going out anymore, it's not his decision. So you go out with whoever you want. But here's the thing, do you really like one of his friends? Because what you said was you just really want a boyfriend right now. If you do like one of them, tell your ex-boyfriend that he's not your boyfriend anymore so he needs to mind his own buisness.Maybe you just thought it was love, it might have been just a huge crush, and you really really really liked him. Well, Hope I helped.
-tori
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Ok I am a 13 year old girl and I like this boy at school, and he likes me to but only as a friend. He thinks he's to young to be my boyfriend but I realy realy like him and I want him to be my boyfriend, what should I do?? (link)
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Well, if he says he's not ready to have a girlfriend(even if he's older than you), then you really can't do anything about it. But when he is ready to have a girlfriend, then go for it.Good luck, 'n Hope I helped.
-tori
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Ok. So im 13-m and i guess im pretty good lookin..all the girls say im hott. But the other night i asked out this one girl that i co-starred with in my play. she said "no". I really like her! I could get alot of girls but the one that i actually like..doesnt like me! She told my friend that she felt bad..but i dont think she did. Why did she turn me down and should i like another girl?! (link)
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That's something I really can't answer. But I'll tell you this. If you really like her, don't just give up.You never know, she might end up liking you too. You just have to give it some time. She could of turned you down because she might like another guy, she doesn't know you enough, or she's just not ready for a relationship. However, I dont necessarly think you have to like another girl. So Don't Give Up!Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped.
-tori
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K well anyways I have had this b/f for 2 months and Its internet, thoug I've knew him almost a year... anyways My Friend, her b/f and myself are planning to drive down to where he lives, which is about 30 minutes to an hour away from me... but I know my rents would not go for it if they knew I was going to meet him... so Should I go on and go and just tell them Im going shopping with my best friend for a party or something or tell them the truth and try and convince them o let me go? If I should tell them Im going shopping with My buddy... I need a good excuse to go out of town...
Thankz
l8rZ (link)
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You have to keep in mind that if you do decide to meet him...you're taking a big risk. 1.)It's dangerous and you could get hurt. 2.)You can end up getting caught.3)If you end up getting caught, then your parents won't have much trust in you.(and it's pretty hard to gain parents trust back)But...if you really trust this guy..then you can go meet him. Tell your parents that you're going shopping with your friends, and then sleeping over. But make that lie partially true. Go shopping a little, and sleep over. Good luck, 'n hope I helped!
-tori
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okay so i was going out with this guy and he was a year older then me and we live in the same neighborhood but go to diff schools and we were sooo perfect for each other...but then he cheated on me soo i broke up with him even tho i liked himmm sooooo much and he still liked me a lot to ..((he didnt wanna break up i did ))soo then after we broke up he tryed to ask me out again but i said no cause it would be way to weird so we stoped talking and now about 2 months later he likes me again and today he said he wnats to tlak to me about sumthing and i havent talked to him in like 1 or 2 months soo im guessing he likes me again soo what should i do bacuse i still really like him but all my friends will get mad at me that i took him back i dont know what to do ..help ..thanks6 (link)
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You know, first of all, the majority is that most people say, " Once a cheater always a cheater" or something like that. Something about "guys will never change" and all that crap.Well, I don't think that's true. People DO change.(including guys who cheat) And does it really matter what your friends say if you end up going back out with him? It really matters if you like him. It's not up to your friends to decide who you should like or dislike, or go out with or not. I say..give him another chance if you still really like him. Good luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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I saw this guy that I dated 4 years ago when I was in 8th grade, now I'm a senior in highschol.....we've been talking since and after all that time we saw each other again the other day, he didn't want 2 start the relationship again because of the distance between us....when I saw him yesterday we hung out than kissed but he pulled back and said it would be 2hard 2 handle a long distance relationship....well about 15 min before I went upstairs 2 my apartment he grabbed me and we kissed on and off a lot....and he said he'd promise 2 see me again very soon....I'm so confused and I just wish I knew what he wanted......What do I do?? (link)
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Well, you two seem to still have feelings for each other from what I read. I think he wants to start a relationship again. Long distance relationships are hard, very hard, but if you two really like each other..ya'll can make it work out.Anything's possible if you try to make it possible.lol, I don't know if that made any sense, but think about it.Good luck, and hope I helped!
-tori
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Hey...I'm not sure how to say this but I will anyway...I want to start dating but I don't know If I can build up enough courage to ask my parents if I can have a boyfrined. They are the most protective people in the world sometimes the don't even let me go anywhere with my frineds. I do have a guy and we're frineds but they get suspicious of him...I do like him but they don't know that
Do you have any tips for me to ask them if I can ask him out?
It aould be appreciated
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I had this same exact problem. I couldn't go anywhere with my friends either. All my friends would go to sleepovers except for me, and when the next day came, they would all talk about how fun it was and they would be like " oh remember when she did this" and " Oh my gosh, that was so funny!" I hated my parents for never letting me go anywhere. Whenever I had guy friends, my parents would always be like " So do you like him?!?" I came to the point where I wanted to start dating. I knew that if I told my parents..they'd go crazy. But I ended up asking them if I could have a boyfriend. I was 13 when I asked them. 'N to my surprise..they said "yes"..but...it wasn't just a "yes" to everything. They said, " You can have a boyfriend, but you can't go out with him" I figured out they meant that I couldn't go anywhere with him, and that all I could do was talk to him on the phone and hang out with him at school. I didn't like that..but hey, trust builds up that way! So, just say, " Mom, Dad, when can I start dating and have a boyfriend?" Let them know that you're mature enough to handle things your way. Good Luck, 'n HOpe I helped! *Sorry it's so long*
-tori
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well..i just went to the movies with alot of people last night (friday) and i was there with the person i like..and we were holding hands and stuff.. then right befor the movie ended..he made out with me..i didnt know what to do..is it true that it comes naturally to you? cause it didnt to me..i know i did terrible..and he is much more advanced than me..this was my first kiss..it was so embarrising cause i know i did a very bad job.. will i ever learn? and why didnt i know what to do right away like everyone told me i would? please help me.. (link)
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Hey, don't worry, you probably did fine! You probably kept panicing on what to do that all you could think of was "Omg, I suck at kissing!" And it was your fist kiss! I don't think anything comes perfect the first time. 'N hey~ for all you know, what if he thought you were a great kisser?! lol You'll get better at it, so don't worry! Wish ya'll good luck! Hope I helped!
-tori
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alright well i dont wanna be like another girl saying oh my relationships arent workign out its only been a month blah blah .. yeah thats not a real relationship .. see for about 3 years now on and off i've been with my boyfriend .. this is the third time we've been together adn its been about 2 months but for some reason it just hasnt seem the same at all .. and he is completely obsessed and always says to me how im like his life and idk what to do because i know how badly i'd hurt him .. and im scared because what if me and him really do have a future with eachother but just not right now and if i ruin it with him now he might not want me later in life .. please i could use any advice (link)
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Well, if you don't break up with him now because you're afraid you're gonna hurt him, think about when you think you need to break up with him later. You're gonna end up hurting him even more because he'll care for you more.'N also, you said "what if me and him really do have a future with each other but just not right now" and you also said "he might not want me later in life" Well, if you say you might have a future with him, then it will happen in the future, but just not now. Don't worry about "later in life" because if anything's supposed to happen "later in life" it will. My advice, think about it, but I say, break up, and my reason is the very first two sentences.Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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This might be a stupid question, but how do you know when you're in love with someone? How does it feel? (link)
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First of all,your question isn't stupid.My teacher always tells me,"There is no such thing as a stupid question, it's only stupid when you don't ask it." You'll know what love feels like when it happens to you. It's a very special feeling you get perhaps the greatest feeling ever. It seems like you'd die for that person and just think of him/her 24/7. lol, it's hard to tell because most kids think they're in love when it's really just a crush.But yeah~ when you love someone, I think it feels like nothing else in the world matters anymore, just you 'n that person only. Hope I helped!
-tori
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