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so there is this kid... lets call him bob... and ive been hanging out with my friend lately. we will call her jane. now jane and bob went out for like 8 months. and then they broke up but they still act like they are going out. so i have been hanging out with bob and jane a lot and im starting to really like bob. but i think jane would get mad at me if i told her even though she is REALLY into this other kid. i think she is just using bob. do you think i should tell jane that i like bob or no? (link)
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yes. you should tell jane and bob that you like bob. if jane is really into someone else she wont care. and hey you never know if bob likes you back! haha.
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Me and my boifriend(josh) have been dateing for about 2 months now but we have knowen eachother for about 5 or 6 years.. but any ways his bestfriend(nate) always talks to me about getting with him. he know's that im with josh he tells me that he dont care. But i have always had a crush and i always really liked him. so i dont know what to do, cause im with nate alot alone and i dont want something to happen. not saying i would let it happen but anything can happen and on top of it i like him. But here is the twist my bestfriend is dateing nate. so i dont know what to do. i rate high (link)
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i think you should let josh know about nate. and let your friend know about nate. and you and nate should get together. if you like him and he always talks about you getting with him...then go for it girl!
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I just got my first kiss. It was sort of a game, if the guy made a shot in basketball he got to kiss me and my friend, and he made it. I kind of like him, and I want to hook up with him, maybe even go out with him. The problem is, my friend wanted to hook up with him and she was all over him. Shes kind of a hoe, and if we ever meet new guys, she tries hooking up with all of them. I dont think she hooked up with him yet, but I think he might be liking her more than me. I dont want to attack him, so what are some moves I can make to get his attention more? How do I get to him before my friend does? Should I just straight out start making out with him? (link)
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Some guys like hoes. This guy seems like he does (if he likes your friend) so you MIGHT want to just straight out start making out with him if you think he would like that.
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Hey you guys,
My boyfriend, Jesse, is in California to see his sister. He's supposed to be gone for (9) days, and so far there is (6) more days til he gets back. I wanna do something special for him when he comes back. But what? If you have any ideas, do share! Thx!
*Much love, Stay true*
~*~Missc~*~ (link)
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my boyfriend just got back from the bahamas (he was gone for 8 days) and when a guy loves you...they don't really care what you do for htem when they get back..as long as they get to see you. but if you wanted to you could just get him a little present (like candy or something) and go wait for him at his house when he gets back.
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Girls: Do you think it would be cute for a guy to ask before kissing a girl? Would you find that cute or weird? (link)
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it depends. i think it's kind of cute...it just depends what mood you're in.
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OK i have like all these guys wanting me.. I have guy 1 that lives right around the corner from me I dated him before but nothing serious cause he was the player type..but now we are just the best of friends and his Mom and sister love me like im part of the family. Then i have this other guy 2 that i've known for like 2 years but he lives far from me but he really really loves me. Then this guy 3 i been with for 10 months and i absoulty love him and we both lost our virginity to each other, but hes talking to another girl right now but i know he still loves me, but i'm the type of girl to have fun so..i wanna have fun. whatguy to choose and have fun with? should i be patient and wait for guy 3 or have fun with guy 1? or wait for the faithful guy 2? (link)
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don't go for number 1. because you said he's like the player type and also he sounds like he could be a friend thats like a "brother". i wouldn't go for number 2. if he lives too far away...but if he lives where you could see him like once a week...then go for it...but i wouldn't go for number 3 just yet..be patient...
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ok i really like this guy and i have a boyfriend at the same time i really like them both and me and the other kid have ben talking about "practiceing"... i dont know wat i should do...i need some help (link)
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practicing what?...go for the guy that likes you more...or that you like more...and the one that you could see yourself with longer...that's what i did...
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I have always wanted a boyfriend. But my public persona says NO. Even though I've wanted a boyf. really bad, guys (almost every, the only ones who aren't either are gay or have a girlfriend)are really mean to me because my ideas are kind of old-fashioned, I like classical music, I dress kind of old-fashioned, and I'm uncontrollable, and incredibly opinionated. I tried liking a guy once, but he just laughed in my face and told the whole grade. If I sort of let down and turn into just a regular girl, people will think i've gone soft and I won't feel like myself! Advicenators, help me! (link)
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don't change who you are for a guy. be yourself..and one day you will meet a guy who LOVES you're style and what not...
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umm i like this dude nd hes not like hott but reli sweet nd every1 hates him but im goin out with him neway....should i stay with him nd be laughed at, or just break up? (link)
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stay with him if you really like him. people hate my boyfriend (not because he's ugly or nothin but because he breaks my heart a lot)...and i'm still with him. you shouldn't worry about what other people think...if you like him...stay with him...and be laughed at...
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me: i never look good lol
him: yeah you do
me: you havent seen me in like.. 10 months how would you know
him: b/c i just do
is he into me? (link)
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maybe ..maybe not... just because he thinks ur pretty doesn't mean he's into you... keep talkin to him ...
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I CANNOT break up with anyone. I used to be able to but now I just CAN'T! I can't stand the fact that I'm breaking up with someone that I still want to be friends with. Usually I have my friends break up with the guy for me, but it just doesn't seem...I dunno. The guy I want to break up with now is awesome and I CAN'T and i mean Can't stand to break up with him but I have my reasons and I want to. Does anyone have any ideas of how I can dump him with out being mean? (link)
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just tell him that you want to be friends and you're not trying to be mean...but you need to break up with him because you don't want to hurt him later in life...
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me and my boyfrind have been together for almost 10 months now. we never really argue, except when i talk to other males on the telephone. i tell him, they are only friends, but he feels uncomfortable with me talking to them. should i give in, and not talk to my friends or should i continue being friends with my male friends? besides i dont understand why he's uncomfortable anyways. (link)
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my boyfriend is the same way! like when i talk to my ex's that are friends now...and he gets pissed when i talk to my neighbors that are like my bros...and so just tell him that he has to trust you. relationships get ruined if there is no trust...
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is it weird i like my step brother? (link)
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haha my cousin is like that...my cousin is DATING her step brother...like my cousin and his brother were dating these 2 girls that are sisters...and it turned out that the girls' dad was single...and so was the boys' mom...so they hooked up the mom & dad...and the mom and dad got married. one of the cousins and girls broke up b/c they thought it was weird...but the other 2 are still dating. i guess it's ok if it's a step brother...
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What the hell is a break...I am a 16 year old female and my boyfriend(or w/e hes called at the moment is 18) and he said that i hurt him (inside on this is that...we were talking and he said i dont trust him but i really do trust him i just made a joke after he said it saying i didnt), and that he really wants things to work, but we are going to go on a break for this week and then talk and see where we stand as a couple and what we want to do about the realtionship. Im really hurting, i cry all the time, and i want to stop...what should i do to stop the pain? What is a break? and how can i save the realtionship?? GUYS HELP PLEASE (link)
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think of a "break" as fracturing a bone, you're not completely seperated. where as "breaking up" is like breaking a bone completely, you are seperated from the other person. just wait til the week is over...and find out where you stand as a couple. if it's over, then you just need to try really hard to get over him...you can't make the boy like you. but just tell him it was a joke and that you really like him and that you are really hurting. if he doesnt care...he's not worth it!
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ok...me and this guy broke up like 4 months ago. and scince then i have still been in love with him. but he dosent even think i like him more than a freind. ok newayz...scince we broke up he hasnt shown any signs watsoever of still liking me.but then all of the sudden out of the blue last night hes like i love you so much and he was just gushing about how much he loved me. is this for real? or is he just being stupid and getting my hopes up? wat should i do? (link)
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it's probably for real. my boyfriend did that...we had broken up and he did that and now we're back together. you should let him know how you feel and ask him if he's for real or if he's getting your hopes up...
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OK..i have this girlfriend of about 3 weeks, though ive liked her since about february. im going away to another country for 9 weeks next week and am not sure what to do. the relationship seems to have been going pretty well, we hook up, we talk often and get together a lot. an off topic note is her parents dont allow her to date, but im trying to get around it and if they know for sure(they already suspect), ill meet with them and try to negotiate. ANYWAY, how can i discuss the subject of cheating without her thinking i think she wont be loyal. 9 weeks is a long time, but im willing to make it work and sacrifice a lot of girls for her. im a sophomore, shes a freshman. any tips on what i should do? break up for the summer, which there is no guarantee she will still be single or still like me? stay together and call often? what?
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stay together and call often...
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why dose it seem like my bf dont really like talking to me? he seems like hes mad.? (link)
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oh my goodness...same with my boyfriend. but most likely he's not really mad. i always think that...but he never is. just talk to him bout it...
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okay so in advance im sorry if this is long but please read and help anyways.
okay me and my boyfriend went out for 10 months and we had a good relationship but last weeekend was my birthday and my party .. it was a campout and well pretty much the whole time he was with one of my best friends, theyre friends too but shes a girl and they were cuddling, and all this stuff, well i guess she kissed him on the cheek and i got mad cuz like it was my bday and he was with her so we fought about it and he said i was jealous .. well then since we were fighting he would barely talk, so i left a message on his AIM away and said that if he wouldnt help and talk with me to work it all out then i was gunna give up cuz i was sick of trying to fix it by myself, well he took it as a breakup .. but i didnt..and i want him back but hes comfused he says and he says that its hard and everything and hes not sure if he wants me back or to be friends but he really cares about me still and loves me alot he said but he said alot more but i cant really type everything it would take a long time but i guess im really wondering is what do you think i should do..?
sorry its long but i cant do it on my own and i really love him.
btw im 15/f (link)
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well it's up to him. tell him how you feel...and tell him that it was a misunderstanding...and admit that you were jealous because it was YOUR birthday..and he cuddled with another girl.
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Basically this guy I know is ignoring me.
He used to like me, and I mean loads, and we got on really really well. He used to call me all the time and flirt with me like hell. It took me ages to find out he fancied me (even then with a little help from mutual friends). I started to like him too, then he called me up and asked me out. I said yeah, but then I didn't see him all week...which was both our faults, but then the first day that I saw him he ignored me and then sent one of his female friends to dump me.
He's been ignoring me now for about two months, and its getting really uncomfortable. I still like him, but I haven't got a clue whether he still likes me.
And I just found out one of my not-so-close friends likes him too...and apparently he likes her.
Why is this guy ignoring me? And what should I do?
Thanks!!! (link)
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he may be ignoring you because he is pissed off that you guys didn't see each other. just wait and see what happens. but if he likes her, then there is nothing you can do...sorry..but if he doesnt go out with her...then call him and leave him a message and tell him that you NEED to talk to him about shit...
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I am datin this guy but he checks out all these other girls and today he was like (name) has a nice butt.Then he was like man look at them titties and it makes me so mad what should I do?
sign,
confused (link)
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do the same thing back to him...if you see a guy be like "damn he has a nice butt" and stuff like that... and "oh man check out those biceps"...and if he says somethin to you...say somethin to him about how he does it...
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