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which guy should i go for
ok i really like this guy and i have a boyfriend at the same time i really like them both and me and the other kid have ben talking about "practiceing"... i dont know wat i should do...i need some help
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practicing what?...go for the guy that likes you more...or that you like more...and the one that you could see yourself with longer...that's what i did...
take it from me baby
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You really should consider the fact if you don't want to hurt anyone, and if you don't want to hurt anyone then you'll have to decide what to do. If you really want to go "practicing" , then I guess that is what you want to do. You need to ask yourselves these question.
1) Am I staying true to my virtues?
2) Do I want to hurt anyone?
3) Is this really what I want?
4) If it is what I want, is it the way I want it or will it be the way I want it as I imagined?
5) Is this what I need ?
6) Is this what I need in my best for me?
7) Is this what I should do?
8) Am I thinking morally and rashionally about this?
9) Is there anything that I haven't thought about?
If you can answer these questions, or any other questions that pop up in your mind, then you should know that it's right for you. Sometimes , you just have to do what will please you and if it does... do it.
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If you think you love 2 people at once then you don't love either enough. - Micaela Logan
I strongly believe in this quote. Only one guy deserves to be loved (or in your case, liked) by you.
So don't say you like your boyfriend if you say you like some other dude.
"Practicing?!" What the heck? Honey, you don't get a boyfriend and get another guy to "practice" with. You should get enough "practice" with your boyfriend, and if you don't you need to talk to him about it. Not get another second boy for when you feel like it. Think about it this way. Would you like YOUR boyfriend to have another girl so he can "practice" with HER? I think not.
You can't like your boyfriend and like someone else at the same time. So decide now. Liking the other guy shows that you don't care about your boyfriend as much as you thought. So choose now. Don't put it off either, because the longer you wait, the more hurt your boyfriend will be. If you decide your boyfriend is not the one for you, just sit down with him, and gently talk to him about it. It'll hurt him more the longer you wait so just do it. Even if you think you LOVE your boyfriend but still have feelings for someong ELSE or even if you're not SURE if you love boyfriend, you need to break up with him. Because chances are, if you aren't sure you probably don't love him. And I'm sure the last thing you want to do is break your boyfriend's heart even more by leading him on.
If you really think you love your boyfriend and you decide you don't want to break up with him, you need to spend more time with him. Get to know him even better and get that other guy COMPLETLY out of your head. That's the least you can do for him. And even then, if you decide you still don't LOVE your boyfriend, it's time to break up with him. Dating is about experiencing new things, trying things out, bonding with someone, and finding what you need and want. You don't have to be confined to one person forever, you are free to date people to find your soul mate.
And like I said, the minute you find out he's not the one you truely have strong feelings for, you need to break up with him and save him more heart ache. But if you do decide he is the one that gets ALL of your love, get the other guy out of your head and spend more time with your sweetie.
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