Question Posted Tuesday December 20 2005, 11:51 am
so there is this kid... lets call him bob... and ive been hanging out with my friend lately. we will call her jane. now jane and bob went out for like 8 months. and then they broke up but they still act like they are going out. so i have been hanging out with bob and jane a lot and im starting to really like bob. but i think jane would get mad at me if i told her even though she is REALLY into this other kid. i think she is just using bob. do you think i should tell jane that i like bob or no?
AGEHA answered Thursday December 22 2005, 10:16 am: Why would you have to tell your friend in the first place? If you don't want her to know, don't tell her. [ AGEHA's advice column | Ask AGEHA A Question ]
confuzy88 answered Tuesday December 20 2005, 3:45 pm: Wow i am going through the same kinda thing! I would seriosuly think about how important or serious ur friendship with Jane is. If your not really good friends then i would tell bob how you feel, but remeber that Jane might not be happy with it. You could also talk to Jane but that might be harder to do. Good Luck and I hope it works out [ confuzy88's advice column | Ask confuzy88 A Question ]
sarraleew answered Tuesday December 20 2005, 3:07 pm: jane might get mad but she has no right to if she likes another guy. what i would do is find out first if bob is worth it. do you really want her mad if nothing happens between you and bob? keep it from her for now, find out if he might like you and flirt. if he does then good for you, and nicely ask jane if she would be mad if one of her friends liked bob, not saying that it is you. and if she says no then tell her, and if she says yes for a GOOD reason then either forget or nicely tell her and be careful around her, if she seems mad. Good Luck. keep me updated? [ sarraleew's advice column | Ask sarraleew A Question ]
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