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Why is he ignoring me?


Question Posted Thursday June 16 2005, 5:18 pm

Basically this guy I know is ignoring me.
He used to like me, and I mean loads, and we got on really really well. He used to call me all the time and flirt with me like hell. It took me ages to find out he fancied me (even then with a little help from mutual friends). I started to like him too, then he called me up and asked me out. I said yeah, but then I didn't see him all week...which was both our faults, but then the first day that I saw him he ignored me and then sent one of his female friends to dump me.
He's been ignoring me now for about two months, and its getting really uncomfortable. I still like him, but I haven't got a clue whether he still likes me.
And I just found out one of my not-so-close friends likes him too...and apparently he likes her.
Why is this guy ignoring me? And what should I do?
Thanks!!!


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Additional info, added Friday June 17 2005, 5:06 am:
by the way - the girl that likes him now is realyl good friends with him, they've been mates for aaaages. And she's prettier than me..

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karenR answered Saturday June 18 2005, 12:52 am:
I think if he dumped you then you can safely assume that is why he is ignoring you. I don't know why he wasn't man enough to tell you himself instead of sending a friend to do it but. I think its over. Don't dwell on it, find someone new. Even though you still like the guy. :)

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TakeItFromMeBaby answered Thursday June 16 2005, 8:14 pm:
he may be ignoring you because he is pissed off that you guys didn't see each other. just wait and see what happens. but if he likes her, then there is nothing you can do...sorry..but if he doesnt go out with her...then call him and leave him a message and tell him that you NEED to talk to him about shit...

take it from me baby

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LuckyHugs812 answered Thursday June 16 2005, 5:54 pm:
go up to him and ask him yourself why he's ignoring you. he prolly got to know this girl that week that you 2 weren't hanging out and was just too chicken to tell you (thats why he was/is ignoring you) and then he started to like her, and he was too scared to break up with you on his own too. you should tell him how you feel and what you think about everything, he kinda sounds like a jerk to me if he made one of his friends dump you for him. good luck though!

♥ Lins

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sweetestthang574 answered Thursday June 16 2005, 5:46 pm:
just like last time, I would send one of your guy or female friends to talk to him and ask why he is ignoring you! He really shouldnt be doin that though! its wicked mean to just dump someone without giving a reason and then just not talking to them! but yea, if you dont want one of your friends to talk to him, I would say talk to him online or face to face! if you talk to him face to face, he cant block you no matter the things you say!

--emily

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