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well like 2 mounths ago this kid in my class said that this other kid liked me and my ass .And where friends in all (me and that kid ). Anyways im like to the kid who told me i said " your lying i know you are."But that week i stoped to think those kids might actialy like me .Because they always kick me and all (no hurting me just foolin arund ) and they through erasers at me . And in gym im always one of the first girls to be on there team .Also there was a dance and the next day a kid ( one of the kidsthat were throughin erasers at me ) said that he new a secret about me and he wont tell . How do i get to know if that kid likes me and how do i get him to lke me

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well it seems like they like you but if you want to figure it out then just ask them or one of their friends


Okay...I'm 15/f and I'm going to the Sweetheart Dance at my school on Saturday and I'm bringing my bf (he goes to a different school)...would it be wrong if I dance with other guys (friends) at the dance too? (link)
okay well it wouldnt be wrong or anything if you asked if you could just have one or two dances with one of your other guy friends cuz your just friends and you probably did it all the time so just ask him but if you like grind or something then no that is wrong and you shouldnt cuz thats just like cheating on your bf


I've been dating my boyfriend for about 9 months now, we're in love, yadda, yadda, yadda. I've had this frind for about a year and a half and he's gay. He has a boyfriend and all that stuff but for some reason, my boyfriend is jealous of him! I spend alot of time with him, we go shopping once a week, all the typical things you'd do with one of your girlfriends or your gay friend. I've asked him before why he's jealous of him and he'd always say "I'M NOT JEALOUS!!" He gets in such a pissy mood when I tell him that me and Frank (the gay one) are going shopping. I don't know what to do about it! Can anyone help? His attitude is really getting on my nerves! (link)
well your boyfriend might just want to spend more time with you not having to have equal spent times with frank even though he is gay.


Hi...um i like this one guy and i think he likes me, but everytime i get one of my friends to ask him if he likes me, he says that he doesn't. He always is staring @ me in the halway and he smiles @ me and stuff! he's really cute and really nice and i really like him! HELP! i rate high!

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the same thing hapened to me too and the he most likely likes you but just doesnt want to lose a good relationship and is afriad of rejection so dont stress he most likley does like you so go for it if you feel like it hope i helped
kati marie


I have this friend named Emily. She has recently just liked this guy named Justin. Well a week ago she decided she didn't like him anymore. Last night they were talking online and Justin told Emily that he really really liked me and he was going to ask me out and if i said no then he would like be at da point crying. I don't like him and i don't really want to go out cuz i like someone else but my friend wants me to go out w/ him... what should i do? (link)
i definitally say follow your instincts and heart, who cares what your friend says if you dont like him like that
kati marie


okay the guy i like found out i lyked him yesturday at the end of the day, so today he avoided me didnt make eye contact with me at all ( and if it helps we are really good friends) okay so we finally talked during study hall and that stuff that we normally do but i could still see he was uncomfortable being there and doing the things we normally do but yet he'd always have a little grin on his face so does he maybe like me? (link)
well i think that is a possibility because guys are really sometimes uncomfortable knowing that you also feel the same way but dont want to say something and just find ot it was a rumor so try asking him how he likes and stuff like that
kati marie


I am so in love with this boy.. that i have been lets say more than friends with.. ne wayz... I'm so confused now.. I don't know what to do I don't know if I SHOULD GO FOR HIM OR WHAT.. I really like him and he likes me well i would hope so.. becasue he kisses me and we act like a couple but i dont wanna be turned down if i ask him out what should I do help!! plz ill rate 5's (link)
well i think you should go for it and ask him out because i dont think a guy would just kiss someone he doesnt like like that ya no? and i mean you guys do already act lika couple so now its just making it official in a way. so if he turns you down then hes a jerk, but i almost can garentee that wont happen! good luck hope i helped
kati-marie


ok, i am a guy who was overweight and no girls liked me so i worked out i got the 6 pack abs and stuff now and girls still like me as a "friend" what am i doing wrong! (link)
well they might only like you as a friend because thats what they always thought about you and their maybe not sure if they want to change and risk that relationship. that and maybe its not the way you look those girls care about and you may not be doing anything wrong, but just try and flirt with a girl you like and see where it takes you, cuz maybe you didnt give the hint you are ready and want a girlfriend. hope it helped if you need more advice IM me mmk. ~kati marie


There's this guy at my school that I really like, and think I am in love with (I have thought this for YEARS). But I'm afraid to start anything with him because he has kind of been the center of many jokes between me and my friends, and he's not exactly the hottest guy on earth lol. He is kind of short, in fact, I think I'm taller than him. But he's kind of cute in a way and I really like his personality. I know I could probably get a hotter guy, but for some reason I feel like he is the only one I could be happy with. But I am afraid of what my friends will think if I tell them I like him. So what should I do? (link)
well who cares what other people think of him and if you like him go out with him i would! so just cuz of his looks and or height dont mind that and dont care if he is a dork they can be the nicest person in the world!!
~keely


Hey,
I need some serious advice a.s.a.p.
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7mths now and we've kissed,held hands, made-out, and hugged and stuff like that. Now hes been touching me everywhere (and i mean everywhere!) whenever we are really closly hugging or holding each other closely when we sit together, it scares me really bad for some reason and my heart starts pounding, also i am a catholic grl and i follow my religion, i am also only a freshman in HS. I talked to my best friend about it (a guy) and he said he would touch his girlfriend like that too, and my other friends let their boyfriends do that too, now im starting to wonder if im too prude, or im not doing the right thing.
So should i let him touch me?

Thanx to everyone thats gonna help me,
*BaByItSYoU*
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okay you should only let him touch you like that if you want him to if it makes you uncomfortable with it then move his hands or say something, i dont know if i would care or not it depends on if i would really know the person and really like him hoped it helped
~keely


I'm a 24 yr old girl...and I met this great guy at a bar a few weeks ago and since then everytime I'm out, no matter where I am, he seems to be there. (Like it's meant to be?) Well, I went over to his house after leaving the bars twice. The first time we just hung out, we didn't even kiss... and then the second time we went a lot farther then that. I think he's wonderful and I want him to like me for me even though everytime I see him I'm pretty wasted.. I want to keep talking to him and I don't want to ruin things because I feel wierd and don't know how to act because I went too far with someone new.. but I really like him, I think he's so perfect... what should I do?? How should I act??? (link)
first dont get drunk before you see him and think befor you act and i no it may feel pretty awkward but that feeling will go away once you get to know him better and try to contain yourself and try to just kiss or make out for awhile if anything and im pretty sure you wont ruin anything because he probablly feels the same way
~keely


Okay well i was dating this one guy (Rick) and he was really nice and kinda cute and we talked like all the time on the internet and at school but whenever we started going out at school he didn't talk to me and it looked as if we didn't even know each other but whenever i talked to him on the internet he was sooo nice and it seemed as if i was falling in love with him... well since he never talked to me i broke up with him (all my friends told me to also)... well one day at school i decided i was gonna have my friend (Ashley) do it for me after school... well whenever i was in 7th period i decided i didn't want to... i told Ashley that but she didn't listen all she said is "if your gonna do it... its now or never" so she went and did it with a whole bunch of friends of hers (which i told her not to tell anyone but she did anyways) and then i was really sad and kinda mad about it b/c i didn't wanna do it... well i regret it A LOT! and now well there are a few other guys that like me and that have been asking me out but i don't know if i'm ready to go out with anybody.. i heard that rick still likes me but i don't know if i should go back out with him or someone else.. like my friends made fun of me for going out with him in the first place b/c he isn't the cutest guy in the world and they would really make fun of me if i went back out with him... and plus one of my friends like him but i know she wouldn't care if i went out with him ( i don't think she would) but i don't know if i should let him know how i feel or just keep it in and see if i eventually get over him! please help me! (link)
okay, i think you should go back out with him and not care what your friends think about it and tell rick you never ment to break up with him but you were considering it because he wouldnt talk to you at school. you should talk to the friend that likes him and see if it is okay if you went back out with him because you still have feelings for him. im sure they will understand and if you need more advice IM me mmk? well hope i helped
~keely


i like this guy and he kinda likes me but all my friends say hes really bad and they call him pot head and stuff like that. but i dont think hes bad at all. i kissed him at the movies and every one was like eww and stuff like that. but i really like him. what do i do? thanks.
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hey if you like him date him, and dont believe the rumors i did once trust me not good at all.. and who cares what your friends think i mean its their opinion and you have yours so fallow your heart and do what you think is right


hello! me and my boyfriend have dated for 3 months and then we broke up. But know we started dating again. And know he is different, he wont touch me i always have to grab him. like grab his hand if i want to hold it. what should i do? (link)
try talking to him or being more phsical like take his hand like you said and make him understand that you want him to do that, so he should relax because he just might be nervous around you so give him a little time to warm up to you agian and then he might get the picture
~mini


Ok..well I've liked this boy for quite a long time now and we have dated before but like last school year. This school year we have been on and off like I've always liked him but he sometime says he doesn't anymore. Just recently he told me he loved and all and he just went farther than he has before in what he says to me. So I think that made me attached more...well then he stopped calling me so I decided to call him a couple days after he stopped talking to me. He says from all the time I've known him I don't talk to him enough. This has happened so many times it's almost predictable, he likes me and all and then he stops because I don't talk to him enough and then I try to and then I just get sick of it because it doesn't seem to go anywhere and then I give up and then he seems to pop right back up again and like me again! I really like this kid and I don't know what to do, should I give up and see if he comes back like always or should I try talking to him more and just hope something happens or what? I can't give up on him I don't think it would last I've tried and tried either he came back just in time or I get feelings again! Anyone have any ideas? Thanks in advance! (link)
tough situation let him hang or be apart for a while and date other people i mean if he cant make up his mind for a year if he loves you or not and sorry about those feelings you have for him but they will still b there for a while but try to ignore then so hope it works out for yas!
~mini


well every year i have a choice if i want to go to tennessee for christmas to visit my family. its my one chance to go 2 states away.... to get away from all my problems and to really just think. but i would be gone for 2 weeks, including christmas and new years. the problem is.... i dont want to leave my boyfriend. i love him and i have never spent new years eve with a guy and i want to spend it with him. i want to start out the new year with him. hes having a new years eve party too...and his family is having a christmas eve party and everyone brings their gfs and bfs and he wants me to go, but i cant if im in tennessee. i cant choose to go or stay. he is telling me to go so i can think and have time to myself and get away from all my problems for a while. but i would miss him SOOOO much and i dont know if i should go or stay.... what should i do? (link)
wow this is a very tough desision for you, but i would say go with the family you dont get much away time and christmas is about family and togetherness and also how jeusus was born but thats another story now i no this might seem like a big deal staying with your bf and i no it is but you might regret going with the fam. so do what your heart says choose what you feel is right.
~mini


okay well i have been talking to this guy online and on the phone almost every night for about a year and 1/2 and even though i have never actually physically met him i think i have fallen in love with his personality. we only live about an hour away and i am friends with his cousin who lives near me, so its very possible that we could meet whenever we wanted to. well i do want to meet him to maybe try to start a relationship, but the problem is that i sent him a fake picture of me. not just one fake picture, but i have sent him websites..TONS of fake picures saying that they were me. so now he has this image of a beautiful girl in his mind. its not that im afraid he will think im ugly at this point, but i am afraid to admit that i sent him alllll those pictures. its extremely embarassing.. and i didnt do it just once, ive done it ALOT!!! i dont know what to do..if i never meet him then it will break my heart and i think i will be missing out on something really great...what should i do? i know this is pathetic..please dont be rude i just need help!! (link)
okay first dont send some guy a fake pic agian, but since you did already heres some advice. start out by saying you dont look anything like your pics and you really want to meet him in person and i bet if he feels the same way you do about him he will love you no matter how you look which im sure you look amazing and its not pathetic ive done it before but i didnt fall in love there was to much of an age difference for me so good luck try to tell him
~mini


Ok..theres this guy that likes me and we aren't going out but we have been friends for a while now..well he asked me to go to a movie with him and I said no because I had to go Christmas shopping but my friends asked me what my answer was and I told them and thats how he found out I guess but I don't know if they told him about shopping and now hes mad because I said no and I have no idea why unless he doesn't know the reason why I said no!What do I do? (link)
ok, confront him and tell him that you had to go christmas shopping and maybe pick him up a lil bit of chocolate for a presant and tell him your sorry and maybe you could go to the movies next weekend or when neither of you are busy
~mini




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