I've been dating my boyfriend for about 9 months now, we're in love, yadda, yadda, yadda. I've had this frind for about a year and a half and he's gay. He has a boyfriend and all that stuff but for some reason, my boyfriend is jealous of him! I spend alot of time with him, we go shopping once a week, all the typical things you'd do with one of your girlfriends or your gay friend. I've asked him before why he's jealous of him and he'd always say "I'M NOT JEALOUS!!" He gets in such a pissy mood when I tell him that me and Frank (the gay one) are going shopping. I don't know what to do about it! Can anyone help? His attitude is really getting on my nerves!
Additional info, added Tuesday February 1 2005, 6:10 pm: I do spend equal amounts of time with both Frank and my boyfriend, so I don't see why he'd get so upset about it. And, he knows that Frank is gay too.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Kels answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 8:23 am: Because your boyfriend doesnt want him to steal you away. Its a complement really. My boything isd the same way. He doesnt want anyone to take me away from him. he doesnt want me to get hurt, and he is really protective of me.
your boyfriend doesnt want to lose you and well, even though he's gay, its another guy,well 2, with HIS girl. Maybe he wants more time then the other two guys?
ballerina04 answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 6:24 pm: i think he is jealous maybe because he wants to hang out with you more. invite him on a shopping trip, or just try to get your boyfriend to know Framk better. good luck! send me a message if you need anything else! ♥Kristen [ ballerina04's advice column | Ask ballerina04 A Question ]
lildiamyn_69 answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 6:08 pm: Its sounds like he has an insecurity problem, and you should sit and talk with him before thigns get worse. Tell him that its working on your nerves and that if he doesn't stop, you'll leave him. If he doesn't stop, you really might have to. There's no reason for him to do all this if he trusts you. Hope things work out:)
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kaRriE_xOo answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 6:07 pm: Well i would say that you just really have to explain to your boyfriend how much you love him and that you to are just friends and nothing could ever coem between you guys. I agree lol boys do get very jelous over the stupidest things. Just when he seems to be getting mad just tell him i know your going to have to tell him alot boys seem to forget things. Hope i helped if not im me on > juiciexobabe
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