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Im a Sophmore. i laugh allll the time. no lie. everything makes me laugh. i tend to fall for people to easy. i hate drama. i dont give a sh*t about your oppinion, say all you want behind my back but i would rather for you to say it in my face. im not own person and i do my things. i get really really hyper and will get on your nerves. everybody knows when im around the place. i am not stuck up. i talk to everybody and dont care if you hate me. i know how to have fun and i can be boring too. people always tell me that i make them laugh. im not smart but im not dumb either. i am a huge blonde and i will be stupid some times. my phone is my life. my family & friends come first in my life. im a really big family person. i listen to music more then i listen to anybody. i love school but not the work. if i dont like you then i wont talk to you but i wont stab you in the back. i love to take pictures. im not scared to do something. tell me what to do and ill do it. i am very very different. i am very boy crazy and everybody will tell you. i know people from all around but i dont know everybody. im not a whore or a slut.
i love giving advice (: so dont listent to that rumor. i think that im a good friend because i will do anything that anybody asks me to do. i can be the worst child ever or the best. dont use me as a friend because.i love being with my friends because we always have fun. i will do the stupidest stuff that you will see. wanna know anything else? text/comment/message/im/call me(:

advice

THIS IS NOT NORMAL HIGH SCHOOL DRAMA. I'M BEGGING YOU TO READ THE WHOLE THING. PLEASE.
16/F
There's this guy at my school that has been literally obsessed with me for like two years.

He texts me constantly, and I used to text him back and we'd have these really cool intense conversations.

But then it got a little scary. About two months ago, he began to text me every single day like once every thirty minutes until I answered him back. And I'd have to answer him back, because if I didn't, he'd come up to me the next day at school and corner me at my locker and ask me to explain why I didn't answer him back. And he just would have this puppy dog look in his eyes, so he looked non-threatening, but he'd also be blocking my way out with his arms.

He's constantly leaving notes in my locker and on my desk in homeroom about how we're going to spend the rest of our lives together and have a bunch of kids. We are not dating.
I've told one of my friends about it, but it's embarrassing because I don't know what to do. Plus, he keeps telling me in every note not to tell anyone because they'll make fun of our "love" and he doesn't like it when people make fun of him.

This note thing has been going on for almost a month. And if he sees me flirting with a guy in the hall, he just gives me this look and then he'll corner me after school again. I'm allowed to flirt though, aren't I?? Well I can't anymore and I've stopped.

The puppy dog look has left his eyes by now.

And the reason why I've finally gotten up the courage to write this is because I'm all out of ideas. My friend that I told doesn't know what to do about it and she isn't really taking it seriously. And I'm too scared to go tell the guidance counselor about it because I'm pretty sure he'd find out somehow. (He tends to follow me around school). But the thing is that sent me over the edge is that he called me last night after school (today is Saturday), and his speech was slurred so I'm guessing he'd been drinking, but he said that he was planning on killing himself soon unless I:
1) stop flirting with other guys
2) stop talking to other people when he's around
3) have sex with him soon

He's crazy, right? What to I do? I was so scared last night that he was going to come over my house. I locked all the doors and I slept in my brother's room.
I don't want him to kill himself, obviously, but I also want him to leave me alone. I'm scared also too that with everything else that's going on (the notes about how we're going to be together forever) that if he does choose to kill himself, he's going to take me with him.

Please help, I'm so scared right now.

He needs help.
If your to scared that he is going to find out because he follows you everywhere in school or something, go when your in class that you dont have with him, he wont see you go and he wont know. if you ask the counselor to NOT say anything, he/she wont. that's the only way for this that i can think of and i would do it if i didn't want him to kill himself and to stop following me and be a stalker.

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ok well theres a girl who works at the ski center i go to. out of the blue she randomley gives me her number and this cute smile, i had no idea she thought of me in anyway other than i go snowboarding there everyweek and she worked on reception.

well to be honest im only 18 and iv had... a very very short relationship with a girl and before her its been 7 years before any ones shown interest in me. how do i get things started? iv asked what shes in to, she loves motorcross and thank god i know something about that so i could ask her a few things. but now the msn conversations are getting a little mundane if im honest we both want to talk to eachother and get to know eachother but its coming to "umm yeah so im still bored :/" iv asked about hobbies, her job, the people im freinds with who she works with, and a couple of other things. i want to start a conversation or at least get a few good questions going to spark one... i want to get to know her because shes been showing interest more and more and i dont want to seem like an uncaring ass.
you'v not failed me before i look forward to your answer's

i will submit feedback as allways. thanks

tell her that you want to hang out sometime. maybe go out to eat. you will get to know her better and youll have fun. thats my oppinion. if i was the girl then i would want you to ask me out to eat or atleast hang out somewhere fun or where ever.

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sorry if this is long ..
to start with there is a guy i like called jared. i have known him for months now and we have just been flirtin and hanging out together .. anyways we had a fall out last month and although we have kinda made up .. things r still rocky between us .. im not sure how to take things he says and i dont know if he likes me anymore (just after we made up he said sorry and that he really liked me) we dont talk much anymore .. he will text me and ask how am i then i reply and he doesnt respond .. but whenever i see him he is always like "laurennnn" and will try hugging and kissing me. i dont know what to do, is he thinking we should just be friends now?

Guys are confusing....but the best thing for you to do is ask him flat out. Tell him you need to know so that if he doesnt you can move on. If you dont feel like you can ask him face to face ask him through texting or online.

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im 14/male and ive been with my gf for just over 5 months and she wants to see my penis im a bit nervous my penis is almost 5 inches long is that a normal size? do girls care?

I would say that it is a normal size.
Since your 14 years old, you sould have around that size. and if your not ready for her to see it or do anything with her then you should tell her and wait. (:

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I am a 19 year old guy who has fallen for a 16 year old girl. It is a bit strange of a situation but I really do love her. She is amazing and beautiful. I would do anything on earth to help her or to make her happy. We are not officially BF/GF, I think we are both holding ourselves back, for fear of what it would mean. I know she loves me, I don't know to what extent. I can't seem to find a good way to ask/find out either. I have never really had a girlfriend before her, although I was always very observant of others and feel I know most of what I need to about relationships. She was outgoing and I was shy so we kinda met in the middle. We fit each other very well, have a lot of the same beliefs, ect. But the fact that she is still 16 really bothers me. It's not like I want to have sex or anything, I do not agree with premarital sex, I just worry about legal things. I hate to say it but, I almost feel guilty for dating her. Like I don't deserve such a wonderful person. What is everyone's take on this?

if you really love her, then i dont think that there is anything wrong with that. but its only 3 age year defference too and thats not bad. i dated a guy that is 19 and im 14 so that is badd. (:

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Alright here's the deal.
My boyfriend (16) and I (15) recently took a break from each other because I found him too clingy. It has been nearly a week, and.. let's call him chuckNow chuck thinks were dating again. But we are not. I've tried talking to him but it doesn't work. He has my name in his MSN name again, and is telling everyone were back on, I usually have no problem with confrontation, but in this case, I simply cannot tell him were not dating. Now I've sent him a e-mail telling him were not dating,
but I don't know if he'll get the message in time and i don't want him to be to hurt..
Any advice you can provide will help a lot, i am sure..
Thank you so much in advancw (:

Sincerly
CueTheLights.

Well what i would do is..

when he is on msn, message him and talk to him and tell him that yall arent dating or that you need some time or whatever..

tell him that your not trying to hurt him or tryint to be mean its just that you need space or time to think or watever..

Or..
call him so he has to talk to you and tell him those things. or talk to him in real person or whatever..

but you gotta talk to him if you dont want to date him because you cant just let him tell everybody that yall are dating which yall arent..

i would just talk to him and tell him that your not wanting to be mean.

:))

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All my friends have a crush on my boyfriend.Basically my best friend! She already promise that when me and him broke up she would date him.I AM SO PISSED OFF AT HER!!!! She a freak (like a wierdo)like shes puts eyeshadow on her lips.She is trying to break us up by saying lies to us about the other.She even told him I was datin him for a joke!He didnt believe her (I think).she calls him every day!!!What should i do!!!

kay.. well it sounds like that she aint a real a real friend because a real friend would not do that.!!
what i would do is just talk to her and tell her that that is not okay with you and that your not going to be friends with her if she is going to do that..
and i would talk to your boyfriend too like tell him what is going on and that if your "best friend" says anything else to him to not to believe her because she is trying to breaek yall up because she likes him.
that is what i would do and if she was a real friend than atleast she would stop but if she dont then she aint..
and if your boyfriend really likes you then he would listen to you and believe you && not her.!

so i would talk..

I hope that i helped
:)

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So this is going to be long I apologize, but its really eating at me and I dont know what to do about it any more. I am dating a guy and I really like him in fact I think I love him. My parents don't and my sister deff. does not! My sister goes to my school so I can hardly even talk to him at school. He understands everything that is going on with my family and everything. My parents don't like him because he has slept with 37 girls. I know its a lot and people make mistakes he's been tested and he doesnt have any STD's or anything, my mom and sister thinks that all he wants from me is sex, all I have done at home the past like week is argue with my mom and sister, it is killing me I can't take it any more and my mom wont even let me talk and prove to her that he doesnt just want to sleep with me. My family is very religious and believes that you should not have sex until you are married, well I dont believe that and I am not a virgin, but I have only slept with 1 guy and my parents do not know that, but my boyfriend has made promises and showing the effort to prove to my parents that he is going to change for me, he is willing to go to church on sunday and everything and he wants to change, Im like a blessing to him, and he is to me as well..... My mom keeps targeting me and is like how are you ok with how many girls he has slept with... yeah its not ok and I understand that but I can look past that because he makes me very happy and my mom thinks he's just good at flaunting girls. I was holding hands with him at school and my sister heard about it and she went off on him and started screaming at him and called him a rapest and all this stuff I dont know how to deal with it, I wasnt to stay with him, but how do I get my family to realize that he is a good guy? Sorry this is so long.

well first of all..
i agree with the guy below me..
because he probably is after sex if he has slept with 37 people.. and that he is just lying to you about everything because that is what happened to me one time.. but what i would do is to just let him go and find another sweet guy that has not had sex with soooo many girls because i wouldnt date a guy that has slept with 37 girls!! thats just wrong!! im sorry..
(:

FeliciaYouHoe(:

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so the night of january 1st, my best friend had a party because her parents were out of town.
there was a bunch of people that i knew of but didn't really know there.
as soon as i walked in the door there was this kid singing in the other room, and i saw him and my jaw just dropped, i thought he was just perfect.
he was cute and had good style and a really good singer.
so the night went on and later we played kings cup.
well me and this kid ended up sitting next to each other in the circle, and we were just goofing around and all that all night.
well we all got drunk and all that, and i headed to my friend's sister's room to sleep.
well this kid followed me in there as we were talking and climbed into bed with me.
me and my other friend had planned to sleep in there but she wasn't there yet so i figured what the hell.
so i just laid in his arms all night and talked to him until 7am when everyone else woke up.
it was really one of the nicest times i've ever had.
then his parents called and he ended up having to leave in a hurry and never got to say goodbye.
but we got in touch that next day and found out that my friend had been planning to have another party on the 3rd, so we planned to both go.
but he got in trouble and wasn't allowed out, but he snuck out just so he could go to the party and see me.
we were beer pong partners then we ended up going back to the same bedroom we were in before.
we ended up sleeping together (keep in mind i was drunk but not drunk enough to not know what i was doing, and i wasn't a virgin).
then i walked him to the end of the street and we just stood under the street light for like a half hour saying goodbye, because everytime one of us would go to walk away, the other one would pull us back and kiss us again.
but from that day on we were acting like we were dating, talking on the phone every night, kissing in school, still hooking up and sleeping together, hanging out all the time, all that.
like everyone thought we were dating.
then the other night he asked me out and i said yes..
anyway, ever since that first night, i thought i loved him, and i still do think that, but i don't know what to do.
he's 17 and i'm 15, and i know he really likes me,
he's not only my boyfriend he's like my best friend,
but i'm afraid to tell him that i love him because i don't want him to break up with me.
do you think i really love him? or should i not tell him or what?

please help. =/

Well i cant answer the part whether you love him or not... but i do think that you just really like him.. not just love him.. but it could be love.. but i've had a boyfriend tha was 19 and im 14 and we were dating and i fell in love with him and now that we broke up im still and its hrd to let go.. so you might love him.. i dont know.. but dont tell him that you love him because if he loved you then he would tell you somehow and then if he tells you then you can say it back if you want or if you do love him.. but if yall had "sex" then he might just like you for that and acting that he likes you.. so you might want to check on that because most boys love to have sex and if you will have sex with them they will act sweet and that they are not players and perverts just so that they can get sex.. but i wouldnt tell him that you love him yet and just wait..
(:


FeliciaYouHoe(:

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I like this guy and I dont think he knows I even exist, hes hard to get to because hes not in my class,hes always with his friends,and he hangs out with my worst enemys!! anyways he likes sports (hes always playing basketball, or dogeball, trowing a tennis ball ect) and Im weak ant cant even shoot a hoop! how do i get his attention?

im 13
and a girl

please answer.. TT.TT

okay well you said that he likes sports, you can go up to him and talk maybe about sports or you can get his phone number and call him and talk about anything just if you atleast talk to him for maybe 2 minutes than you will like you and than maybe yull get used to talking to him


hope i helped
felicia buis

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I want a boyfriend. I want more guy friends. Help! How can I achieve this goal?

well you can talk too them or like when you walk by them then you can say hi or something just be your self and if you like a guy then you do it more like talk to him and do other things


good luck
hope i helped

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hey this is your best buddy in the whole world!!!hey what i wanna know is who is tryin to steal michle?because its not me thats for sure and i dont think its keshia or savannah?
moonsthunder rox !!!!!

hey i dont get it and i have already been on my myspace and i gave you a friend thing so you better accept it you loser .lol

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how do you respond to a guy when he grabs your butt?

well if you like him then you can smile but if you dont like him the tell him to NEVER do it again

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13/f

k well theres this guy that likes me. the thing is that i dont know if i like him or not. one day ill be like in love with him and the next ill be like ew gross. i dont know why im acting like this. what do i do?

well you should talk to him and get to know him and then you will find out if you like him or not.

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so i really like this . shes really nice to me but i dont know if she likes me or not because shes nice to everyone. but my problem is it seems like alot of times im around her ill do something really embarassing or stupid but she'll just laugh like in a nice way. my question is for s: would you like it if a guy got embarassed (like little things tripping, backing up into something, etc.) but it made you laugh? and how can i get her to like me? (shes one of those really nice caring but really funny s) thankss!

well what you should do is to find out if she likes you is ask one of your friends to ask her # and then you can chat with her a little and then like after a while you wont be embarassed anymore thats what i did cause theres this really cute guy and so i asked one of my friends to get his # and so i got it and now we chat and now iam not embarassed anymore cause i used too run away from him but thats what you should do

felicia
glad i can help

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