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Can i simply have a yes or no answer to this question:
My brother used to put his hands down the back of my trousers and grab my butt and stuff like that, i told him to stop but he wouldnt. is this abuse? (link)
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You bet.
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Hi...i'm 14 f and i like this guy and i know him and he knows me! I really like him and he's hot..well atleast i think so:P..so i was wonderin if u could give me advice on how to make him notice me more..and stuff!...thank u!(i know who u r!) (link)
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I know who you are too. :P
Don't be afraid to go up and just talk to him. Find out what he's interested in and see if you two have anything in common. If you two have any classes together (and I know you do), talk to him about the homework or the teacher. If he voices an opinion that you disagree with, don't give in and pretend you agree. Argue with him - most guys like an opinionated girl.
After you find out some things about him (ie his favourite band), ask him if he like yours so the conversation can go both ways.
Hope these helped ;) even though I like the same guy as you...
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i'm 13 f and i've never had a boyfreind in my life. never had a guy ask me out. never had a guy kiss me. nothing. it's not that i'm ugly or anything, i'm pretty i guess but def not like gorgeous and i'm not mean really and yeah. i guess i'm just not guy material? :( but i really really want a boyfriend and a first kiss. like it's driving me insane i can't help it! and a lot of my friends have had boyfreinds and idk about the kissing part. what is wrong with me? how can i make myself feel better about myself/ please help!!!!! (link)
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Wow... I'm almost as inexperienced as you (haven't had a b/f since I was 4 - LOL). And I'm 14. And I don't care. It'll happen. Just don't sweat it. Just because all your little friends have boyfriends doesn't mean you need one too.
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Which is the best way to get in touch w/ a guy?
Call
Email
in person
pass by in the hall n hand him a note
its nothing personal i just want to know what you think. (link)
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Just talk to the guy in person... if you call someone you can't really tell what they're thinking (body language) and e-mail is kind of impersonal. A note is okay too, but I think talking to them in person is the best way.
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14.f okay.. well i have this friend.. but i dont know if he likes me or not.. he always like pokes me and stuff like joking around.. and if we're all hanging out he'll be like i'll go with you .. or i'll go when she goes.. he looks at me alot.. and trys to make me laugh.. and always wants me to stay when im about to leave.. soo im not sure if he does.. does he?.. if so what should i do? (link)
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Sounds like he does like you - but I could be wrong. He could just really like you as a friend. It sounds like he likes you, though.
What to do if he does like you is pretty straighforward. If you like him back, go out with him. If not, let him down easy and try to keep your friendship intact.
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ook...I am 13 and i've never had a b/f...And i know this boy that likess me... i met him last year we were in alot of classes together...And we always flirted with each other but he would never go out with me and i wouldn't go out with him last year either... But we are going into a differt school. I really want to go out with but im scared to ask him b/c hes like getto and his g/f is one of my friends...Idk what should i do??? (link)
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At least wait until he and his g/f break up... you don't want to ask out someone who obviously already has feelings for somebody else. Just wait until they break up and wait a while until they get over each other. Make sure to ask your friend before asking him out, you wouldn't want to lose her just for a guy.
Make sure you like him for the right reasons... don't go out with him just so you can have a b/f. If everything seems fine, go ahead and ask him.
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I broke up with my boyfriend yesterday now i feel bad about it i really loved him and i still do thing is i dont know how hes taking it i was really mean to him i told some people were going to come to his house and beat him i didnt mean it iwas just upset and hurt now i want him back i text messaged him telling him im sorry and thit i love him he wont answer my phone calls what should i do im ean i am hurting too and he was a really sweet guy iwant him back. please help? what should i do we were together for 2 months but we were friends first. help (link)
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You should go see him in person instead of texting him because that will show that you care a lot about him and really want to get him back. Bring him some flowers (I read this poll that said 93 percent of guys would like that) or a poem or something. Just knock on his door and tell him that you still love him and you are truly sorry. No matter how angry he gets, stay calm.
Hope it works!
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im a 16 female and my bf is 19. i only get to see him twice a week, if even that. he has a full time job, and i am working too. my parents are stressing me out because they dont like how he calls me so much, but i like it.. he only calls me about 5 times a day, but yet those convos are 10mins long. my parents act like they dont want me to be happy, and im sick of it. sometimes i take all of this out on my bf, and he gets really upset about it, cus i get to the point where im so upset, i could break things off. i want my parents to get off my back, and for me to be happy. the only time im happy is when im with my bf. and now thats all changing becauz my parents bitch at me and embarrass me when me and my bf are hangin out all the time. im just sick of it. neither of us have our lisences... it'll be 4mths til i can get mine, and he can get his whenever, yet he has no expirence, so he wont pass anyway...
and my parents are sick of drivin us around all the time.
how do i find a way to see him, and how do i stop taking things out on him?? (link)
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I see both yours and your parents' points on this one. Five calls a day is a little much, and I can see how the phone ringing constantly could bother them. Your parents want the best for you, that's why they worry about you so much. I could see how driving him around could piss them off, since he is 19 and has had the opportunity to learn to drive for three years. You could help by encouraging him to take a driving course and get his license. This will help both of you in the long run.
I don't see why your parents would want to embarass you in front of your boyfriend, though. Talk to them about it and tell them how you feel about the situation. Convince him that he is well-meaning. And don't shrug off everything they say as being hurtful or bitchy. They're just trying to help, and you never know, they could be right.
You can't think that you only lash out at your boyfriend because of parent issues, though. There is probably another outside source that you have to deal with. If it's really bad, consider counseling with or without your boyfriend and/or parents. As for seeing him, try taking the bus or other public transporation.
Hope it works! ♥
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my boyfriend is always gone.. hes either at baseball or football or out with the guys or at the lake..he never tells me when he has to do stuff and when he is home and i wanna do something he makes me feel bad because he starts to tell me how much he misses me but its not my fault hes never home.. but rele i miss him a lot too and thats the main reason it bothers me..i wanna be able to talk to him more and see him more.. is there anything that i can do...?? (link)
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Get to know his friends better and do the whole "group date" thing with them and your boyfriend. You could try calling him, but most guys aren't a fan of talking on the phone. Tell him how you feel about wanting to spend more time with him. It seems like he cares for you a lot and would probably understand why it bothers you. If he shows no interest in wanting to spend time with you, it might be time to move on. Time together is an important factor in every relationship... a friend of mine went on one date every few weeks with her boyfriend and they both lost interest quickly.
Good luck... I really hope this works out!
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ok not too long ago i put a question up about my b/f but after breakin up with him i took him back and everything is goin fine except...my dad dont like him cuz hes blak and he wants me to dump him..but i dont know what to do? (link)
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Keep him! Don't put up with your dad's racist values. If your dad is slightly open-minded, try and get you, him, and your boyfriend to spend some time together. Maybe your dad will change his mind. If this doesn't work, tell your dad that you're not going to dump him, no matter how many times he asks you to. Don't yell or get mad, even if he does. If he still doesn't accept this, just completely ignore him. He can't force you to break up with him.
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My boyfriend came over the other night and he was impliying that he wanted to have sex But i said no Now he won't answer my calls and Hes always with this girl named sarah and shes a slut Do u think hes cheating on me?
*Nikki 14 (link)
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Duh.
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somebody help!
i really like my b/f. i think i love him. i know ppl say oh you dont know what love is when your 13. but i cant talk or breathe around him. and when he touches me i get chills up my spine. heres the problem. ppl r always tellin me hes cheatin and i dont know who to believe my b/f or my best frends?i mean i want to believe him but i think it mite be true because whenever we go to this dance place these same girls are all over him and he doesnt do anything he like ignores me.....i dont know what to do. i have tryed to break up with him but wen i try i cant i think im in love...plzz help
from confused!!!!! (link)
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He sounds like an ass. By ignoring you when those other girls fawn over him, he's showing signs that he's not that serious about the relationship. Just by what you've said, I wouldn't doubt that he has, or at least seriously thought about cheating on you. Try to find out more from your friends and keep an open mind with them. Even though you love him, you have to realize that being with a guy like this is not the best thing for you. I'm not telling you that you should dump him, but you should consider it.
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