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KINDA LONG BUT PLEASE BARE WITH ME!!! Okay, I've been with my bf Josh now for 11 months. Around the 9th month, we've been fighting quite more often... and sometimes he just takes it overboard, he dosent hit me or anything, but he practially cusses me out and call me a stupid b***h, and stuff like that, I mean I love him very very much, but I tell him he can't just talk to me like I'm some kind of puppy.... so I just got this new job and the person who trained me is named johnny. Something about him just attracts me too him... he's patient with me, he never once did ridicule me about making mistakes (cause I am sooo clumsy!), he knows how to make me smile, we share alot of interests... we just click very well. Like one night we had to close the store together and he was on the phone so while he was on the phone, I took off his drive-thru headset and put the till infront of him.... later he walked up to me and was like thank you for that, no ones really done anything like that for me (I know it was little but it was a big thing for him I guess) and I was like your welcome.... and then one morning we had to work together and he wanted breakfest and didn't have a car, so I loaned him my car and he ended up bringing both of us breakfest and I thought that was sweet. He mocks (jokingly) everything I say and teases me playfully, and I like that...but I don't know who to choose.....PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
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Who do you trust more?
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Okay, I have a friend and we've been friends for six years. But I've been secretly in LOVE with him all this time. We used to flirt when we were younger, but now that we've been friends for so long, it's like we're more like brother and sister than we could be going out. It would be weird, but he's going off to college in May and I REALLY want my chance before he gets away. I know he'll be back for holidays and everything, but I'm literally in love and I just want to be with him, yet he's just a friend and I also don't want to ruin the friendship. What if he doesn't feel the same about me? (link)
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Tell him that you love him but if he doesn't feel the same way so we can just be friends.
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yeah yeah yeah another one of those questions..
okay so theres this boy in one of my classes and i think he's really cute and i want to get to know him more..but how do you like "get to know someone" ...like if i just randomly went up to him and started talking he'd be like "um?" ..because we've never talked before..so how can i become his friend without being too weird about meeting him? if that makes sense?
today i added him as a friend on myspace though...(he hasnt been on though so he didnt accept me yet.) (link)
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Just smile at him and then start talking to him.
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ok me and my girl have been together for 4 months and 28 days and we are GREAT everything is great and we are really comfortable and well her dad is a peer prick i absolutly cant stand him. He used to beat her and stuff but now he will scream at her for nothin, And he thinks she spends to much time with me and we only get to actually spend time with each other one time a week and her dad dont trust us enough to even let us set in the car together at a store so that kinda shows how much he likes me. He also said that if her grades dont come up then she cant see me ATT ALL and i dont think eather one of us can handle that. Does anyone know what i can do to get him to leave her alone?...... (link)
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You need to tell someone otherwise one day he may just hit her to hard and when she hits the floor she may not stand up again.
God bless
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my bf said he wanted to take a break? what is that? I think it sounds like hes dumping me but he sed not exactly. whats going on? i tried asking him and he just says he kind of confused right now. (link)
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He needs some time to think about where his feelings for you stand, give him some time to think it through
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My best guy friend likes me (he told me) and I like him too. The problem is he is afraid of committment. I've been waiting about 3 months for him to ask me out, and I don't think I can take it any more. Any suggestions on what to do? Should I just give up on him, and find someone else? (link)
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Tell him you are prepared to take slow.
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i feel like i do so much for my boyfriend. he gets so stressed out because he works 40 hours a week and goes to school so i barely get any of his time. but when i am with him i try and do so much so he feels appreciated for what he does. but lets just face it guys arent like girls. you cant just pick up flowers and everything be okay. what do you do for a guy? i mean i give him full body massages all the time. i try and do anything i can. but what can you really do? weve been together for 9months and i love all of it. it does get hard. for the both of us. i kinda feel like im not respected either for the hard work i put into the relationship and i never feel like im worth any of it to him. so like next thursday is our 9months or whatever and i told him he has to show someway that he cares about anything i do or its done. because i cant stay in this without respect but just is that right? i just want to feel cared about. and also what can i do for him that basically says. I Love you so much and i appreciate everything you do. besides getting naked and saying put it in me. (link)
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Loving him and letting him know that is enough.
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that I have a crush on! Jeez, I've had crushes on guys since those kindergarten days.. anyway, I'm 13 and in 7th grade, and I want to know ways to get this guy I like to like me back. I didnt even know him to this year, and he's in like.. alot of my classes too. On the first day of school, right when I saw him, I was like instantly attracted to him, even though I said in the summer that I wouldnt fall for any more guys anymore, and would focus on my schoolwork, friends and such. Im not sure about going out with him or anything.. like he even has the feelings back for me, which I dont know yet. I tend to be kind of shy unless I just happen to be comfortable around you and then I open up, so I dont want him to just think "oh shes just that shy girl". but he hasnt been been to me so far, but i want to know a way to like.. discreetly (no way am i flirting like really openly! how embarassing!! well it depends..) flirt with him or whatever to get his attention.. but like subtle. lol what do guys like in a girl and stuff? hes pretty sporty.. and um.. nice too, lol. also kinda cocky and outgoing personality.. (but not in an annoying way.. he doesnt really call out and stuff.) so yeah. any helpful advice gets a 5!!!! thanksssss! (link)
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Guys like girls who are confrontational.
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about who i trust more... i think my bff cause he hasnt hurt me like my ex has (link)
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Then go with your bff.
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Ok...so i'm a 15/f and I'm talking to my friend. She has liked me forever and she just told me she loved me. I just wasn't expecting it at all. Is it too soon for her to love me? Is it ok since we have been friends for about 2 years? I didn't say it back either, because I don't love her yet, but I eventually could. (link)
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You've known her a long time so there should be quite a good amount of trust, it's not to soon to love her because you have known her a long time.
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Alright, so I really like this guy, and he is in two of my classes, and sometimes in my lunch, though I don't sit with him. I sit next to him in one class, and near him in another. What are some things I can do to be, I don't know, I guess flirty? Like, what do guys want/see in girls that they like? Or what can I do? Any advice would help. I'm not really an outgoing kind of person, and its not like I would just say "Hey! You want to hang out tomorrow night, or go to the movies some time?" Literally, there is nothing I can do about that, so don't say just get over your fears and go for it.
Thanks.
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Give him a lot of sexy smiles and talk about when his next soccer match is also get closer to him by going to his soccer matches and stuff.
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ok so i have this boyfriend right? i like him alot and stuff... but in school i see him
before 1st
after 1st
after 2nd
after 4th
I HAVE 5TH WITH HIM
after 5th
after 6th
after advisory
and yeah...
how can i tell him... that i need space. and that hes being a little too .. "clingy"
xxx (link)
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Tell him you need some space to yourself and if he loves you enough then he give you space without fuss or say you are busy.
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Okay i went out with a guy and he broke up with me!!! I still love him and i know for a fact that he wants to ask me out again!!! But ive developed a crush for one of my best friends who i really think likes me hes always staring at me (especialy my eyes) I dont know what to do or who i like more (link)
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Who do you trust more?
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okay, well its not likea medical problem or anything its just that well, i havent had a boyfriend for a LONG time.. its been about 1 year and a couple months.. thats a LONG time.. and i mean ive talked to guys and ive hooked up with them but i dk i think that there might be like a physical issue or something might be wrong with the way i act.. i mean i have lots of guy friends so i dont think its my personality.. i thin its more of the physical .. i dont think its my face because i have a pretty cute face but i think its because i weigh a little more than most girls, i wouldnt call myself huge but im up there im about 135 lbs.. but i dk can you just tell me what to do.. i think that guys would be able to help me more with my problem.. i need to know how guys really look for girls.. ((personality or looks)) PLEASE HELP (link)
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Personality and looks matter quite a lot but your social status in the school matters more.
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There is this guy, at my church and I also work with him,that I really like, and I think he likes me too. I don't know why I think this, but It's just a girls hunch. He and I skated together for like an hour one night at a church lock in. That isn't really a sign, but I wished it was. My friend bein retarted one day asked him if he would ever go out with me. I'm not sure how to take all this, but I'm gonna go crazy. Any one have any advice on what you think, or what you think I should do to find out. (link)
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Let him know how you feel and maybe he will make his move.
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Can an exes really be friends after a break-up that neither one knows why it ended? I need straight to the point answers (link)
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Yes you can still be friends but it might become harder for you and the other person when you both get a boyfriend and girlfriend.
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15 y.o. freshman girl. So, I've liked this guy for just a couple of weeks now. He sits next to me in one of my classes, but he usually didn't talk to me that much. But lately he's been talking to me more frequently. Today, we practically talked the entire period because we had a substitute and she just gave us busy work, so we didn't get in trouble. He even grabbed my knee and held on for about a minute or two, which surprised me. About a month ago, my friend told me he liked some girl that went to another school, but maybe he's over her? Should I pursue him? Was he flirting, or does he just want to be friends? (link)
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I think that he was just playing with you but i think that you should make it clear to him that you have feelings for him.
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I'm 14/f and my boyfriend is 16/m. We got together pretty recently and things have been going great so far. But I've been having a problem dealing with his past. Sometimes I'll come across a picture of him drunk with a bunch of girls and it bothers me, but I know he didn't do anything with them besides maybe hooking up. (For the record, he doesn't drink at all like he used to and won't do it unless I'm there) Yet it still drives me insane to see those pictures on his friends sites. He isn't afraid to call a girl hot,(example being Tila Tequila) but I know he's kidding because when other guys talk about girls being hot or whatever, I'll go "Oh yeah, shes so hot" in a sacastic tone. Hes just doing it back jokingly to make me sound like a lesbian. Just the fact that hes calling another girl hot makes me jealous though. He knows I'd go insane if I ever foundout he was cheating or anything, but I just don't like thinking about that he probably thinks of other girls sometimes. I just don't know how to deal with that fact that all guys checkout every girl they see. Any advice? :/ (link)
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If he was open and honest with you about his past then he has no worrys about getting drunk again and being with other women.
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What do you do when you have a boyfriend who you love and you have been goign out for 5 1/2 months but you statrt to fall for your best friend and your best friend likes you?
I think I'm starting to fall for my best friend who I am always with and I know I flirt with him. He likes me too but the problem is I have a boyfriend. I feel like each of them has one of my arms and they are both tugging away and I can't decide whos hand I want to let go of because I don't want them to fall.
What Should I Do?
~Confused in Love (link)
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If you have known your best friend for longer and trust him more then i say go for it, its a very difficult descison but you can't have both so you have to choose.
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I've gone on 2 dates with this guy who's still in the closet. He's never been in a relationship and we've kissed and made out and did other sensual things, not sex. I asked him if he wanted to go out and do something with me next week and his response was, "maybe" I asked him why "maybe" and he said, "well I could be going on a date next week." I was like, "oh okay that's cool, keeping your options open."
He's like, "yeah" "are you okay with that?" I was like, "not really, but I don't want to act like i'm too attached." then I ask, "would you be okay if I went on a date with another guy between then and now?" he said, "yeah, i'm not clingy." Okay, now analyze this and asnwer this question. What's the difference between being clingy, and acting interested? In my mind, him saying that he might be on a date with another person between then and now, shows that he's not interested in me. And second, isn't it rude anyway to tell the person who you've gone out with two dates on that you might be going on a date with someone else? please help, this frustrates me. (link)
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He sounds like he's messing you about because obviously you must of been in some kind of a relationship and he abused that by seeing someone else without actually breaking up with you.
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