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ok well i have the same problem as this other girl on here that ....when she tried to brake up with her boyfriend he started to cry and make her feel bad so she stayed with him...well, i have the same problem...but i want to be his friend and he dont want to be my friend if we brake up...and that hurts me :( how can i get him to be ...my friend? (link)
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yes it makes plenty of sense and well as for the how do i make him want to be my friend...just talk to him more and more about it before you break up with him and maybe hell change his mind about wanting to be your friend in the end or at least by the time youve had it up to here with him lol not only that..after you two break up, you could hang out with his friends and just be around him alot so hes obligated to want to be with you...this way theres no avoiding you and he wont feel as akward doing it...if you dont understand what im saying then i guess you could im me on aim....xoxoyayaxox
♥YaYa
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Okay usually I have no problem talking/flirting with guys. And I usually never fall for the popular type.
But now I'm head over heels for Adam. We have a few classes together and share some similar intrests. I'm also the cheerleader for his basketball team. We talk occasionaly in class but I never know what to say around him cause he's more of the popular sort. When we do talk; its really flirting. He smiles alot and so do I. We make each other laugh alot too. However; after that its like we don't even knew each other.
How do I make things idkk .. more pumped? Hah, like how do I get us to talk more without it always being me saying " how was your day " then getting a one word answer.
Help equals instant 5. (link)
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well i dont usually answer these type of questions but i have too once founs yself in a similar situation...why dont you try to get a couple of your friends(guys and or girls) to goto the movie with you and invite him...decide to see a scary movie and have your friends help you set something up that makes you have to or wind up sitting next to him, and since its a scary movie try to get close and at the real scary parts(or if its a lame movie at the most scary parts)act scared if you have to and jump at lot and grab him(like his hand) or try your best to cuddle with him....then youll just have to wait and see where it progresses from there...let me know if i helped you in any way....goood luck
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*14//female if it helps* ohkk .. so um theres this kid who i like and im pretty sure he like me too (we'll call him bob) and he just broke up with his girlfriend cuz she was cheating on him =o .. but one of his friends likes me too - and i sorta like him whos been single for a while -sometimes it seems that they're fighting over me - ahhh i dont know what 2 do (link)
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go for the one you like best and hey, if one turns you down go for the next...jp
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My boyfriend is FAR too calm. I hate it. I mean i love it at times but sometimes a realationship needs some tension. Like and I wanna fight with him than kiss and mkae up. He never gets mad. Like last week this guy completly tried to get in my pants right in front of him and he just laughed it off. PISSED ME OFF!
Today one of my best friends whos like obsessed with me and he put his arm around me and was like kissing my cheek and my bf wasnt even like mad at all.
How should I make him madder like cuz this calmness with be the downful of our realtionship. (link)
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tell him that your relationship has no tension and you hate that- if he dont change break it off- or at least pretend to cheat on him or leave him for someone else- thats should get him pissed.
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Here goes:
I'm 17 now but when I was in the 8th Grade (last year of Junior High) I was considered a "geek". I was bookworm. Overweight and quiet. There was this pretty popular boy in my class who used to make fun of me all the time. He really made my life hell. After about two months, he started acting different around me. Sometimes he'd be really mean and then sometimes he'd be super nice (like random acts of kindness) and the one day after school, him and his female friend were talking in an almost empty classroom while I was trying to finish up some math. She asked him a question with my name in it and my ears perked up and then she called me and she said "--- likes you" and I made a face at him because I thought he was an ass at the time. Anyway, I think I hurt him a bit. He told me he hated me a few weeks after that incident.
A few months passed and we entered high school and I started liking him (he was still pretty popular but I was still a geek) but I figured I only liked him because he used to like me and I thought I'd get over it.
That year he told my friend that I was a geek.
During high school I’ve grown to love him more. I'm not a geek and I've lost a lot of weight (although I'm still a few pounds up). People who used to know me consider me considerably ‘cooler’. I'm sort of what you would call semi-popular but I'm not sure if I still measure up.
I don't know if he likes me too. My friends aren’t sure either. They say that over the span of the past three years, he stares at me sometimes when I'm not looking and –I- catch him looking too (except I'm not sure if he was looking first or just kept looking at me because –I- look at him). He does stuff sometimes like get really fidgety if he's walking in front of me or put the volume up in his car if he's near me. Just basic stuff.
I'm wondering is there an indication that he likes me at all and this could work or is he still mad at me and just looks because he's trying to prove something to himself and/or me? (link)
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i have a feeling that he still likes you-try and talk to him- but if that doesnt work slip a little letter into his car or locker or book and just wait....
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Hey, im 16/f. I have a boyfriend back in Florida but im on vocation In Dominican Republic. Every summer i come to DR, but about 2 summers ago i met this boy and we liked eachother we kissed and stuff and after i left we talk a bit on the fone. last summer i came bakk and we went out wit my cousin and their friends and he kissed and he told me he loved me n stuff but i never siad anythin back....he told my cousins that he loved me and he wanted me badly. This summer im here again and i found out that he has a girl, i have a boyfriend too. But every summer that i was here i told him that i had a b/f but that never seemed to stop him. What i want to do is have this guy completly i want to play hard to get and have him want me even more. That were i need help, i know i could do it cuz iv done it b4 but i want more ideas. whant him to just want me. I promise i rate high. Thanx (link)
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1- kiss him better then you have ever done before. then drop him after telling him to dump his girl for you
2- bring your boyfriend with you to the dominican republic and tease him
3- brag bout your boyfriend
4- make him feel suppierior to you
5- dig up some dirt bout his girl
6- wait for fait to take its natural coarse
7- laugh at him because he only needed you because he didnt have a girl
8- tell him your glad that hes got a girl and now you can be free....
8- talk about (i know it sounds stupid and nasty and it might not of even happened) how great your man was in bed and tralk bout how you could never experience anything like it and no one can even be worthy of competing.
9- im me for more info and advice
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ok... i like this guy but i cant say his name, so ill call him MR. BIGGLESWORTH.....and he is dating one of my friends...and the other day my best frined told him i liked him alot and that i was practically in love with him(and i am but that wasnt the way id hoped he'd find out)and he didnt say anything but that copuld have been because his gf was right there idk.....but i really want to go out with and i want him to go out with me to...........on wednsday of last week we were in lunch and he sits about 3 tables over from mine.......and he kept callin my name and when i would look over to him he'd cover his eyes like he was playing peek-a-boo with me and he kept doing it.....then i went to his table to arm wrestle him and he kept letting me win and then finally he plaid for real and he said that if he won that we had to do stuff but he was joking........then i went to go back to my table and he wouldnt let me leave without giving him a hug...........and when he gave me a hug he touched my butt...i know that sounds bad but he only did that when he liked me.......i just want to ask that from what i just wrote....do you think he still likes me or not?i rate good if your answer is good (link)
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o yea he most definately likes you......well if he duz that kinda stuff he either likes you or is playing some kind of sick joke on you just because he knows your true feelings about him and he may or may not be sure of his true feelings about you......just ask yourself what you think it is an d most likely the answer willcome to you!
hOPE I HELPED♥MeMe
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hey my name is Ashley and i'm a feamle(of course) and i'm 14 yrs. old heres my question for anybody with good advice!!!
I like my best friends ex!!! Heres the scoop... they broke up because my best friend was confused and she cheated on him. Well now(two months later) she starts telling me she now knows what she was missing and she really did love him and she wants desperately to go with him again. Now i've been talking to him since they broke up because he needed a friend cuz he really liked her but she cheated on him.(yea i kno guys actually have feelings...well at least the good ones) and i'm starting to like him now i mean he's the perfect boyfriend he's cute, hilarious, loving, i don't know he's just soOoOo great!! the thing is that my best friend who i've been friends with for almost 11 yrs. still "loves" him i really really think she'll be so mad if he askes me out or if i ask him. I dont know what to do cuz i dont want her to be mad at me but i dont get very many guys nowadays and i really like him and he told me i was hot yesterday please help me!!
Luv,
~~~ASHLEY~~~
P.S. i rate high
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wow...drama, drama, drama...she needs to get her priorities straight b/c shes the one who cheated on him...why was she confused? well you should tell her and if shes ok wit it then askk him or wait for him to ask you...if shes a lil pissed then you should still do it but if you do go out with him you should keep it on the down low until she is better or happy for you. if she is really pissed then idk what to say to you.
hope i helped♥MeMe
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Okay heres the story, me and my 18 year old sister both have boyfriends out of state. However my sister has her boyfriend come up all the time and I just get so jealous becuase I can't see my boyfriend for another 3 months. I know its not that big of a deal but since I JUST stopped cutting less then a month ago the littlest things make me want to do it. I sit here as I'm writing this entry listening to my sister and her boyfriend fighting about how the hicci was to big and im so upset becuase I just want my guy here right this moment. I had my mom hide the scissors from me so that I wouldn't do anything becuase I honestly want to stop cutting and I have almsot made a month with out doing it I also promised my boyfriend that I wouldn't but its just getting so hard without seeing him I just need to be with him but I cant untill July becuase of school ... the only thing that keeps me from not breaking down at night since I cant lay in his arms is that he sings me to sleep on the phone every night ... I just need to prove to him and to myself that I can hold back, that I dont need to cut ... Hes all I have and if I cut I fear that I'll lose him even though we are in love ... does anyone have any suggestions to how to keep my mind off this awful habbit when I start to get deppressed about not being able to be with him ... oh and another thing that does not help my trying not to cut is I'm on medication for depression but my dad just kicked me out of the house so I dont have my medication which causes my depression to get really bad since my body is not used to not having my meds (link)
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wow...thats so sad...and no offense but your life would make a great movie or book so you should consider writing down everything this may take up some time in your life...this may take up some time and it may make you keep thinking about cutting yourself but it might also be something that will interest you and make you want to keep on writing and the only times you would want to stop is to talk to your boyfriend and tell him everything and you may want to try some other things but i think that this would be fun and interesting enough for you!!!!
Hopew i helped♥MeMe
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hey..i went out with this guy from a different town from me 4 about 2 months and then i broke up with him cuz i didnt really no him and i never evven seen him be4 but he asked me out and his cuzin, im friends with his cuzin kept tellin me to go out with him, so i did. and that was like a year ago..and then like 4 months after he was my bf i ACTULLY MET him. hes H-O-T-T and i still talk 2 him online and phone and sutff and we r like really good friends - he calls me is sista and i call him my brotha..lol weird i no..but my question is..i still really relaly like him and when ever i talk 2 him i get like all sad and crap like that becuz i havnt had a boyfriend in like 13 months. -he always asks me who i like and i dont wanna tell him becuz he thinks im ugly ..and i talk 2 alot of his friends online..and tells them all im WICKED UGLY and if i told him i liked him ..idk itd just be weird !!! =( and i want a boyfriend ..i just want some1 to love me and cares bout me =(
ILL RATE HIGH if i get good advice !!!
- ConFuSeD aNd dEpReSsEd (link)
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then ask him y he says that
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This guy seemed to like me for a while and so i made a move by subtlely flirting with him. thing is-i ended up falling head over heals for him. everytime i'd see him...my friends would make a really big deal-almost everyone knew i liked him...but after that he started to stop smiling the way he did...and now we don't talk or wave or smile...what happened? (link)
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ask him not us.
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Well, there is this guy that I really like. I mean, the feelings I have for him are undescribable. He is amazing, and wonderful, and everything I could ever want. The only thing is, I'm 14. I can't be "in love" right? So what could these feelings be? When I am with him or just talking to him on the phone or computer, I am as happy as I could be. The feelings have stayed the same for about a year, only I have liked him more and more. Everytime I see him it's like I can't breathe for that second. Even when he signs on AIM, I am so happy. I even get the chills just THINKING about him. And I never stop thinking about him, I mean it's like someone just mentions a guy and I'm like omg, I love him. and people tell me it's love, but it can't be. I am too young and I don't know what love feels like. What are these feelings I have? Is it really "love"? Or just a crush? Whatever it is..can I get over it?=/ (link)
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its love. i m going through the samee thing nd im only 13. i love this boy, wen i see him i blush, wen i talk to him my stomache curls, wen i im him i day dream about him and wen he signs on aim i melt in my seat. i want to tell him how im feeling but i dont no if itz right. but in my case he likes me also. songs also make me think bout him. i never told him how i feel about him cuz he is turning 16 but we can kind of relate.
you can absolutly no its love wen u r going through the same things that we are. Well you can contact me on my aim s/n.
itz AriahBrit
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I have this kissing problem. I have this thing where when a guy tries to kiss me, no matter how much I want to kiss him, I always turn away. I used to not be like this. I had this one boyfriend that I made out with all the time. And one boyfriend I only kissed once. And that was a couple years ago. Ever since then I always turn away when a guy tries to kiss me, and I don't understand why. I want to kiss my boyfriend I currently have, but everytime he tries I do the same old thing. I turn away. Does anyone have any ideas on why I keep doing this even though I want to kiss the guy? I've been dating my boyfriend for over 2 months and we still haven't kissed and we are a pretty serious couple. Not one of those I see you at school things. Thanks. Good advice, good rating. (link)
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u must still like ur other boy friend
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ok here it goes its kinda long but i really need your help.
i have this friend she is like my best friend thats what she calls us... doesnt mean she is...
well her boyfriend broke up with her a while ago. she still hasnt gotten over him. she still loves him. i've talked to him on the phone and i asked him if he still likes her and he said no. and i was like well who do you like? and he kept saying no one until he said "me" i was like stop playing and he says im not playing i like you. and i kept saying no your joking and he goes no i like you, you dont belive me? and at school he always tells me he loves me, and he gives me hugs, and once he called me his girlfriend. i went to the movies last nite and he was there... he asked me to sit next to him, and i said ya ok. and at the movies he put his arm around me and he kept telling me he loves me and he gave me a kiss on the cheek. i like him to a lot. but i dunno what is he trying to do, does he like me? i think he does, but im not sure. he askes me if i love him and i say yes sometimes mostly i dont answer and wen i say yes he asks me why? and what should i do about it? he flirts with other girls to. so please help me, and tell me what does this mean? (link)
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wow, dejavoo. i m going through almost the same thing.
mii cuzin dumped this kid ryan who still liked her nd i tried so hard 2 get them back 2 gether nd he still has feelings 4 her so i was on the phone wit him tellin him that he should ask her out again cuz its worth a shot nd he say theres no chance, besides i like u,
i try so hard 2 convince him 2 not like me
i guess we are good like that
j/p
i dont no wat 2 do myself so i really dont got n e solutions 4 u
sorry
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well last saturday i went to my cousins daughters birthday party and i was downstairs with my grandmothers neighbors grandson and we were hanging out, and we were watching TV and i had my head resting on his shoulder and my legs were on his lap and he had his arm around me.. and then my brother came down and was like.. ahh u like her!! to him and he pushed me off and stood up and he was like, no i dont, we were just watching TV. and then he went upstairs and i have NO IDEA what he's thinking now, because he sent mixed signals. and now i like this other kid and he's REALLY funny and pretty cute, and i pretty much cant get my mind off him.. but i dont know what do do... i have mised feelings. (link)
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well go back to the neighbor kid nd talk wit him
then u can shove ur brother in a closet or sumthing if the neighbor kid says he likes u
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My Boyfriend told me yesterday that if he doesnt have a girlfriend who loves him when he turns 16 he is inlisting into the army and i dont want that to happen. I dont want anything to tear us apart but if he does go i will miss him how do i talk him out of it!
Im 14 and He Is Almost 15! (link)
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convince him bii giving him every reason u can 2 talk him outta leaving
or u never no if over the course of a year he may 4get
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