My boyfriend of 3 years, "Dave" and I have recently moved into an apartment with his friend, "Bob" and Bob's girlfriend, "April".
Bob has to go to basic training for 4 months so it is only Dave and I plus April.
I have to house sit for my grandparents for a week while they are on vacation and am over an hour away from the apartment so I'm nervous leaving Dave and April alone.
I trust him, but I came over to visit yesterday and walked in the room and he was on the computer in our room (he had no shirt on and pj bottoms) while she was on the bed watching him.
I don't know her that well and it freaked me out that a stranger is in our room with my personal stuff and on my bed with my boyfriend, alone.
What I want to know is am I over reacting and should I ask him not to have her in there alone or is that too controlling?
What would you think about this?
Thanks.
Honestly, I do not think you are over-reacting. I could never leave my boyfriend (now... Husband) alone with a girl for a week, especially if she is without her significant other for 4 weeks and especially if you have already been made uncomfortable by walking into a room with him having his pants off and her on the bed. Thats just... NOT acceptable, in my opinion.
What I think you should do is talk to your boyfriend and come to a compromise. Let him know that you want your relationship to work and that you don't want anything to come between the two of you and most of all... ALWAYS BE CLEAR About your EXPECTATIONS. If he doesn't know that you think it is wrong for him to be in his undies in front of her, then he can't do anything to HELP that. Make it clear to him.
The only solution to this problem, I think, if communication and for you to talk to your boyfriend. Best of luck! And, remember.... be CLEAR about your expectations and stand your ground, sweetie. Haha. Thanks again!
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I have liked this guy for awhile now. He was in a relationship with another girl, but she broke up with him yesterday, and he talks to me about how he is so sad, and that he wants to talk to her. And I don't know what to tell him, because secretly I am happy that maybe I can be with him, but I want him to be happy too. So I told him that I was sorry for him, and I tried to cheer him up, but I don't know how I should go about starting something with him. Now just doesn't seem like the time. Advice?
Dear, I think you hit the nail on the head when you said "now just doesn't seem like the time". You need to give him some time before you tell him how you feel about him. He needs to be able to get over her completely and giving him time to do that will benefit you as well.
Catching him "on the rebound" is not good for anyone. You don't want to be led on by him and he is probably very vulnerable right now.
The best thing that I think you can do is just be there for him as a friend right now. Show him that you care about him no matter what and that you are willing to help him through this. Then, once the timing is right, and you will KNOW when it's right, then let him know how you feel.
But, honestly, hunni, give it some time. You don't want to rush into it and get your heartbroken. Take it slow and best of luck!
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im gay and have a crush on my best friend melissa brother robert and he is straight but wishes that i was a girl because we have all the same exact qualities that we look for in eachother. Please Help
P.S. ive never been in love before so I really want this .
I agree with the other person that answered this question. This is a bit confusing. However, I think that the best advice I can give you, is this.
First off, the only thing that you can do, and the only option that I see that you have is to not only be honest with yourself, but to talk to this guy, Robert, and be honest with him as well. Let him know how you feel and listen to what he says.
It sounds to me that this guy is straight but might be "confused" seeing as he has said he "wished you were a girl". Often, when people are in this state of "confusion" about thier sexuality, it is dangerous territory for heartbreak. He could be unsure of what he wants, and therefore, is liable to lead someone one, like yourself, and then realize later that he wants something totally different.
Like I said, talk to him. Find out where you stand and give it time. Take it slow, especially if this is your firt "love".
Thats really the best I can do. Good luck! Let me know if you need anything. Thanks!
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I'm eighteen and i would liketo know thebest sites to meet guys online safely. thanks.
Honestly, when ANYONE goes online, you can be WHOEVER you want and noone has a way of knowing if you are lying. For instance, I could tell you that I am a 23/Female from Illinois and from when you know, that is true. ALthough, it's not.
Bottom line, there is no "Safe" method for online dating. Your takeing a risk with ANY websites that you were to go on and make a profile. So, I would suggest NOT doing it.
Try going to social functions and events to meet people. It's much safer and you are FACE to FACE. You know who your talking to. No questions.
Sorry if this was harsh, but it's the facts and the truth. Please, just use your head and be smart in whatever you do. Thanks!
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I am starting to feel sick and tired of my boyfriend. I also think he feels the same way, which he obviously denies.
We have been dating for 2 months. We semi-dated for 2 months before that. He cheated on me after a month and a half of dating. He lost his virginity to me, though, before that.
What should I do?
I would say that if your "sick of him" then it isn't healthy for either of you to continue this relationship. I would just tell him how you feel and try to stay friends. Dosen't sound like you have a healthy thing with this guy, though... and I would end it. Just my opinion. Hope I helped.
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My boyfriend and I havent been dating long but weve liked eachother for a while. Lately because of exams and stuff Ive been really busy and had to hang out with my guy friends more then him because they dont distract me and make me study, and I dont regret it because I just found out that I got a 96 on my french exam and french is my worst subject, so the studying is definately paying off.
The problem is I think my boyfriend is getting iratated because he keeps trying to make plans adn usually I have to break them off because of plans I had already made or because my parents cant get me a drive. He wanted to come over tommorow but he cant because his mom wont pick him up and my mother wont be in town and my dad cant drive much because of an injury he has. He was really dissapointed.
Now like I said before french is my worst subject and my oral french exam is coming up Monday, my two guy friends (the ones im always studynig and hanging out with) want me to come over tommorow and they are gonna give me the rides and stuff. I really need to study this but im afraid my boyfriend is going to get mad at me because I hang out with these guys a ton, ive even had 4 or so sleepovers with them but all we did was study adn listen to music, and my boyfriend was perfectly fine with it. I dont know how to tell him without him thinking something's up.
Any ideas?
Well, all I can really say here is that you need to be honest with him and tell him the truth. Just tell him exactly what you just wrote right here. Explain it like that and let him know that your school is really important and your getting good grades because of all of this studying. He should understand and... im glad yoru doing so well in school. *Smiles*.
However, since you are finding it so hard to spend time with your boyfriend, you might want to re-consider if your even ready for a relationship right now, because... it dosen't sound like you even have time for one, to be honest.
I know that juggling a social life and school and even work is REALLY hard, trust me... I know first hand, but once you get the hang of it, its not so bad. I would just think about that and... maybe... try to be better with time management or reconsider if you even have time to be with this guy. Thats prolly the best advice that I can give you. Best of luck. Let me know if you need anything else. Thanks.
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Theres this boy... he lives like 10,000 miles away from me. So i only see him during winter break. Actually, i just met him last year. But im going to see him again this year.
Hes the cutest boy ive ever met! And hes really nice. Im kinda good friends with his sister. We hang out during break and text somtimes but thats pretty much it.
One night during break we spent the whole time cuddling kinda. And ive never done that with any1 before and it was so sweet!
Hes in high school, and i start next year. We would never see eachother exept on break and maybe during the summertime.
Anyway, my question is... is the difference too much to flirt with him again this year? I was in 7th last year, and he was in 10th but i didnt notice what a hugee difference that was until now. And since im so much younger, any chance he likes me?
Im not talking about dating or anything. But just flirting.
Am i gonna look like a little kid flirting with him?
idk what goes on in an 11th grade boys mind! Please help
Well, I would say that since your so young... the age difference is DEF. a factor here. I wouldn't go into it expecting much... but... maybe with an open mind? If you think about flirting or... the prospect of flirting, then... it might be harder on you if you get there... and... it dosen't work out and he isnt into it again this year. However, no expectations.... no pain involved. Just relax, go there with an open mind... and have fun. Lol. Best of luck!
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I'm 16 I was dating this boy for a year and a half. I met this other boy and grew a crush on him. It was nothing big though just a new boy I started to hangout with. but we started spending a lot of time together and before I knew it out of the blue I brokeup with my boyfriend. In my mind and what I told everyone was that my boyfriend never did things for me and was selfish but truthfully I was selfish most of the time and I was a jealous freak although I did do alot for him and he seemed unappreciative. I kept that in my mind while I grew close to my new crush we started dating not too long after the breakup. We had sex too soon and I felt terrible for it. So I went to my ex and confessed it to him and appologized I was crying my heart out to him. I didnt know what to do so I went back to my ex for awhile because he forgave me. I ended upbreaking up with him again and started dating my other crush right away basically. I dont know if my feelings were influenced but I forced myself to forget about my ex while falling in love with this new boy. We have been dating on and off for awhile because my feelings have been like a rollercoaster. I really really adore him but its been 4 months since I broke up with my ex and today he said hes over me and hes no longer apart of my life. It did effect me. What should I do? My boyfriend is amazig and treats me better than anyone but my ex sits in the back of my head.
First off, your 16... so... this is perfectly normal. Haha. Trust me. I have been there. And, its not fun. I dated a guy for like 8 years on and off because I kept having small crushes for other guys and wanting to give them a chance. Here is the best advice that I can give you.
If you truly loved your ex boyfriend and were meant to be with him, then... you wouldn't be doing this to him and it wouldnt be so easy for you to break up with him. Obviously, he wasn't the one. However, you still going to have feelings for him. Trust me. I still have feelings for my ex of almost 8 years off and on, and... I have moved on COMPLETELY. The fact is, once someone is THAT big a part of your life, its hard to let that go. Just know that it is normal for him to be in the back of your mind. Its gonna happen. And, I think, you should just try to remind yourself why you left him and that your happy with this other guy.
And as far of your current boyfriend, its also normal to feel like your on an "emotional rollercoaster" seeing as you still feel for your ex, but you might want to be careful. Remember to stay committed and don't fall into the trap of running back to your ex. Guys have feeling too, and trust me, it sucks when you lose a grat guy because of your own actions.
Point is, this is normal. But, I think your right where you should be.... with the new guy.
Just be happy... and live it up!
If your ex is worth anything (And mine wasn't) then he will realize that you just did what you thought was right and he will want to be a part of your life (AS A FRIEND) again. Just give him time.
Best of luck!
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I was going out with this guy for 6months and he was my first serious boyfriend, tho he wasnt just a boyfriend he was my bestfriend, i then found out that he had cheated on me like a month ago, so i broke up with him, we were still meeting up, and we were acting jsut the same as usual and he keep saying how he loved me and i was his soulmate and he wuld do anything to get me back, i was jsut about ready to give it another go when i find out he has another girlfriend. It has emotionally killed me. I cant stop thikning about it, The injustice of it all makes me sick and i stil love him and cant move on.
can someone please tell me how to get over him?
I just answered a question very similar to this. Please read my answer. It should help, hun.
I know it hurts. Its a hard cycle to break.
Best of luck! Let me know if you need anything else.
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okay so my ex [the same guy who hurt me 2 times before/took my virginity/and so on] and I have been talking as friends he broke up with his ex [the one hes been going back in forth between me and her with] i was so happy!! you have no idea how much i love this guy but im afraid to love him cause idw to get hurt again [he said he would never hurt me again and that before he just wasnt sure but now he knows] i think he loves me i'm almost positive =] seriously but im still not sure i just dont want him to leave me for her again. i just want him to be the 'one' i told him i WILL NOT go out with him untill he knows what he wants but we're still talking [and kissing after skool] but we do everything on the down low cause i know everyone will be so dissapointed...im just still not sure if im doing the right thing by giving him another chance...i just dont wanna give up on something that might be meant to be
Hunni, this sounds exactly like me and... from experience... let me tell you. He needs time to figure himself out first. He isnt sure what he wants, and he is hurting you in the process.
I think it took me literally about 9 tries with a guy before I ended it, and... I still find it hard at times.
What you have to know is that if he truly loves you and it is "meant to be" then it will be safe for you to let him go, because... in the end, later on in life, it will come back to you.
I know this all sounds so "cliche", but its true.
My ex is now a Marine, and he still hasnt grown up enough to find out what/who he wants. Its pathetic. And, when guys get in this cycle its a crazy mess that you dont want to get involved it, and grankly, isnt worth fighting for until they come to their seneses.
So... take some time to yourself. Be happy with who you are... and let him go for a while.
The history is going to repeat itself as long as you continue to let him back in. You have to literally "break" the cycle.
I know it will hurt. Best of luck! Let me know if you need anything.
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i've liked this guy since i was in seventh grade & i'm a sophomore in highschool now; he's a bit older than me and my parents would kill me if they knew i was hanging out with him.
but i'd been friends with him since i was in 4th grade, and we've been keeping in touch since then.
so we hung out in secret twice, after the 2nd time he asked if i wanted to hook up with him... of course i said yes.
so afew weeks ago, he picked me up from a friend's house and i FINALLY hooked up with him, after all these years of liking him so so so much. he's all i would talk about, think about, and he was just my world. when he dropped me off we even kissed goodbye, too. afterward he said he really enjoyed it and was really glad it wasnt awkward. that just made me insanely happy right?
well after that, he stopped talking to me. we'd make small talk here and there, but nothing's been the same... he doesnt call me sweetheart or anything anymore:(
i even asked him if something was wrong and he totally denied it too. he said stuff like "i've been busy with school and work and everything" and that kind of thing. and after a bunch of one worded responses, he'd ignore me completely, and days would go by with no word from him
(sorry this is so long)
i've been a little stalkerish and he's been going about his normal life, which includes ignoring me now. what should i do? he's literally breaking my heart, i can't get over him i just see him as the perfect guy for me. . . and i'm not interested in anyone else at all. PLEASE help me i'm so sick of feeling depressed all the time.
I have to say that I completely agree with the person before me, and to top it off... I too have had this experience. I dates a guy for almost 8 years off and on... and finally... 8 years later... we had sex. And now... he goes WEEKS without even talking to me, and now its going on almost 3 weeks.
He is a marine, and he is TRULY busy... but make no mistake... if he wanted to make time for me, he could. Even if it is just a little.
Same goes for this guy. Im sorry to say.
Your best bet is to try to move on, hun. Im not saying its going to easy, cause.... its NOT. Trust me, I have been there. But, it gets easier with him and its their loss really.
No worries... everything will turn out ok, hun. I promise. Your still young. Live your life, and move on.
Message me if you need anything else. Best of luck!
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From Why so Dreamy?
I do look her in her eyes when she or I talk but then I look away. I do talk to her, but then I do get all chills all over my body when she looks at me or when I look at her when I talk to her.
In class I try my best to listen to the teacher but then the whole time I thinking about her and she is in the SAME class sitting next to me! And it’s hard to focus when she is there. is she wasn’t I would focus better but now that she is in the same class I get so nervous and get all red.
What should I do????
Sorry it took me so long to get to this question, hun. This sounds like TRUE infatuation. And, if you know this girl really well, maybe even love.
I would give it a shot. Ask her out or... at least talk to her and share your feelings. You never know, she may feel the same. I think its worth a true. Ya know, whats the worse that can happen? Right? CONGRATZ ON FINING SOMEONE SPECIAL ENOUGH TO CARE THAT DEEPLY ABOUT. It's a wonderful feeling, I know. Best of luck!
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ok so there is this guy I like and we are friends and I am friends with his older brother too. His older brother got a cell phone and we were texting. He said he liked me and he asked me if I liked him. I said I kind of do but I like your brother more. Then I realized that was so mean. So he got all mad and I texted him back and said I was so sorry and I hope we could just be friends he didn't text me back yet what should I do? Help
I don't think that was mean at all. It was honest. He should respect you for telling him the truth... even if it wasn't what he wanted to hear. You honestly did the right thing. Don't beat yourself up over it. He will accept it in time. Good for you for doing the right thing. Be proud hun! *Smiles*.
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From: What do you think?
Lara seems to be a little dreamy lately. Last night she was over at my dinner party I made for my friend Tiffany’s birthday. Lara talks to me for a while and I ask her to help me cut the chicken and then after she was done she sat at the bar of the kitchen. I started to cook the chicken and my mother helps me with the sauce. In the corner of my eye I see Lara staring ahead of the kitchen I felt like she was watching me, I turn around and she was focusing on some thing in the kitchen and she had that day dream face expression. At the dinner table Tiffany ask Lara if she is all right because she seems so quite than usual and she said in a dreamy tone “yeah I am just tired” but it seems like she was in a dreamy mood to me.
What do you think? And why was she like that?
Is it because of our conversation we had or what?
Well, hun, some people daydream about the people that they like. For instance, when I first met my ex boyfriend (before he and I ever dated), I used to think about him all the time and "daydream" about being with him. SHE MIGHT BE DOING THIS. And, if so, thats a good sign. Lol. *Smiles*. I think this is an imporivement from her just simply not talking to you.
That would prolly be my best guess as to what is going on with her. I certianly hoped you talked to her and I am glad things are looking up. Hang in there. She may be coming around! *Smiles*.
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From I dont know...part 2
I don’t know if this is all in my head but Lara seems different to me. She seems quite and shy around me. Usually she is very talkative. Last week we went to the movies and she hardly talked to me and she seems so distance away from me than usual. We joke around a little before the movie started but I am having a feeling she is shy and uncomfortable to be around me. When I talk to her she did talk to me back, then last night she called me on the phone and I was talking the whole time but she didn’t reasoned to me. I talk about the book she lean me to read and I wanted to talk about it but she didn’t respond. I didn’t know what was wrong she was the one who called me because she wanted to know more info about the birthday party we are having for a friend of ours (I told her about the info before the talk of the book). But it might be in my head I don’t know, what are the signs of shy body language?
Wow, thats pretty difficult, hun. I am not sure what to say here. I guess she might be acting uncomfortable around you because of your feelings for her. Or... maybe she has feelings for you. Who knows? That difficult. Wish I could help more. I guess... just try to talk to her about it. I dunno what else to do. Sorry hun! I will pray for you. I hope this situation gets better. I know how you feel.
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what do i do when the one i love is thinkin about leaving me cause she thinks im changin and shes not happy with me anymore i really love her and dont want to lose her. pls help me out
Well, first off. What did you do to make her want to leave you? Thats pretty important. Girls are pretty sensitive to certain things and get upset kind of easy. Also, you said that she thinks you are changin, and I know that for me, thats a BIG problem. You have to be yourself, no matter who you are around. Think about it. Are you treating her differently around others? If so, I would say that she has a right to think that you are "changin".
To answer your question, there really is nothing that you can do, but try to make up for whatever it is that you did and hope for the best. Girls get upset easily. Just talk to her and try to straighten it out. There isn't much else you can do. And if you lose her, all you can really do is accept it. Ya know? Best of luck!
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okayy i really need advice asap. okay so theres this girl who now goes to my school this year & shes a sweetheart and were friends. Were not like super close but i love her to death. So theres this guy at my school that is just gorgeous & i really like him. We hung out and all that & i really connected with him. Well when i came home i found out that the girl that i'm friends with went out with him for about a year off and on. She was upset with me and cried so muchh. Like she told me she doesn't want to be friends with me anymore cause it hurts her too much and she thinks i don't care about her. i talked to her and all that but she decided not to be friends. When one of my friends get mad at me, like everyone does and i'm so scared of that. I know your gonna say well then their not real friends but idk, just bare with me lol. anyways - Well the guy i like says he really likes me & don't even like his ex girlfriend anymore but shes still head over heels for him. I offered to stop talking to him and shes like NOO i don't wanna make your life shitty, please just get to know him & leave me out of it. I really don't know what to do. When i hung out with him the other dayy, i didn't wanna leave. Hes so cute & sweet and ahh i just like him alott. So what do i do? The girl i was friends with said shed get overr it eventually but i don't want the whole world hateing me because of this. For one its not their business and two, i can't stop who i likee even when i didn't know they datedd. i'm so shooken up over this situation. My best friend is also friends with this girl and i'm so afraid she`ll turn on me after she said she really wouldn't. I'm so scared. And i feel so bad that i did this to the girl but i don't know what to do. should i stop talking to him? should i just let her get used to it, or get over it ? Just give me advice on what you would do if you were in my place. thnk you so much.
Ok, first off of, yes... I am going to tell you that if someone would do that and just stop being your friend over you liking her EX boyfriend, even after you offered not to see him anymore, SHE ISN'T YOUR FRIEND. She says you don't care about her, yet... how much can she really care about you if she dosen't want you happy? You obviously care about her enough to consider her feelings. This really is HER problem at this point, not yours.
There is a reason for saying she isnt really a friend in the first place, its TRUE.
Honestly, if I were you, I would stay with the guy and stop worrying about what she thinks. You gave her a chance to tell you not to do it, and she didn't. So... go for it. Its up to her to deal with it. You deserve to happy and who is she to tell you otherwise? Ya know?
I think you have been MORE THAN considerate in this situation, and I don't think you need to worry. You will find better friends if this one don't come around. Just hang in there. And, in the meantime, make yourself happy. Hang on to this guy! You will be glad you did!
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This is the reason why i didnt ask her out...
what if me and lara go out, and then it doesnt go well and we break up and then our friendship is in danger!!!!
should i not be afriad and step up?
well, hun, I kinda anticipated that. And, I mean, it is something to worry about since you two have such a strong friendship. Hoowever, maybe you should give it a try and just make sure to tell eachother that if you break up, you will still be friends. I think that is important. And, if your friendship is as close as you say it is, then breaking up shouldn't affect it, either way. I honestly think you should give it a try hun. You never know, it could be worth it. *Smiles*.
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13/F Okay well I am with this AMAZING guy named "Stuart". He is sooo sweet and before we got together, we were best friends for about 9 months. Pretty much since I met him, we have had an instant connection like no other. I am closer to him than any other guy I have ever been with. He is just different, he makes me feel great. When I think about him or when im with him, I get goosebumps and butterflies and like this heartache runs from my neck all the way down to my feet. We can talk about ANYTHING and we are not afraid to be ourselves, we are practically best friends but just more flirty and stuff =P. Well that's enough talking about him. I am seriously always thinking about him, pretty much 24/7. Every time I think about him, I smile, everytime my phone goes off...I am wishing it's him. I am starting to think I am in love for the first time. But I have never been before so I am not sure what it feels like. Can any one try to explain what it feels like and if maybe I am?
And he already told me he is in love with me, I told him I might be too and kissed him (that was our first kiss together). What would be a cool way to tell him with out verbally saying it? Haha sorry, I have a probably with actually saying that kind of stuff =P
Thanks in advance!!
:D
Everyone did a good job at answering this. They are right. If you have to question if you are in love or not, then your probably NOT in love. Thats just the reality of the situation. When you are in love, you KNOW it. Haha.
It does sound like you have a good thing going here though. Im glad he makes you so happy. Just give it time. *Smiles*.
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lately right after i told you about that party i went to and met that brother of my sisters room mate you sound jealous. and you don’t know why you were but to ask you this, what is going on between us? is something on your mind? what is bothering you? i did tell you how i felt and it is not right to play with my mind. you seem like you are not respecting how i feel and i don’t like it. just tell me what is going on! its time for me to move on and now it seems like you don’t want me to and why is that? you have no idea what i am going through, if you want to know then ask!
if u does care about our friendship then please don’t ignore this.
friends share!
lara
ok well my reply is this... to me i don’t think its right to force someone into a relationship (even if you to did not talk much.) i don’t no if that’s how you saw it or not, but that is what i saw when you told me about it. and i did feel jealousy yes, i felt the same when you were going out with aaron and anthony.
i felt (for that split second) that if you did happen to get a boyfriend then we would not be as close of friends as we are now any more. i felt like i was falling behind in life. everyone seemed to be moving forward but me. and it’s not just you either.
i know you hate hearing about my family drama. but they have a part in it as well. you see my cousins are getting married... and there younger than we are!!!!! their ages range from 17 to 20. and when they talk about it i again feel stranded. it may sound stupid but that’s how i felt. i never meant for you to think i’m trying to play with your emotions.
if that’s not what you were looking for in a reply the e-mail me back ok?
talk to you later
chat room with me and jane
me: why do you think i am going to leave you behind?
lara: i don’t no really. it’s just a feeling i get some times, icy cold feeling
me: but i am not i mean i do sound like i want to move on but there were reasons why
me: but i not sure if i want to tell you why
lara: i guess i’m just afraid of what may happen when you move away
lara: we won’t get to hang out any more
me: this might shock you but i have to say this
me: okay the reason why i went out with anthony and aaron is because to get over u. i
hated myself and i wanted to die. i became depressed because of my stupid likings to you and i thought it will be the best to move away so you wont get in to my depression. i never wanted to tell you about it but i had to. i hid away from my problems and worry about everybody else but me. i don’t want to let go of you and the others and the only way to keep it strong is to always try to stay together
alee: i don’t have a choice i have to go but if i did have a choice i would stay. i don’t trust myself and i don’t care about myself. but people say you have to love yourself to have love share (something like that)
me: umm yeah that’s why sorry
lara: i guess i can sort of understand that
lara: i don’t want you 2 b depressed though
me: i can’t stop it
me: it won’t stop
lara: if you don’t mind me asking why do u like me?
lara: i’m nothing special
me: let’s see i ask myself that every day
me: the answer is i don’t know, i don’t know how it happened but it did. but i am attracted by smarts, mysterious and adventures personality and that’s what you are.
but i really can’t explain it, its hard to put into words.
me: that’s why i want to leave
lara: clear your head type of thing?
me: yeah that’s why i think
me: i got mad at you when you said you were mad when i told you about that guy i met. because i
don’t know if you liked me too and i didn’t want you to. i rather see you with someone else. but you said the reason why you got mad is because you didn’t want me to leave our friendship and focus on some guy
me: but i wont do that, hell i hardly pay attention to my last boyfriends i like to spend time with friends and family
me: r you still there? we can talk about something else if you want
lara: yea i’m getting ready 4 beds. i got work 2 marrow
me:can i ask you something?
lara:yep
me:did you wanted a boyfriend? because it souned like you did on your reply.
lara:no not really
the rest of the chat was about work, and thats was it.
i send this just to show you our chat about the situation
do you think she likes me or cares for our friendship?
or both?
Well hun, I def. think that she cares for your friendship. Thats a given. But, I am not sure if she likes you the same way you like her or not. She dosen't really even hit at it either way. Im sorry. Im really not sure.
I am glad that you two are talking about it, thought. And I really do think it will work out for hte best, in the end! *Smiles*.
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