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I Want to make it Up To Him. But I dont Think I Can
My boyfriend and I havent been dating long but weve liked eachother for a while. Lately because of exams and stuff Ive been really busy and had to hang out with my guy friends more then him because they dont distract me and make me study, and I dont regret it because I just found out that I got a 96 on my french exam and french is my worst subject, so the studying is definately paying off.
The problem is I think my boyfriend is getting iratated because he keeps trying to make plans adn usually I have to break them off because of plans I had already made or because my parents cant get me a drive. He wanted to come over tommorow but he cant because his mom wont pick him up and my mother wont be in town and my dad cant drive much because of an injury he has. He was really dissapointed.
Now like I said before french is my worst subject and my oral french exam is coming up Monday, my two guy friends (the ones im always studynig and hanging out with) want me to come over tommorow and they are gonna give me the rides and stuff. I really need to study this but im afraid my boyfriend is going to get mad at me because I hang out with these guys a ton, ive even had 4 or so sleepovers with them but all we did was study adn listen to music, and my boyfriend was perfectly fine with it. I dont know how to tell him without him thinking something's up.
Any ideas?
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If your boyfriend trusts you he will understand if he cares about you just a little he will understand that you want to get a good grade on your exam if he gets angry then he has some of his own problems and you don't need someone like that.... judging by your question, you have your priorities straight i'm not sure if you are in highschool or in college but either way you are on the right track by caring about your grades and doing what you are supposed to be doing.My advice is that If he gets mad explain to him that your grades are really important to you and if he has a hard time understanding that then you shouldn't see each other anymore.
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Well, all I can really say here is that you need to be honest with him and tell him the truth. Just tell him exactly what you just wrote right here. Explain it like that and let him know that your school is really important and your getting good grades because of all of this studying. He should understand and... im glad yoru doing so well in school. *Smiles*.
However, since you are finding it so hard to spend time with your boyfriend, you might want to re-consider if your even ready for a relationship right now, because... it dosen't sound like you even have time for one, to be honest.
I know that juggling a social life and school and even work is REALLY hard, trust me... I know first hand, but once you get the hang of it, its not so bad. I would just think about that and... maybe... try to be better with time management or reconsider if you even have time to be with this guy. Thats prolly the best advice that I can give you. Best of luck. Let me know if you need anything else. Thanks.
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