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My name is Jessica. I'm 15 years old, and I live in M`T0WN, Delaware. I'm now a sophmore in Highschool and play field hockey. You could say I'm a total picture whore. I don't watch tv that often, but when I do, I watch The Hills, Degrassi, Friends and Big Brother. I love watching movies. I could watch Mean Girls, 50 First Dates, and Titanic over and over again. I listen to music constantly. My fave is Country. But I'll listen to anything from rap to rock (like Bon Jovi & Aerosmith.


When it comes to giving advice, I'm very honest, and sweet. I'm great with fashion, love, and friendship questions. But I can help with anything. I love helping people, so if you need anything.. just ask.


L0VE IT
- makeup
- boys
- friends
- family
- beachhh
- pageants
- tanning
- fishing
- dirt bike riding
- getting all dressed up


HATE IT
- rude people
- petty girls
- conceited people
- liers
- fake people
- drama
- backstabbers


*I'm always online so feel free to IM me anytime.

advice

Okay, so I'm in love with this guy named ross, and im not sure if i should hook up with other people to see if it makes him jealous or just hook up with nobody because i only want him. it makes me feel bad when i hook up with other guys bc it makes me want ross more but i figured he might want me more if i did hook up with other guys, and ive tried to before adn it didnt seem to work but idk i think should keep trying.

-- Danielle (on kellys username)

Don't hook up with other guys. It will only make him think you're a slut. Trust me, it happened to me. I liked this guy and he kinda liked me back. So I flirted with other guys to see if he got jealous nut it totally turned him off because he thought that if i was all over other guys now, how would i be when we went out.
So, just stick with Ross.

P.S. no guy wants a long relationship with a girl who has "been around the block"

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I'm a 15 year old girl and I know everyone who answers me is going to tell me that love doesn't exist at 15, so I'm going to say, I " like " this guy named Jon. We went out and my friend gave me this birthday present and Jon was like " Where did you get it" and I said " Brad gave it to me for my birthday" and Jon told me to give it back. Jon is very controlling and wont let me get a word in when he's in his controlling moods. I told him I wasn't going to give the present back because it's rude and Brad might think I don't like it and I do. When I said I wouldn't give it back he got mad and of course left me. I asked him later why he even loved me and he just said " I don't, bye. " I was really hurt and I cried for 3 hours. My friends cheered me up for that moment but I'm still upset. What should I do? Thanks in advance.

He was much too controlling. The best thing to do would be let it go, and move on. (Though I know that's hard to do when you "like" someone.)
There's plenty more guys out there that are less controlling, so go get `em.

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okay I am not "boy crazy" but like i have been having short like feelings of being in love with a certain guy then it would fade then a new one would start but iw would be for atleast a month or more way more mostly, bu is that normal becuase it seems a little weird its like i am obsessed and they are all i can think about so is it

i hope you can help me

thnx

I used to be like that.
If you're 13, then its normal because you're most likely going through puberty and boys are always running through your mind.
So don't worry, it'll probably fade once you get out of puberty.

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My wife and I have been married for 13 years. I'm 39 and she's 40 and we've been together since i was 22 and she was 23. Lately, she's been down and I'd like to put a letter from a "secret admirer(me)" in her car and see if that perks her up. Ideally, I'd put an email address in it and see if she would contact me at it. Does anyone here have any good ideas for a secret admirer letter or can someone draft one up for me? I wanted to make it seem like it's from a local man that thinks she's beautiful. I can be reached at ericmsdw2005@yahoo.com

thank you!

To me, it sounds like you're testing your wife to see if she contacts this man.
However, I'm happy that you want to uplift your wife, but I don't think this is the way to go. I think you should, in your own words, write her a love letter explaining all the things you love and admire about her.

Hope this Helps!

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ok im 13/f and well almost a year ago from now i met this boy! oo ik its going to get interesting. Well lets call him boy there easy enough, any ways i met him in religion and church i liked him rite away. we have been out 1 month b4 and now 2 months so we have been out enough said, i think i really like him a lotttttt. so then i was thinking i met him in church church church!! church idk im not sure but church, god do you think that god had any thing to do with us being together i mean i think we are perfect together! i mean god works in mysterious ways you know? so did he or is that just me thinking that should i ask the preist?

Actually the same thing happened to me. I really like this guy in my church. And I was thinking, maybe we're like meant for each other. We obviously have a lot in common since we go to the same church. And God does work in mysterious ways.
I don't think you should get your preist involved, just keep talking to this boy and get to know him and take things from there. Maybe one day you'll end up marrying him!

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My boyfriend tends to lie to me about stupid things..like money. If he has 100 bucks he tells me he only has 50 and such. And I have caught him in his lies so many times. He told me that he woul d stop because he didn't know that i cared that he lied about stupid stuff like that.But in my opinion if he lies to me about small things than he's lied to me about more important things.What should I do to get it through his head that I don't appreciate him lying to me all the time.

I agree with you, if he is lying to you about small things, he has most likely lied to you about more important things.
Just keep reminding him that you don't appreciate his lying. If he doesn't stop, I would advise you to break up with him because you never know what he could lie about in the future.

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is love real or possible at 14?

I don't think its possible to love at only 14. You're so young, you need to explore other guys. How will you know which one is the best if you havent sampled a few other ones?
However, some people find their true love at 14. But its VERY rare.

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There is never nothing to talk about, what should i talk about to a girl. Like, i dont want to talk sports or anything like i do with my friends, but i cant talk like fashion or anything, so what should i talk about or how should i spark a conversation?

Just ask her whats up, or whats she doin this weekend. Or, just ask her to hang out at lunch, ya never know where things can go from there. You might also might want to get her a little bit, ask her what her interests are.. then talk about them!
Hope I helped
if ya need anything else.. i.m me @ sunsetxodreams

LiDdLe_JeSsiCa

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hey jessica, my question is that i have this problem with this girl at school, by the way im almost 15/and a a male, okay, well ive proberly liked her for almost a year now, and she knows i do. We would flirt everyday iv proberly asked her out plenty of times n she would always says no, but alot of her freinds tell me that she likes me and and with they way she flirts i would believe them.now me n her are really close, and so are our family's.and a couple of moths ago i had her rate me and she said 7 out of 10 being good, is that a good????, well is there any way we could go out, i mean i really Love her, and i knw LOve is a strong word but i think its heading there. how could i tell if she reli liked me the way i like her????. plz help jessica i would really appreciatte it!!!
-a fren

Well, if her friends say she does, then she probably does. A girl shares everything with her friends so if anybody would know who she liked.. they would. Anyway, when you ask her out, maybe she just likes it when you two flirt and she proabably likes it when you keep coming back for more. She might just be afraid that if you two go out and then you break up, you wont flirt with her anymore. And girls like it when guys flirt with them, it makes them feel all pretty. So, she might be scared that that feeling might go away. Anyway, 7 out of a 10 is pretty good. And, I dont think there is any way you could go out. But who knows, just keep in touch with her. She might just happen to start liking you.
P.S. a way you could tell if she really likes you is that if she calls you, or if she flirts a lot with you and giggles when you talk to her. Those are just a few ways.
Hope I helped!
if ya need anymore help, i.m me @ SunsetxoDreAms

LiDdLe_JeSsica

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Theres a girl, but she already has a BF who i hate but im not gonna do nuttin about it cuz then i have no chance, but like what are sum signs that she likes me. Is there any signs from her friends or anything that could help me get a clue.

You could ask her friends if she likes you. However, dont get in the way of her and her boyfriend because then you will definitly have no chance! So, when you talk to this girl, if she looks you in the eye or if she sounds like shes very interested in what you are saying, thats a clue that she probably likes you. One other way to find out if a girl likes you is if she flirts a lot (sways her hair) when you and her talk or if she giggles a lot, thats a sign! So, go talk to her and see if she shows any of these signs.
Hope I helped

LiDdLe_JeSsiCa

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i really really lyke somone one but i dont kno if he lykes me and im to shy to find out so what do i do?

Maybe you could get someone to ask around and find out if he likes you. But, the only way to find out for yourself is to get over your shyness! Just go up to him and start talking, whats the worst that can happen? Be confident. You never know, even if he doesnt like you now...the more you talk to him, he might start to like you!
Hope I helped!

LiDdLe_JeSsiCa

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Im 13/m and how would i know if a girl the same age likes me or not with out telling me straight up?

Some ways to tell if a girl likes you is if she flirts a lot with you, or if she laughs a lot when she talks to you. When I like a guy and I don't want to tell him straight up, thats basically what I do to give him a hint that I like him.
Hope I helped!

LiDdLe_JeSsiCa

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how do u get a girl to want to go out with you?

You can't GET a girl to go out with you. If she doesnt like you, then she doesnt like you. And if she does, thats great. But still.. you can try to get her to like you by flirting. Yes, guys can flirt too. lol. s0.just flirt, and get to know her a little better. Once she gets to know you, she might start to like you because of who you really are. But if she dont.. then you have to just live with that.
Hope I helped!
if ya need nething else.. i/m me at SunSetXoDreAms

LiDdLe_JeSsiCa

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Well.....me and my friend like the same guy.I'v like him since i was little and he likes me to.But then there my friend she likes him.And I dont know what to do cause me and this boy want to go out but then there my friend.What should i do about this cause i dont want to lose a friend but i want to go out wit this boy.What should i do?


-Amanda Marie

What I would do is talk to your friend about this. Ask her if it would be OK if you went out with this boy since he likes YOU not HER. Hopefully she'll understand. But if she doesnt, then do whatever you feel is best. If you think this fling with this boy will work, then go for it. But if she cant handle you going out with this boy, then thats her problem. Remind her that if you and this boy go out, she'll get to spend time with him also!
Hope I helped! rate please

LiDdLe_JeSsiCa

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okay well me and my boyfriend were doing great. then all of a sudden he stopped calling like he used to call everyday...now he barely calls at all. i thought it was maybe because i usually dont call him so i started callin him but hes just like kinda brushing me off. we planned to go to a halloween haunt thingy this year and him and his friends planned to go this frieday (tonite) and theyve been planing it for 2wks and i was at his house and all of a sudden they started talking about how it was gonna be so fun i was like where r u goin? he was like OH HALLOWEEN HAUNT...i was like oh...and he was like ya do u wanna come i was like why didnt u ask me sooner? HE SED HE "FORGOT"....also when i went to his house he was actin kinda rude..just kinda ignorin me and stuff....what does this all mean? how do i bring it up when he calls me n stuff...he called me last nite and i acted like kinda not myself like kinda sad n he didnt ask wats wrong or nothing....so how can i bring it up n tell him? is he cheatin....im really sad...=(

Your boyfriend just probably needs a little space. When he didn't ask you to go to the Halloween Haunt on Friday, he probably just needed a night out with the guys. So, when he asked you when you were over his house, he probably just didnt want to be rude in front of everyone. So, just let it chill for a while. I'm sure everything will pick up right where it started

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Hey*
Ok I am 14/f and my boyfriend and I have been going out for like 3 weeks now and he's great but lately we have been gettin into little fights. Like the other I was on AIM and my b/f and I werent really talkin that much... so I was talkin to my best friend tony... well my b/f got all mad and he says I dont ever talk to him and we made up but i really think that he is still mad... what should I do... I will rate high and I will take n e answers???
Thanks!

0k. well if your boyfrend cant handle you talking to other guys, maybe hes just not worth it. You should want a man that wont get all jealous whenever you talk to other guys! S0o. maybe talk to him and tell him to not get so upset. tell him how much u like him and that its not like your flirting with all these other guys. maybe he'll understand

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