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Okay so my boyfriend and I were the perfect couple always g0ot along and the odd time had arguments. Now, he's been acting really differently towards me as if he loves me less and it's freaking me out. I think it might have something to do with that he found out I danced with someone at a party a long time ago but yeah:( I need help I really want too be with him but is that what's best? thank you so much :) btw, I'm 15 and he's 16 (link)
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The only way to find out whats bothering him is by asking him and telling him how you feel. Did he find out from you that you danced with another guy or somone else ? That can alter how someone feels about the situation. Were you guys together when it happend or seprate ? Best way to go in my opinion is just try and talk to him about it. Maybe he feels like you care less because you danced with another guy ?
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Alright, well, my girlfriend broke up with me, but says she wants to be friends, and that the reason she broke up with me was because she wasnt ready for a relationship yet she was the one that asked me out!!! To say the least Im confused and wondering if she is being real or if she doesnt want to let go of the single life, hooking up whenever you feel like (link)
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She wants to keep you around but still doesnt still wants to be able to do whatever she wants. Maybe she is trying to keep her options open. Or she wants to make sure youll be there when she is ready for a relationship. Youll never now unless you ask. And still after that You may never know the real reasons. My advice is dont wait around for someone who doesnt want to be with you , You might miss Out on sombody else who's great.
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Okay, about a year ago after my boyfriend and I had been going out for 3 month, he borke up with me for absolutly no reason. I was so sad. It took me about 3-4 months to get over it. But now, amost 1 year later, I still can't trust any of the guys who ask me out. I'm afraid they'll do what my ex-boyfriend did to me, just leave me standing there. How do I get over this feeling??? (link)
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i kno exactly how you feel. Before dateing a guy try and get to know him first.
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idiot! i just talked to my old-crush online, and i have this weird feeling now. like i hate him. im bitter, i think. ugh! i wrote him an email a while ago, and now i asked him howcome he never answered? (it was just a polite email, like "hey its been a while, how's life?") and he was really rude about it!! and then we kept talking, and got into a discussion.. nd after a while he said "you know what, im not in the mood to talk to you to be honest" and he was just.. a complete jerk. so i was like "whatever dude, bye" and he said "bye bye now" and now we're both online, not talking to eachother, and im staring at his screenname with.. anger, i think. im not sure what it is i feel but i dont like it. i hate him, i hate myself. i feel so inferior now, just help me please! what do i do? (link)
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Dont let a guy make you feel this way. If he didnt want to talk to you then thats his loss. You probally feel this way because you might still have feelings for him. Or you were hopeing he still cared. Or maybe you just hated he was a dick. Just dont let it get to you. guys are jerks.
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hey i really need advice, pleeeaase help me.
Im in 9th grade and there is this guy that i really like and hes in 12th grade :/. he might like me but im not sure, i danced with him at the dance and stuff and people got really jelouse. my parents said i have no chance with him cause hes a lot older and they say he just wants me for sex.it just really stinks cause i really like him. what should i do?
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14 and 18 is fine.People need to grow up and realie age is just a number, and if you guys really like eachother then someone calling him a loser shouldnt irrate him. But Get to know him first, dont listen to anyones shit. i know a 14 year old with an 18 year old they have been together for about 7 months. and there perfect. so yes go for it, just dont be easy.
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im 15 year old girl goin out with a 17 year old guy. we've been going out for 7 months and we are really close to each other and he's the first guy ive ever really been able to trust. heres the thing though, he has a seasonal job at a haunted house and the people that go to the haunted house are all like girls that hit on the guys that work there and i dont know i feel really insecure about him working there. and i mean its not obvious that those are the type of the people that go but when i visited him i saw a lot of the girls hitting on guys and he was telling me about how all these girls ask for his phone number and press up against him and flirt with him. i just feel really uncomfortable about it but he tells me he feels weird about it too and he kind of wants to quit because of it. and i totally want him to but then again he always told me about how we was looking forward to working there again because hes been working there for 3 years. so should i just trust him to do the right thing or complain about it? (link)
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i think you should trust him. For soem comfort talk to him about this, or after he gets back from work ask him how it went and stuff.
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i am 13 and the kid i like is 17 his name is will. we made out about 3 months ago. it was just a one night stand. =/ but ever scine then i can never stop thinking about him. like ill just be in class and ill day dream about him. at first i thought ill get over it. but it had been 3 months and i still havent. i only see him once every 2 weeks. whenever i see him i run up to him and hug him so tight. and some times he sleeps at my friends house with me. but latly he has been mean to me. i didnt do anything. i just want to stop thinking about him. anyone have any advice?
-confused. (link)
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to the girl two down from this age is just a number ''hunny''
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so i had this boyfriend that i met through my bestfriend. they had a fling. but it ended. and he turned to me. i really actually grew to love him. but we broke up for a week. that is when i found out that my "bestfriend" asked him back out. and he couldnt say no. i felt like it was because im terrribly ugly or something. because shes kinda sorta pretty. then he dumped her for me. and we went out for about a month. keep in mind hes 2 years older than me. i thought we were really happy. like hes really sweet. he told me that he wanted to marry me and actually proposed(with a ring from a little toy dispencer it was so effing cute!) he said that he planned on spending the rest of his life with me. and he wanted to have kids with me. but all of a sudde a couple of days ago, he said that he tought that we needed a break. but this isnt a break up. like he tells me that he loves me still. and that we will bw together again. but he keeps talking to my "bestfriend". like telling her that he loves her too. and stupid shit like that too. but he told me today that he wants me to wait for him. like wait a week for him to collect his thoughts. but i dont know if i can wait. what should i do? advice would be greatly appreciated. im 14/f
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First off,from what i read hes toying with both of your guyses heart.My opoin is if you think its worth waiting for then wait, But i know i wouldnt wait for a guy who was in ''love'' or so he tells her with my best friend.Second of all, your friend should have never asked him out that one time,if she knew you liked him, and dont get down on yourself because a stupid boy is interested in another girl.Hope i helped. Oh and heres a quote
'' If hes stupid enough to walk away, Be smart enough to let him ''
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So I thought I liked the guy and he sent me a note saying he wants to get to know me because he likes me and I sent him a note back saying I would like to get to know him to. Im not so sure I like him anymore because when ever hes around I feel REALLY nervouse so nervous I cant concentrate on my work or eat. When im around other guys I like im not nervous. I try to avoid him and hes always staring at me and stuff and asked for my number but im starting to think I dont like him anymore. Im in 8th grade and never had a boyfriend and im really ok with that. Actually I love being single and I dont think im ready to have a boyfriend. Is that a bad thing? I think hes going to ask me out soon but I dont want to make him feel bad and I have no clue what to do. And I like this other guy and I liked him for a long time and I still like him better than the guy thats going to ask me out. I dont feel nervous around him or anything. But I like being single because I dont feel all nervous. Is this dumb of me? Please help. I dont want to go out with the other guy now. (link)
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That or just tell him how you feel. If you think theres a part of you that likes him then give him a chance.
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So i have this friend and she's a really good friend and i like her but she doesnt feel the same way back and i basically gave up on her for a while but for some reason i think about her all the time and i still feel that i want to be with hershould i just forget about her or keep trying or what?
by the way i'm used to hooking other people up and giving them advice that usually works but when it comes to myself i'm clueless (link)
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this might sound lame or might now even help but.. im tring.. Heres a quote... ''Go after what you want and if it doesnt want you back, so be it. it doesnt diserve you anyways. ''
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ok, so all my friends have boyfriends agian and i am left out here with nobody, i know i dont need a b/f to be happpy but i still feel lonley... and i am still especially hurt from my friend having the guy i liked, she is with him. I know their relationship prolly won't last but how can you tell? I know i CAN'T DEPEND on that possibility, but sometimes i can't help but wonder about the "what if" he brakes up with her and goes out with me possibily? i still dont want to move on, i still like him. please help, thanks (link)
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Well i dont think you should feel lonely at all. Maybe you feel left out but just think your single and you can flirt with ANY guy you want to =]. And that guy you this might sound low and mean you could always try and steal him from your friend sence she backstab you in the first place and got with him. Or even if your dont want to move on, you can just find a different guy for now. =] Hope i helped.
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Well,today this guy I liked came up to me and said you sure are quite today..and i like this guy but im not to sure if he likes me he looks at me sometimes...but the think is im nervous to talk to him im afaird ill say something stupid so how do i try to get to know him better?? (link)
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Well if your shy at talking to someone, you could ask him if he has an email or a screenname because it is much easier to talk to someone over the computer. Or You could just start out with small talk like hey whats up? and then genrally try and get to know him better. Before you talk to hm take a deep breathe and relax, just be yourself . Hope i hlped
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Hey guys.
ok, well I have a best friend. me and him are very close and would do anything for eachother. we go to school together now and talk non-stop. lately though since we go to the same school he would say that he wanted to be with one of my friends.. it's kinda akward to me because he is my best friend and i don't know it's just really weird to me. i don't want to loose him. he wants me to hook him up and i think it's just.. idk weird. what do you think it is? and what should i do? thanks. (link)
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I think you might be scared of looseing your friend to your other friend. Wich is normal. But you should just talk your best friend and tell him how you feel about the situation and most likely he'll understand, and let him know you dont want his relationship with another girl to become between your guy's friendship. Also, i think you should try and hook him up only because hes your friend and friends do each other favors. Hope i helped..
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lats year i got all a's and b's then 2,3,4th quarter i got a girlfriend and my grades dropped signinficantly help (link)
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i know where you stand at. I had good grades and when i started dateing this guy they dropped. Its a normal thing its probally because most of your focus is on this one person. What you should do is make some time for yourself so you can study. Maybe even set up a study date with your girlfriend. My boyfriend found out my grades were dropping and he wanted to help so maybe your girlfriend will want to help. Hope i helped?
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okay so see i have this boyfriend and he lives like 3 blocks away and i just met him 3 months ago and we've been going out for over a month. See he's about 2 years older than me but is in just one grade ahead of me and he's been going to a privaate school his whole life soo he doesn't really know people that go to the local school. well he's really hott so a ton of girls want to hang out with him soo he's hangs out with some but also tries to hang out with me every day. on his AIM profile it's says "oliva i miss you soo much hopefully i'll see you this weekend it's been so hard without you (link)
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Well he probally is expeirenceing new things and makeing new friends.And from what you said baout him ebing in a private school he might not have any experience or learning with girls, feelings,and getting hurt. so he still has alot to learn about right and wrongina relationship. if you want a seroius relationship i dont think hes the one. But you should tell him straight up if your trying to be with other girls this cant go on any longer & if he thinks theres no problem and doesnt care i dont think hes worth it.But you should give it some time, try and hangout with him when hes with these other girls. this might sound corny but just follow what your heart it telling you. hope i helped.
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My problem is my boyfried has been smoking pot for about 5 years now, and i am having trouble dealing with his habit. He does not get high around me or expose me to it. He only does it once and month because we came up with a compromise that we can both live with while i go away to school.
Though he insists in complaining to no end about it. He isn't addicted but he feels it is "apart of who he is as a person" which i think it bullshit. However when i express how it makes me feel to him he says that i shouldn't feel like it's my fault because it is his problem.
I can't get married to him he is is still smoking pot years later you know? I just want him to stop then we wouldn't fight about it so much. I'm sick of just dealing with it i want it gone all of it and i don't want him to ever touch it again! I'm only 19 years old but I want to spend the rest of my life with him but i can't do that if he is still getting high. (link)
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Well you should sit him down, and tell him how you feel and how it is can and will mess up your guy's furture together.Tell him he should be willing to sacrifise something so little for your guyses relationship. Or even suggest him to find ways to quit like smokeing every once every 2 months and then 1 every 3 months ect. Hope i helped
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ok whats the difference between making out and french kissing?...i always thought they were the same thing...thanks (link)
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they are the same thing
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ok im 14/female and i have a boy friend who i love, but in the past i have been cheeted on alot and one of the prople who my boys friends cheeted onmy with was my best friends sister, whome i dispize at the moment, because she is flirting with my boy friend sooo much and it hurts and every thing cuz she was my friend and every thing, ok but like a yesterday my boy friends gave her one of his shirts, a really nice one that costed him like 50 dolloars and when i asked him about it he said it was no big deal and that he just didnt want it any more, and since i love him i decided fine w/e ill belive him, but i know that him givin that gurl a shirt makes her feel like he is interested, and now my boyfriednd told his sister is i cant trust him and if i keep on askin stuff like if in cheeting on him he will break up with me and i just really love him but i dontknow i just have trust issues cuz i never had a really good relation ship with anyone, so my question is basicly what would you do if you were in my shoes?? i talked to my best friends sister abou it and thay didnt help, plus she made me feel like i was being stupid and that i should trust her and it made me feel bad, and i dont wanna keep asking my boy friend stuff anf have him get mad at me... so what should i do??
signed, confused in love (link)
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well try and trust him, but i kno my boyfriend wouldnt give a girl his shirt.So maybe thats a sighn but its good to ask questions so keep asking them and if he gets a,md just say its because i care. Try to be less attachted to him. If he does cheat hes not worth it & dumb him. But if he doesnt then you know he cares, it may be hard but just stay with him untill somethgns happens
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Everytime I get a boyfriend I blow it. I hate drama but I always seem to start it. Like my boyfriend of a month I started a fight and told him I don't want to kiss him. He thought I didn't love him so we broke up. I really wanted to kiss him but I'm always starting drama. And now my new boyfriend he said I gotta go "love you" and I didn't say anything back. I really do love him but I don't know why I LIKE making people mad at me. And it ALWAYS leads to a break up. I get boys so pissed off. What can I do so I start acting mature and not start fights with my boyfriends and stop always making them mad? (link)
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i would think about ur boyfriends feeligns before you say anythign. treat them how you want to be treated
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funny thing happened, i was at a con. in the dealers room and this guy came up and started to hit on me, and than when he found out that i had a girlfriend it was aquwered, but he is nice and very cute soo i gave him me number and i hope we can hang out... funny thing is when eh started ti hit on me my heart started to race, i'm soo confused, i never had anyone hit on my before, it was very nice, and i could tell that he really liked me, i don't know what to do, you know, i have been wiht my girlfriend for 2 years now, but it's like well you know how she is, not romatci and all that other shit...i just don't know what to do, i love my girlfriend, but when i talked to him, i get a more intesn felling than i do when i'm with my girlfriend, yes i'm bi and so is she, can anyone help, it seems i have feeling for him and her and both are strong, but i have had some problems with her, but i'm her first boyfriend soo it's not all her fult, she does not know what to do. so like i said should i stay with her or go after him, though sometime when i'm with my girlfrined, i don't know if i'm with her just to make her happy and at the cost of my own happyness, anyone please help
p.s. see my other question to better under stand what i have been thoug when i'm with her (link)
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some advice, dont leave the one you love for the one you like, you might regret it
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