funny thing happened, i was at a con. in the dealers room and this guy came up and started to hit on me, and than when he found out that i had a girlfriend it was aquwered, but he is nice and very cute soo i gave him me number and i hope we can hang out... funny thing is when eh started ti hit on me my heart started to race, i'm soo confused, i never had anyone hit on my before, it was very nice, and i could tell that he really liked me, i don't know what to do, you know, i have been wiht my girlfriend for 2 years now, but it's like well you know how she is, not romatci and all that other shit...i just don't know what to do, i love my girlfriend, but when i talked to him, i get a more intesn felling than i do when i'm with my girlfriend, yes i'm bi and so is she, can anyone help, it seems i have feeling for him and her and both are strong, but i have had some problems with her, but i'm her first boyfriend soo it's not all her fult, she does not know what to do. so like i said should i stay with her or go after him, though sometime when i'm with my girlfrined, i don't know if i'm with her just to make her happy and at the cost of my own happyness, anyone please help
p.s. see my other question to better under stand what i have been thoug when i'm with her
bigboy13 answered Sunday August 6 2006, 11:38 pm: i think he may be just a crush. some people tend to get bored with their spouces if they have dated them a wile and want to explore oter things. what i would do is become his friend first and get to know him. alot of people act differently when their first getting to know people they like, and you'd probably be upset with yourself if you brake up with your girl and find out he's a dud so i'd be his friend first and see if it could work out.
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