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confused
So I thought I liked the guy and he sent me a note saying he wants to get to know me because he likes me and I sent him a note back saying I would like to get to know him to. Im not so sure I like him anymore because when ever hes around I feel REALLY nervouse so nervous I cant concentrate on my work or eat. When im around other guys I like im not nervous. I try to avoid him and hes always staring at me and stuff and asked for my number but im starting to think I dont like him anymore. Im in 8th grade and never had a boyfriend and im really ok with that. Actually I love being single and I dont think im ready to have a boyfriend. Is that a bad thing? I think hes going to ask me out soon but I dont want to make him feel bad and I have no clue what to do. And I like this other guy and I liked him for a long time and I still like him better than the guy thats going to ask me out. I dont feel nervous around him or anything. But I like being single because I dont feel all nervous. Is this dumb of me? Please help. I dont want to go out with the other guy now.
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if you dont want to go out with him, dont go out with him. you seem like your not ready for a boyfriend yet, and you love being single so why change when you dont even want too? if and when he asks you out just say you just want to be friends, and sure he may get upset and stuff but he's probably going to get rejected again anyways, so he should get used to it. if you continue to be nervous around him maybe you should tell him to leave you alone. you dont have to tell him in person, you can do it through a note, over the phone, or on the computer. no offense but he sounds like a clinger. and as for the other guy, if you like him enough to want him to be your boyfriend, ask him out and if he says no its going to be pretty devestating (especially if you do it in person) but you have to move on. maybe ask him in a month if you still like him. if he says yes then, congratulations you got yourself your first boyfriend. however, it seems like you want to stay single. i think you should go with your gut. that might seem like a "dead-end answer" but its not you just have to search deep within yourself and see if your ready or not.
oh its definitley not dumb of you.
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That or just tell him how you feel. If you think theres a part of you that likes him then give him a chance.
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Firstly, playing with peoples emotions is not a kind thing to do. Even though I think its wrong, I do understand your position
and have learned things from experience. If you don't think your ready for a boyfriend, then don't date anyone, that includes the guy you've liked for a long time. I know that your young and you don't know what is best. But that's why I'm here. If you truly like the long-term guy then you should date him. But remember your hurting someone else's feelings, he's probably as inexperienced as you. I suggest you follow your heart. If you need anything else, don't be afraid to ask.
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