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my boy friend,
ok im 14/female and i have a boy friend who i love, but in the past i have been cheeted on alot and one of the prople who my boys friends cheeted onmy with was my best friends sister, whome i dispize at the moment, because she is flirting with my boy friend sooo much and it hurts and every thing cuz she was my friend and every thing, ok but like a yesterday my boy friends gave her one of his shirts, a really nice one that costed him like 50 dolloars and when i asked him about it he said it was no big deal and that he just didnt want it any more, and since i love him i decided fine w/e ill belive him, but i know that him givin that gurl a shirt makes her feel like he is interested, and now my boyfriednd told his sister is i cant trust him and if i keep on askin stuff like if in cheeting on him he will break up with me and i just really love him but i dontknow i just have trust issues cuz i never had a really good relation ship with anyone, so my question is basicly what would you do if you were in my shoes?? i talked to my best friends sister abou it and thay didnt help, plus she made me feel like i was being stupid and that i should trust her and it made me feel bad, and i dont wanna keep asking my boy friend stuff anf have him get mad at me... so what should i do??
signed, confused in love
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well try and trust him, but i kno my boyfriend wouldnt give a girl his shirt.So maybe thats a sighn but its good to ask questions so keep asking them and if he gets a,md just say its because i care. Try to be less attachted to him. If he does cheat hes not worth it & dumb him. But if he doesnt then you know he cares, it may be hard but just stay with him untill somethgns happens
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look, why would he give her his shirt that cost $50 if he "didnt want it anymore"?? wouldn't he give it to you?? do yourself a favor & talk to him about it. i don't know him myself, but i really do think he's lying. you can't have a bf that gets mad at you for something like that. if you stay with him [its your decision] & he does cheat on you, you'll feel worse & you would've wasted your time. seriously, there's a lot better guys out there for you & if he doesn't want to treat you that way, you should find someone that will. you seem like a good person dealing with it maturely but really, tell him. he shouldn't get mad at you for this & if he does then you should break up with him.
-hope that helped!♥
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