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Q: Hi my boyfriend and I are having some problems. Well first of all he is mad at me for getting a myspace and he wont leave me alone he's threatning to break up with me for it, its retarded he needs to just leave me alone. What should I do?
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The first thing you need to do is find out why he doesn't want you to have a myspace for all you know he could have a very good reason and might just want to protect you. If he doesn't mean more to you then a dumb myspace then leave him but if he is more important then work out a agreement or something.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at skipedabeat@yahoo.com)
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Q: Hi, i'm 14/f.
i have known this guy since sixth grade because my friend was going out with him. (they have been broken up since then though.) I really like him and i found out he likes me. the only problem is that he's too shy to talk to me and i don't know what to say to him when i want to talk to him. i'm not sure if he knows that i like him either. i haven't had a real conversation with him before. all my friends and his friends know each other too. most of those friends don't know we like each other though. we're also most of the time around each other.
should i wait for him to talk to me first or when i talk to him what should i say?
thanks a bunch. :)
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If he is shy then you should be the one to make the move but when you talk to him don't just jump out and say it start to hint around to you liking him. For example be like I like one of my close friends and he likes me but I don't know what to do like start asking him questions about it while hinting that it is him he will eventually catch on and either say something or make it when you say something it isn't such a shock. Or if you are really out there and you just want to get it over with an even faster way ask him out. If you don't want to do that you could ask him like do you have feelings for any of your friends if he says yes be like who get him to tell you he likes you then be like well I like you too and things will just flow from there. Letting him know you have feelings for him will probably be the hardest part.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at skipedabeat@yahoo.com)
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Q: My boyfriends wants me to send him a picture of my pussy to his phone. I don't really want to. How can I tell him I'm not going to without making it seem like I don't love him?
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If he really cares for you then telling him that you don't feel comfortable doing something really shouldn't bother him. Really he should be happy knowing that you didn't do something you didn't want to because if he cares for you then he wouldn't make you do something you weren't comfortable doing.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at skipedabeat@yahoo.com)
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Q: okay, basically, i have a hickey on my neck, and its big and purple
ita hot, so no turtle necks, and i dont wear collars
the cover i have isnt working at all
anyways to make it go away faster
or any other ideas on how to hide it?
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The only thing I can think of is to use makeup really that is what I always use. Don't use the liquid use the powder it covers better but really that is the only thing I can think of for you.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at skipedabeat@yahoo.com)
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Q: 15/f
Aliright. I know this is kinda a stupid question but i wanna ask anyway. Well there is this boy that really likes me and i like him back(i told him). I have never really had a boyfriend, and never had a first kiss(he also knows this). We are planning on hanging out soon and im pretty positive that he will kiss me. But im soo nervous! I dont know what to do. any tips are great thanksss!
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Well really I don't know on what to tell you for advice because kissing isn't really one of those things that you practice before hand it is just one of those things that you just go with. Believe me though when it happens for some reason you will know what to do I know that sounds crazy but I was nervous when I had my first kiss and really you just worry over nothing.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me skipedabeat@yahoo.com)
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Q: My best guy friend whom I've been crushing on for the past year now has never showed any interest in me. When I know that i am perfect for him it would be the best relationship hes ever had. How do I get him to realize this? or How do I just give up and realize he has to like me back for it to work?
I really need some answers
Thanks
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If you really like him you have to let him know you just can't expect him to know. For example you could flirt or something like that. Really if you are an outspoken person which it seems like you are then just tell him you really like him and ask him out or something. Until he knows what it is like being with you he is going to have no idea what is it like without you.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at skipedabeat@yahoo.com)
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Q: is love real or possible at 14?
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Yes real true love is possible at age 14 some people and adults really don't think so but I believe that there is and never will be an age limit to love. You have to be real careful when you think you know what love is you could be wrong and end up getting hurt so just don't jump into anyting.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: In your honest opinion...
How realistic is it to think that you will one day marry your first love? I don't think it's likely, but it happens, right? I'm 16 and he is 17. And I've never felt this way about anyone in my entire life. I just want to experience everything in life with him. We talk about getting married sometimes, I mean seriously talk about it. When we do talk about it he tells me that he is serious, that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.
Opinions? Advice Please?
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Yes it is very likely for you to marry your first true love. Also for you that is a lot easier because you don't have to go through all the heartache. All you have to know is are you and him both completely no doubts for sure about this whole thing because you need to know for sure now not later when it is to late. Just remember follow your heart and nothing could ever go wrong.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: So there is this girl. I've seen her at this resturant for the past 2 years but never said a word to her because i'm so shy. We had a picnic this weekend and my mom's friends daughter came and with her was this girl.After the picnic I was told that she thought I was cute and such a nice person. So I was invited back to the apartment the next day of these 2 girls. We watched 2 movies and ate dinner othing big. So when I got home I text the girls friend and asked if this girl even likes me or what. I got in reply She does but wants nothing serious. How do I go about that? Do I still try to become close and hope more happens or what? Any help is thankful.
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I don't think you should back off for right now she may say that and if you try to get close to her she will see that maybe she does. So yes still try to get close to her but you also always have to remember that there is a chance she would just break up with you out of no where since she doesn't want anything serious. At least she tells you this before you get into it and find out later and get hurt so she was protecting your feelings.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: What is the difference between love and lust? and how do you really know if a guy loves you?
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Love is something that goes deeper then looks it is their personality the feeling that every moment without them just sucks and you can't be away from them and you feel a true deep connection with them. Lust is an sexual attraction someone that you like for their physical aspects rather then whats on the inside. Truely I have no idea how to tell if a guy loves you maybe the way he looks when he says he loves you the fact that he treats you wonderfully and is always there when you need him to be.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: Hi, I apologise for this may be a little long.
I got dumped a few weeks ago by this guy after this huge misunderstanding. Some guy tried to interfere and told me all these things about my bf, that he was cheating on me and saying things behind my back. I confronted my bf about it and he was really angry for not trusting him.. said we were over.. said it had been coming for a while and that was that.
Well, I blocked and deleted him and tried to forget about him. For two weeks we didn't contact each other at all. But I still thought of him and was upset about what happened. He wanted to "still be friends" but I don't believe in that personally. I thought having a complete break would make me get over him, but it didn't.
The other day I went on my old MSN account and I forgot my ex was still on there. After about 20 mins he IMed me and said "I've figured out who it was who said those things" I considered blocking him there and then, but I didn't. We started talking and soon we got onto the topic of us. I wanted him to stop because I didn't think it mattered anymore where it all went wrong.. but he said he wanted to let me know everything and he really wanted to work things out. We got everything out in the open, even argued a bit because he called me "sheltered" just because my mom was strict. But we went through everything and left on decent terms laughing and joking around like old times (We were friends for years)
We're meeting in person in a couple of days to talk properly, and there's a chance we might get back together. But I'm not sure whether it's a good idea. What should I do? Give him another chance, but slow down things for a while? Or just forget him and move on with my life? I'm still angry about being dumped and the fact he waited so long to do this.. but I still have feelings for him. Help? lol. Thanks.
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Really what I think you should do is wait and be friends with him for a while and see how that works after that take it slow don't go there and jump into it. Obviously you said that you are still upset about him breaking things off with you and before you get into it again you really need to to get over that. Let him know though you still have feelings for him and see how he takes it but tell him at first you want to take it slow so you can get a better grip on things then. Don't rush into it though you don't want it to end up like it did before so take your time.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: hey! 15/f
well i kinda was crushin on this guy we flirted ALOT but now he has a girlfriend. i am jealous of her obviously but he really likes her. the only problem is that when i was gone on vacation i guess he was talking about me and how when i wore a skirt he saw my ass and stuff? yeah i dont give a shit but trust me im not a slut i have only madeout with one guy and never had a boyfriend. but i guess this guy was talkin to my friend and was like gosh why cant more girls be like her? and everything and everytime i see him we still kinda flirt but i dont start anything since he has a girlfriend! i LOVE flirting with him im just a huge flirter i cant help it but its killing me that he has a girlfriend. but why is he always talking about me because i guess he has before too but it was in a good way. we kind of have a good "friend" relationship like we can talk about stuff easily. but he really likes his girlfriend and i dont want to get inbetween the two of them. its not like im gonna stop talking to him or seeing him or whatever because im always with my friend and thats their neighbor so i always see him :D i just dont know what to do?? hes so adorable and sweet..it sucks
what do you think i should do? or what do you think he is thinking...
THANK YOU!
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I think that you should really back off and let him and his girlfriend go through their relationship. If he talks about you so much and he likes you enough then he will leave her and go out with you. From now on act like you aren't even interested in him anymore. Then he will see he really wants you. What he is probably thinking that he is crazy and he is missing out on a really great girl and soon he will come running back to you on what it sounds like it seems like you are really great and soon he will see that just give it some time.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: Ive been going out with my boyfriend since the beggining of april and he still seems to think i dont like him alot or that i dont wanna hang out with him. Weve been friends for over 3 years and i was at his house every day last summer. Byt he thinks im not going to be there with him alot this summer. Well, my mom and step dad are both going to iraq, which is where i live closest to him. And i told him the only way we wouldnt hang out is if i cant get a ride from my dads house. My dads house is five minutes away but he wont let me use my bike. So how can i convince him that, i do like him alot, i wanna be around him, and that im gunna try to hang out with him whenever i can?
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It just seems that you need to just tell him I don't think there is really any way you can show him. To show him you like him a lot flirt with him tell him how special he is to you and how much you like him. If you live that close to him then I am sure you both are going to be seeing a lot of each other just ask him why he doesn't believe you and then work from there with that one. And to show him you wanna be around him when you are with him hang on him hold his hand a lot and even kiss him a bunch if you want. You really need to see why he doesn't think these things so you can fix it. Or try to work on making him think those things.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: Alright, I'm a 15 year old girl. I'm from Canada. I like this boy alot but I'm afraid to ask him if he likes me. He knows I like him but I don't want to ask him and get rejected. I'm with him all the time and he makes me laugh and everything but I don't know. I also heard my bisexual friend likes him but I don't know.
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Try to get his attention first maybe flirt with him a little and show him you like him. If you do that then maybe you won't have to tell him and he will get the hint right away so he will ask you or maybe tell you he likes you too. Also by flirting you will see if you likes you back if he responds to it and flirts back. And if your friend likes him also that just means you have to get in there fast and get him before she does.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: Ok I always use the term "i like him" because it seems at my age i can't really love someone (i'm 15 and a girl) but i've 'liked' this guy for almost a year and a half. Everytime i see him i feel lots of butterflies in my stomach, i find myself stareing at him and when he looks at me i look away. i also find him looking at me. but i also find myself constantly talking about him and when i talk about him muy friends are always like wow you smile a lot when you talk about him, and when i'm not talking about him i'm thinking about him. i feel a little over liking him for my age. I don't go out with him but i've turned down dates because i can't imagine going out with anyone else. I either need some serious help or could i be in 'love'?!?!
kinda scary to think about.
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It seems to me that you may be in love and you aren't even dating him. The best way to find out if you are in love with him or not is to date him you can't love something you haven't tried. After you are dating a while if the feelings stay the same then you very well may be in love with him. But you won't really know until you have been with him.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: i have a boyfriend and i love spending time with him and all, but lately it seems that we dont really have things to talk about. and there is this other guy who i have liked for awhile and i have been talking to him a lot lately and i always have a blast with him. i like them both a lot and have no idea what to do about it! i dont really know if there is anything i can really do about this but i need some input from ohter people!
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If you really like this other guy possibly more than your boyfriend then I say break up with your boyfriend. Even if you only like this guy a little bit more because you don't want to lead your boyfriend on and he may start to love you and if you after all that find out you don't you are really going to hurt him so you should really find out which one you would rather be with and then go from there.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: Lately, I've been getting pretty serious with my guy friend who just happens to be 18. The problem is, I'm 15.
He, however, is still in highschool and still has one more year to complete.
Is this consider child molestation or anything like that? Could he, or I, get in trouble?
Also, I turn 16 in about a week, when I'm 16 is that still illegal?
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Yes it is considered child molestation. He could get into trouble but I am not to sure about you really. And yes even when you turn 16 it is still illegal and it will be until you are 18. If you really love him and want to be with him then I say just keep it on the downlow and don't let anyone know about who could or would get you into trouble.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: So i'm a girl (15) and i like this guy we'll just call him hc. Well, hc and i are like really really good friends and he now knows that i like him. well, me and hc have not talked since i told him. Another problem, we are kinda related but not like blood related. his cousin married my brother. but we were friends before that and my brother got married in febuary and hc was dancing with me all the time we shrared drinks and food and we had so much fun. He's really nice and i can't stop thinking about him! I don't know how to even start our first conversation since he knows i like him! Please help! i rate all 5's usually!
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When you talk to him just act like he doesn't even know. If you do you may get real nervous and not think of things to say. Talk to him like you used to talk to him. If he brings it up then you know he isn't freaked out by it or anything. Or if you want to just be all outspoken about it straight up ask him if he likes you it will be easier to just clear the air.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: This guy has been calling me a lot, and I barely know him. We've hung out a few times (with other friends with us), and only once has he mentioned wanting to see me in a different way if you know what I mean. But he calls me and we talk about random stuff. The thing is, he's not the boyfriend type and usually has a bunch of girls, never a girlfriend (or so I've HEARD). My question is.. IF I wanted to have something with this guy, how can I make him "settle down" and be in a real exclusive relationship? Any tips, tricks, advice? thanks!
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Well my only tip to you would be to not try to change him he will change on his own let him know what you want and if he likes you enough he will change for you. But if you try to change him all hell may break loose. If you think it is the right thing to do then go ahead. Let me put it this way if you were in a relationship or were going to be wouldn't you feel bad if someone tryed to change you I know he will eventually turn around when he is ready though don't try to do it for him let him make that decision on his own don't make it for him.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q:
Okay so im going out w/ this guy and my dad says i have to break up with him! and i like completley LOVE him and i dont want to...
but i dont want to get in even more trouble with him then i already am...
WHAT SHOULD I DO?
PLEASE help
Confused.
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If you are really in love with him then it won't matter what your dad says don't listen to him. Keep it on the down low but if you are in love with him and don't want to loose him then it will definatly be worth it so just break the rules. But if he isn't worth getting in trouble over then just break it off you say you love him though so I think if you wanna avoid trouble and sneaking around. Talk to your dad tell him that you love him and you really want to be with him. Even if you can compromise with him and tell him that he will come over and he will supervise it will all be worth it in the end wether you have to sit with your dad and be with him at least you get to be with him.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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I am cooky crazy and I love to party and have fun. I have brown hair, blue eyes, and I am kinda short. When I get older I hope to become a therapist so I can give everyone advice because that is what I love to do. I am in the 10th grade. Sometimes I can be real jealous about dumb things. I give great advice. And I even can say dumb things that make no sense. But over all I am a great person, advice giver, and friend. If you don't like me then good for you but I love me
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Illinois Occupation: School Age: 15 Yahoo: Member Since: March 10, 2006 Answers: 78 Last Update: September 2, 2006 Visitors: 7803
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