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I'm having a serious boy problem!


Question Posted Saturday June 17 2006, 9:10 pm

So i'm a girl (15) and i like this guy we'll just call him hc. Well, hc and i are like really really good friends and he now knows that i like him. well, me and hc have not talked since i told him. Another problem, we are kinda related but not like blood related. his cousin married my brother. but we were friends before that and my brother got married in febuary and hc was dancing with me all the time we shrared drinks and food and we had so much fun. He's really nice and i can't stop thinking about him! I don't know how to even start our first conversation since he knows i like him! Please help! i rate all 5's usually!

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tRuEe_lOve answered Monday June 19 2006, 5:19 pm:
omg, bassicaly the same thing happened to me "kinda" well this boy knew i liked him to and it was SO akward but i told myself to just act normal and act as if he didnt knew, and bassicaly i forgot her knew i liked him and the conversation just was easier, so just dont think about it and be yourself.
♥ me

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LOVEx3DISASTER answered Monday June 19 2006, 1:27 pm:
Alright, i know how you feel. See , me and my guy friend were really good friends. I told my friend that i liked him a lot, and people found out and told him. So we didnt talk for a long time and then one day he came up to me and asked if i wanted to go to the movies with a bunch of people. and i said yes. then we just became friends again after that. but if you still really like him, then you should talk to him about it and if he dosnt like you back, you might as well just be friends. and i wouldnt think that you would want to loose one of your good friends just because of something silly, rightt??
well, good luck=)
-Stefff*

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LiLmissMelanie answered Sunday June 18 2006, 10:14 pm:
ok. i know how you feel(except being related part) i had the same problem. i liked a guy. he found out. he didn't talk to me. i IM'd him, and asked him if he was mad at me about something, or if he was just unhappy with the fact that i liked him. he ended up IMing me back, and he told me that he liked me, but he just wasn't sure how to start a conversation again, because before we were just friends, and everything was great. so the only reason he wasn't talking to me was because he also was unsure on how to start up a topic again. it was new for both of us. so just start up a random conversation with "hc". who knows you may find out he likes you back! in the end, if he doesn't like you "in that way" you need to realise that a guy that makes you cry, is not worth your tears. but the one who is worth your tears, won't make you cry.

good luck
*_* LiLmissMel

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IhAvEaNsWeRs2104 answered Sunday June 18 2006, 12:27 pm:
When you talk to him just act like he doesn't even know. If you do you may get real nervous and not think of things to say. Talk to him like you used to talk to him. If he brings it up then you know he isn't freaked out by it or anything. Or if you want to just be all outspoken about it straight up ask him if he likes you it will be easier to just clear the air.



Good luck,
Hope I helped

(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)

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pinkers answered Sunday June 18 2006, 12:50 am:
you should just act like normal, and don't act nervous about talking to him. Wait for him to tell you in some way that he likes you too. Since he already knows you like him, it won't be embarrasing for him to tell you that he likes you. If you don't know he likes you its more embarrasing. I would just have a normal conversation with him and maybe slip in a question about it or something..i dunno hope i helped lol

Suggestion of question to ask him: I hope i didn't make you feel awkward when i told you that i liked you. then just see what he says about it.

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