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he has a girlfriend but flirts with me too..
hey! 15/f
well i kinda was crushin on this guy we flirted ALOT but now he has a girlfriend. i am jealous of her obviously but he really likes her. the only problem is that when i was gone on vacation i guess he was talking about me and how when i wore a skirt he saw my ass and stuff? yeah i dont give a shit but trust me im not a slut i have only madeout with one guy and never had a boyfriend. but i guess this guy was talkin to my friend and was like gosh why cant more girls be like her? and everything and everytime i see him we still kinda flirt but i dont start anything since he has a girlfriend! i LOVE flirting with him im just a huge flirter i cant help it but its killing me that he has a girlfriend. but why is he always talking about me because i guess he has before too but it was in a good way. we kind of have a good "friend" relationship like we can talk about stuff easily. but he really likes his girlfriend and i dont want to get inbetween the two of them. its not like im gonna stop talking to him or seeing him or whatever because im always with my friend and thats their neighbor so i always see him :D i just dont know what to do?? hes so adorable and sweet..it sucks
what do you think i should do? or what do you think he is thinking...
THANK YOU! <33
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well. thats kinda tough, but i think what youre doing is fine. it really doesnt seem like he likes his gf all that much, if he said "why cant more girls be like her"(you.) so im not really sure. i think you should just keep doing what you're doing. & its not illegal to flirt =]♥
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Yea that sucks.. you need to talk to him and be like look I really like you but you stand there flirting with me and leading me on while you have a girlfriend?? Just talk to him about it and tell him how you feel, yes it might be hard but at the end it might be worth it.If that doesn`t work then just back off a little because usually teen realtionships don`t last all that long..but I think he likes you but is trying to keep his gf at the same time..not good idea.♥
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Okay but you need to talk to him and ask him if he is really into you or is it just a thing that he likes to flirt. I know he probably does like you but he just cant say anything about it becuz of his girlfriend, But if you are a good person you know that you should not break up their realationship.
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I think he is trying to get both of you. hes trying to get you with him and when he would get you, you wouldnt care that he had a girlfriend and you would be like a slut and wouldnt care. then with his girlfriend, if she found out you and him were together too, he would breakup with one of you. Its kinda hard for me to explain but ill put it like this. i think hes a player. hes playin both of you. honestly he doesnt need to be doing that if he has girlfriend. he can be your friend but he flirting. tell him " Hey! you have a girlfriend. you dont need to be flirting with me its not right. i can be your friend but nothing more." and he will need to understand that. and if you tell him that and he's still doing his best to flirt with you, leave him alone. its not worth getting between his relationship with him and his girlfriend and then destroying it. Let him do it with some other girl but not ok! just tell him. make up what your gonna say. but he needs to stop if he has a girlfreind. well i hope i helped and if you have anymore questions please ask me or email me at hsmfan15xo@yahoo.com. good luck!!
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Okay. Well it doesn't sound like you are starting the flirting with him. So thats good. But what you should probably do is instead of going along with the flirting say "Hey, you have a girlfriend. I don't want to be the one who she thinks your cheating on" YOu can also add in that you like to flirt with him but you just can't. Yeah i know that will be hard to say. you could reword it to. hope this helped
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I think that you should really back off and let him and his girlfriend go through their relationship. If he talks about you so much and he likes you enough then he will leave her and go out with you. From now on act like you aren't even interested in him anymore. Then he will see he really wants you. What he is probably thinking that he is crazy and he is missing out on a really great girl and soon he will come running back to you on what it sounds like it seems like you are really great and soon he will see that just give it some time.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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