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Should i break up my 7 year marriage?
My husband is a gambler and we are aleays broke
I recently met a man who is a widower and livling
with his sister i like him but I think it is too soon for him to move in,
Please help
I am 53 Gentlemen in question are 63
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I know this has been a year, but in case you haven't made a decision I would like to offer advice. Ending a marriage isn't a decision to be made in a split second, as I'm sure you know and have been told. Just know that whatever decision you make, you are doing what you believe is right for you. If you are unhappy and his actions are hurting you, you have grounds to leave. But be aware that with a new person, you may not be able to give yourself fully in love because you need time to grieve the former relationship (even if you are done with it). Please feel free to respond :)
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Lastnight my boyfriend called me a bitch and said he was kidding and didnt mean it. I told him it hurt my feelings and he said sorry. But i just cant get over it. (link)
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If it was one time, it might be a thing to let slide...but if he says it more often, especially in anger, it could slowly morph into emotional abuse. My guy has never once called me a bitch, even when I've deserved it. If you guys do that playfully, it's a bit different. At least he knows it bothered you and if he truly cares, he won't do it again intentionally.
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So, there is this guy and i have had a major crush on him for quite some time. (i'm 18, he's 23)
and all throughout the entire time it seemed like he was interested in me too. He'll often come up to me and hug me, touch and carry me up in the air jokingly, say that he missed me and will compliment me too. The first time when we met, he asked me if i had a boyfriend, during my grad, he said he should've been my grad date. Somehow in one of our conversations, he asked why we've never made out before, and kept joking how we should. We went on movie dates, like once or twice, the first time around he paid for me, but then the second time he asked if i could pay him back. One time at a christmas party, i asked if he could drive me home, he said yes, but then 5 minutes later he went behind my back and asked one of my family members to drive me home and when i called him out, he said he didn't.. when he really did....He said that he's never had a girlfriend because he's too busy with school.
And then this summer, he invited me to his house to watch a movie, i came over and in the middle of the movie he asked if i wanted to make out. i asked him what we were, and he said that he liked me but he can't risk being in a relationship right now because he's really busy with his masters in architecture, and that if we did end up breaking up he can't deal with going through a breakup. he said that he knows there just won't be time to spend together, and admitted that he had commitment problems. and so after him realizing that i wanted more than just friends with benefits, in the end, we never made out, we decided not to start anything up. he said that if i wait two years for him, then we could be together. We agreed to still treat each other the same essentially
but anyways so that was a big bummer....
and just today at work, he kissed me on the forehead.
like everything is just confusing me. like his actions are hot and cold. One day he'll be talking to another girl that looks like she likes him, the other he'll like talk to a girl and have long conversations with her, and then with me he'll like do stuff like that he just did.
why does he keep confusing me? do you think he genuinely likes me? and do you think he really means that he'll come around in 2 years? or is it best to just start seeing other people and move on ??
I like him very much , but i hate being antsy about him like this.
its just so hard to say no when he does these types of things.
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I've dealt with a lot of situations involving men, whether they're boyfriends, FWBs, or something else. I'm really sorry to say, but I feel like he is keeping you on the hook with no intention of settling down. I don't know either of you personally, so maybe he does genuinely think you could work out in the 2 year future, but a lot can happen in two years. My advice is, keep him in mind, but don't pass up opportunities for another guy to sweep you off your feet. I feel like it would be good for this guy to see that other guys are interested, and if he gets jealous then you know he truly likes you. Sorry my advice sounds kind of downer, but I know you'll do what you're meant to do and it'll all work out. You're young, enjoy it!
Best Wishes,
Hollywood22
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Hi, I'm 19/F. I'm deeply in love with my boyfriend of almost 2 years now but our relationship has been kind of private due to my parents. They are not allowing me to start dating until I get at least a bachelors degree but I love my boyfriends so much. He wants me to tell my parents about us so do I but I'm scared that they'll get mad and start drama. His mother knows about us and I just want to be able to tell my parents about anything. What should I do? (link)
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I think that since you\'ve almost been dating for 2 years, it would be okay to tell your parents now. At first, they might be mad since it\'s gone on for so long without them knowing, but you\'re technically an adult now and could move out and get married if you wanted to! Ultimately, if you love your boyfriend and plan on staying together for a long time, your parents will learn to love him too because he makes you happy. I don\'t know if your parents are the type to disown you or stop talking to you when they find out things like this, but in the end it is your life and your decision. I know it must be hard for you, and I wish I could help more, but I\'m always here to talk if you need follow-up advice when you tell them. Best of luck!
-Holly :)
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I truly loved a girl name preethi she lives in Coimbatore im Arun maheedhar in same area because of her situation and completion of her parents she left me we both doin masters in Coimbatore the day of her proposal is Nov 8 th around 7.30 in the evening then our life was awesome for few days like upto Dec 30 th the same year 2013 I was last seen her at Dec 30 th 2013 evening I dropped her in a market place and I left with tears and my tears still not stopped today april 6th 1.14 am I was feeling very sad abt the memories I tried to erase her memories but I can't I tried many things but only fail remains in love in carrer in life only her memories left with me now I want to die with that same memory but I don't want any resurrection after this life it's enough I'm now not fit for my life. Her birthday is April 9th so on that day I pray for her life for last time and I want to die with those memories please tell a way for a quick painless death (link)
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I can't give you any advice about suicide or death, unfortunately, except to keep living! I've been to the darkest depths of the mind and have considered death several times, but somehow I always find something to live for. Please do not do anything drastic, and if you need to talk to someone who understands and will listen, please call the Suicide Hotline at 85265 65656
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We have been together for a year and a half. I caught him with a tagged account which had numerous conversations where he was flirting with girls. We talked everything over, and he explained that he was not trying to get with the girls. Because I had danced with a guy at a party we went to, he decided to start getting on the website to make himself feel better. To uplift his self esteem. Another reason why he explains he did it was because I always accuse him of wanting sex every time he kisses or touches me. Anyway. He promised to stop with the talking online. Just recently I happened to find another account on Google plus, where he was writing comments on girl's pictures. Initiating that he wanted to talk to them. He says that they never responded to him. They are girls from different states. They are famous (I don't recognize any of them) and he did not do it to cheat or get with them. He understands that I didn't do anything wrong, and that it was wrong for him to do it.He says I push him away when he comes and sees me too much.This hurts him. He says he's had many chances to cheat but he hasn't. He has not cheated on me with girls in real life. He doesn't cheat. Just because he loves me too much and I'm his first love everything that I do hurts him. The online thing is his escape. He feels he can drop it. He did it so it would make him feel good every time he felt like I was going to leave him.He says I'm the only person that can actually make him happy. I think this is very contradictory because if I were, he would not be on there. My plan is to break everything off. I feel disrespected. I feel like I'm not good enough for him and that is the main reason why he did this. Not once, but twice. I count this as cheating. I don't know how else you guys see it. I think it's time to end the whole relationship. I don't even want to try because I feel like he is going to find better ways to keep on with his ways. I think he just needs to find someone that can make him feel happy, and that person is obviously is not me. (link)
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Honestly, I feel that it is cheating. Both physical AND emotional connections with other women are. A personal bit: I dated a guy for a year, I went on a Europe trip, came back and he acted differently. He had been constantly chatting with this girl, and 5 days after I broke up with him, he took her to our favorite spot in the woods and they began dating. I don't trust online chatting because of this. You deserve better than a man who has to go online to pump his ego. He should have never done it in the first place, but after the first time he should have quit cold turkey. The fact that he keeps going back to it is leading me to believe it's beginning to be an unhealthy way to get out his hurt feelings. I support your decision to break it off with him---leave him to his imaginary women so you can find a real man that doesn't need to turn to an online source when he doesn't feel he's getting enough attention from his woman. You go girl!
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For some reason lately I've been super controlling with my boyfriend and get mad when he doesn't do what I suggest him to. We have a LDR for right now until I'm finished with college. He likes to hang out with his friends that live an hour away, he'll stay there all weekend and I'll barely hear from him. I explained to him how much I hate when he goes with his friends and doesn't talk to me because it makes me feel neglected and he has apologized and says next time he'll try harder to talk to me. Well the next time happened and he didn't. So this weekend he told me he was going and I expressed how much I wish he wouldn't because he has fallen asleep on me 3 times this week and I haven't been able to talk to him however he still went and of course I got mad. I don't know why but when he knows I don't want him to do something and he does it anyway it turns me into this evil person where I will say whatever I can to make him just as mad as I am... why is that? I don't like being that way and I try to stop myself but I'm just too mad to even calm myself down.. is there something wrong with me? I know my boyfriend doesn't deserve it because he is honestly such a great guy and always apologizes for anything that he does that upsets me every single time but somehow I still get so angry when he doesn't listen to me (link)
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I'm no expert, but I can tell you what I've done as someone who has also been controlling with my man. He actually told me something really substantial the other day: "Pick your battles, baby. I get mad too, but I learn which arguments are worth making."
It's so true. What helps me is imagining myself in the guy's shoes. I know when I'm with friends (as much as I want to talk to my guy), I accidentally get distracted and forget to text back. Many of the things he is doing sound like honest mistakes to me. Guys can be simple (and sometimes forgetful) creatures, and as women we have to understand that most times they don't mean to hurt us, especially when we feel ignored or neglected. From the sounds of it, your guy exemplifies this too.
When you do get mad (it's inevitable sometimes)
You can:
A.) Find something that calms you down. In my case, that is thinking of the sweet things he's done in the past or knocking the heads off zombies in a videogame :P
B.) Vent to one of your close friends or family members, but not too frequently
C.) Surprise him by being super understanding (even if you feel the complete opposite)
It will actually make you both more at ease and improve your mood. That way he might come back and be appreciative to you because you let him have some freedom without any repercussions
Hope this helped :)
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Well, I have a few social problems I'd like some tips on. See, I'm a very shy girl (21 years), I can handle making small talk but only if the other person initiates it, and I'm lacking in any real friends, managed to make a few friends but none who I'd call and say let's go out or whatever. In short, i just have no confidence. However, my boyfriend is the opposite, he'll go out and make several new friends straight away, everyone knows him and he isnt keen on taking me out with him anymore because all I do is stay by his side as opposed to doing my own thing as his ex did.
So, can you give me advice on how to approach a total stranger and make conversation with them? to feel confident in myself to do that and any little advice tips on how to not use my boyfriend as a lifeline per say, so I want him to be able to take me out and then not worry or not have his friends telling him he's left me by myself for a bit too long and I'm just looking lonely. Thanks :) (link)
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Confidence is like trust: it takes awhile to build, and it takes a lot to make that very first step. But, luckily, it's not too hard to achieve once you set your mind to it!
The first step is to look confident, or at least comfortable in your own skin. Wear clothing that accentuates what you like about yourself and makes you feel pretty. You don't even have to hide behind make-up or wear your hair in your face, unless you feel that that is the true you :-)
The second step is to set some goals, for example:
"My boyfriend and I are going to this party tonight. I'm going to start a conversation with at least three people and see where that leads. If I still haven't connected with anyone, I'll have my boyfriend introduce me to his friends and he can help guide the conversations."
A third thing to do is have an attitude of not caring what other people think. So what if you snort when you laugh at a joke? It'll be forgotten in 3 minutes. So what if that girl smirked at your hairstyle and whispered to a friend? It's your hair, and she doesn't have to stare at you like that. Maybe she's jealous! (etc.)
These are all things I have done over the years, and I hope you find at least one of them helpful :) Good Luck!
~Miss Holly~
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Hi, 20/f. I was engaged in my previous relationship. He was 19/f and we was together for two years. He left me one week before Christmas of 2012 because he randomly became "unhappy". It's been six months and I think about him every single day. First thought in the morning, last at night. After three months of breaking up, I got invited by a friend to one of his parties and a couple of weeks later we were 'fuck' buddies. Stupid I know, but I missed his touch, kisses, ect. I learned my lesson the hard way because now we act like we do not know each other. He has made it very very clear that he has not missed me since he left, doesn't have feelings for me, ect.
Since we've been broken up, he has been with different women, sexually, not relationship wise. I was his first, if that makes sense?
So I guess he hasn't had a feel of what it is alike to be alone. I, on the otherhand, have not been with any other guy since we split, I just don't feel right. I don't have any interest in looking for a "boyfriend".
Well, 3 months ago, about 3 weeks after we stopped fooling around/communicating his roommate found my picture under his pillow along with a note I wrote him back in 2010. He swears up and down that it was his 'final' closure, which may be true; but when he's sober he talks negative about how he feels for me; but when he's drunk, its all positive and stuff. Confusing, ugh.
I know we are NOT getting back together, but for some reason my heart refuses to believe it. It's ridiculous. I'm so so scared that I will never get over him because of how much it still stings, and I think of him. When someone tells me about him and a new girl, I do get a little jeaous but it quickly goes away because my heart kinda knows it won't work out, because the girl isn't me. My gut and my heart keeps telling me we are meant to be, and he needs time to know what its like to be single because he doesn't really know what its like..?
But then again, Im trying to convience myself its really over; but its not working. I have prayed to God to give me a sign, and NOT LYING WHEN I SAY THIS, every time I pray, I always have a dream that my ex shows up at my door saying he made a mistake and he is sorry. But when I don't pray, I do not have any dreams of him. It's kinda weird??
I know if he was to come back, I should say no because I feel like alot of damage and time has passed and been done, but when I think about it, my heart feels full and I just wanna cry tears of joy.
I know time heals all, but I'm so scared I will NEVER get over him. I truely loved him to pieces, and he randomly leaves claiming he never thought about or missed me since before he left.
Help?
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Okay, so I did take the time to read all that :)
I believe in a 6th sense, especially when it comes to love. I think that you're dreams are manifesting the fact that you miss him and need him back in your life, yet you are still conflicted. Your dreams could also be predictive of his feelings, or maybe even that he will show up at your door. It isn't like he cheated on you, or things ended too badly, right? I'm sure he probably feels the same way towards you, but he's a guy, so he doesn't know the right thing to do just yet. I think the fact that he kept your picture means that he's obviously having a hard time letting go of you and what you both had together, meaning there is still a chance of love & togetherness for you two as a couple. I wish you the best of luck, truly, and I hope that whatever happens ultimately ends in you being happy. Hope I helped some :-)
~Miss Holly~
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So there's a guy at my school and I really like him. He always texts me and tries to talk to me. He compliments me a lot and always laughs at EVERYTHING I say. We seem to click on everything from liking the same colour to favourite food and music. Does he like me? Because some of my friends tell me he likes this other girl. Should I risk asking him out? Does he like me? I'm 13/f and In 8th grade. He's in the same grade as me. (link)
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I think from what you've said that he does like you, unless he's just a generally nice guy to everyone. I think that since you guys click pretty well, you should give him some subtle yet pointed hints that you are starting to like him, such as sneaking looks at him or smiling across the room :-) Just remember that 8th grade boys can be immature, and it takes a lot to get them to admit their feelings to a girl. I've experienced this many times, in middle school and high school, and it seems to ring true with most boys. I wish you good luck, and just remember, it might take a little time for you both to be on the same page romantically at first! Best of luck, ~Miss Holly~
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Hi Im 18 and I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year our anniversary is next month. we get along just fine and haven't had sex, we respect each other about anything and just last weekend my boyfriend and were at my house my parents were gone and he came over i played guitar in front of him for a while then we ended up making out but as we started making out, all of a sudden I feel his hand going under my shirt
Trying to feel my breasts. It made me feel good but at the same time I felt like its bad I don't know if I should've said something I mean afterwards he asked me if it was ok with me and also said he wasn't ready for sex but he respects me. I don't know what to think but I love him (link)
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First of all, I commend you on the fact that you've been with him for a year already and have refrained from anything close to sex! I'm 18 myself, and I know how hard it is to refrain from the pressures of sexual intimacy. It's great to hear that people still have self respect & control :-)
As far as my advice goes, it's your body, and you decide what a guy can and can't do. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you enjoying being touched intimately by the man you love most, and it seems like he truly respects you. If you felt uncomfortable, make sure he knows your boundries as well as you do. If he is a good guy, he will NOT leave you because you don't feel ready yet. Just know that you did nothing wrong, and neither did he. You guys were just exploring becoming intimate, and that is just human nature.
Hope this helps, and I hope your relationship keeps staying strong!
~Miss Holly~
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Ok, so there's this guy I have a crush on...
and I've had a crush on him for almost a year now. I think he likes me.
-keeps on sneaking peeks at me
-always borrows my things
-asks me questions
-budges in my conversation, looks directly into my eyes and smiles
-finds excuses to stay near me, is always really close to me
-picks me for teams
-tries to impress me
-tries to make me jealous
-flirts on facebook
-sits close to me all the time
-talks with me alot
-I asked him if he wanted to go to the movies with me and my friends and a couple of other boys,and he said yes
-his eyes say 'I know you like me'
does he like me? I don't know. sometimes we don't talk for a whole day. We kind of ignore each other. Then we flirt with other people.
I don't know. Is he playing hard to get or does he think of me as a friend?
P.S. I have 3 other rivals... (link)
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I think this could go two ways: either he's playing with you just because he knows you like him, or he actually likes you and is trying to play the "cool guy" dismissive role (which seems more likely from what you've said.) A poll I read recently said that 89% of guys want girls to make the first move, but it seems like you've dropped hints to him, which is good enough in my book. One time when it seems like you're being really close, just start to flirtily talk about liking him in a coy way and see if he picks up on it. Let me know how it goes! :) Hollywood22
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So there's this guy... Matt.
BACKGROUND: He is seventeen, a junior.I am fifteen (sixteen in a month!) and a sophomore. We have been close friends since freshman year. ALL of freshman year I dated a boy who was horrible to me. Matt hated that boy for that. My ex would yell at me, curse me out, shove me, hit me, and tried to force me to do things (sexually) for him. When the boyfriend dumped me, Matt helped me through everything that followed because the ex was even worse to me when we split. At one point he almost got in a fight with my ex... Which was notttt good. But he would let me talk to him and cry on his shoulder and vent. Matt and I would text everysingle day and hang out and I can say I liked him but... he was talking to another girl. That was in the summber. In the fall we both dated other people. We seemed to split at the same time in the winter and both of our break ups were pretty rough and I guess we helped eachother through it... That was around winter break. Since winter break we text like everysingle day. I mean it... everyday. Everyone used to say we were "secretly dating" But...
THE PROBLEM:
I don't know how I feel about Matt now... I think I like him... I really do because I'm getting jealous that he's now talking to this girl at another school. I just wish I knew what we are or were or whatever... But I think it's too late to talk to him about it. I mean he said himself that he and this girl were NOT a thing but that he "kinda" likes her and that he wants them to start talking and they're going on a double date... I just feel like that he might be leading me on... If I DO feel that way about him. Because we talk all the time, he's extremely flirty and touchy, he asked me to prom... but at the same time he refuses to be alone with me. We've never kissed or held hands reeeeally... I just don't know what to do! I just want to yell and him and be like ARE YOU STUPID?? ARE YOU REALLY THAT OBLIVIOUS?? HOW CAN YOU NOT SEE THAT I LIKE YOU?!?! It's really getting to me... Please helpppp me. (link)
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I had the same problem with a guy recently. Maybe I can help you deal with it better than I did :) Maybe you should just sit down with him (since you said that you guys have been close in the past) and ask him what he really wants with you. Be careful, because this might put him on the spot and make him defensive, but on the other hand, he might actually tell you what he wants. Look up his asterology sign, because that might help you to know what he'll do if cornered with a question :) hope that helped!
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Ok, so im 15/f and im having issues with this guy I know (no names). So he moved here like a year and a half ago, and quickly joined my group of friends. We were friends for a while and i really started to like him, well as it turned out so did my best friend. She told me she was going to ask him out and being the stupid girl i am thinking i had no chance with him said go for it. Well they dated for three months (which killed me!!!!) and broke up. Me and him then went back to being tight, like spandex.
We would meet up every day and talk none stop, mainly about how much he missed my best friend. Me once again being the stupid person thinking i had to be a good friend put my feelings aside and listen to him about her and tried to get them back together. That didnt work and he finally got over it.
So for the past six or seven months we have been even closer. We talk non-stop and are always joking with each other. When ever a friend or adult says we should stop flirting and go out, he blushes and rambles on and on. I dont know because he is always wanting to be with me (like hanging out and teams for school), he is always hugging me, making me laugh, ill catch him looking at me and then we both look away.
My question is "Does he like me? Did I miss my chance with him? Is there a chance for "US" or am I making the whole thing up in my head? I am seriously confused and need help to figure out what my next move is. Can anyone please help me?
PS: I dont want answers saying im too young! I know i am to young to be worry about these things but unless I know whether or not something can happen between me and him I am STUCK!Thank you for any advice given.
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I don't think you're crazy :) The one thing I caution you about getting with him is that it might hurt your best friend. If it's what your heart wants, then go for it, but don't be surprised if your best friend seems a little bit miffed for awhile. What you're describing are the tell-tale signs of a guy who really likes you! If he's what makes you happy, it's probably meant to be. Test the waters by going on a few li'l dates first, and then decide if you guys want to be one-on-one committed :) Good luck, and hope this helped!
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Am I too young for love? Is it bad that im only 15 and think i found the one? I love my boyfriend . He makes mee sooo hapy but my grandma doesnt agree with me. maybe because he got me pregnant. what am I to do PLEASE HELP! (link)
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One of my best friends found her true love at this age too. Everything happens for a reason. Maybe this baby is a test of how much you and this guy are truly in love, because if he loves you a lot, he'll stay with you and help raise your kid with you. It very well could be love, because who says there has to be an age limit? Some people marry their high school sweethearts!
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how you know when a boy like you??and when he lies to you? (link)
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It depends on the guy usually. There are a few ways that you can tell no matter what, and they fall into catagories:
Mr. Mean:
This is the guy who would have pulled your pigtails in kindergarten. He insults you in a funny way, makes fun of you loudly or annoys you to get your attention. This is EXACTLY what he's doing:getting you to notice him.
Mr. Nice:
The obvious guy. He opens doors for you, gives random compliments, or waits for you after class.
Mr. Quiet:
He rather observes you, steals glances at you in class, looks away if you catch him, etc. These are the kind you have to talk to first.
A guy is lying if he goes around the topic, can't look you in the face, or he acts nervous and fidgety when talking about the taboo subject.
Hope this helped!
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my ex and i are mates.
but i dont know if he likes me one day he does the next i dont seem to matter.
i want to go out with him again, but my friend likes him also.
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I say, never make the same mistake twice. There's a reason you broke up in the first place, and things would never be the same. I know, because I've done that a couple of times and broke up with the guys for the same reason as the first time. Things might be fine for awhile, but then when he has you again, he'll just act the same as he used to. You just don't need any more heartache right now, I think. Guy's are crazy like that :P hope that helped!
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My boyfriend is going camping this weekend with a group of friends.. part of that group of friends is his ex girlfriend..I can't go because i have to work. should i be worried? (link)
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I know I get ticked if the guy I'm dating hangs out with his ex. If you trust him, things should be fine, and if he breaks that trust, he isn't worth it anyways. If he's really into you, he shouldn't care that his ex is there. After all, she is an "ex" in the first place! I think you have nothing to worry about; it also doesn't hurt to hang with a guy bud ( that you have zero interest like that in ) just to feel like you're on the same page :)
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I'm 16 year old girl from the us. So last night I was with my boyfriend and we had a great time. I came home and went to bed and had the strangest dream. I dreamt that I made out with my best guy friend Brendan because he just broke up with his girlfriend. and I normally don't remember my dreams but i remember it in detail. and in real life he actually just broke up with her too. what did this dream mean? it doesn't make any sense to me. ive always cared about Brendan but we've always had a brother sister relationship. idk what to do.
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Sometimes, in our dreams, we bring out strong affections (as in friendships) in romantic ways (such as kissing). I know, because I had a dream like that yesterday. I think this just means that your mind knows your really close to Brendan, so this is it's way of letting it out in a dream. If I were you, I'd think nothing of it :) We can't control what we dream!
If It keeps going on like that, then I'd say to see how Brendan acts about things. Maybe your dream is showing you what it'd be like to be with Brendan, or maybe in the back of your mind there's something bugging you about your boyfriend. I'd say just watch how both act :]
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how do u flirt with a guy you like...i have no idea and i really like him (link)
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I'm 15, but this might help :) Joke with him, be sarcastic in a funny way, look at him, but then glance away quickly and giggle, or "accidentally" brush his hand with yours while talking. These are just a few tidbits to help ya out. Good luck :)
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