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I am a 15/M i am ok looking but i am really small in height and weight for my age group. I am horrible about talking to girls that i like and dont know how to approach them in the right way. What are some flirting tips that i can use to get girls to give me a chance. (link)
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confidence is the key.
everyone is at least a little insecure about themselves, but don't show it.
even the hottest guy or the guy who gets all the girls is a little insecure, whether they admitted it or not.
but the fact that they come of as secure and confident makes them attractive.
as for flirting:
make eye contact with the girl.
actually talk to her, you have nothing to lose.
don't be afraid to approach a girl, how do you expect her to notice you, if you don't make yourself known.
good luck.
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i'm with a guy, i didnt go to school with him, hes 18, im 15. so um we always text, but sometimes we get to the point where we have no idea what to talk about. and i have no idea like what subject to bring up.
any ideas to keep a convo going?
and how do you get him to call you?
thnx (link)
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music
movies
sports
just like favorite things in general.
stories about growing up, whatever you feel comfortable talking about, also be comfortable being yourself.
why don't you call him.
or just casually tell him he should call you sometime.
hope i helped.
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So basically, I'm still in love with my ex. He broke up with me because he 'couldn't handle a relationship', and then ended up hooking up with a few girls over the summer. He also started hanging out with Sally a lot more before and after the break up, and he said he did 'notice' her while we were dating. Now, he's still seeing this girl, and he likes her because she is 'nice, sweet, cute, and funny'. But then he tells me he enjoys spending time with me more than with her.
I feel kinda pathetic, but I want him back. And I really don't know how to go about it at this point.
So, I guess the question is: Is he gonna choose her when the time comes? and if so, How do I prevent that, if possible? (link)
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honestly, don't go back to him, he seems like he isn't any good for you or your heart.
so you might as well start the healing process now, instead of getting yourself into another heart break.
i know it's going to be hard, but you deserve someone who won't tell you they aren't ready for a relationship, and then go off and have a thing with someone else.
basically he's saying you're not worth it, so don't treat him like he's worth it.
just think about it this was, would you rather be in a relationship with him, but know that he notices other girls when he's with you or would you rather be single and wait for a guy who treats you and acts like you're worth it.
hope i helped. good luck!
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ok so this is pretty long. so about a year ago i was really bored so i went to this site my friend had told me about and i met this guy and i didnt think anything of it at the time you know, i was just talking to him then he asked my for my aim thing and i was like ok sure what could it hurt. anyways we got to talking and one night he told me he liked me and i thought about it and i wouldve never gone out with him like i didnt even know him. anyways. he was really sweet and idk i just thought he was cute and he had like all this stuff wrong with his life and i felt bad for him. and one night he was like everyday i sit here and cry over you because i know ill never find another girl like you i really love you and i was like WHOOAA and i felt bad so i was like ok ill go out with you like i didnt think it would last i just didnt want to make him feel bad. so we went through alot and i dont know its been a year and like weve broken up like 5 times but still its been like a year and i think i really love him and we ve talked on the phone and everything but i dont know. what i should keep doing. (link)
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how old are you, first of all.
if you're like around the age of 16 or so, i would consider actually going out with guys you know.
right now is the time to have fun, experience new things, and by being with someone you don't really see, makes you miss out on what else is out there.
i've been in the same position, i called it quits after about 2 years, and i met guys in real life, and now i wouldn't go back to online dating.
online dating is nothing compared to real life, you don't know anything about the person, except for what persona they have created.
i'm not telling you not to stay with him.
you should just consider something else.
hope i helped.
good luck.
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Okay a couple of months ago I had to choose between three guys: a cheating redneck, a gorgeous and thoughtful foreigner, or a loving and very cute hippie. Now I had already taken out the redneck, but I was stuck between the foreigner and the hippie. I chose the foreigner after not talking to my hippie for a couple of weeks, and the foreigner is now all different, not like bad and evil, but just odd. Now that he has this thing going on with another girl, I felt like I chose the wrong one. (link)
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have you tried talking to the "hippie" one, obviously things didn't work out with the way you thought, so bring hippie back.
at least give a try and flirt with him, who knows maybe you can rekindle something with him.
good luck.
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i am 17 years old and i am a women. i have a crush on one of my friends and i look at him all the time in our second hour. he is a real ladies man. i am not that pretty. he was going to come over my house today. but he cant come over on becuase he is on the wreslting team and they have states today and tomorrow. i dont know if i should have sex with him or not and just wait till marragie like i planned. so what should i do (link)
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if you want to wait for marriage, don't change that just for a one night stand, unless you're really sure this is what you want, and you won't regret it later.
have you taken into considerations all the feelings that would come with having sex with your friend?
if you really feel like you're ready and you're aware of the possibilities that might occur, such as your friendship changing, you becoming emotionally attached to him, or getting you getting your heartbroken, then go for it.
just be safe.
hope i helped.
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I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year now. And since, it is summer, we have a little bit of a slut problem. And the biggest slut, is his male friend. My boyfriends friend treats girls like shit and basicallly fucks around with a lot of girls, but this isnt about him, only my boyfriend is best friends with him, and since the summer started, my boyfriend has been going to partys, and girls houses that i dont know. Sure, I trust him, only to an extent. And I really just get so mad at him when he tells me he's at some girls house. And he's had some girls in his room before, with his best freind.
yeah, that crossed the line.
But I don't know if I should learn to accept the fact that he's an asshole and wont listen to me, when i tell him to have girls in his room and shit like that.
Or if I should really do something about it, but idk what. (link)
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he clearly seems to be having fun, so should you.
hang out with your friend, go to parties, flirt with other guys, have fun.
just because you do innocent flirting doesn't mean you have to take it farther.
the bottom line is he clearly is having fun, so there shouldn't be a reason why you have to be constantly worried instead of having fun.
to be honest, it's hard for guys and girls to hang out and not atleast flirt.
it doesn't mean he's cheating, but i doubt he sits in a corner of his room while his friends do whatever they do with the girl.
hope i helped.
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i have been with this one guy (bob) for almost 2 years. and i can honsetly say i do love him. but also like another guy(bill). AT THE SAME TIME! the one that i like i have known for awhile. and everytime i hear he has a new girlfriend i wanna punch her in the face. lmao. i dont know why i get this way. i mean he has his right to like other girls,i know that. but i dont know what to do.
what if i break up with bob because i like bill. and then later on i find out that i was meant to be with bob. but what if i stay with bob and find out that im suppose to be with bill. im so confused and i need seriuos help!
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from experience, when you're with someone and you think you really like them, but you're mind wonders off and you develop an emotional attachment to someone else, something isn't right.
it's not fair for you to lie to Bob or yourself.
you can run the risk of losing them both, or try and cut communication with Bill until you figure your emotions out.
hope i helped.
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I know you girls love guys and...
I know their has been this myth going around that asian guys can't get white girls..which is not true,since I'm asian and have a white gf,but I want to know what you girls think
Question1: Would you date an asian guy? considering he has good looks and personality
Question2:Have you ever liked an asian guy?
Question3:Would you marry an asian guy?
Question4:Where does the asian guy stand among the whites,latinos and blacks?Your preference?
Example:Black>White>etc.etc
thank you (link)
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1: yes, i would.
2: i liked an asian guy for 6 consecutive years.
3: yes.
4: white, asian, latino, black.
p.s. i'm latina and completely prefer guys out of my race.
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Ok I'm super confused so maybe someone can explain this to me! Let's say a boy is 17 and in your state the law is a 17+ person can't date a minor then can he have a 15 year old girlfriend? Because I was reading that there are laws that when your like 17 and up you can't date minors but what about teens around the same age with only a couple years difference? Thanks so much and I will rate everyone who helps me! :D (link)
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Yeah, I'm pretty sure that is the law, but people still date anyways, but be careful, and make sure that the person you do go out with really wants it too, and don't have sex, you could get sued for statutory rape.
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for 10 months and I want to write a really nice note to him.He is turning 14 and I want to write things about our relationship and his birthday of course I was kinda hoping that It could be a page long. His birthday is in 1 and 1/2 days so if you could help or maybe give some suggestions thanks for reading this and thanks for your help. (link)
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you could write about the following things:
a special moment you two have had
why you like him
how you're really glad to be with him
telling him you hope he has a great birthday
hope i helped.
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Hi Im almost 15 and I havent had aboyfriend yet it may be becuz I am fat but I was wondering if I willl ever have one I feel so lonely and confused That all my friends have had one and I havent!!
plzzzz tell me why im so unwanted! (link)
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As cliche as this may sound, other people can't love you until you love yourself. Maybe guys notice your lack of self esteem, and most guys see that as a turn off. So gain confidence, maybe run a couple laps or eat healthier, you'll feel amazing about yourself, and you'll look great.
good luck.
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so this me and my guy friend roger, have been hangin out alot. and he really likes me. and i like him to, but relationships make me nervous. so i have been reluctant to date him, even though he's asked. and i want to, i just in the past have second guessed saying yes and turned around and dumped the person. i dont wanna do this to roger.
and it's not that i dont like roger, but part of me is confused too because this kid laun that i work with has been hangin out with me randomly. like showing up at my house and suprising me and hes really funny, and last time he was here, and he held my hand. and i think its dangerous for me to bearound laun cus i could see him ruining things, but i like his company.
so i dont really know what i should do, i dont wanna get with roger and then regret it from my own issues or from laun coming around too much.. (link)
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If you don't get over your fear of relationships now, you never will. Give Roger a chance. Don't mix previous relationships with future once, and clear things with Laun, and tell him you're involved with someone.
good luck.
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Ok first if my boyfriend told me he just wants a break right and if someone asks me do i havea boyfriend do i still say yes ?
Well my boyfriend is Muslim and his fasting and me and him had a little argument his friend kept flirting with me and i was just being an honestr gf and told him anyways yesterday he told me he wants a break until he finnishes fasting that in like 20 days and he said he'll let me know if he still wants to be with me do you think he'll dump me ? (link)
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talk to him, be upfront about it.
no matter how much you like him it's not fair for you to put your life on hold for him, and you were honest and that's what matters.
he should be more understanding
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my friend is gay. and i love him.
and everyone wants me to tell him i like him
but i cant. because hes gay, but im the only one
in the entire world that knows
WAT DO I DO?! (link)
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It depends on both of your ages and has he ever gone out with girls before. If his reasons for being gay are because he wasn't attracted to girls when he went out with them then there's no chance. But maybe if you tell him how you feel, he'll maybe give you a chance, as weird as that sounds. Since he was comfortable enough with you to tell yo he was gay. You should be comfortable enough with him to tell him you like him.
Good luck.
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i'll try not to make this too long. so there's this guy named joe, and he just got out of a relationship with this girl, they were together for about 5 or 6 months. (we r 15 by the way). anyway, he and this girl gave each other oral sex. recently, me and joe have been talking and flirting, and we like each other. i think his friends know that. well recently he became kind of popular. i'm in between popular and like...normal. anyway so he was grinding with me at this dance a few nights ago. online we have been having really intense talks about like, how far i would go with a guy and i said i wouldn't go past feeling up for a while. he said that that might eventually push us apart because he has such a high sex drive (this was like a week ago). anyway, he came to my house this weekend and we made out a lot and stuff. and it really seemed like he liked me, he would randomly come up and hug me really tight and just sort of nuzzle into my neck. well since then we haven't really been talking too much. online i will try to start conversation and he will just answer and say nothing else...and at school he has been flirting with other girls (but he's a really big flirt and we aren't official yet or anything). also, 2 nights ago he told my friend that he was going to ask me to our homecoming dance...but he hardly talks to me. should i ask him if he is still interested? i fell for him really, really hard and i'm so scared that if i ask if he's not interested, he will admit that that's true, and i'll lose him. what should i do? (link)
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You should talk to him, and be upfront about everything. Explain how he's confusing you and how you've heard he was planning and asking you to homecoming, but honestly don't get yourself involved with him if you already know he thinks it'll push you apart if you aren't sexual with him. Either way you'll get hurt, it'll hurt to never get a chance with him, but it'll hurt if he uses you and then leaves. Remember this is about your heart and dignity. Good luck.
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I'm a tomboy and all the girls at my school wear the same types of clothes from the same types of stores. All the guys that I like went out with all of those girls. They liked me but wouldn't go out with me so I don't know if it's because of me being a tomboy or what. I mean I'm not a complete tomboy,I wear some of that stuff every now and then but not all the time,so I don't know if I should just be like those girls or what. Well,also I wasn't popular and they were,so maybe that's what it was. I know you're not supposed to change who you are but I don't know what to do. (link)
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you can wait for the guy who doesn't care about how you dress to come along and so on...
or you can change the way you dress and style your hair a bit. add accessories to your normal clothing, and be creative with your hairstyles. Those simple things can make you more noticeable with out changing who you are.
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Okay so my boyfriend and i have been pretty serious for about 8 months.. and we say i love you to each other and stuff like everyday... but im IN love with him... and when i ask if he is with me he says he loves me but he doesn't know if hes in love with me...
but to me there are two kinds of love.
loving someone like a good friend or family or something like that.
or being IN love with a girlfriend/boyfriend that you've been with for a while or known for a while.
and i don't know why he isn't... but lately when I've talked to him I wont say i love you back to him.. and i think he's getting the point.. because he knows that i love him... but he also knows that it hurts me.. but if you answer this don't say anything about me not saying it back.. i just want to know what you think because I'm really IN love with him. and he acts like he is with me.. but he wont say it...
as many answers as i could get would be great. (link)
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boys are confusing. even though he doesn't say it at least he acts like it, it would be worse if he said it but didn't act like it. maybe he's scared to say it or trying to figure out his feelings. don't rush it. when he finally says he's in love with you, and says it from his heart and not just because you want him to, it'll feel great.
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16/f im in love with alot of guys but i dont talk to them much like maybe once or twice a day for about 5 , 10 minutes each.... i really want to go out with one of them i really dont care who but i dont know get them to see that im interested, so how do i lure a guy into asking me out? (link)
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if they don't all hang out together, flirt with each one, but if they hang out together you have to choose who you will focus on, or all the guys will get mixed signals, and not like you. but mostly try to cut it down to just on guy, things will be easier.
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He said that we are going to wait for each other. Then he comes home from camp and he tells me that he met this girl and kissed her. He won't talk to me or message me back on any of the messages i give him. Then all of a sudden he breaks up with this girl and meets another. he tells her that she was the best thing that has ever happened to him. I see him at a concert and he keeps looking at me and by the end of the concert he finally talks to me and we are acting like friends again. but after the concert I try and ask him if he still likes me and he doesnt answer me. He won't message me back. He does the same thing to me again. What do I do? I really like him and all I can do is think about him (link)
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This boy needs to get his act straight. He is acting very immature. And he's just wasting your time. It seems like he acts the same with all girls. Try cutting all contact with him, go out with your friends, and meet new guys. If you feel like you're going to message him or call him, tell yourself that by doing that, you're just showing him how vulnerable he makes you. Good Luck.
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