this guy isn't talking to me and i can't tell what he wants
Question Posted Monday September 3 2007, 12:57 pm
He said that we are going to wait for each other. Then he comes home from camp and he tells me that he met this girl and kissed her. He won't talk to me or message me back on any of the messages i give him. Then all of a sudden he breaks up with this girl and meets another. he tells her that she was the best thing that has ever happened to him. I see him at a concert and he keeps looking at me and by the end of the concert he finally talks to me and we are acting like friends again. but after the concert I try and ask him if he still likes me and he doesnt answer me. He won't message me back. He does the same thing to me again. What do I do? I really like him and all I can do is think about him
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Jeanne answered Tuesday September 4 2007, 1:22 am: Obviously I don't know you, but I'm sure you are a wonderful, beautiful, sweet person with a ton of amazing qualities. And somewhere out there is a guy who is going to see those qualities and will be soooo crazy about you that he will do everything he can to get you! I know you really like this one guy, but unfortunately, he doesn't seem to be the one. If this guy really liked you, he would be calling you, asking you out, chasing after you... thats what guys do when they like a girl. You deserve a guy who is going to be absoultely crazy about you and never do anything to risk losing you! But you aren't going to find him if you're sitting around waiting and hoping for someone who doesn't feel that way about you. I know it will be hard, but you should try to put him out of your mind and move on. That perfect guy who's out there waiting for you will be glad you did! [ Jeanne's advice column | Ask Jeanne A Question ]
HeyyyEdith answered Monday September 3 2007, 10:54 pm: This boy needs to get his act straight. He is acting very immature. And he's just wasting your time. It seems like he acts the same with all girls. Try cutting all contact with him, go out with your friends, and meet new guys. If you feel like you're going to message him or call him, tell yourself that by doing that, you're just showing him how vulnerable he makes you. Good Luck.
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