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Hey, I love to give advice to people. I can give advice to you on a lot of stuff. Like, sports, love, families, friends, school or even if you need some advice on what to do when you're going crazy of bored-um. You guys can ask away. I get on every night (unless my computer is acting up). So if you need advice I'll get to you as quick as possible.

P.S. I'm great at love situations.
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one of my very good friends has liked my boyfriend since before him and we knew each other. She dated him and everything, but he doesn't like her anymore. AFter telling me i could date him, which i've wanted to for two years, she is obsessing over him and telling all of my friends that she loves him and can't stand seeing him with me. She is telling me that he is cheating on me but i don't know whether to believe her. All of my friends say i should date him because my friend likes three other guys too. What should i do? Help!!! (link)
Well if she told you that you could date him then is going around complaining that's her problem because she told you her self that she was fine with you and this guy. Does this guy really like you, like a lot.Can you be yourself around him and are able to talk to him about things? If so I think you should keep dating him. Talk to your friend and tell her how unfair she's being. Good Luck.


Well I broke up with my ex because I thought He didnt love me anymore and now I really want him back but when i ask him about us its always I dont know but he did tell me he still loves me, he thought i broke up with him for someone else so when he tells me he doesnt know is he hurt by us being over or does he not want me anymore? help plz!! (link)
He's playing hard to get. go along with it

elle


this is kristi.. i wrote about ricky awhile ago... well i wrote him a letter and gave it to him on the last day of skool.. i know kinda lame but hey at least i gave it to him. well it said that i liked him and that we should hang out this summer then i put my number at the bottom... well he called me THAT NIGHT. we talked bout everything BUT the letter, but we found out that were going to hawaii... same island and everything at the same time so we r gonna meet up there to hang out.. how perfect huh? well does that mean anything that he called me that nite when i said call me this SUMMER?
luv kristi (link)
i don't think that it has anything to do with the note. Maybe the note just made him feel more confident to sort of spend more time with you because he might like you. Good LUck
Lizzy


Me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 8 months now and I love her so much and I know she loves me she says it all the time and stuff but I dont know if she is always happy with my I cant really tell her how I want her to feel or anything or talk to her about this there has to be something I can do to show her I want her to be happy basically happier then she has ever been before like can you tell me how I can do this because that would be a big help anyone help me one this subject I just want my girlfriend to be super happy around me and not like faking the whole happiness thing so please help me with what to do thanks a bunch.
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one night when the guys want to hang out, Instead of hang out with your friends take her someplace special to show her you would do anything for her.

Elle


Well I love me girlfriend to death she is the best and we have fun all the time but I am like running out of things to do we usually do the same old things all the time so I think its time for something new so can you help me think of some ways or place or things to do with my girlfriend that will just make her melt.....you know nice romantic stuff like that.....lol any help will be greatly appreciated thanks much. (link)
Well you didn't say anything about what you two do so I'll help the best I can. And age would help. Want night you could go to her house with a rose and suprise her with a romantic dinner under the stars. Since it is summer. Try something new. Take her rock climbing or even camping out with her and some friends. I really hope that helps.

Elle


im too shy to ask a girl out what always happens is that i have my eye on one but i can't get the nerve to ask her out then some other guy takes her what do i do (link)
You just need to go up to her and ask her out the minute you see her next. Girls love it when guys ask them out. It feels to weird for us to ask out guys. And when you do ask her out don't ask her out to the movies! That's boring and you can't talk. Hope this helps.

Elle


Crazy
A lonely girl wonders why she feels so broken hearted.
He doesn't feel the same and her heart is split in two.
She feels like a fool.
She holds her head as high as she can.
She crys and crys. Wonders why?
"Am I too ugly? am I too loud? Or is he just crazy?"
She crys and crys. Wonders why?
with tears in her eyes she smiles and says, "HE IS JUST CRAZY!"
I am not the one in the wrong, HE IS JUST CRAZY!

~K.J.B.~ (link)
This is not a depressing! It's poetry, ART! This is something that came from inside. IT came from your heart and out your hands. You're right. He's CRAZY! IT sounds like you know what love is. GOOD JOB! If you need any help just ask.
~Elle~


I have been friends with this guy for 6 years ever since i was 9 as we got older things started to change i started to like him for more than a friend. he is the guy that when i see him i always feel better i haved some major medical problems and afterwards he always cheers me up but latly he hasen't been comming to his moms house that much so i don't get to see him but once a month i don't know what to do? (link)
I think you should just tell him how you feel. You never know,he might feel the same about you.
Elle


How come there is no boys asking questions? I'm a guy and I have a question... anyways... I'm kinda shy when the topic asking girls out comes up. I'm 13 and I dont ever think im going to get a girlfriend, because im so scared on what would i do if i asked someone out and then they said yes? i mean i dont know how to make out and stuff like that... what should i do? (link)
Just be yourself. Girls like that. And who cares if you don't know how to make out. I mean if you've never had a girl friend. And when you ask a girl out for a first date, don't ask her to go to the movies. Cause you can't talk. See if she wants to go ice skating.
Elle


I told my friends and family that I was thinking of becoming a lesbian and they just laughed. What do i do to make them believe me? (link)
Just keep your word. If they don't believe you and you do become a lesbian then they'll start taking you more seriously.
Elle


okay, this guy likes me (im pretty sure) and i want him to ask me out, but hes too shy, obviously, so how do i get him to ask me out soon? (link)
What I did was just show the signals really big so he is for sure that you like him. Also you could hang around him a lot. Just a suggestion.
Elle


I have a friend that is a boy. His name is Marco and he is really nice. We e-mail each other, and I sit in back of him in language arts and social studies. I really would like to hang out with him, but I don't want to tell him that. WHAT SHOULD I DO?????


desprate 4 help (link)
Well, the question is does he like you, like you, or does he just like you. There is a difference.If he just like you, you shouldn't worry about it. If he likes you, like you, then just tell him how you feel.
Elle


when can a girls really notice that a boy likes her?????? (link)
I think they only way you can tell wether a guy likes you is if you really know them or they're sending signals BIG time.
Elle


ok i liek this boy buti thin i justl iek him becuase of his looks i mean he is funny and makes me laugh but im always catching myself just wanting him for his looks i really like him and i want ot marrie him but do u think i could only liek him for his looks? (link)
Well if you catch yourself just wanting him for his looks then you really don't want him. You just want a boyfriend. If you did like him that much then you'd probably like him for him.
Elle


there's this guy at school who's girlfriend just broke up with him. my friend said i should ask him out, but he said he might just rest awhile. (link)
Well you have to respect that. He just lost his girlfriend. He's probably not over her yet.
Elle


i wanan know what love is ? i wanan feel what love is? (link)
You can't have someone tell you what love is. When your in love it will really hit you and you'll notice it.
Elle


Well I think the subject pretty much gives away what I'm going to ask you...what should we do?

We went to see a film (The Last Samurai btw) on Sunday.

I'm 16, he's 18. Clubbing (my friends suggestion) is not really an option).

Any ideas? (link)
You could go iceskating.
Elle


I really like this guy and I asked him out yesterday and he said Not Today what does that mean?




FRom PLease HElp ME (link)
Maybe he wanted to ask you out or maybe he likes you but not ready to date.
~Elle~


There is this boy that keeps calling me. He called me 5 times in 2 days and left a message asking me out for the whole world to hear. I told one of his friends to stop calling me..gently though. His friend was a little harsh and i don't think he likes me anymore. What should I do? (link)
If you don't like this guy just tell him your not interested.
~Elle~


I like this boy named Robert. The only problem is he doesn't know. How can I tell him? The next problem is he doesn't know my name. I think I'm cursed. What should I do? (link)
Well if he doesn't know you it's probably just a crush. Or you could just walk up to him and say "hey I like you". You'll feel better.
~Elle~




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