ok i liek this boy buti thin i justl iek him becuase of his looks i mean he is funny and makes me laugh but im always catching myself just wanting him for his looks i really like him and i want ot marrie him but do u think i could only liek him for his looks?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? dwarp answered Tuesday January 20 2004, 9:55 pm: Umm..I highly doubt you want to marry him, but it's entirely possible you just like him for his looks. Often times we may think we like somebody for their humor, when really we're just so smitten with their looks, we find everything they say is Groucho Marx material. And I don't want to sound judgemental, but by the way you're typing, it makes you seem a tad bit more shallow at times. I'm sorry if that offends you, I can be brutally honest. However, that makes me think that perhaps you do just like him for his looks. [ dwarp's advice column | Ask dwarp A Question ]
aka_kittkatt answered Tuesday January 20 2004, 9:39 pm: Oooooh. My head hurts just trying to read that.
Reality check: You don't marry someone just for their looks. After all, marriage means you basically want to spend your whole life with that person.
Elle answered Tuesday January 20 2004, 9:05 pm: Well if you catch yourself just wanting him for his looks then you really don't want him. You just want a boyfriend. If you did like him that much then you'd probably like him for him.
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Cspinoza1 answered Tuesday January 20 2004, 8:26 pm: Im going to be honest what usually attracts people? "Looks of Course". SO most people go for looks but try dating him and then the feeling of looks doesn't seem to play the main part anymore because those are soon replaced with other feelings, that you can only get by dating for a while.
shay*shay answered Tuesday January 20 2004, 8:10 pm: Heres a good idea for that. Think of a not so attractive guy, but with the cute guys personality. Would you still like him then? Think about it. In the meen time, dont worry, be happy!
-shay :-) [ shay*shay's advice column | Ask shay*shay A Question ]
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