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Okay tonight i was suposed to go see a movie with my boyfriend and some of his friends. By the way Im 15 and hes 16. The movie was rated R and I told him to get his parents to go ahead and get them in advance. But he didnt take my advice we get there and we buy tickets to another movie. Well then the movie i wanted to see ... they were checking ticket. Now Im pissed because I really wanted to see this movie and Me & my bf were the only 2 who didnt get in. He should have listened to me right??

Should I really be this pissed?

think about what your asking first off...is one silly movie that will come out to rent soon enough really make you mad...get a grip i am not tryin to be rude but come on its a movie...just think about the people who cant afford to go to the theater....us people want to see movies too...dont be mad... maybe his folks wouldnt get the tickets for him ...give it a break..you will probably see it soon anyhow...well calm down a bit and relax...hope i have somewhat helped

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Im 15 female and ive never had a boyfriend before. Im not going to say im ugly becuase people will just say "youre beautiful inside" blah blah. But my question: Will a guy still want to go out with me if i dont want to do anything past makeing out? Well at least him doing to me..or until i feel more comfortable with my body.

So am i considered prude?
Will I ever get a boyfriend if i feel this way?

you know what guys will still date you..but all ya have to do is wait until a guy really likes you and then just explain that thats all ya wanna do until your comfortable with him and yourself and if he really likes you he will wait..good lucks

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I feel like sometimes i just wanna curl up ina ball and die. I mean I have friends but i dont really have friends. I mainly hang out with guys and im a girl and its not right at all .. I know lots of people have friends of the opposite sex but i just feel like im hated so much. Its like i see all these girls with such close friends and i dont have girls like that . I just feel like crying all the time i feel so depressed. Maybe i shuold just give up on everything. Why cant i find a friend like other girls do. I hardly ever go out on weekends and im almost 18 if i go out well its with the guys and all they wanna do is get their freak on with me. I really need someones help. I mean Im not saying im ugly w. a bad personality cause i know i do look decent i dress in my own way but its casual and I do my hair every mournin Im really nice and outgoing but im not too crazy an wild. Why dont i have friends like everyone else?

i am 15 and i feel like doing that all the time..and i have mainly guy friends too..but you know guys are/can be just of good of friends as girls believe me i would die if i didnt have my one friend i have right now ....but if you want to have one of those girl/girl best friend thingys go meet some girls and start to hang out or something...think of places or ideas you can meet some chicks you could have fun best friend thingy with...well good luck

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Well my name is Michael and my girlfriend refuses to call me that. She only calls me Mike. She also hates it when others call me Michael and corrects them with "Umm it's Mike not Michael." Even my mother. But she says it with more respect talking to my mom. Does this seem werid or overly possesive to anyone? Or should I just go with it?

to me it sounds really weird and a little over possesive.. talk to her about it..and say you dont like her callin you that..or just say it's fine either but you prefer michael...and if she still dont wanna listen dont put up with it..you have the right to be called what ever you want she cant stop them or you from being called michael..it is your name anyway...dont put up with it explain and if that dont work i am sorry..good luck michael

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im 14/f and the guy is 15 okay so i have liked this guy for about a year now but like last night after i left church (he goes to my church) i dont know but i had butterflies in my stomach and like i couldnt sleep well at night and like this morning i had butterflies and now i get to see him (i dont talk to him in person but just online) does anyone know what that means?

well to everybody there is a different meaning to the word "love" but the hole butterfly thing just lets you know that you really like him ..maybe you should start to talk to him at school and then become better friends then maybe you guys can eventually become more ...well good luck hope i have help and yes depending on what your description of love is..it is possible to be in "love"
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Okay, my boyfriends name is Michael, and we've been dating now for almost 2 months. I haven't even hugged him yet! We've cuddled & held hands, but I've never actually gone up and gave him a hug. And I've never done anything with him after that. Today I hugged one of my really good guy friends, and Michael found out about it, and now he's all pissed @ me because I've done more with my best guy friend, then I have with him, supposebly. I don't want him to hate me, but he just signed off of AIM & I'm seriously SAD! He said we can't be together if I don't quit flirting with my best friend. ): Please help!

well first off, it's normal to "do" more things with your best guy friend then with your boyfriend..see this reminds me of an experience i went through..see i was going out with this guy devin and had been like 2-3 months and all me and him did was hold hands and thats it..but i had this best friend joel and me and him like hugged everytime we saw each other and it felt like devin was jealous..see my thing was i dont know why exactly but i felt more comfotable hugging joel then i did with devin cause i was nervous.. if this is some what close to what your feeling just tell your boy friend that you are nervous with him because you like him so much but yet with your guy friend you dont feel the same because you don't like him like that...just kind of explain it like that and if he still rejects you and what ever leave him..i know you don't want to but if he gets jealous over you hugging your guy friend even when you explain it then he isn't worth your time because he doesn't want to give you the time of day type of thing...well i hope i have helped good luck byebye

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(sorry it's so long, but its worth reading.)

There's this guy that I have been madly in love with since like, July 2005. Every damn day I think about him more & more, and I want him more & more everytime I think about him. The thing is, is that he's too old for me, and I will never get him because...*tear* He's David Desrosiers. I know, you think I'm just in puppy love. I don't think so. I have NEVER felt this way EVER! I love him sooo much, I HATE HIM. I've been getting jealous easier, and I've been getting mad at my freinds for talking about guys to me. It makes me feel so bad. ***I am extremely self concious, and I guarentee that I don't have the nicest body. I've been gaining weight really fast, and I don't know if it is because I am in love with someone I'm not supossed to be. Am I depressed? I don't think so, but yeah. My friend came up to me and said to get the fuck over him, and that I looked pregnant in the outfit I was in. She isn't very supportive, and I really love this guy. I don't like his looks as much I I like his point of view, his personality, his usage of words, and little things like that. I appreciate anything I can get, and I appreciate him the most. BUT I CNA'T HAVE HIM :( I rate high!

Well maybe you eat when your sad.. have heard about people like that...i eat when i am bored...but do you excersise??...wellz only thing i can say is do anything that will stop you from thinking about him so much... like go for really long walks or something just to get your mind off him for a little bit anyways...If she was your true friend she would support you not make fun of you. Dont listen to people like that who are making you feel bad about your size...it could just be your matabolizim is changed or its just a phase your going through there are many reasons you could be gaining weight...but just keep eating healthy, and getting excersise...Well hope i have somewhat helped good luck

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I took one of my friends to play tennis and he wasnt very good. But the thing that really got to me was that he kept critizing me and telling me what a bad player I WAS!!
I told him that I was just learning to play and was taking lessons. Then he said "what kind of lessons are you taking" and that I was "holding the racket all wrong".
He also said my stamina wasnt very good. What a jerk!! I was nice enough to drive him up to the court and be patient with him even though he was terrible. I may not be a pro but I was certainly better then him.
Well I havent asked him to play since then but he has been asking me if I want to play again.. Should I tell him the truth that I just don't want to play because of how he made me feel?
He also insulted me by saying he bought his wife a tennis racket and that she is "at my level". And I know that is an insult because she isn't athletic at all.
What should I do? And do I have a right to be upset?

yes you do have a right to be mad. thing is you should let him critizis(how ever it is spelled) you, and yes tell him he isnt so hot him self, and that maybe if he took lessons then he would actually learn how to play right...sorry if it sounds a little rude but he had no right to say that to you. well hope i have helped. byebye

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How do i break up with my boyfriend with our hurting him. I like him but not in a boyfriend way. there is no connection anymore. I still want to be his friend. Also he has no clue its coming.well that is what i think
thanks for the help
5's for good advice

well it's always going to hurt believe me..i have been dumped many times:(..it will always hurt but you have to tell him how you feel about your relationship and how you still want to be friends...some people are meant to be friends and nothing more and i have learned that the really hard way..but just be honest and tell him the truth and if he hates you just go on with life..he isn't the most important thing in your life . well hope i have helped

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I have a little crush on Adam Brody from the OC. Is it normal to get a crush on an actor as long as you don't go nutso (which I don't)?

ya its perfectly normal dont worry bout it

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So i've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half.. i once broke up with him for two months and he cried.. ALOT.. then we got back together and now all he does is go out with his friends tell my i'm stupid, call me names, and forget about me. He tells me all the time how he doesn't care about me and that really hurts my feelings.. what should i do?

DUMP him, sorry but you deserve better...that guy sounds like a jerk..and you dont need that in your life.
good luck

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i like this girl at school but i dont know if she likes me should i use the direct approach and aske her out or tell sum1 else 2 do it for me

Well us girls like to think guys are brave enough to ask us out for themselves...so personally i think if ya really like the girl ask her out
good luck
hope i helped
byebye

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Well, here's the story. I'm 14 Female. My friend moved to my town a couple years ago. She visits her old town often, so she brought me with her one time in the summer. It was REALLY fun, we hung out at her old friend's house. And this kid was there. All of us hung out all day. I like the kid that was there, and I have liked him since that night. We talk online every once in a while, and I've talked to him on the phone a few times. It seemed like he liked me from the way we talk to eachother, but I don't know. That was in the summer, and it's October! He lives about 45 minutes away, which is not too bad. I REALLY like him, but I don't know what to do. My friend says it totally sounds like he likes me, but nothing's happening. Also, like, if he asked me out or something, do you think it would work? (him living 45 minutes away?) It would be far to drive just to hang out. I don't know exactly what I'm asking, but if you have any advice, it would be great?

Well if you really like him alot just ask him if he likes you or if he would like the friendship too move forward...and ya 45 mins isnt sooo bad..but dont ya think you guys should talk more than a couple times if your really thinking you like this guy i think it would work but you two need to talk more...and maybe set up some weekends so that you two can hang out and stuff:) well good luck and hope i helped
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OKAY I REALLY REALLY REALLY NEED HELP! so anyone who can help PLEASE DO=]

OK so here my PROBLEM - how can you really flirt with a guy (by the way im 13 hes 15) if you ONLY see him on fridays; ONLY FRIDAYS! and you have his sn, and tlak to online. also, you have his cell number but never call.

ps- i like him vvery much, so i cannot give up just liek that, and ive known him for about ayear now so please help me. i reealy like him and i dont know what to do.

You are right you can't give up..specially if he means that much too you...ask him too the movies or sumthin since you guys are friends and you have all these ways of talkin to him ..ask him to the movies some weekend...and just go from there...do little small things to start the flirtingness:) then just go from there..have fun and good luck
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Ok, I love this girl.
Anyways, I love her so much and well she used to like me as more than a friend, but something happened to me and well we got into fights and stuff. So now she dosen't like me. She knows I like her.. but she just dosen't understand how much.. almost every night i cry myself to sleep over her.. she has a boyfriend or i would be telling this to her. Anyways i found out tonight she has been avoiding me and when i talk to her online that she has been ignoreing me making me think she is away. And it made me think, I may love her so much.. and since she dosen't like me any more maybe she dosen't want to be my friend anymore.. i don't know what to do. She has changed my life in so many ways, saved my life even. *sigh* i just don't know what to do any more. And i'm afraid of what will happen if she wants to part ways and never talk again, because honestly i'd probably kill myself. She just dosen't understand how much she means to me. If you could please just give me some advice on what to do here i would be very greatful.

F.Y.I We live 40 min. away from eachother, we have met once before but only for about 30 secconds, i went and seen her in a play for her Theatre club at school and she had to go change into her normal clothes and then leave. I'd do anything for her.. please help

First off...please never think about suicide..please please..its not good..and it makes me sad to hear about people wanting to end their life over some one...if i can live my life with my folks i think you can live with out the girl..but i am not sayin give up hope cuz thats one thing i dont like too hear ...i am just sayin whatever has happend between you guys..must be sumthing...call her up or email her and stuff and just ask her what went wrong....and say no matter wut you will always be there for her...i do understand how you're feeling towards her right now..but she isnt worth your life...maybe you just stay as a friends right now because you never know she could change her mind...well hope i help a bit
byebye.....GOOD LUCK!!!

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i've been with this girl for 2 months and at first everything was fine but when it started to get to the 2nd month we quit spending time together and everything we quit going places together and quit having sex and all kinds of stuff and i want to know what to do

Well me being a girl and all...Why don't you guys have like a romantic night off sort of thing and just ask her whats going on and how she feels about you guys and stuff like that..and just make it a really nice night out or sumthin..even like a picnic under the stars ..man that would be nice..but yet again all girld are different..hopefully i helped...good luck and i hope everything works out for ya buddy
byebye

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I am really shy around guys but I think I come off as standoffish. I don't mean to be shy...I just can't ever think of anything to say. Is this why guys don't like me?

Well i dont know..i am like that myself woot now i have sumthin too blam instead of me being bigger in size:) thanks..lol..well u shouldnt think that way..but if ya wanna know a good way to start of small ...just start by sayin hi..or even just waving..believe it sumwut worked for me and now i am almost able to talk to anyone..hope all goes well good luck
byebye

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I'm jsut wonder exacally what i should expect from my boyfriend. How much time he shoudl spend on me, what he should do and stuff like that. I've never gone to school with one of my boyfriends before so this is kind of a new thign for me. Also what so u deam "appropriate" for a 14 year old girl and a 15 year old guy to do?

Well i am 15 and personally i wouldnt really expect much but, like holding hand kissing but nuthin toooo drastic..but also remember to have fun... and talk to each other...if ya wants sumthin more then just talked to him about it..hope everything works out well good luck
byebye

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Do you know a romantic way to ask someone out and to a dance?

~Aaron Leung

Well first off are you two friends and do you two hang out at all..well if yes..pull this person aside and just say you kinda just wanna have a chat with her and bring up the fact of the dance and just ask if she would like to go with you, and ask her out:) but do it so u two are alone, personally if a guy did sumthin like that to me i would be happy .. Good luck buddy..
byebye

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there's these two guys that I like lets say ones name is Bob and the other 1's name is Jeff well me and bob have been dating on and off for about 2 years i like him so much...id do anything to make him happy and i mean anything but since my grades were going down because i was paying more attention to him then my homework. Well me and bob decided to break up for a while until my grades pull up... Bob lives in texas down in corpus chrisi and there was a huricane down there his friends talked to me and told me that he said he hated me and i havent hear from him since. That is until today. Well since his friends told me that he said he hated me this other kid asked me out and i said yes. Well this other kid's name is jeff and i kinda like jeff...he comes to my house and we hang out alot. He likes me too. I don't know what to do i really love Bob and well i know im too young to say that (im 14) but i really do love him and id do anything for him well i dont want to hurt jeffs feelings and i want to make bob happy i have no idea what to do! SOME1 PLZ HELP ME ILL RATE HIGH FOR GOOD ADVICE!

Well i think "jeff" deserves the truth of how you feel..but i thought "bob" hated you ..confused??...i think you should have a long talk with "jeff" and tell him everything about your feelings and then somehow talk to "bob" and find out the truth and see if he wants to hook up..and tell him how you feel about him ok..hopefully it all work out for the best Good luck!!!
byebye

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