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there's these two guys that I like lets say ones name is Bob and the other 1's name is Jeff well me and bob have been dating on and off for about 2 years i like him so much...id do anything to make him happy and i mean anything but since my grades were going down because i was paying more attention to him then my homework. Well me and bob decided to break up for a while until my grades pull up... Bob lives in texas down in corpus chrisi and there was a huricane down there his friends talked to me and told me that he said he hated me and i havent hear from him since. That is until today. Well since his friends told me that he said he hated me this other kid asked me out and i said yes. Well this other kid's name is jeff and i kinda like jeff...he comes to my house and we hang out alot. He likes me too. I don't know what to do i really love Bob and well i know im too young to say that (im 14) but i really do love him and id do anything for him well i dont want to hurt jeffs feelings and i want to make bob happy i have no idea what to do! SOME1 PLZ HELP ME ILL RATE HIGH FOR GOOD ADVICE!
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Well i think "jeff" deserves the truth of how you feel..but i thought "bob" hated you ..confused??...i think you should have a long talk with "jeff" and tell him everything about your feelings and then somehow talk to "bob" and find out the truth and see if he wants to hook up..and tell him how you feel about him ok..hopefully it all work out for the best Good luck!!!
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It sounds like jeff would treat you better. He doesn't talk crap about you behind your back to his friends. So get over bob, your 14 it may seem like love but its not. all bob's gonna do is use you, belive me Ive gone through it. stay with jeff.
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Did Bob tell you that he hates you? No. No he didn't, his friends told you. Get the truth from Bob first. Then if you really do love him as much as you say you do, the desicion should be very easy. If he was just angry and saying shit, then forgive him if you want and move on. If he really does hate you, which he shouldn't because you did nothing to warrant such hatred, then forget him. You don't need someone throwing hate at you that you don't deserve. It will be better for you in the long run, because if you really do love Bob so much, this Jeff guy stands no chance. He deserves not to be stung along.
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Okay, first of all you should not have believed what Bob's friends said without confirming it in some way with him. You need to find out what Bob feels for you before you do anything else. If Bob doesn't like you then there's no sense in hurting Jeff over it unless you are unhappy in that relationship. If Bob does like you, you need to talk to both Jeff and Bob about it. They need to know about each other. Explain the entire situation to both of them. Healthy relationships involve honesty. Talking to them will help you decide what to do. If you can't decide after you've done this I would say to try to rekindle relations with Bob. Start talking to him again. It seems from what you've told me that you like Bob better than Jeff. If you think that you will be happier in a long distance relationship with Bob, than a closer relationship with Jeff, don't give up your happiness. Don't worry about Jeff. He will get over you. I hope that I was able to help and good luck!
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Well i think that you should stay with Jeff. If Bob is not talking to you then why should you bother waiting for him. I know that you love him but you are letting this othe guy(Jeff) get away. If you break tings off with Jeff you go on with life wondering what would have happened if i would have stayed with him. It obviously didnt work with you and bob or you would still be together.
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