Question Posted Saturday October 22 2005, 12:31 am
So i've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half.. i once broke up with him for two months and he cried.. ALOT.. then we got back together and now all he does is go out with his friends tell my i'm stupid, call me names, and forget about me. He tells me all the time how he doesn't care about me and that really hurts my feelings.. what should i do?
Eissac answered Monday October 24 2005, 8:55 am: DUMP him, sorry but you deserve better...that guy sounds like a jerk..and you dont need that in your life.
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MELiixMARiiE answered Sunday October 23 2005, 3:45 pm: Wtf? Dump him! He sounds like a total asshole to me. Actually no, he IS a total asshole. You shouldn't treat people like that, I mean, especially your girlfriend. He sounds like he doesn't care about you at all, and so you shouldn't care about him. So, just dump him =/ I hope I helped.
DZANAx3 answered Saturday October 22 2005, 1:24 pm: wow well i think that you should have a serious talk with this guy.. get him away from his friends from everyone and then tell him exactly what you said here,that he hurts your feelings really badly and he cried when u broke up with him. just ask him openly if he likes your or not and if he does then whi is he treating your like that no girl deserves that & if he gives you an answer that is absurd then seriousii i think that you should move on you can do so much better you do not need a guy thats gonna make you misrable. leave one in mi inbox if you need anything else [♥] [ DZANAx3's advice column | Ask DZANAx3 A Question ]
yourperfectdisaster answered Saturday October 22 2005, 12:50 pm: Whoa, you need to lose this guy, fast. He is not doing you ANY good. Reread what you wrote. Do you want to be with a guy who treats you this way? My advice to you: BREAK UP WITH HIM. Please, don't give this guy another chance. Don't hesitate, it will just make it worse! [ yourperfectdisaster's advice column | Ask yourperfectdisaster A Question ]
redderthentomatoes answered Saturday October 22 2005, 12:34 pm: God, who cares if he likes you or not? He's a jerk, an asshole, someone you definately dont need in your life. He takes you for granted, and he wants to hurt you... he sounds like a sadist to me. i think he' trying to redeem himself for crying when you broke up with him, and show that he's better then you. You dont need that trash. Just by staying with him, your honestly disrespeting YOURSELF. Put him where he belongs... the garbage disposal. [ redderthentomatoes's advice column | Ask redderthentomatoes A Question ]
Imperialistic answered Saturday October 22 2005, 2:53 am: First of all, I really hope that your second hook up was your own decision and you weren't pressured into it by him because I see so many girls these days going out with guys because of the guilt and that is not the way to go. You're young. Be with you you want to be.
Secondly, when you broke up with your boyfriend, it obviously hit him -very- hard. Now he realizes how vunerable you made him and he's trying to distance himself from you.
You need to talk to him and tell him that you won't tolerate him doing that anymore and that you understand that you hurt him but if you're willing to make amends, then he should too.
If he continues doing it, dump the bastard because if he keeps doing it, chances are he's preparing himself to break up with you (something that will be easier for him- or his ego, to handle).
Usually when people break up with each other once, it shows that they're human. However, if getting back together escalates into worse behavior, it may be hard to admit it, but maybe it's not meant to be. [ Imperialistic's advice column | Ask Imperialistic A Question ]
xomadiiox answered Saturday October 22 2005, 12:55 am: I think you should tell him what you think. If he doesn't listen I think you should break up with him. And find your self someone that cares about you and appreciates you. well I am Outskiis!! GOOD LUCK && GOD BLESS ! [ xomadiiox's advice column | Ask xomadiiox A Question ]
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