Student...wanna be a Zoologist,after highschool.I've always been told that I give great advice, and my friend got one of these and i didnt know places like this exist, so i decided to give it a shot.
E-mail: Teenqueen_1_3@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Ga.
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
AIM: DorkyJay27
Member Since: July 12, 2004
Answers: 71
Last Update: July 23, 2004
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how pathetic is it to be 17 and never been kissed?? the problem is, i'm just waiting for the right person and i don't know any guys who fit that...i know for a fact that i'm not ugly or disgusting bcuz i've known plenty of people who have liked me or would've gladly kissed me, it's just that i wouldn't want to make my friendships with my guy friends weird and other guys who liked me just were definitely not options...so now it's kind of like i'm waiting but it's embarassing and i feel so stupid...... (link)
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nah, it's kool not to be kissed at 17, so you're picky...what's wrong with that? nothin. lol it's completely understandable that you're waitin on the guy that you want to kiss, and not just b/c you had the oppurtunity.personally i think it's awsome that you havent yet, b/c idk there's like a pride in that,lol even if it's embarrasing for you. but at least you know what you want and your not willin to settle for anything less, so take some pride in that. :)
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i have this boyfreid and i like him alot and we grew up togeather and i want more from him and i feel like hes not giving me enough we only kissed and i want to do more wut should i do! (link)
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If you have true feelings for him..then wait b/c he might not be ready to do 'more' things like you do so just be patient.
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My b/f wants to make out but i don't think im ready.. plus i don't know how... what if i screw up. plus he has a HUGE nose what happens if it gets in the way.. im sooo confused. plus i think i'll feel dirty after. like how could i even look at any of my cousins the same knowing i made out. they look up to me and i have always had the good girl image! AHHH! plus im only turnin 14 and my friends pressure me cuz in highschool everyones made out!and i will be made fun of if i don't know how! (link)
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dont listen to your friends..it isnt true, i just got my first kiss on 4th of july, and im 15 and goin to be a sophmore this upcommin year, plus i know plenty of other people who havent had their first kiss yet. You just wait 'till you're ready...oh and about not knowing how to, you just go with the flow...lol b/c i was scared and didnt know how, but it just comes natural to you once it starts happening...BEWARE OF AN OVER PRODUCTION OF SALIVIA! lol hope i helped.
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im 14 years Old nd i was never kissed or never had a bOy .. my friends say im pretty nd everythin but yeah i dont feel like that ..y ?
o nd hOw can i nOt b shy rOund them its soo hard fo me ??????PLEASE HELp ! (link)
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It's normal, most girls go through this stage, and there will always be a lil bit of shyness around guys, you just have to get a lil more confident with you.
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My boyfriend has smoked cigarettes and gotten drunk just a few times. I hate it SO much! He's only 15 almost 16 years old, why in the hell does he need to smoke? It makes me mad but his friends tell me to get his nipple out of my mouth (referring that I'm a baby) and that he is old enough to do what he wants and its not bad... I'm just looking out for the love of my life! Do you really think I'm acting like an overprotective mom? (link)
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No. It's completely understandable to know where your commin from. So maybe you should just tell him how you're feelin. But do it when his friends arent around, just ask him to try to make an effort to quit.
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im IN LOVE with a guy and i realli want him to like me to but he doesnt seem to care about me the way i care about him even tho he says i love u and stuff i mean i cant take it i have loved him for 2 yrs he liked me b4 but we never told eachother and i neeeeeeed him i love him soo much i cry at nite for him and everything but i dont think he gets it and im too shy to talk to him ....wut can i do? (link)
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The only thing you can really do is talk to him...but b4 that try to get get closer to him and see if he backs off or not.
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i have known johnathan since the 3rd grade and he jus asked me out. I walked by and his friends were laughin cuz he said, I have butterflys in my arm. Then Adam (friend) said its supposed to be ur stomach. Adam said dude do u want me to ask her? Johnathan said, yea plz. then adam said will u go out wit him? I said, I said no, im sry but, we are just really good friends. every since then he hasnt talked to me. do u think hes mad? Iam a female and I am 18. (link)
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Yeah he's probly upset. Or maybe he's just embarrased to speak to you now. You should prob. tell him why you didnt want to go out with him.
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I have been getting zits ever since the beginning of 7th grade. I really hate it. And I use Clean & Clear to clear them up, but the product doesn't exactly work. Do u know any product that will work? What advice would u give me? I looked at ur Zits link, but i've tried all of that..and i still get zits. Please tell me what products u use! It's hard to walk in school when a lot of boys are staring.. (link)
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HAHA! I know that story! Okay,this is gonna sound so weird, but when it comes to those big red/white head zits put toothpaste on them. It stings but it dries out the zit and you see immediate results,make sure you keep it on there for prob. about 30 min...no matter how much it stings...plus just to keep it clear and for the lil zits, anything phsidoerm makes usually works for me. So I would advise that.Hope I helped.
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okay so i was really really close friend with my x we'll call him t.j so i was really close to tj b4 we went out then one day he asked me out and of course i said yes! and we went out for like 3 weeks (not that long) but i was then end of the school year and i didn't want a bf over the summer so i broke up with him. but now when i look back i really miss all the things he used to say and do for me! i really miss him alot now!! and i want him back! but everytime i try to call him the line is always busy cuz his sis talks alot on the phone! so wut do i do? (link)
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Keep tryin to call him 'till some1 finally picks up.Then talk to him about the situation and see if he'll got out again, or even just be friends.
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hey okay well mai boyfriend constantly sends me these pics of these celebrities practically porn pics sometymes and it bothers me and hes lyke oh yeah shes hott and shes hott and sumtymes makes jokes about'em which I think arnt that funny esp when it deals with something sexual ... i meen i knoe he doesnt have a chance w/'em er n e thing but it styll bothers me... when he did it tha 1st tyme i thought he was gonna stop then i realized that hes not stopping! should i act pissed a bit jus ta make him knoe that thats not ryte or should i jus let it happen...cuz it wont matter he doesnt have a chance and thats how he is...?? (link)
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Just tell him to stop, you dont have to get pissed or anything, just tell him you dont want to see pics like that.
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Okay its now summer and like 2 weeks after summer started, my friend that i used to like was in a car accident, and was hospitalized for about a week and it made me realize that i still had feelings for him. So he asked me to go out with him so i did and we have been going out for about a month, but summer is my time to be like free and meet new guys at the beach n everything you know? I mean i like him, but i don't think i really want anything serious right now. Should i tell him i want a break? Should i break up with him? Or just stay with him?? (link)
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Tell him your not real sure right now about settling on one guy. So basically tell him you want a break.
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everytime I get a bf my friends think he's too ugly and that I need better, but it hurts him whenever i tell him what my friends think about him and makes me feel bad. I know how he feels because they dont know what hes like. I told them to stop but they keep at it. and my bf dosnt feel like doing any thing when im around bc of what my friends say. how do I get them to stop???? for me and him (link)
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tell them that if they are your true friends then they'll stop for you. If they dont stop then i wouldnt call them friends, and i would avoid them just to try to teach them a lesson that you are serious when you say somethin.
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Im 14 and ive never kissed a boy?! is that bad!? will people not date me because of that!? i mean boys have attempted to but i didnt let them because they were jerks and they just wanted sex! so help me! i need to know if thats a bad thing! and you'll probably say just to wait....he'll come to me but i cant wait any longer!! :*(
~Help me~ (link)
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No it's not a bad thing,lol, i just got my fist kiss this month, and im 15, so it's definatly okay not to have your first right now.
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How cAn I ge my boyfriend totalk to me???
all he dose is egnore me and Its like everytime I go to talk about him around his friends he gets red in the face andsays he dosn't know me.
What should I do?????? (link)
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Dump his ass! Geez, he doesnt talk to you? And you call him your BF? that's not right what so ever. Just plain dump him.
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17-F Okay...I've never had a really good relationship before. All my friends and seem to have the perfect boyfriends and I can't even meet someone that I connect with. I feel like I'm never going to meet my special someone. I know that your suppoes to be happy with yourself until you can be completely happy with someone else...so I did that...I fixed everything I don't like about myself and really am happy with my life as it is...except not having my significant other...what can I do?
-Sincerely, hopeless (link)
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There really isnt anything you can do. You just have to get through these tough times. But he will come around,for now just have fun with dating ;) lol
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There'a a guy in my grade that i am BEST friends with. I know everythign about him ( not exaggerating) and he knwos everythign about be. I am closer to himthan anyone else i ahve ever met. Theres jsut ome problem...
I really like this kid. He makes me feel really special. I told another one of my close friends baout it and she just told em that she had figured. She told emt aht me and this kid had flirted so amny times before. including when he had another girlfriend.
I really like him but i dont knwo if i shoudl tlel him or not because i dont want to ruin teh friendship that we already have. I love being his best friend btu i like him so much. please tlel me what you think....Oh also, he sends me mixed signals as to whether he likes me too or not... could you also tell me some of the signals i shoudl look for? thanks (link)
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Okay well, bring it up in a convo. like your jokin or something, and just see how he responds to it. OR if you want to be serious with him, Just tell him,but apparently you dont want to lose the friendship Also for some signals to be lookin for physical contact on you, and how he responds when your hangin out with other guys.
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I am currently 14 at the moment and there is already a lot of drama in my life, with boyfriends. One of my past boyfriends wich I will call i (guy 1), I was really happy w/him. I've known guy1 since elementary and we didn't really know if we liked eachother so our realashonship kept going off and on. Untill this past year I thought we were going to stay 2getheer for a longer time, but he just went up to me one day and told me it was over w/no reason at all. I was really heartbroken b/c he made me feel so happy. Then another guy, (guy2) came along and made me feel happy for a while. But I broke up w/him after 3 months b/c I was wasn't so sure if I liked him, or if I was just in love w/the fact of having a boyfriend. I was w/guy1 7 differnt times and in between those times i was w/other guys to, but those realashionships never lasted long, they all cheated on me. Now i feel like i'm searching for another guy just like guy1. I have this dream now that guy1 calls me and tells me that he loves me and he wants me back. I still really love him and i've never finihed that dream so i never get to see what i say. I don't know what to do can n-e-one please give me advice? (link)
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Everthing happens for a reason, try to move on girl, but try not to compare all your other guys to "Guy1" apparently he isn't wantin anything anymore...maybe you can ask him for an explanation of why he broke up with you.
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My guy's away this summer and is supposed to call me every other day or something and it's been like ten days. Today's our 8-month mark. Just opinionwise - should I call him? I called him last time we spoke on the phone.
My mom suggested I make him wait - "let him miss you and call you." She put it this way: "If you don't call him and he doesn't call you, you'll be upset that he didn't call. If you DO call him, you'll still be upset that he didn't call."
Lol
So what do you guys think I should do? Thanks! (link)
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What would you rather do? You're mom has a very good point. But if you do end up callin him, tell him about the situation.
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ok..there is this guy, and ive gone out with him a couple times now, but then he dumped me the last time for no reason. i tell people im over him, but im really not. and when im w/ him he makes it seem like he still likes me, but then online hes really mean to me and will just start yelling at me for no reason?? what should i do?..
-confused (link)
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You should forget about him. Also when you see him ask him why he's mean to online and stuff, b/c it could be his brother or sister or some1 else who has his password for his s/n. You have to make sure you hear it from his mouth.
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okay so ive liked this boy for the longest time every since the beginin of the year ive liked him on and off again. so then when the summer came we were talkin and hanging out and stuff and he grew to like me back so we made plans that we were gonna hook up one day when we were both free. so i was all lookin forward to this day. well i just talked to him online and he told me that he didn't mean to hurt me when he says this but "i really like this other gurl and she is the only one for me right now but we can still b friends" well wtf! PLAYER!! god i cried! i mean i knoe im not supposed to cry over boys but i mean this one really hurt my feeling i didnt kno wut to tell him but i was just trying to be nice about the whole thing saying "i hope everything works out" and just letting it go! did i do the right thing? or was i supposed to tell him how much it hurt me? or was i supposed to play it cool and act like i didn't care? or wut do i do now? please help me asap!
signed
broken heart (link)
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I would have done the same thing, just tell him "hope everyhthing works out" i wouldnt have told him i was crushed by that. And really the only thing you can do now is move on. and let it go.
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