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boy friend troubles
I am currently 14 at the moment and there is already a lot of drama in my life, with boyfriends. One of my past boyfriends wich I will call i (guy 1), I was really happy w/him. I've known guy1 since elementary and we didn't really know if we liked eachother so our realashonship kept going off and on. Untill this past year I thought we were going to stay 2getheer for a longer time, but he just went up to me one day and told me it was over w/no reason at all. I was really heartbroken b/c he made me feel so happy. Then another guy, (guy2) came along and made me feel happy for a while. But I broke up w/him after 3 months b/c I was wasn't so sure if I liked him, or if I was just in love w/the fact of having a boyfriend. I was w/guy1 7 differnt times and in between those times i was w/other guys to, but those realashionships never lasted long, they all cheated on me. Now i feel like i'm searching for another guy just like guy1. I have this dream now that guy1 calls me and tells me that he loves me and he wants me back. I still really love him and i've never finihed that dream so i never get to see what i say. I don't know what to do can n-e-one please give me advice?
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I know u don't wana hear this, but follow your heart. It tells u everything you need to know about love. And don't keep comparing all the other guys to guy1 cause i bet you can do way better! Thanx much!
~Chelsea~
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Everthing happens for a reason, try to move on girl, but try not to compare all your other guys to "Guy1" apparently he isn't wantin anything anymore...maybe you can ask him for an explanation of why he broke up with you.
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Yea, there's a lot of drama in life huh? It sucks sometimes. I'm sorry there is so much. Boys create so much drama lol. But, I think you should call up guy 1 and tell him how you feel. Or you could write him a letter or something on how you feel about him. Just say "I know we haven't talked in awhile and that really upsets me because we use to be so close and I miss that. And to tell you the truth, I've never really stopped liking you, you made me so happy" Just say something like that and how you feel about him. And that you want to know if he still likes you too or still loves you. Because if you don't ask him how he feels about you or if you don't tell him how you feel, you're dream will never be finished. And what kind of dream would that be? So go and finish it! And make it a happy ever after! Good luck and tell me how it goes, if you need anything just ask! =D
xoxo Kourtney
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go up to guy 1 and tell him how u feel. dont think about rejection or embarressment or anything..just tell him flat out how u feel...just to get it out of u. n ifhe duznt feel the same way..then let go. dont go searching for the exact same guy in adifferent body..ull spend your whole life looking. look for someone who just makes you happy...even if its in different ways. good luck x0x0x
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