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Hey BabesZ!Ok well this isnt really askin 4 advice but,i just wanna kno what ur prospective is on my Relationship cuz ppl think im crazy!Ok make a long ass story short,Last year,july 16,03 i started goin o/w my boyfrined,we lasted 2 mnths nd broke up cuz we never saw eachother,so i never got over him and we liked eachother again,so we started goin out that following Ocober 5th,we lasted again for 2 mnths reason being,he cheated on me w.1 of my ex.best gurls,(they actaulyl Had sex =( ) so that was sad cuz i really had storng feelings 4 him nd i never thought it woudl happen,but we never stopped talking he would ask 4 me back all the time nd tell me that he made the biggest mistake of his life nd he would just go on nd on about how much he cared!so it had been about two mnths that we had broke up,nd i gave him 1 more chance!On janurary 21st i took him back,nd i kno it was dumb all my friends couldnt believe it,but the feelings i had were UNREAL! so we have now been together for about 6 mnths..and its been goin great..the 3rd mnth in i gave him my virginity nd i def kno hes been faithful and shit cuz i live in a small town so i would kno if he wasnt lol,i love him to death but the 5th mnth in i kinda kissed a guy, reason being..he was being an ass so i couldnt take it and it just felt like the right thing to do at the time..:( nd later that night i called my baby nd told him,this was the first time i had ever heard my boy cry :( thats when i new he really loved me,i was in shock hearing what i was hearing.."how could u do this..u dont kno what love is" and i just keept saying baby yea i do i kno i love you, i never knew how much he loved me,i always doubted it,cuz ive never had full turst for him after he cheated,but hearing him cry made me believe nd fall 38493483943 times more in love,so now we are both faced w/hate lol not between eachother but our friends hate us cuz we only hang out w/eachother,but w/e i love him and i kno he loves me,we actualyl wanna get married..i kno its crazy but we do,nd i couldnt be more sure hes the one for me and im sure he feels the same,i just dunno if what we have is healthy,i mean we have been through so many fights bcuz we are both so scared of loosing eachother,but we also fight cuz hes so goddamn jealous of guys and FRIENDS..i cant even go to my girls house cuz he thinks ill do drugs and cheat again..but i guess he has a reason to be scared? i dunno im so confused about shit tho 4 some reason, i dunno what do u think about this? Telllllllllllll meee what ya think hunnie..thanks MuahZzZ!!
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all guys are scared but he has to give u some space. but ur probably scared that wen he hangs out wit his friends he mite be doin drugs or gettin busy. i think u did the rite thing by taking him back and ur friends should accept that. but there mad that becuz of him u guys dont hang otu anymore. just try to give u and ur boo sum space and ur relationship should work this out.
(sorry if its crappy ur story was kinda hard to unda stand)
Hope this helps!
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i think..that i've been through the saaammee thing. me and this guy didnt break up THAT many times..but yea..i kno what you mean. it seems like yall have been through alot together..he cheated on you..you cheated on him..and it seems like yalls love has helped yall get through the heartbreaks that ya'll have caused eachother. that love is very very strong. and im a sucker for guys who cry..when they cry because they're hurt..or because they love sumone so mcuh and dont wanna lose them..i dunno..and that was very sweet. i think that if yall are in love..screw what your friends think..if they cant accept you THEN THEY ARENT TRUE FRIENDS!! yall have a very cute and loving relationship adn i hope yall last forever! and wiat for marriage..shoot..get engaged! haha.but just wait til yall are outta college before marriage! okay well if u need ne thing else lemme know..love always ally!
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it sounds like your both not ready for a relationship. he sounds a little immature since he gets jealous of guys and your friends. you best bet would to just distance yourself from each other. i know it may be hard since you live in a small town but just go out with your friends, have fun and try not to think about him. if he happens to be in the same place as your going, leave and find a different place to hang out in... hope i could help! good luck<3
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hey gurl! =D Well...it seems like u 2 really do love eachother now! when you guys fight, it will make you stronger...but just try not to focus on the little things when it comes to fighting! He needs to let you go hang out w/ your friends though...i would sit him down and talk to him! tell him that he NEEDS to trust you!! Let him know that you love him SO much and you wouldnt do anything to hurt him! And about the friends that hate you guys for being together, well they need to understand what you 2 have..but you also should try and include them when you 2 hang out! they might feel left out...Its normal for a guy to be jealous of other guys when it comes to their girlfriends! theres not much you can do about it...allll of them are like that! :-/ Well I hope this helped!
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-xoxo Mallory
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okay..thats really confusing but......u guys must truely love each other with all the fights u get in to and shit,like ppl always say best friends always get in fights but always stay true and always go back to each other,u & him but to make ur guys relationship last hang out with ur friends to baecuse by the time u guys are wanting to get married u might be sick of each other. Your guy is just really worried about u because u really hurt him after u gave him his final chance. aruging is actualy good for ur realationship because it shows ur guys indivialaity.i think u 2 were meant for each other
love always erin
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Wow, that guy seems like a total ass...the one you dated for 2 months on and off, that cheated on you. Sounds like a nasty relationship I ended up in.
Thoughts about marriage isn't crazy...My boy and I have discussed it, and I don't think it's crazy - we love each other. *shrug*
Be careful with a jealous guy, though...they can turn abusive.
It's good, though, that your relationship has withstood a fight or two. Means it's strong. I suppose, after all the stuff, you do have a fairly good relationship with this guy. Make sure he doesn't get too controlling, and watch his jealousy. Hope I helped!
-Siren =)
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Hey ........WOW !!! confusing.... Umm I think you should just try to keep a honest relationship , both of you * Ok well I hope this helps * Good luck -Melissa- Please rate me !~*
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