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Hi all I need help My wife and I have been married for 28 years have a good relationship but we have a few problems. one is when I play softball in the summer she does not like it when all the guys get together and drink beer or go back to the bar for a beer, I have to tell you that I am not that fond of beer but it is fun to get together after, I find myself just leaving after the game just to avoid a fight with her is it a major thing that I would like to stay for a quick beer and just hang around I personally do not see anything wrong but she hates it.. what should I do thanks... (link)
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Just try talking to her, tell her what you just told the Advicenators poepl..(how much it means to you to stay after....not being that fond of beer..etc) Also, maybe she is worried that you might get drunk and hurt yourself, or another person...or that you will just do something plain stupid. You could always try to take her with you so that she can see for herself what really goes on?? I hope that I helped!
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Im 14, female, and i have this really great bf that goes to my school i eat lunch with and is in one of my classes. on the other hand we've been going out for 5 months and i feel like we do the same thing all the time and like hes getting bored or sumthing. Then i have a really good other guy friend that i havent known for that long, which i met through my bf, and i think i like him, and i know he likes me, please help im so lost and confused~ (link)
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Well, do what your heart tells you to...if yu like your boyfriend more, then stay with him but if not then go with the other guy....but dont wait to long to do that or else it might get harder to do...I hope I have answered what you were looking for...if you need more, you can email me at hallwayfiesta44@ev1.net or IM me on donutbandit 00
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ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female (link)
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WEll, try and talk to him about it..when you get him alone tell him about your feelings for him...I cant really say that he POSITIVELY likes you...but im thinkin yes (the signs are obvious)!!!! So, after you find out how he feels about you...then go for it, and maybe ASK HIM OUT??
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A year or two ago i went out w/ this girl. i liked her, she liked me. i dumped her ,because i relized that she wasn't that actractive, and she hated me. she wouldn't talk to me look at me etc. now i see her in the halls and at dismissle. now she really actractive. i don't want to go out w/ her or anything, i just want to be her friend again.what should i do?
p.s. she has a boy-friend now (link)
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WEll, TRY to talk to her or something. Stop her in the halls and ask her to talk with her...no catch. Then ya'll could go somewhere and maybe talk?
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i dated this guy but the timming wasn't right .. anyways we have been talking and we are going out on friday.. actually i'm going over to his house .. my question is even though we have been through that and we have done stuff physically ..its like our 1st date since like 6 months ..are we supposed to catch up were we left of or start again? i mean physically (link)
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Well, it depends on what you and him both want...if you want to "catch up", and so does he...go for it...but if neither of you do then start over?
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okay. i'd been with my boy for a month and i really liked him. the only problem was that we fought. all the time! about the stupidest little things. he will be upset and i'd ask what's wrong and he'd just be all 'nothing' when i knew something was wrong. then he'd say that i said or did something to upset him bet he never told me what. i got so pissed of last night that i dumped him. i live in australia so it's valentines day today and every little thing reminds me of him. i know that if i asked for him back that he would take me but i dont want to be with him. i dont think. i'm just confused. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
signed,
confused (link)
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Why dont you call and talk to him about it, explain your feelings to him, tell him about how ya'll fought about stupid stuff and that you are confused...
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well, ya see, me and this guy have been going out for like.. 7 months or so. i REALLY like him, and my friend thinks i'm in love with him. my parents HATE him, so i didnt tell them. they talk bad about him ALLLLL the time, and drives me nuts. my friends talk bad about him all the time too, and they know about us. i never get to see him, but my best friends think he loves me too... but.. he never tells me this or anything.. i really wanna break it off, cuz he says the meanest things and such, and my friends are like.. EHH.. but when we're together, i can't help but gaze into his eyes and want to kiss him... any ideas? (link)
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Well, do what your heart tells you...(the oldest, lamest line the book, I know!) But, just keep this in mind, Boyfriends are just boyfriends, but friends are till the end!!! SO, if he ins't worht losing your friends over, then don't do it. Plus, if he is saying mean things to you or about you or your friends, then he is a pretty big jerk.
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Ok me and my BF just broke up and now I really like him..or do I am not sure what the hek my true fellings for him are....do I like Him or not..I dont know, someone please help me! (link)
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I can't tell you whether or not you like him or not, but why don't you sit down when you have some free time and think about all the good things about him and all the bad, then you might be able to decide if you like him or not. Or think about if you like someone else? You could also think about why ya'll broke up?
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so about a year ago, my dad and my step mom got a divorce. It really suc'd like any divorce, but my stEp mom blamed it on me...I still belive deep down that it was my fault, but everyone tells me it wasnt. Ive been through so many consolurs and crap, but i still don't feel good about it. I still rember the last night we talked...she told me how much she hated me...((the mom i had for the last 12 years just told me she hated me))then she refused to talk to me for the last like month she lived with us.
well my real mom's really f'd up, and my former step mom wont talk to me ever again..and i realli dont like my dads new g-f..i need a mom. im a teenage girl...my dad doesnt always get it..Where should i turn? I mean i can talk to my freinds...but i would love more then anything to have a mom...should i try apologizing to my former step mom, or call my real mmom...ee..lost (link)
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Well, maybe you should try to sit down and talk with your former step-mom. I don't see why I should tell you to apologize to her- after all, you didn't do anything...right? Sit her down and ask her why she is blaming you, and see if you can work it out with her. But, try not to yell and things, that would only make it worse. You could also try and call your real mother. But, I think you should call ur step-mom because she has been there for the last 12 years. If it makes you feel better, then you can apologize to her, but, it's not your fault. Unless you have a really good friend, and her mom is like a mom to you, you could talk to her? well, I hope i hepled a littel bit! if you need anything else you can email me: HaLlWaYfIeStA44@ev1.net
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Ok, so there's this kid at my school that is obsessed with me, and we talk on the phone and internet and hes asked me out several times already, everytime i said i wasn't sure, what my question is is that do you think it would be smart to get to know him better, or is it "bad" to have an obsessive boyfriend? I don't really "like" him yet, but hes one of the sweetest kids i've ever met. Okay.. sorry it was long thanks
ashley (link)
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Well, if you DONT like him and you DONT want to go out with him, dont lead him on- dont tell him u arent sure if you are. But, if you want to give him a chance and get to know him then GO 4 IT!!!
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ive been talking to this kid on the comp and hes been sending me mixed signals. i go to school and he doenst talk 2 me but as soon as i sign on there is his s/n saying hey to me.One time he even decided that i should call him. i talk to him everyday on the comp but never at school! what should i do?! iam so lost PLEASE HELP I RATE! (link)
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Well, Maybe you should try and talk to him after he IM's you. Ask him why he only talks to you on the computer and not at school. I mean, if he doesn't want to talk to you because of who he hangs out with or who you hang out with, then he is a jerkoff.
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alright i am a 13 year old male and i am friends with this one girl. She already has a boyfriend but he goes to a different skool and she doesn't really get to talk to him. And i like the girl sooo much... What should i do ask her out?? (link)
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I think that you should ask her out, I mean, if she likes you and you like her, then whats the point if the other guy if she doesnt get to talk to him? BUT, DONT pressure her into cheating. If she says no, because of him, dont make her feel guilty about it. I hope i helped a little bit!
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i have been spending A LOT of time with my b/f and i haven't been spending as much time with my girlies. i want to hang out with my girlies more and spend time with my b/f just not as much. how can i tell him, nicely, that i would like some space to spend time with the girlies? thanks in advance.
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Well, try saying that you are having a girls night only. Or tell him that he can hang out with his guy friends also! He should understand, because maybe he feels the same?
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Okay, well, my ex girlfriend and I have always had an extremely skay relationship. Until a few weeks ago. We date off and on, and all of a sudden, we just like, stopped fighting. And I fell completely in love with her...
Well, I made her make a LiveJournal, because I thought it would help her vent out her problems, because she has a sort of hard life. Her parents like, seriously abuse her, and they might even hate her. So I thought it might help...
But then her best friend commented about how she cut them out of her life. And then she posted a conversation on there that my ex and her had about a week ago. Basically saying how I was a "fucking bitch who fucking bitches at her everyday because I'm such a bitch" and she's telling her friend that she wants to have some days apart and see if I'll come crawling back, because she thinks I'm that pathetic, and she tells them that I bitch at her everytime she hangs out with them...
Truth is, is that I bitch at her because she lies to me about them. I mean, I wouldn't care if she hung out with them or not, but the fact that she has to frikken lie about it is the thing that pisses me off. And another fact is that I tell her at least once a week to hang out with her friends. But she never does. She's so god damned clutchy and possessive (not to mention obsessive) over me. So really, she'd be the one crawling back to me...
So now, she's trying to make a complete 180. She says that she's stopped lying to everyone, and that she really wants me back (because, obviously, I dumped her ass), and that I mean the world to her and how she won't be able to function with out me. But I can't trust her. At all. I mean, the minute I fell in love with her, she backstabbed me. So I decided to give her another chance...
And then she tells me that she's going out with her friend to the mall. She hates the mall. She never goes ANYWHERE with me, let alone the mall. I mean, gah, she hates shopping. So it's like se's been lying to me about this whole thing. Either that, or just neglecting me completely...
So what I want to know is do you guys think I should try it again? Because she won't leave me alone about giving her another chance...
So what should I do?
Sorry it's so long :/ (link)
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Well, sit her down and try to talk to her about it, explain that you have given her other second chances and that she abused them. Tell her that she needs to get help. Because, if her parents abuse her, YOU or somebody else needs to tell sOMEONE. And just keep in mind (i know this isnt a good excuse) but she gets abused and things. She probly thinks that thats the only way to deal with it is by doing one thing and then another completely opposite, mayeb thats how she is able to get what she wants all the time. (well, almost) And maybe she gets it from her parents (no offense to her). But that is the best that i can give you! I hope i helped alittle bit!
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I have a new boyfriend and things are going great, but I can't help but shy away. I really want to get close to him, but I have been hurt before and I don't want to get hurt again. Does anyone know how to break down the walls that I have built up to protect myself? I would really appreciate it. Thanks... (link)
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Well, try talking to him about it, if he says "I love you" and you aren't ready then don't say it back, tell him that you aren't ready and that you have been hurt before and if he REALLY doesn't love you, then to please not say it. But, for a good relationship you have to confide in eachother and trust eachother and talk anout your feelings! (I know that was the lamest thing in the world, but, I found that it DOES work!) I hope I helped a little bit!
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my friend just told me last night she asked the guy im really good friends with and love to death if he wanted 2 go out with me and she said he said no sorry but when my best friends asked him today he said he didnt even talk to her last night today also alot of other people asked him out for me and they said he said he didnt want to because he wanted to stay single but right now i think everyone is lieing to me and I dont know the truth. I think my best friends will ask him tomorrow and maybe I can rely on them but Im afraid if he says no I'm going to be a wreck on Valentines Day and I love him so much if he breaks my heart ill be up all night crying and even though were like best friends right now I dont know if he will even care...
WHAT SHOULD I DO?
need help ASAP please i need advice!! PLEASE! (link)
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Why don;t you try asking him yourself. The only person you can REALLY trust is yourself. If he says no, then maybe it's not the right time, Maybe (I know you don't want to hear this) you aren't meant to be. Or maybe he is a jerkoff and don't know what he is missing. Ask him yourself, it's the only way you will know the truth. I hope I helped a little bit!
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Is it bad if your boyfriends "belongings" smell a little bit wierd/mildewy...my boyfriend Chad wants me to give him oral sex well when he pushes my head down there**i start to gag a little bit....but i dont want to be rude or ne thing but it makes me gag a lot and its a tad bit undigesting!HELP i rate so high that it touches the sky!teehee (link)
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man, that is bad. Well, try asking him to take a shoer or something. Or, if and when you give him oral then rub some lotion on there or some germ X. I know that wasn't the BEST advice that you were probably hoping to get. But, the only thing I can tell you to do is talk to him about it, secretly. Don't go and tell all your friends. I hope I helped a little bit atleast
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13 female. Theres this guy that i soooooo totally like... alot. He was in all my classes last year and he was sort of nerdy looking but totally awsome in personality. then over the summer it was like, wow, something happened, because when he came back, he was seriously hott. SO i told like one person that i liked him, and then she told other peple, and other peple told other peple who told him... and then my friend asked him out for me without my permission and he said no. Later i found out one of my best friends was still crushin on him from last year, but she's not mad about it. She's actually fine with it. Then Later i found out one of my friends asked him why he said no and he said cuz he doesnt know me that well, and i was like, we were great friends last year!!! when i went back to school on monday 2 days after the "asking out day" ugh, he said hi to me like nothing happened. its just usually i'm the one who always says hi. I really dont know what to do beacause i really like him. sry its long, but i really need help on this so please dont skip it!!! thanks (link)
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well, are you positive that your friend isn't lying to you? I mean she could have sed that she was fine with it, but really wasn't. Maybe you should try and talk to him, maybe he was shy about gettibg asked out (since he was a "nerd" last year) who knows...try and talk to him or something.
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I have been dating this kid for 2 months now. He is 17 and i am 15. Before i started dating him he was dating this other girl that was 20 years old and they were engaged. Well a few months after i met this kid he broke up with his girlfriend and started dating me. Well you see hes always going out with his friends and most of the time if he goes to his friends house he doesnt come home for 2-3 days. People that he is friends with and people who i am friends with are telling me hes cheating on me and im dumb for not seeing it. Do you think hes cheating on me? What should i do?
-Please help me!! (link)
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You could try asking him, but I highly doubt you will get a straight answer. He probly is, if his friends are saying it. but, you should do what you have to do befoe he does.
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okay,
Like, my boyfriend wants me to do more whenever we are making out (like touch him and stuff) the problem is, I don't know where to touch him without getting too serious can sum one please give me some ideas!!!
I rate high :) (link)
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ok, well...try and touch his lower stomach...like rub him around there and start to play with the top part of his boxers...
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