Hi! My name is Melissa. I'm 15, from Oklahoma and sometimes it seems like I'm better at giving advice rather than taking it, (only sometimes). I love meeting new people and talking and all kinds of crazy stuff. I'll try anything once which is probably why I'm always in trouble but hey, it's hard not to be at such a crazy age when you have a car and a boyfriend and tons of free time right? anyways, ask me anything and I'll answer you and if you don't want anyone else to be able to read it , email it to me and ill get back to you, K? love you lots! BabyGurl_1503
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Irishchick24
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Starting about two months before summer i started liking this guy- we got really drunk one night and were making out~ we had hung out alot before that night but i had never looked at him that way or had feelings for him like i did. After that night we hung out alot and usually ended up doing stuff. It lasted throughout the summer, and i really liked him, he would tell me how much he loved me and how he had never met anyone like me, i meant Everything to him and he meant everything to me. He always bothered me to have sex with him, we had been fighting like the beginning of september, one night i was just so sick of fighting with him i just said lets do it maybe it will make things better so we did. The next day we didn't talk, the week after that we didn't talk either. finally i got to discuss what had happend with him and he told me he needed time, it was over but he still cared for me. Now he just treats me like shit doesn't care how i feel about any of this and just ignores me all the time, it just seems like we never loved at all he just hates me. what should i do to finally understand what happens, what should i ask him to know what happend between us that ruined out relashionship????? (link)
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i think he was just in it for the sex because usually thats how it ends up. they tell you they love you and just how much they need you in their lives and how you willl be together forever just to get you into bed and once they get what they want theyre jerks. it happened to me to this past summer only we werent drunk. my advice to you is just try to get over him and move on. hes a jerk and that was his own dumbness for doing that to you. soon hell probably think about how stupid he was and by then itll be to late for him but you just need to try to focus on other stuff and try to ignore him as well. the more you try to talk to him the more itll hurt and stay on your mind. i hope i helped. sorry if i didnt. Good luck
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i went on my first date with my boyfriend last night and he was kinda selfish...during the movie i took out my last ten dollars and he grabbed it and stuff...i thought he'd give it back but he spent it on himself! he bought popcorn..i didnt want any tho. then we went to the dollar store and he bought a whole bunch of stuff for himself with my money! he didnt ask me or anything. i dont want to talk to him about it cuz i dont know why..i guess im shy...he doesnt have aim or anything so i cant IM him...if you guys help me i will rate you a 5!! also if you have AIM, please IM me at SummerSunset48. thanks (link)
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i know you dont want to talk to him but lets be honest... you need to! the guys a jerk and conceited. you dont need that little boy no matter how hot he is or whatever. you need someone who cares about you too and not just your money call him or write him or ask a friend to come with you to talk to him for support whatever it takes you need to get rid of him hope i helped.
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There's this guy that I really like, we'll call him David. Anyway, David knows I like him, and he says he likes me too. But, he also says that he wants to wait to ask me out, till he gets to know me better. Anyway, he kissed me the other night, and I'm afraid it's going to turn into a friends with benefits relationship, which I don't want at all, but I have no self control around him, I can't help from kissing him back. How do I get him to ask me out sooner? (link)
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Wow! relationships are crazy, huh? I've been there a few times but the guy actually had a girlfriend. All I can say is for you to ask him out or to tell him that you want to have a real relationship with him not a fling. Good luck!
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how can i make my crush like me enough to finally ask me out. cuz he does like me is just dat i dont feel any connection at all. but he tells all my friends he likes me so wat's up with dat ? (link)
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I think if you like him you should ask him out instead of waiting for him to ask you. It may seem a little strange but its really not that wierd. If he says no then atleast you can say you tried and if he says yes then you'll be 10 times happier but you have to try in order to get anywhere.
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hey my name is Ashley and i'm a feamle(of course) and i'm 14 yrs. old heres my question for anybody with good advice!!!
I like my best friends ex!!! Heres the scoop... they broke up because my best friend was confused and she cheated on him. Well now(two months later) she starts telling me she now knows what she was missing and she really did love him and she wants desperately to go with him again. Now i've been talking to him since they broke up because he needed a friend cuz he really liked her but she cheated on him.(yea i kno guys actually have feelings...well at least the good ones) and i'm starting to like him now i mean he's the perfect boyfriend he's cute, hilarious, loving, i don't know he's just soOoOo great!! the thing is that my best friend who i've been friends with for almost 11 yrs. still "loves" him i really really think she'll be so mad if he askes me out or if i ask him. I dont know what to do cuz i dont want her to be mad at me but i dont get very many guys nowadays and i really like him and he told me i was hot yesterday please help me!!
Luv,
~~~ASHLEY~~~
P.S. i rate high
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If your best friend cheated on him and then dumped him then thats her fault, if he likes you the way you like him she no longer has a chance with him. If you like him you should go for it. Don't worry to much about your best friend, talk to her if you need to. If she's really that great of a friend she will get over her mistakes and move on to someone else and be supportive of you. I'm telling you this from experience, I'm caught in the same place right now but it's working and it will for you too. Just go for it. Good luck! Luv Melissa
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Me and my girlfriend are in a delema she is makeing a dission between me or another guy she says she is confused. and she says she loves me but my point of view is if she loves me as much as she says she does then i would this it would be no comp. I love her like no other. Im thinking she is playing both sides she wants me to be here if she picks the other guy and it goes wrong with them. my prob is what should i do if she picks him. I would hope she'd pick me though. (link)
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truth be told, she sounds like she's just playing games. it sounds to me like she's just wanting to have fun with you both and not to bring your hopes down but there's probably more than just you and this other guy with her. It's a game and until she loses, the game won't end.
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I sometimes feel the need to have a relationship, like my self-esteem is really low because I believe I need one (like a serious one)... is this normal? what should I do? (link)
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yes its normal. everyone goes through it sooner or later but the only thing you can really do is find someone you really like and see what happens, hope i helped.
BabyGurl
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hi
I'm 27 years old male from Windhoek,Namibia.
my girlfriend and i broke up after two years of healthy relationhsip.i still love her very much though and i'm pleading day and night for her to give it another try.i know her decision was made by the influence of some of her family. her family pretents alot with me,but i don't have a problem with them.altough i'm now living 400km away from her i still can't get her out of my mind.she was and still is the best thing that has ever happen to me.
please help me..what do i do to get her back.
Thank you
Haroldt (link)
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no matter how far away you move from her she'll still be on your mind like crazy. maybe you should just lay off the subject with her awhile and just try to hang out with her again. maybe things will change
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umm theres this guy that likes me alot and he is def. not my type...... but my friends tell him i lik him bc they feel bad for him... But i dont like him... Im going icekating on my birthday and soo is he.... he is giving me this real diamond ring and asking me out... what should i do? (link)
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if you dont like him as a boyfriend then dont go out with him just break it to him easy or you could atleast try it and if you still feel this way then break up with him i dont know what else to say. good luck
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I recently started liking my friend, "Ray". We were hanging out a couple weeks ago & we were flirting a lot. Then we kissed.. Twice. The next day, I talked to him & he admitted that he has a girlfriend! Does this make me a slut, because I didn't know that he was cheating on his girlfriend! (link)
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no this doesnt make you a slut. he should have told you he had a girl and he didnt and if he would have then you wouldnt have done it right? right. so dont beat yourself up your not a slut. this just makes him a crappy boyfriend and friend.
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here goes. i met this boy over summer and we became best friends since we couldnt date since i had a boy. when me and my boy broke up i ended up leaving and going back to my hometown. the guy i met from summer(his names kevin) called me a few times and mentioned a girl once and he said she liked him and they might go out. the thing is i really like him alot but before i left i couldnt even kiss him when he wanted me to because i didnt want to fall in love with him. i came back last night and i went out with him tonight. he said he had a g/f and then the next thing i know he was talking about spending the night when my moms gone and having some fun and he said he only told me he had a girl to make me jealous. i really like him alot but i dont know if im ready to go that far with him. what do i do? someone please help me out. (link)
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what is love? how do u know when u r in love? please help cause i have wanted to know for a long time (link)
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when your in love you get really nervous around that person and you get butterflies in your stomache and you would rather be with that person than anyone else in the world. when your in love your so happy you just want to laugh and smile all the time and want to make each moment with that person last forever. thats love.
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One day, me and my best friend(a guy!) were just hanging out at my house, and somehow we started talking about what we liked in guys or girls, and we just kindda were like, "you know, were perfect for each other!" so we kind of hooked up right then. We were kising and cuddling at first, and then we started making out. And i dont just mean a lot of kissing and moving your head...this was very passionate and intimate. i was in HEAVEN. I thought he was going to be my knight in shining armor..but the next day it was like nothing happened. i called him to see what he was doing, and he told me he was getting ready to go out on a date with this really sleezy girl from another school. After about 3 days, he called me to tell me that they were dating. i was devestated. he truly broke my heart. It has been three months since they got together, and he just called me to tell me that they broke up. I have worked so hard to get over him, but now i have a chance to be with him. Is he even worth it? i mean...what if he hurts me again? i dont think i could handle that. Please tell me what to do! Take him back or Leave him in the dust? (link)
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id say forget about him. hes not worth it. i dont even know him but i can tell by what you wrote that hes a jerk. he doesnt deserve you and you deserve better.
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what is the difference between seeing some one and being boyfriend girlfriend with them? (link)
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seeing someone is when your not really with them so your allowed to go out on dates and flirt with others as well as with that one and being boyfriend and girlfriend is when your only with that one person and not going on dates with anyone else.
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i was with this guy for 3 months and then we broke up because he said he couldnt just be with one person and then 3 days later i lose my virginity to him then we went back out for another month and then we broke up again this time i did cuz he was acting like a jerk. but ever since he had been saying how he still verry much liked me and would write me letters and what not and then like recently he got verrrrry mad at me but b4 he asked me to HOMECOMMING and i already got my dress. and now that he is mad at me he was talking to some other girl who is like 2 yrs younger then him to go. oh and he reason why he is mad was cuz i told him about this party and didnt show and all the ppl there made fun of him and his crew of like 10 people and then yeahhh.... so what should i do about home comming talk to him about it or like go with someone else or dont o at all. im the kinda person who woulnd be bummed if i didnt go even tho i love dressing up??? what are your thoughts on such a situation...good or bad i am interested in knowing:) (link)
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go to homecoming and have a great time. just dont go with him. hes not worth it.
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