Q: I`m single and ready to mingle but there is a fiew problems. I get really nervous around guys and they tend to try and use meh (I dont let them) I`d really like to get a steady boyfriend cause I`m going to be going into highschool and its like a fresh start. This past year i had 6 boyfriends and none of them were steady. Also I am trying to get a job to help out my family. But I get nervous around people I dont know.. Any tips?
14/f

Q: How can i be more affectionate with my bf. He thinks i dont like him as much as I do so yeah what kind of stuff can i do to make him more convinced? (nothing that involves taking off clothes) I RATE REALLY GOOD! So please give good advice.

Q: Would it be possible if a 14 yearold boy would like a 12 year old girl? She's sorta developed for her age. Or is it a waste of time?

Friend wanted to know

Q: OKay I know there's a lot of questions like these, but I really need your absolute HONEST opinion about what I should do.

Me & this kid named Joshua met in May, and we've been very close since, we started dating the day we met because we had a lot in common, and we straight off the bat liked each other. We dated for about two months, until he broke up with me because he had feelings towards another girl. Which I was okay with, because I knew he'd come to me, our relationship was just too strong to be friends. We dated, again - I took him back because I just really liked him (not loved.)

In about July I started having extreme feelings for Joshua, he made me so happy, I thought maybe I was falling in love? I was really unsure, so we were still dating, & he broke up with me again, and he didn't tell me why. Then we dated AGAIN & I broke up with him because I thought I felt feelings towards my best guy friend. Now we're just pretty good friends, we talk a lot, & I just found out that while we were dating, he was telling his best girl - friend that he loved her, and calling her baby. That makes me extremely mad, because he's hurt me so much & I've never done anything like this to him before.

My question is: Should I still remain friends with him?? I don't think I'd ever be able to date him again. But he hurt me so many times in the past, I'm just unsure. If you were in my situation would you be friends with him, or would you never talk to him, again?

Thanks =)
I'll rate you a five just for answering my question. Sorry it's forever and a day long.

Q: i want to learn how to grind, can you give me some steps on how to do it?

Q: well my ex boyfriends birthday is coming up and we decided we were gonna spend the day together after school or the following day together! weve been broken up for almost 7 months now! ya i know a really long time! but through it all weve been like best of friends and we talk all the time! and weve hung out twice this summer! well he does tell me he knows we both want to be together but it wont work right now because he is dating another girl but they arent going out cause she cant have a boyfriend! and even after being broke up hes like i love u and i always will! and just last night he said he missed us! and i still really care about him! but anyways for his bday i wanna do something really cute! i was already thinking about making him a cake and decorating it all cute and getting him a card! but i was trying to think of something else special i could do to show him how much i care! any ideas? thanks so much!

Q: I've been friends with this guy for about 2 years now, and a few months ago he confessed to me that he really likes me. i told him i wasn't sure about my feelings (beyond friendship) and that i didn't want to rush anything, and he was okay with it. we don't see each other too often, but i enjoy the time we spend together. i'd be ready to take the relationship further because we really are a good match personality-wise and i do like him a lot, but the only thing that bothers me about him are his looks. i hate admitting that to myself and i'm ashamed that i let it stand in my way. he's a really great guy, but physically he's like a 3 on 10! i know i should be able to, well, look past his looks, but it's hard to imagine being more than friends with someone you aren't really attracted to. i'm just so angry with myself...but i can't help it...i can't see myself being able to introduce him to people as my boyfriend or kissing him. it drives me up the wall being unsure of what i want just because he's far from good-looking! i've never thought of myself as shallow; i've been with other guys who couldn't have been considered that cute and it didn't bother me because i liked them for their personality, but this guy is just so far from even that...what's worse is that recently i met another guy who's really cute and who seems interested in me, and even though i don't feel nearly as much of a connection with him as i feel with my other friend, i'm tempted by him because he's just...so much more tempting!! i don't want to hurt anyone and i don't want to make the wrong choice because something stupid is holding me back. sorry for this being so long, but if anyone has any advice i'd appreciate it VERY much!

Q: okay so tomorow im going to this girls house, we have liked eachother for 3 yrs and are going out, i am gonna get there at like early in the morning while she is still asleep, i was going to make her breakfast in bed but she doesnt realy eat breakfast cuz she has a weak stomach. I really want to do something sweet so she wakes up to a wonderful surprise and realizes how much i care about her, any great suggestions would be nice...thank you!

Q: what do you do wen your goin out wif a guy.. and your best guy friend who you really like and have always wanted to go out with him asks you out... i mean i rilly like the guy im going out with and i really like my best friend?? me and my b/f lets call him jon have been goin out for a couple weeks now and my best frind lets call him bob juz asked me out today?! i have always wanted to go out with bob but he never asked and now that im going out with jon , bob decides to ask me out! i dont want answers tht say well its up to you..i need advice..thnx!! i rate high!!!!!

Q: Okay. I like this boy and everything but he is like my best guy friend that I have! i like him so much. I'm not scared to tell anyone that I like them if I do. But I'm thinking about our relationship together. I don't want to ruin what we have right now. But I want more. I mean, if I told him and he didnt like me, it would be totally awkward!! Does anyone have any advice? I will rate high for GOOD advice!!

Q: ok, well my ex girlfriend and i just got done breaking up with each other cause we aggreed on it and stuff on saturday night, well today i was hangin with this girl and i really like her (ive only known her for 2 days, but theres somthin about her) and i dont know if i should go into a relationship with her, or if i should still think about it, cause really i dunno
14/m

Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for a short amount of two weeks, and only two weeks. Last time I saw him he tried to touch my chest as we were kissing and I pulled his hand away and I got extemely uncomfortable around him that night. He knew I was too. Here I am a week later and he tried to do the same thing again tonight. I let him for a second then just stopped kissing him and got very quiet after that and just continued to watch the movie. We kind of have this joke about how I don't like my stomach so he was laughing about it and he kind of pulled my shirt up just so you could see my stomach just a little bit. So I pulled my shirt back down, but he put his hand under it. I laughed cause he was tickleing me too, but then he moved his hand up. I pulled his hand out right away and luckily my mom came to pick me up after that happened.
I live off the moto- "forgive and forget" I'm forgiving him, but it makes me feel really degrated and small that he'd try that two weeks into this realationship. He's really sorry and he knows it made me uncomfortable, but I don't know how to act now. I want to show him it's alright, but I don't want him trying again... what do I do? Should I feel uncomfortable?

Q: I'm 15/f. There's this guy that I like, but I'm afraid to try to talk to him, b/c a friend started saying things about us that aren't true. So I don't know what he thinks about all of it, so it might be a little weird for me to talk to him. But I really like him. What should I do? I'll rate 5's for good advice.

Q: Hey. I have a big problem. I had a crush on this guy who is like 2 years older then me {i'm 14, so he is 16}, just a tiny one. But, my older sister who is 20 LIKES him. But, it sucks because all the guys I like I can't because of friends, and now it's come down to my sisters. I liked a guy that was my other sisters age but then she started likin him so i had to back off, since he was so much older... but there not dating ne ways. But, my 20 year old sister is going out on a date with him... What if they become boyfriend and girlfriend.... maybe i just think that he's cute... But i dunno... If they do become bf and gf, it would be weird if i like, see them kissing or something.. well maybe it wont. I'm really confused...

Q: Ok theres this kid i know, and we met at camp. were always making eye contact and at the dance he waited til the last song to ask me to dance.. i kno i like him, but im not sure if he likes me.. i wanna talk to him more but when i talk to him i get all shy and stop talkin. Wat are some good topics to talk to him about and do u think he could possibly like me?
please anything!
i rate 5's!!

Q: okay me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 5 months. i knew her a good while before, and fell in love with her before we started going out. she says she is so in love with me, and sometimes yeah, it seems like it i mean she brings me random gifts and calls me back right after we hang up. dont get me wrong she does many other good things too. but what im wondering is we broke up 3 times. i did it once, she did it once, and 1 time was a misunderstanding. each time i had to fight my little but off to get her back, shes so stubborn she wont even put forth an effort. she kinda seems like she just watches me try. well either way im in love with her so im forced to deal with it. whenever i try to get us back together, she just ignores me. its not fair, i just spin my wheels and she doesnt notice how upset i am, or she does and doesnt care. im in love with her and want her back but it hurts. she promised shes never leave but she did and now its really hard to get her back. i promised i wouldnt let her leave but she just doesnt care what i say. what do i do? she broke up with me this time... i mean how do i deal with this? dont say to stop talking to her cse its impossible and dont say try to get over her cse everything reminds me of her and it would be impossible nonetheless. please help me

thanks
-ger

Q: hi pplz. i think i like this boy but i'm scared to tell him. what can i say to give him hints that i like him. he's supposed to come down tomarrow. to talk to me and stuff and watch a movie. but i still wanna tell him b4 hand that i like him..please help me

Q: I'm 17 and female, and I've known my best friend Thomas for nearly a year. We hang out all the time, even stay the night at one another's houses every now and then.
Well, right now I'm house-sitting for him while he's on a trip. I stayed the night here the other night so I wouldn't have to have my mom drive me over at 7:00 in the morning. So we're up at three in the morning talking about everything, like we always do when we sleep over. And then he kissed me... and told me that he loves me.
I have a boyfriend who I love very much, and I just don't care about Thomas in the way that he cares about me. But I somewhat returned the kiss. As a matter of fact... we kind of kissed a lot. Mostly the sweet, peck type, but a little (and I do mean a little) tongue every now and then. When it was all over and we both regained our senses, I cried. When he said he loved me, I said, "Don't say that." We talked about it a little, but then decided that we'll really have a long talk when he gets back from his vacation.
So I have a few questions. First of all, did I cheat on my boyfriend? I've never done anything like this... I don't know if it's cheating. I don't ever want to tell my boyfriend that it happened -- he'll break up with me and it was all just a huge mistake and I regret that it happened (even though it brought a lot of stuff to the surface -- I didn't even know Thomas liked me). When I talk to Thomas, what should I say? I don't want to hurt his feelings, and I don't want to ruin our awesome friendship. But I want him to know that I don't care about him the way he does about me, and I don't want him to hate me for this. Please help me.

Q: i have this problem where i cant stay in a realashion ship for a long time or else i get sick of the guy how do i change that

Q: im 15, blonde, athletic, skinny and about 5'11 and i don't think im ugly..but idk if guys are like intimidated by my height or what..i have alot of friends..but not that guy friends that i hang out with..so any suggestions on how to be more outgoing around guys w/ out being self concious about my height..or just any general advice would be great!

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