about

Heyy!! My name is Amber. I am 14 years old .. and I go to FHS. I'm in the 9th grade. I love to give advice, even tho some times I might not give GREAT advice .. but I'll try my hardest! I love to hang out with my friends // play sports // go on long walks // go to the beach // go to the movies // and listen to music. If you need anything, jus IM me at [xPH0T0C0PYHEARTS] and I'll be sure to answer any of your questions!

advice

hi, i think i like someone a lot but some of my other friends like the person too. I really like this person. I dont know if the person even likes me thought. Here are my questions
1.) how do i know if the person likes me?
2.) if they asked my out, if they do like me, what should i say?

thank you so-> much

It's kind of hard to "like" someone when your other friends do. You guys might get in a fight of something. If he asked you out, I would talk to your friends about it before you answer him. I know it might sound corny, but get their approval. They should be fine with it if their your true friends. Good luck with everything. If you need anything else, just drop one in my inbox =].


'l|[ Amber ]|l'

[view]

I am 15! and well their is this kid who I found out that he likes me..I could tell he liked me.. soo I was like ok sure..the only problem is he is a few years younger than me and went out with one of my best friends..who kinda still cares about him and him about her! he is a great friend I can tell him lots of things and not care..soo the question is what should I do?

Wow. Your friend still cares about him, and he still has feelings for her. So I wouldn't try and pull anything. But age shouldn't madder anyways. I wouldn't take anything to the next level. Maybe in the future you guys will. But I would wait until things cool off between your friend and him. Good luck with everything. Hope I helped!


'l|[ Amber =o) ]|l'

[view]

Ok. Here's my problem. There is this boy that i like that is like 2-3 years older than me and I really like him!!! What should I do??? I just don't know what to say to him. I dont know If i go up to him and say hi and he'll ask me how old I am I don't want him to think I'm a little too young for him. Does it really make a difference in age??

I don't think it really matters how old you are. Go up to him and just start talking to him. Get to know him a little better. Maybe you'll get to know the real him and maybe you'll change your mind about him. A lot of people do that. But get to know him better, and if he doesn't pull a move on you, then you make it. Ask him to hang out sometime. Good luck! I hope everything works out for you two! If you need anything else, just leave one in my inbox!


[view]

ok...im like 13 and ive been going out with this guys eriously fro like 3 years in october, hes kinda prude and im ready to go to the next level.what should i do...

What do you mean 'next level'. Well, your only 13. I would talk to him, and tell him that when ever he's combortable, your ready for the 'next level'. Maybe he didn't think that you were ready. Just try talking to him, and he'll understand. If not, give him some time. Good luck. If you need anything else, just drop it in my inbox!


[view]

okay.im 14 and female.well i like my best friend.a lot.he likes me too but not as much.he is always talking about other girls he likes and he knows it hurts me but he doesnt even seem to care.we kiss a lot and act like were going out,but he wont date me because he is afraid it will ruin our friendship.but because of how close we are.i dont think it would.hes still friends with plenty of his ex's.but the thing is..im a very jealous person.i was just wondering what i could do help overcome my jealousy and make him see that he hurts me talking about other girls and then acting like he likes me in the same day without making it seem like im just saying it all to be jealous.thanks for the help. :\

Aww, I'm sorry about this. Guys are such losers. But anyways. I would try talking to him. Tell him that you really have a lot of feelings for him and that you want to date. He obviously has feelings for you. So I would just tell him that you want to date. Maybe you guys will start dating sometime soon. Good luck with everything and hope I helped

[view]

ok well when I went on this trip. I met this kid named kevin well any ways.. at home I had liked this other kid named ben, and like kevin is two years younger than me (I'm 15) but he is amazing! and soo idk bc when I came back ben told me how much he ha missed me.. and how he would sign on everyday to see if I was home.. soo I was like aww.. and now i am unsure to like the kid from out of state or the one who lives less than 15 mins from me! well I need help and when you answer this thanks for helping !

confused

Aw, I'm sorry your going through this. But long distance relationships don't work most of the time. Sad to say. It's just too hard to go out with some one you just met and that doesn't live close to you. I would keep talking to the guy that lives in the other state and try and just be friends. Ben sounds really sweet too. I would keep talking to him too and maybe something in the future will happen between you two. Good luck with everything and hope I helped

[view]

theres this boy. ive had a crush on him for like a year now. ive told my friends but they dont really care i dont think. and he kinda flirts with me. but i mean, he flirts with a couple other girls too. people have told me before to tell him i like him. but thats not what i want to do yet. i just want to know if he likes me or not. because if he does then maybe i would get up the courage to tell him i like him. but how do u think i could find out if he likes me other than telling him i like him first. because im not exactly sure he does like me. and i dont know what to do. can you help?

--shy and broken hearted.

I would talk to his friend and see if he knows anything. Ask him who he likes and maybe it'll be you! Or I would jus try and hang out with him a lot and talk to him a lot. But try not to be like annoying about it. Then I would get up the courage to tell him. Maybe something in the future will happen between you two! Good luck with everything! Hope everything goes good.


Hope I helped 'l|[ Amber =) ]|l'

[view]

okay, so this guy. we'll call him "gary". i've gone to the same school as gary for over like 8 years or soemthing. theres a lottt of people that like gary. hes like the popular guy i guess. i think ive always had a crush on him, but ive never really said anything about it. these past few years, i've started reallly liking him. jus this year, me and 'gary' have really started to kinda flirt i guess. we talk online every once in a while, and it always ends up talking about relationships, hot people and all that good stuff. one of my friends knows i like him.. and she says that he likes me. i keep hearing things about him and the things that he says about me. some of my friends tell me he might even ask me to homecoming. (even tho i deny it, i reallllly want him too) okay.. one problem. one of my best friends like gary too. she even says she loves him. and then another one of my friends likes him too.
if "gary" DOES ask me to homecoming, idk what to do. i dont want to jump to conclusions, but i just want to be sure.
i dont want to be a bad friend, and go if they really like him. but i dont want to turn down somethig that ould probably only happen once.

mkay, now that i've told you my like story.. lol i have two questions.

-what do you think i should say if he really does ask me?
-from what i told you, do you think he's into me?



thanks for the help.

lost and in love

I would try talking to your friend about "Gary". She wouldn't be mad at you for liking him if she was your true friend. And if she gets mad about it, then she sounds kind of jealous. But just sit her down, and tell her what you told me. Say that you thought you've liked him for a while, but you didn't know for sure. In my opinion, I think he likes you. I would try talking to him about it. Ask him if those rumors are true or not. If he does ask you to homecoming, I would take the chance. Your friend should be happy for you if he does ask you. You really like him, and maybe your relationship will go further than just friends. But if he doesn't ask you to homecoming, I would just keeping talking to him, hanging out a lot, and maybe in the future things will go further. But I wish you the BEST of luck with everything!! Hope everything works out like you planned!


Hope I helped!!


x33333 '|[ Amber =) ]|'

[view]

how do you get your boyfriend back that you still really like but he has another girlfriend and there problay not gonna break up anytime soon

Aw, I'm sorry about that. But I would just try and talk to him. Tell him that you still have feelings for him. Him and his new girlfriend might not break up like soon. But just keep hanging out with him, and talking. But maybe he still has feelings for you, and maybe he'll dump his girlfriend for you! Hope everything works out good!! Good luck =)!

Hope I helped x33333

[view]

Ok so, my crush asked me out last night so of course I said yes. I'm new to the whole dating experience, im only 14. I like him a lot, but whenever the thought of going to the movies or something comes up, I automatically make up an excuse to not go. I don't know why. I'm very co-dependant and I would be too scared to go anywhere unless it was a double date or something. He says hes okay with that but I dont know whats wrong with me. I think my main fear is making out. Yea yea laugh, but I guess im just scared to do it. I dont know whats wrong with me and why im so scared to go anywhere with him. I'll rate you high. Thx a bunch

It's normal to be shy in the beginning of a relationship. Tell him that you would be more combortable if you guys took it slow, and he'll respect that. Don't be afraid to go any where with him. Sit him down and tell him that you don't want to be pressured to do anything. Don't worry. Your not in this alone. He's probably shy too. Just take it slow to where your combortable at. Tell him to come over, and hang out of something. Do something with him that you'll be most combortable at. It doesn't always have to be going to the movies. But over time, you'll get more combortable with him. I wish you the best of luck with him!!

Hope I helped

[view]

I've never been in a relationship before & I'm 13 years old. I've liked guys & they've liked me back but I've never really gone the extra step. Well now, my guy friend likes me & I like him too. We want to be more than friends but what should I expect from a relationship? Will things be weird at first?

At first, it might be kind of akward, cuz your thinking "Wow. He's my boyfriend now, not just a friend". But then you'll get used to it. Just talk to him like you did when you guys were just friends. Call him - but not like obsession. Hope everything works out with you two.
x33333

[view]

ok so i really want to know if this guy likes me.i swim and he is on my swim team, and like when we go underwater he always smiles at me and waves, and when we do drylands he always pats me on the back or playfully hits my arm, and when we kick and stuff like that we always talk the whole way. i mean he is great, he is nice to me and everyone else, he is actualy my height and everyone likes him. whenever we go to swim meets he tells me to cheer for him because he wont do well unless i do. and he asks me to hold stuff and he just goofs around w/ me and he talks to my friends a lot. does he like me?

thnx! 5's for everyone!

Aww, he sounds really sweet! Sounds to me like he likes you. I would try and talk to him and tell him how you feel! Maybe you guys will make your relationship to the next level. Good luck with him and swimming!

Hope I helped

[view]

well theres this guy & he tells me he loves me & flirts all tha time but i think he's caught up on my friend & my friends say he likes me but is scared 2 "settle" with me should i wait on him or just forget about it? plz help if u can.

I know a lot of people probably already said this - talk to him. But that's your best bet. Ask him to like go on a walk or something, and then sit him down and talk to him. Maybe your guys relationship will move to the next level. Spill out your feelings for him, and he'll prob. do the same. Good luck! Hope everything works out!

Hope I helped x33333

[view]

hello...well i have a boyfriend and we are doing great..teh only problem is our parents dont really like the fact of us going out...my parents dont like him and his parents are just really strict about dating...what shoudl i do? I mean i love him and he was my first kiss and we even have made out and french kissed but i mean i respect my parents but what should i do??? I dont want to break up with him cuz this month we will have been together 5 months...and trust me thats thelongest i have ever one out with a guy!
WHAT SHOULD I DO??
-stuck-

Wow. I'm sorry about your parents not approving. If I were you, I would sit down with your parents and talk to them. Ask them why they don't like him. Their has to be a reason for them not liking them. Let them explain themselves. Or ask yor boyfriend over for dinner one night, and let your parents to get to know him better. Maybe they'll start liking him when they start to know him better!! Wish you the best of luck with everything!

Hope I helped x333

[view]

im 14 years old, and go to a really small school.

what should i do??
i mean, i have 2 friends that like the same guy that i do. i've liked him for soooo long. i've never told anyone about it.. because it would be too wierd. it prolly sounds stupid. but what should i do? i get really upset when they talk about how much they like him and everything. its really hard to hide how i feel. ya know? i was just wondering what i should do.


oh yeah, and i kinda think he likes me.. im not really positive. but i think. what if he asks me to homecoming or something? what about my best friends??


name with-held

Wow. If I were you, I would talk to your friends about it. If they are your true friends, they will understand. And I would talk to him about it. Don't hold back your feelings for him because maybe he does feel the same about you! But I would jus talk to your friends, and tell them how you feel! They will understand. But good luck with everything .. and I hope things work out with you guys!!

Hope I helped x33333

[view]

my soon to be boyfriend goes too far sometimes. he comes over to hang out a lot and we cuddle and everything but sometimes his hands wander and i want him to stop. it's really uncomfortable for me and i want him to stop but i don't wanna seem like a prude. i've tried moving around to get him to move his hands but i don't know, there's just something weird about it. my past two boyfriends have been really verbally abusive and my last boyfriend hit me a lot right before we broke up and after we broke up and i still don't trust guys and i don't know if i should continue hanging out with this new guy. i know he really cares about me and has for a while. he took a lot of crap from me before we started hanging out. i lead him on and broke his heart when i hooked up with a different guy. HELP. i'm a girl btw.

Aw, I'm really sorry about your past relationships. You really shouldn't put up with that shit!

Anyways. I would try talking to him. I know a lot of people say that, but that's probably the only thing that would work with out losing him. Just tell him you would want to take things slow, and that your not a prude. If he cares about you, he shouldn't make you do anything you wouldn't want too. It sounds like he is trying to take advantage of you a little bit. But I would just sit him down and talk to him. I'm sure he'll understand! Good luck!!

Hope I helped

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker