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how do you make someone like you?
I mean i'm not ugly, over-weight or anything just he doesn't like me, I know it's not all about looks but I have been told I have a great personality too, heres a few pictures of me.

http://i17.tinypic.com/6atuarn.jpg
http://i15.tinypic.com/4yhyl2r.jpg
http://i12.tinypic.com/52onkmv.jpg

You can't make a guy like you .
You just have to communicate with them and get to know each other ive tried making some one like me but it doesn't work and it ends in tears.

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Is it wrong to date online?
and know that you'll never see that person
and still go out with them?

Hey.

No it's not wrong at all.

But you just have to think why go out with someone if you are never going to see them and you know you never will but if you like it then it's up to you and it is definetly not wrong! Unless there much much older than you.

Just be careful of who you pick.

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When I like a boy, I go boy crazy. But I don't think i have any chances because a guy never asked me out and I'm 14/F. I think I'm fat and ugly, but all my friends say im not. Once a guy said ur hot on a picture on myspace and then i told a girl and she said "A Boy thinks your hot". That made me feel really bad. I want to lose weight but my parents said just have fun and do sports, than go on some dumb diet. So my question is, should i go on a diet? and do you think i have a chance with boys? And i've been talkin to a lot of boys a lot lately.

Hey.

I think guys should like you for who you are and what you look like.

Just think positive!
You don't need to change they just need to know you and like you for who you are!

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Hi Nikki.
I got this really big prob.
I got 2 crushes.
& 1 can beat up the other really badly but wont cuz hes a nice guy. But the other incistes.
Can you giv me a advice WHO shall i dump & WHO shall i keep?

Hey.

You have a problem don't you?

Well, i think you shouldn't go out with either if they want to beat up each other which is not the way to act.

Either that or you can talk to them both and say.
"Guys it is my desicion who i go out with and i want go out with either of you if you guys keep fighting and wanting to beat up each other because it's not fair on me!"

You need to explain to them how hard it is for you.

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This guy acted completely into me and than he does a 180 and ignores me, why?

Hey,

I think her might be shy about the fact that he likes you why don't you try texting him and saying, "Whats the matter lately, you have been ignoring me?" and he will hopefully reply.

Try talking to him in private some time...and see why this is.

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well, my boyfriend is in new mexico for a week of marine camp. I want to do something special for him when he comes back, what do you think i could do/ make /whatever to make it special for him? any suggestions?

What about making a dinner and then set up a table with a red teablecloth and have a white diamond small one in the middle and put 2 candles in it either being one red and one white or both red or both white.

Then set out a nice mini roast just for the 2 of you with White napkins that have your fork and knife wraped in it.

Make it just so it's the candles burning and no lights on....



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I have been married for 8 years and my husband and I are still pretty young (37 and 33); we have two kids and WE HARDLY EVER HAVE SEX. Lately it's been once every three weeks. I know we are still attracted to each other and I know we are both faithful, it's just that being parents totally sucks all the energy from us. Any advice?

Maybe get someone to baby sit for a while one of there nana's..

Then you guys could have a night to yourself.

- Send your kids on a holdiday camp for a couple of nights.

HOPE I HELPED

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I just turned 13 and well my bf is a little older than me. We have already made out. But I was wondering how far you think that we should go... considering my age.

Thanks.

Heyy

Well im also 13 and have had 15 year old boyfriends...

Go as far as you think you should go but just make sure you are comfortable with what you are doing and your not getting presured into anything..

HOPE I HELPED

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Ok I'm 16 and a female. It's summer and all i can do is think about this one boy. Does anybody know what i could do? I really like him and im not really sure if he likes me back. He's usually at my bus stop and lives on the street right behind me! Please Help!!! Thank You All!!!

Heyy

Talk to him at the bus stop just say "Hey, whose class are you in?" even if you know just ask anyway..then you will get into a conversation about school and then hopefully it will change. Do not ask for his number straight away because you don't want to freak him out saying "What's your number so i can text you" ok .. just make a simple conversation and when you see him just say "hey".. Then swap numbers..You will become friends hopefully..

HOPE I HELPED :D

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is it bad to have just met a guy, and it was the second time we hung out at his house, and he fingered me and i gave him a hj? does that make me seem easy or slutty?
thanks for any help!=)

Heyy

No it doesn't make you easy or slutty. If you like the guy then yes go for it!!

If you do this all the time though then just be aware what people may say about you.

But if you don't theres no need to think or ask if your slutty.

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If I wanted a boyfriend, but my parents wont let me, should I go about it the sneaky way and not tell them ? What would be the cons and pros to that if I did? I'm turning 14.

Hey..
All girls want boyfriends, and 50% of these peoples parents won't let them..

Don't sneak a boyfriend behind there back.. I think you sit down and talk to then about it.

Don't say "But everyone else is aloud on"..it doesn't work...
But I think if you sit and talk to them about it maybe they will understand ...and they should understand how important it is for a girl to get a boyfriend and go through the stages of boyfriends and learning how to handle the different situations in a releationship..

Hope I helped.

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ok my friend likes these 2 guys can she CANT pick who to choose so would u please help me. 1 man is evan- whos 2 years younger, hes a cutie and he asked her out twice and she denined him and wishes she didnt and ever since then she loved him for like a year but hes in florida now but hes coming back in middle of july. the only thing is she hasnt seen him in a year and she doesnt kno if he likes her. ok next guy is kevin- who just met her and hes in LOVE with her and obsessed. he cares about her alot and hes a year older. hes a cutie and they just started hanging out. shes torn between both of them and i doesnt know what to do. please help! any advice!? ill love you forever

you have one question you must answer yourself like..

- who do you see most?

it is important that you are close by to them so you won't be missing out in a chance to see him.

you say this evan guy is younger than you .. by 2 YEARS!! well i think it would be better going out with someone wither the same age or a year or 2 older.. but this kevin guy whose older seems alot more caring.

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i know this is a weird question to ask, but how do you know if a guy is using you?

like what are some signs to know?

guys/girls can answer, but i really would like some help! thanks! anything is appreciated!=)

umm yerr well he doesn't sound like he is cheating on you at all and he does know how to communicate he may be busy ... kk :)
i think you need to talk to him about it if you are worried and are unsure but make sure you say it smartly ok
thnx for your feedback

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I really like my best friend Jacey's boyfriend, Tom, So what do I do?

i think you should find a way to get over him .. other than that im not completely sure i will think it about it and get back to you ..

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i did an answer.. ive been bi sexual now for like 9 months .. i dated a girl for 7 months and now im with a new one.. but is this just a phase or not.. hoe do i know.. does anyone know.. can anyone help.. please.. thanks!!!

if it was a phase it probably would be over by now..if it were a phase you probably would of recognised it by now !

it's the matter of questions if you want to be bi or not..

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im a 17 year old female and im dating this girl and i really liked her .. i have for a long time.. i asked her out twice but ashe turned me down.. now she asked me out na di said yes.. it has been two weeks sice we started dating but i hate talkin on the phone with her.. caus eit gets so boring you know.. but i love hanging with her and holding her im my arms.. why do i get bored on the phone?

you probably get bord talking on the phone because you would rather talk in person and interact with her so you can actully express yourselfs and get into a deep conversation instead of just talking on phone ....

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14/girl

I am going out with this guy and one of my closest friends just told me he cheated on me. I talked to him about it and he admitted to it, but he keeps trying to make excuses for it, and it was with this girl who he hooked up with before we were going out. He said it was over, but obviously its not. He also only apologized once, which makes me think he does not regret it. I really have no clue what to do about this, and any advice is really greatly appreciated.

hey there...
ok so your boyfriend has cheated on you .. that is wrong and no girl likes it when that happenes.
he has apologized once ....thats very poor if he wants you back and he'z not trying hard. i suggest you don;t bother with him because its a chance he WILL cheat on you again and hurt your feelings again.

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alright well theres this one guy and hes always saying stuff like well: i was singing shake that by eminem(one of my favs)and i got to the part where it goes "go ahead shake ure butt!" and he goes you can shake ure butt for me and then i just laughed and hes like "i love lap dances" and then i was like "oh really?" and then hes like "hmm but you would probably want something in return" and i was like "what do you have on ure mind?" and hes like "ohh youll see" then he winked: is he being serious? joking around?
im really confused!

ok guys tend to do this alot ...
they ask for something then they think youll want something in return ....
he's not looking fora relleationship he's just looking fora one night stand!

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15-f: well ive been dating a guy for 4 months and my parents are divorced...My mom says that i cannot hangout with him outside of school unless he comes over and "has dinner with us" an she meets his parents as well. My dad told me that unless he's "putting a ring on my finger" then he doesnt have to meet him like the way my mom wants to. soo thats the only way i see him is on my dad's day's..and im not with him that much. I guess my question here is should u continue seeing him at my dads, or should he finally meet my mom...[ps]my mom and i dont get along at all.

i think he should finally meet your mum..
just have a dinner time where you sit down and talk about yourselfs and then you can to his house for dinner but get you mum to drop you off so his mum and your mum can talk and she may aprove and this will get her off your case about meeting him....

this happened to me but my parents werent divorced ...but only let him meet your mum if you know its going to be long term releationship.

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(15/f)
I have this friend, let's call him "Denis". We've been really good friends for quite some time. People are of divided opinion about us; a third of them think we're brother and sister, another third thinks that we're a cute couple, and the last third wants to kill me for being close to him(sadly, he has a fanclub, which he remains oblivious to).
I've come to realize, about a year or so ago, that I love him. And, I think the feeling could be reciprocated. People have told him to "Stop flirting with (me), and answer my question", causing him to shut up, and if I didn't know better, I would say he was blushing. And sometimes he stares me in the eyes for a long time, goes to say something, but stops before he does. He's a really sweet guy.
The thing is, his parents are divorced. And recently he found out that he is going to move in with his dad. His dad lives on the other side of the country. Three timezones away. I'm at a loss of what to do. Should I tell him how I feel and hope for the best. Risking breaking our friendship if he doesn't feel the same way. Or should I just keep quiet, and just hope that I'll eventually get over him? Key word: eventually.

I appreciate all advice, and thank you in advance.
Sorry about the length, thank you for your time.

hi there..
you have many questions in one problem.

you ask should i tell him how i feel?
- yes you should

is it going to make things awkard?
- you guys are really close and it may be obvious he likes you to .. it will not ruin your releationship ..because he should understand that you like him as u probably spend alot of time together anyway and you know each other from the inside out ..

but as you said he is moving to the other side of the country ...soo yess of course tell him but think about if you would date him as in "is there any poiint?" ...you need to think hard about if there is any point going out with him if he is on the other side of the country.

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