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I like this guy and he used to always look at me when i wasn't looking. When I turned we gazed into each other's eyes for a milisec. But now he doesn't really do that anymore. He knows that I like him because his sister told him. My friend likes him too, but he doesn't like her (thank god) lol. She doesn't really like him anymore, but whatever. I just want to get to know him and stuff like that, but I get a vibe thats like weird. I can talk to him, but I'm afraid of his reaction. He is also "talking" to another girl (I overheard him talking on the bus) Should I even bother liking him, but i still want to get to know him. I don't know what to do? Please help, I rate high.
~Linda (link)
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ok forget him...he's talking to another girl then forget him...thats the reason propably why he doesnt do that to you anymore. hmm if you want to get to kno him just cuz...even though i wouldnt recomand b/c if he's talking to another girl and you get to know him you might start liking him even more, and then you might even get hurt..but if you insist then just smile at him or on the bus sit with him one day and just start a canvo. of anykind! and thats how u start a new friendship...xoxo effy
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Hi, I am asking you 1-Because your a girl (no offense if that sounds mean at all) 2-Because your only a few years older than me so I think you might be able to relate and 3-Because I've seen some of your advice and it's awsome.
Okay here's the deal:
I am a 14/m.I have liked a girl...her name is Jackie...for a very very long time. The problem is the one time I actually came out and said I liked her, things got extremely akward between us. I finally had to resort to lying(Yea, it was that bad) I told her that I was over her and that things were cool between us. However, I still REALLY like her. She is like my dream girl: GOREGOUS, funny, smart, awsome personality, everything a guy could ask for.
I get out of school on the 18th of May. Should I risk telling her before then or hang-on a while so when I do tell her things arent akward? I am in a tight spot here. I really hope you can help, but if you can't just say so please.
Thanks a ton,
Jeff (link)
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hi, hmm sorry for taking a while to answer this question..i've been bussy lately...but anyways...i read your problem and i know what you're going through and i also understand that is not easy...i'm wondering though if you hang out with her out of schooL? or whatever...but if you dont hang out wit her..i say that you should tell her before you get out of school..tell her how you really feel but find the right time at the right place because if you want to explain to her and to let her know how you really feel you cant be interupted or whatever...so you will need a lot of time to express your self in frotn of her...basically tell her whatever you told me..and ask her for one chance so you could show her what you're capable to do for her and everything..ask her for a chance so she could get to know you better in another point of view and evrything...and then when say all this ask her what she thinks and if she feels anything more then just a friend towards you....then see what happens...if by any chance she doesnt agree or she doesnt feel the same way or whatever...then dont sweat it...just say that you understand and dont worry bout it too much trust me there will be a lot of girls that will walk in to you're life...she's just a lil taste of whats out there...so if u loose the chance wit her...dont worry better things will come your way trust me!!!...if you want to talk more about this or whatever...talk to me in aim xxhotsexycutiexx...i'll b more then glad to help u!! good luck...xoxo effy
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ok.. ive liked this guy for a while now and now he knows and i can tell he likes me too but i think that were both afraid to talk to eachother :(.. i really really like him and i wanna be able to talk to him but im really really shy. and plus ive never had to go and talk to someone, theyve always came to me. but anyways.. its been a few weeks and i jus wanna get it over with and talk to him...but the thing is.. i dont kno wut to say, and when or w/e so can u pleasssee help me?? im starting to get frustrated with myself cause i cant do it.
I rate high!
*depressed and sad (link)
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hi, well i think you should move fast...because once i use to like this guy and he use to like me and because we both were sooooo freakin shy we never got to talk to eachother except look at eachother or cought eachother lookin and smile and thats it..one day when i was like IGHT THATS IT I"MMA TALK TO HIM...he wasnt there and i find out that he went back to his country!!!! i got freakin FUSTRADED..(or w/e you spell that) i got pissed...so my advice to you is if you like him go for it...just get the guts all together and do your thing..just be like hey wussup or something, obviously he's going to say something so w/e he says just go with the flow...you dont have to talk a lot the first time...but just so it will be easier for both of you to talk to eachother next time you see eachother...KAPISHI? lol :) well hope i helped xoxo effy
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OK i was at school to day and i saw 1 of my friends hitting this other 6th grader with his jacket. When i told him to stop he turned around and hit me as hard as he could with the jacket.... encluding the zippers and strings. He hit me so hard he left a huge bruse and its been red for a while. My question is this..... is that concidered harassment? the problem is i dont wanna tell because he is a friend of mine. thanx!!!!!
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you can get him in trouble big time! no one is suppose to do that to you...unless is freakin self defense...which he had nothing to defend from because all you said was "stop"...so yah, you can get him in trouble and i think its abusment or w/e..but since he's your friend i understand...but you should've hit him back or something...shiuuuu xoxo effy
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i like someone and i do everything i know to get his attention. i flirt and wear cute outfits and try to stand out in the classes i have with him. what am i doing wrong? what else can i do? (link)
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quit trying so hard...just go tell him how you feel! and see what happens...if he likes u congrats...if not then move on...find another guy u could mess wit :) xoxo effy
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I'm 15/f ... and I liked a certain guy last year... and once i was talking to him and he totally crushed me, he said he wanted to go out with me, and then told me he was just kidding. Well he went out with another girl. Well I thought i would never have feelings for him again since he was so mean. Well yesterday he broke up with this girl, and I still have feelings for him- strong feelings. What do I do?! (link)
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hi, well i would let him kno how i felt...and if he liked me and w/e then yah w/e happens happens...you kno start talkin w/e...but if he doesnt feel the same then forget his ass....if u let him kno you got nothing to losse anyways...so why not?!?!... if ur 2 shy to tell him up to his face...then write it in a note or tell him through aim...or something like that...or to start wit b4 u do all that...talk to him as friends and flirt a lil ;) (may b alot) and see wussuh :))) xoxo effy
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Well, i know this question gets asked a lot of times, but i really need help. i need it now too. i need to lose weight. i want to go on a strictly water and fruit and veggies diet. i run 15 mins a day on a tredmill, i do pilates 3 times a week. i need to lose 30 lbs by christmas... what else can i do ? (link)
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damn...well i lost 30lbs by exercising...and runiing 1 mile 3 times a week...and exercising and doing crunches and stuff...also i didnt eat much...basically u eat helthy food...like salads and fruits and stuff...basically dats it...dats all i did and i lost it...if u do dat i'm sure u will to..xoxo effy
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lot of my freinds think I sould try out modeling I wonder anybody know anyway webistes..
Plus I am 4 foot 5. I hard you have to be 5 foot be a model.
Binca (link)
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hi, well listen wut u should do is get some pic's done...show them ur work :) and how u look like and then see wut they think...i think u've to b 5 foot to but i aint sure...hmmm just ask or go to google.com and find something out bout it...just write "wut u need to b a model" and websites will come up :) hope i helped xoxo effy
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My dad got a job in San Antonio, Texas. I'm EXTREMELY happy!!!!! But the thing is, in a way, I don't want to move. I live in Central Pennsylvania, so its definitely a big move. I know I can't stop my rents from moving. But, I'm just going to miss my whole life. I grew up here, I'm going to have to start all over. Is this normal? (link)
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yes very normal...its ok to have to make a big move sometimes...i know what u talkin bout b/c i have been there...i had lived all my life till i was 13 almost 14 in albania(europe) and then i had to move...and come here in u.s. (fl) and bla bla bla...so imagine this...i didnt kno any english at all...and anyone here...so i had to start all over again...and learn a new lenguage 2...so hey u aint so bad ;) at least u kno how to speak the lenguage...having 2 move sometimes it turns out for the better ;) so dont worry so much :)....just go on wit the flow...everything will b fine...and b4 u kno it...u'll b so happy and everything wit ur life..and everything round u that u wont even b abel to think bout central pennsylvania no more :-P...(only once in a while...when u'll b lookin the back old times) trust me u'll b fine...i kno from experience..and its perfectly normal ;) xoxo effy
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Ok me and this guy went out in 7th grade i went out with him not cause i liked him cause my friend wanted me to go out with him... Well we went out for like a week and i broke up with him... Well now 10th grade... And i have the biggest crush on him and he likes me too... But he said he doesnt want to go out with me till the middle of the year cause he liked this girl.. (thats now going out with his close friend) But my friend is going to hook us up...Should i go out with him or no (link)
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ight let me get this str8...u went out wit this kid in 7th grade b/c ur friends wanted u to not b/c u liked him and u broke up wit him after 1 week...and now that u guys are in 10 grade...after 3 yrs...u have the biggest crush on him and u kno he likes you 2...but he tellin u to wait b/c he liked this other girl and now that girl is going wit his friend? what does that girl has to do wit you?!?!?! if he likes you then why would this gurl metter to him?!!? hmmm i dunno gurl...but this just doesnt sound rite!! if he likes you and wants to go wit u...then dont wait till middel of the yr...waste all that time...and if he wanted u real bad he wouldnt want to wait and he wouldnt make u wait...who knows u might not feel the same up till now...or he might not feel the same...i dunno this is just 2 weird...i say talk to him and find out wussuh b4 u do something that would hurt u later on ;)...not tryin to b negative or w/e i just think that that didnt relly sound right! and thats what i personally think...hope i helped...and wish u the best ;) xoxo effy
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if a guy likes two girls... Ones 19 ones 15 and his 19... He likes both of them equally... Which one should he go out with... Or should he go out with both (link)
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he should go out wit the one he likes more!...shouldnt go wit both...that aint right!....cuz he is gonna end up hurting both of them...and if he grows to like one of them more then the other and they find out that he is dating both...then he'll get hurt 2...so i say he should make up his mind bout who he likes better...and go only for one...if u wonderin bout age...age dont metter! (well not to me) but if u go legally the guy cant do anything wit the 15 yrs old b/c it will b called rape if he does!...hmmm unless the 15 yrs old doesnt do anything to put him in trouble then he'll b fine! hmm i dunno like i said it all depends on the kid and who he likes more :) xoxo effy...
p.s. if both girls call the guy at the same time...and they both wanna talk with which one of them is he gonna talk? well who ever he picks...then thats the one he cares or likes more! ;)
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does jeff like me? (link)
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how am i suppose to know?
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hey yah the guy i liked said i was ugly so should i confront him? (link)
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dont do it....i dont think conforting him is such a good idea...1st of all he should like you for who you are all the way...2nd of all think of him as an asshole...n forget his ass...its his loss anyways....just forget his ass...n if one day he comes and talks to you...just ignore him...or make him pay bak! "what goes around comes around " keep dat in mind! xoxo effy
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13/f ok i was going out with my bf for like 2 or 3 years. we broke up last year and he started going out with this one popular girl. she's a real snot to everyone except her "popular" friends and i don't see why he likes her. he's been kinda checking me out this summer and he's in my class this year and she's not. is there any way that i could get him to like me again??? i really need help with this! (he's not the bad boy type he's more the nice guy type) help!!
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hi, well hmmm i dunno i bet he still has kinda feelings for you...cuz i dunno bout you ppl but when i've a b/f no metter if i break up or not i still have a special place in mah heart for them ....so there's obviously feelings there...unless he relly relly loves this other gurl...but i guess thats not true since he is checkin you out!....Anyways...hmmm just b real nice to him and kinda flirt wit him...:-D may b he will miss the back old dayz :) n then BAMN ON UR FACE....He's all urs ;) lmao xoxo effy
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110?? is that 4 weight.. if it is I'm only 95 pounds.. lol I aint skinny.. but I aint fat.. hmmm.. I'm 5 ft last time i measured (link)
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i would say ur pretty skinny... :) but 95 aint dat bad...if i was u i would at least b 100 or 105 :) xoxo effy...p.s. it all depends on da person though cuz there are some ppl that are less pounds n they look fatter...so it depends :)
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What is the average height for a 12 year old? (link)
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well if ur around 5'ft or 5'2 or 5'3 then u should b around 110-120 :) xoxo effy
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ive been goin out with this girl for over a month now. i havnt talked to her in like 4 days and everytime i try to she never answers and i send her messages and she dosnt get em
ive evan tried talkin to her but she won't talk back
what should i do?!?!?!?
(i really like her so much)
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move on....or...try to talk to her..somehow...see wussuh may b she has hurd something dat aint tru...well when u figure out...if she just actin like dis out of no where then forget her...move on...;) even though u like her...sometimes u just have to move on ;) xoxo effy
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how can i find out how big my boobs are [ possibly a way i coudl find out at home?] (link)
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take a look at ur bra...it should say there...xxoox effy
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Hey...I'm just starting the 9th grade..and it sux! Last year I had SO many friends and people I knew in my classes and alot of people knew me...but they split the middle schools into 2 different highschools..and this year there is like NO ONE I know in my classes and at lunch! I can be a really friendly person but I'm really shy and just can't seem to make any new friends? Please Help.. (link)
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gurllllllllllllll dont even worry bout it...u kno how many ppl like u are worryin bout that...the thing is that every freshamn feels the same way...n they all nervous n they all tryin to make friends...so u'll have friends just like dat...look in ur classes talk to ppl n check their schedule b like 'lets see if we've classes together or lunch so we can hang out" n then see wussuh :) trust me its no big u'll see for ur self ;) dont even worry bout it ;) xoxo effy
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soemone asked me to make a salute for them, how do i do that? what the heck is it? (link)
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well makin a salute for them
get a pice of paper or a notebook...n write "i lov u...bla bla(to who ever it is)" or "bla bla is da best lov bla bla " ;) n then just give it to them...;)) xoxo effy
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