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Hi, I'm Kristin..

I'm sixteen
I love to read the directions on everything.. Shampoo, cake, you name it..
I'm a pretty laid back person, in general.
I don't like annoying people, or things, but then again-- who does?
It really bothers me when people walk slow.
I'm really into photography and my camera is my pride and joy.
It's about the only thing I'm known to take care of in my life.
I'm on drumline.
Austin and Tarra are my Best friends
I'm in band, which goes along with the drumline.
i love just standing in the rain.
I'm easy to get to know.
Easy to lose my trust
Hard to get it back.
Obbessive people really aggrivate me

advice

can your body treat strep throat with out antibiotics? i need this asap.it is for school

It can heal on it's own, but it wont heal very quickly. If you don't get it checked out then it can turn into diseases like meningitis- that is BAD. I had it once. it was horrible

-tekcoreht

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ok, so the the 5th day of sckool my friend said that on friday eric (the kid i like) said he liked me a little, and was going to ask me out! & then my other friend said eric said he wanted to meet me after sckool where no one was because he had to ask me something, but then he said never mind, & then he told me he liked my friend britt, but wed. he told me he doesnt like her anymore and likes someone new.. then also wed. in music, my friend derick goes if eric asked you would you say yes, and i said no because eric was right behind him && he doesnt know i like him, and then derick goes eric she said no, but i dont know if he was just jokin or not.. then today and yesturday eric kept tryin to start a convo with me but randomely they were all either about sckool or sayin how desperate britt was.. im so confused..advice needed urgently.. thank you 13/f

You're giving him mixed singals.
I do believe he likes you, but if you like him you need to make it known a little more subtle than you have been. Actually let him know that you like him so he knows for sure that he can ask you out and not get rejected. The next worst thing from a guy getting dumped is a guy getting rejected by a girl. This is why he might not want to ask you out. He's probably making up this 'liking britt' because he wants you to be suspesious and maybe come out and say you like him. He's basically trying to make you jealous.

Conclusion:
Just tell him you like him. He's trying to make small talk to spark similar interests so you two can have a lengthy conversation. Go along with it, talk back, be friendly. Just let him know you like him anyway you can.

-tekcoreht

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What's a garder? How do you make one? I have to make one for my homecoming date real soon & I have no clue how!

I know what you're talking about. Garter's are like Mums. Mum and Garters are usually a texas thing, so yeah. want to see a picture of mine? I made one for my boyfriend this year. http://tinypic.com/efhslf.jpg
that's mine. It's basically just a bunch of ribbons stapled onto a round piece of cardboard.
If you need help on how EXACTLY to make it, drop one in my inbox.

-therocket

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I'm going to be a senior this year, and I quit my job not too long ago. This year I want to be able to get enough sleep, focus on school, and make much better grades. (My job interferred and affected my grades really bad last year. I was way too stressed out.) But, my parents are forcing me to get job. And I am desperate for all the money I can get right now. (They are making me buy for my car, insurance, and college.) I'm not sure where to find a job with flexible hours. If anyone has suggestions, let me know. What would you do if you were in my position?

My sister works at Baskin Robins. Maybe Sonic. Err if you don't live where they have those types of food places, those are basically ice cream stores and fast food resteraunts. Sonic gives AMAZING tips, my friend's brother got 100$ in tips one night..


-therocket♥

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Alright well ive been screwed over so many times by guys and i dont know what to do. ive kinda given up on them because i dont want to get hurt because im to scared..i mean ive been cheated on and it seems ive gone out with a lot of guys when really i didnt it was just for a long time.(i have been called a slut for it..i dont get it it was just a long period of time?) honestly there really isnt any guys at my school but there are at different schools and i have met some other really nice guys from other schools. should i get myself hooked into another relationship? i mean ive kinda given up on "middle school love" all together because im kinda scared that i will be screwed over..

Well, life is going to screw you over and over again. You've got to take risks with guys and love and life. The future is an unthinkable thing. Something as love this is broken, It's hard to fix. You can't give up on love, because what if that one guy you turned down, turned out to be your one true love. Follow heart heart, but use your head in the process.

-therocket♥

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Ok here's the deal. There is this really wierd kid at school. I was online yesterday and he told me that he liked me and has since the first time he saw me. He has told me this before and acts like a total jerk to tons of people sometimes he can be kinda nice but not really. Sometimes I will be sitting in a class and I will look over and he will be staring at me. It's the wierdest thing. I hate it. He knows how I feel about him too. I don't like him at all. Basically my question is, how do I deal with it. He always tries to talk to me when I don't feel like talking and I don't wanna be totally rude but I don't like him and never will.

Holy crap... I'm in the EXACT same situatin. When I read that I thought that was me asking that question, but anyway. I bet yu've tried everything like I have. I've been mean, nice, rude, random, depressed, nothing seems to get him off my back because he says he likes me for who I am. It's sweet and all, but I'd like to be me without having to change me to get somebody else away. He might like you because you are everything he is not. Try being everything he is, because who wants a clone of themself? Another thing, I know you've tried this, but I'll say it again. Tell him straight in the face how you feel. Be blunt, don't sugar coat it because he'll get mixed signals and wont understand clearly. Today, the boy who likes me looked at me in class and I mouthed "Why are you looking at me", yes, mean, but it got him to stop because he was embarassed I caught him.

Most likely this guy isn't going to stop if he hasn't in your past apptemts. I'm plotting up new ideas on how I can shake this guy, but I highly doubt any will work. In the mean time, just be thankful someone likes you for obviously you. As nerdy and obsessive he might be, bare with him, he'll eventually find someone else, promise.

-therocket♥

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there is this guy at my school and i like him and im not sure if he likes me but everytime im around him he ALWAYS looks at me even if i walk by.. and i really wanna know how i can start talking to him more and him talking to me bc when hes around me hes really shy and doesnt talk but when i see him around other people he always talks so my 2 questions are..

1. Does he like me/how can i find out if he does

2. How can i get him not to be shy/talk to him more/him to talk to me more

Thanks SOOOO much.. I rate 5's for good advice

1. I think he has a serious thing for you. How many other guys do you know look at you everytime you pass? You could get one of your friends to smoothly ask him what he thinks about you. If you don't feel comfotable about doing that, you can ask one of his buddies to ask him about it.

2. If you make the first move and talk to him first, he is more than likely going to start talking to you more. Ask him for a pen/pencil to use during class, or for a homework assignment. Once you get that down and you're comfortable with asking him questions/talking to him indirectly try saying hi once in a while like you pass by in the halls. He's probably going to soften up a bit and be more relaxed around you.

-therocket♥

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Ok, so right now I'm the "new kid" at my school, and making friends seems harder than I thought it would be. Everybody already has their little cliques and everything from last year, and it's so much harder for me to meet new people when nobody is intrested in getting new friends. Since the begining of the year I have acted really shy, just because I guess I still haven't really moved on from my friends from my school last year. I also just made cheerleading for my school, so I also need to start getting to know the hirls on my squad too. So basically I am asking for some tips on how to be more outgoing and really get to be able to express mydelf and meet people. Thanks in advance!

You've got to force yourself the first few times when your trying to be outgoing. Force yourself to say HEY in the hallways to one of the girls on your cheerleading squad. Once you make friends with them, they are bound to introduce you to their friends. Don't be part of a clique because you want to be more open to more people and not labeled. Ask someone in your math or Language class what the homework is, or ask for a peice of paper whenever you need it so they know you're not THAT shy. Once you get over the fear of talking with new people, meeting new friends will be a breeze. Remember; be yourself and not somebody else. Your true friends will like you for you.

-therocket♥

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I would just like to say you have no idea how much you have helped me out. You really answer questions good and i know you take the time and answer everyones question the best you can. You have no clue how much you are helping everyone. please keep up the good work and never give up! :) Thanks!

May I ask who this is? Because in one of your questions you said "east" that's a school near me. If not, that's okay! Glad to help!

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i went out with this one guy at the beginning of the year and we went out for 3 weeks and then i dumped him and then he still liked me after that so he gave me a necklace for my birthday and then i went out w/ him again because i liked him again and then i dumped him again after 2 weeks and now like 3 months later i just realized that i still like him and the reason i dumped him before is because we talked more and everything wayy more when we were friends but i really like him again and now i'm like totally sad that he's going to be going out w/ a girl that's 2 years older than him and me and him are the same age..but idk how to tell him that i really like him again..because he keeps telling me that he never got over me and he still likes me a lot but now he's gonna go out w/ another girl..what should i say to him because i don't wanna go out w/ him again because i don't wanna risk the dumping situation again but i wanna be that friends w/ benefits type thing..how can i tell him that??

erm well.. you only went out for 3 weeks? he found someone new after 3 months.. tell him you like him idk? my best advice is that u shouldn't have dumped him

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