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What are some really good love books? For young girls. That make you say like "awww!! how cute!" and it just makes you read them over and over. :) Any book will do though. Thank you . :) (link)
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Any book by Sarah Dessen. They are all so adorable and there is always something realistic that you can relate to. I believe I've read all of her books and I've loved every one of them.
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hi, ok i like this guy alot and we used to go out a long time ago but i still like him. he sometimes hints to me he likes me but most of the time he doesnt even talk to me...but im gona see him this weekend. and i hope somthing happens but i wana make sure he likes me..how can i tell? and also....should i tell him?
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Well, he could be nervous that you don't feel the same way about him hence the hot and cold attitude. Just try to feel him out this weekend to see, but if you really like him then you should tell him how you feel. What's the worst that could happen? Besides, wouldn't you rather tell him and it not be too late. You can't always tell if a guy likes you, just little signs of flirting and the normal touching and trying to get close. The only definate way to know is ask him though. Hope everything works out well.
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Is it wrong to have a crush on one of your good "guy" friend?
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No, it's not wrong. It makes the most sense to have a crush on someone you know really well actually.
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(sorry for the length, in advance, but i really want advice :)) hey! ok here's the thing. i like love this guy that i know and all ithink about is him. well until like a month ago i thought he liked me (he knows i like him, he asked me, so i told him) because he had all the signs like would sit next to me and like look at me, you know the whole "flirting" type of thing and all my friends thought he liked me and i thought so, too, i have to admit it and i'm very, uh, what's the word oh yeah modest. but then my friends told him i liked him and then he asked me so i told him and he, too, is modest so he wondered WHY i liked him (what's there to like?) so then from then on i was very shy and like a chicken to talk (i still am lol) and so we kind of drifted from talking even though i saw him everyday. ok well everyone thinks he's trying to get to know me more b/c he knows i like him. he said that youc ant like someone unless you know them well so i think hes trying to get to know me,to see what would happen. well, he started now tosit and talk like during a class and sat close. well my friend thinks that he likes me, and that he's trying to get to know me. well, she and i and everyone were wrong before and i just don'tto do. id on't know if i should believe it or what to do. please help! ANY advice of anything. even if its just simple!
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He probably does like you, but wants to talk to you to make sure. Just keep getting to know him and him you and time will tell what will come of it. He doesn't seem like the type to lead anyone on, so if he likes you (or doesn't like you), he will tell you eventually. Good luck.
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What do you look for in guys? Forgive me for bein nosey but you are really pretty and i was just curious. (link)
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Aww thanks. I don't know, I like guys who know how to treat girls the way they are supposed to be treated and have a sense of humor. They need to be a friendly person and someone I feel comfortable around. They also have to be able to talk to me about anything... music, school, friends. I like guys who I can talk to for hours and not have awkward silences or have to really look for something to talk about. The last thing that I absolutely LOVE is when a guy will compliment me or say something sweet and it is completely sincere. I don't like the corny stuff, but the comments that I know came from the heart.
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A lot of people think I'm different, because I'm Jewish. Well, I consider it! And everyone else says, "Are you a catholic or christian?" ANd I say, "No. I'm way more on the jewish side." And they say, "Ooh, that's too bad." WHY CANT THEY MIND MY RELIGION? WHY DO THEY DO THIS? HOW CAN I MAKE THEM STOP? WHAT CAN I SAY BACK TO THEM?
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Those people are ignorant that is why they do it. They don't understand that it's ok to be different from then and that is ok. All you can do is try and educate them by telling them that it really isn't a bad thing and you like being jewish. There's always going to be ignorant people in the world, and the only thing you can do about it is to understand that they don't know anything outside of their own little world. You can't really do or say to much, but just let them know that you are offended by their comments and that you are not ashamed of your religion.
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ok well i have this guy friend who ive kinda been liking for awhile.I tell him everything and he tells me just about everything. Well my ex bf raped me couple weeks ago and now my friend is all like mad at him and cussed him out the other day acting like all over-protective like he likes me or something. He also gets kind of mad when i talk about a guy i like i do that because i cant tell him i like him ya know? so i guess what i really want to know is do you think my friend likes me?its kinda confusing me because he likes to joke around alot n ask me out and stuff but hes only joking and he gives me like really wierd nicknames but its always " my something" for example says ur my babygurl n stuff. so do you think he does? sry if its long ill rate high (link)
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He probably does like you, but he could just be a flirty friend. Any friend would be protecting their friend from someone that raped them, so that isn't a big sign. I guess you just have to wait it out and see what comes of it. Don't tell him you like someone else if you don't because that doesn't give him the opportunity to ask you out. By the way, he might think you should wait before you have a relationship with anyone considering the circumstances with your last boyfriend (which he might be right about).
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Ok, in school I'm in the "popular group" and my friends are really nice and everything but sometimes they really annoy me. Here's why. Whenever a guy asks them out they'll like automaticlly say yes (even if they don't like them), and when a guy dumps them or they dump a guy they'll be going out with someone else within an hour. Anyway, for some reason this really bugs me. I don't really no why either. Now a guy asked me out and I said no because I don't like him and now they keep calling me too picky. What do I do? (link)
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Don't change your beliefs because of your friends. If you don't want to go out with a guy, then don't and your friends should get over it. It isn't really any of their business anyway. Sometimes it's good to be picky. Atleast you'll know that you aren't dating some psycho killer.
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well i like this boy right and he's spanish and i have no problem with that b/c he''s really sweet and cute. but all my friends do b/c im like white and we're totally diff and some of my friends are sort of racist. i don't know what to do b/c i rlly like this boy...what should i do
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I've said this to a lot of people because it applies to a lot of situations, but you need to decide what is more important, your friends or this boy. Truthfully, I don't know why you would want to be friends with racists. It makes you seem like a racist because you associate with them. Either go for the boy and teach your friends that they are in the wrong thinking the way they do or stay with your friends even though you know that the way they are thinking is not right. If you go with the boy and your friends are unwilling to change their opinion, then you might just want to find some different friends. Friends should support you and they are obviously not doing that.
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Ok, there's this guy at my school (i live in Vermont) who everyone thinks is gay. Even though the rumors are most likely not true, no one wants to be his friend because of rumors, and neither do my friends. I really think it's terrible how people treat him, and I want to be his friend; I don't believe sexual orientation should affect friendship. How should I be his friend without making my friends mad, or making him feel uncomfortable when my friends want to hang out with me? (link)
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If you really believe what you say, then you shouldn't care what your friends think. I guess it's between what you think is right and having everything ok with your friends. I don't think there is a way to have both. You just need to choose between the two. Sorry if that didn't help.
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is it bad to be white and have a crush on someone who's black or darker skinned than you? im not racist but ive always wondered! thanks in advance! (link)
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No, that's not wrong at all. The whole separate race thing has been over with for a long time. Catch up with the times and understand that everyone is the same so you can like whoever you want no matter what race they are. You seem pretty ignorant about the whole thing though. I mean you aren't exactly racist because you aren't saying that it is wrong, but you are pretty close to it.
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Okay hey
well, I have this really big crush on my chorus teacher. and this isnt one of those eww god these ppl have problems kind of things so dont think that. But anyways. im 16 and he is 26. He is really really cute and he is just so sweet and funny, and REALLY flirtatious. A lot of my friends see that. I even tlak to this guy online and stuff. and he blocks EVERYONE unless they are on his buddylist, and he put me on it. Anyways... I think about him non stop. And if i have a problem, then he is always there to help me out with it and everything. and if i am faking a guy problem thing, then he is always there to help me out. A lot of my friends say that they seriously with no doubt in their minds, think that he likes me but he just wont say or do anything becasue of his job. And everyday it seems to get more and more serious about him. And now he's all telling me to stop hanging out with my friends and everything becase they are bad influences( he said this after i asked him to help me with singing lessons) and that felt like soemthing a bf would do. And i would do anything in the world for this guy and its really serious... What do i do?
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Well, considering that if you had a relationship with him it would be illegal, then you shouldn't do anything with him. There's something off with him if he's willing to be flirty with a student who is 10 years younger than him. Possibly your getting the wrong signals from him and he's just being a good teacher opposed to flirting with you. I don't know I just think you need to find a guy in a closer age range. I'm not trying to be negative about the whole thing and I'm sorry that it's not the advice that you want to hear, but it's what I think.
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Okay, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 weeks. We have gone out for the same amount of time before, and I was the one that broke it off. I didn't feel it was right to go out with him when I just wanted to be friends. Well now, I am not happy in our relationship... AGAIN. He is not supportive at all, and I am the kind of girl that likes the single life. I don't like spending time with him, and I don't feel like there is butterflies in my stomach at all when I see him. But I will feel bad for breaking up with him AGAIN, and everybody will be mad at me and call me a whore. Should I break up with him anyway, or stick with him and make myself happy?
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You need to talk to him. It is not fair for him to be in a relationship when you are not fully commmitted. It's going to go down the drain no matter what eventually so you might as well let him know. Explain to him all of your feelings and how you feel. It might be turn out better than before. People might call you a whore and get mad, but then atleast you'll know who your real friends are. In the end, these people won't matter anyways so just be fair to him. Sorry, if this isn't what you wanted to hear and if this didn't help.
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ok there's this boy i like but i don't know what to tell him i'm only a 13 tear old girl wh's really cofussed i don't know if he likes me. How do i find out if he likes me back? My best friend asked him out for me but he said no but now me and him are becoming really really good friends an i don't want to ruein our friendship. what sould i do? (link)
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First thing, never have a friend ask someone out for you. If you really like the person, then you can do it yourself. Secondly, he might not like you back. He might just like you as a friend and you'll have to accept that. Since you already made a move and showed your feelings, he needs to make the next one to decide if you two should go out. He knows your feelings so it's kind of all on him now. Just be friends with him right now and everything else will figure itself out.
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i have a boy that i dated. i'm so hurt by the break up i don't no wnat to do.I'm a 13 year old . as soon as we broke up he went straight to this little nobody that i hate i wish i could break her arm but it shouldn't be her i'm mad at the boy.what should i do to get back at him?
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I'm sorry, but you are obviously jealous of this other girl and you just need to get over it. You are only 13. There will be so many more boys in your life that it's not even funny. Get over it, it is a nothing relationship. You probably couldn't even call it a relationship. This might be harsh advice, but it's the truth. Don't get catty with the girl or your ex just because you are jealous.Don't even bother with getting back at him. It's useless because he probably won't even care. Once again, I'm sorry if this is mean, but you need to hear it.
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