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I have a question about another guy possibly likeing me but this guy is different...
Every day at my locker he comes over JUST to kick (lightly) or poke me. He doesn't stay for long but it's weird! And he does it at least once every day. At lunch he used to come to my table every day and steal some of my food but he mostly stopped that. Now it is every other day. At Valentine's day he told me and my group of friends at lunch that he was going to ask out this girl to a dance. He told us who it was but he never asked her out. He doesnt treat my friends like he treats me so do you think he likes me? Thanks! :D (link)
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It's very possible he may as he showed 3 actions to liking you
1. Teasing you
2. treating you different from others
3. touching you
Teasing is a very big factor that he likes you too so experiment a little and ask him if he likes you becausebhe may :D
Good luck, hope i helped
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I need some guys to help me on this one or girls if you have proven info. Thanks.
So there is this guy in my school that sits across from me and today I saw him looking at me a couple of times. Also, whenever he is talking for the whole table, he always looks directly at me. But when he needs advice or answers he asks the other other two people at the table, never me. I know I don't have much evidence that he could like me but I just cac't stop thinking about him. I am on the lower end of the popularity scale and he is pretty high up on it so why would he like me? If you have any tips on finding out if he likes me that would be nice! I'm not usually so demanding with my questions but seriously! I can't get him out of my head!!! Thanks! :D (link)
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Firt off popularity doesnt matter so forget that. The reason I believe you cant stop thinking about him is becase you like him and have feeling for him so get to know him and talk to him. He may look at you when he's talking because he realizes your listening and everyone wants someone to listen to them. For he may also be asking the other kid questions because he's to afraid to ask you because
A. He's shy or B. Doesn't think you know or care so show him you do if that's the case.
Hope I helped
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Hey 13/F. There is this boy in my class we became best friends and now he ignores me on bbm but chat with me in class. He is not mad at me. And he is not busy do j think he likes me? I asked him whay he ignores me then he just said I don't know. I really catch his eyes a lot looking at me. And then he smiles. Does he like me? (link)
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It's possible he does but you can never be sure till someone tells you. As most the time when a guy likes you he will do all these things:
Tease you
Stare at you
Try and tap you on the arm or other places
Smile at you
pretend he doesnt like you
try to end up next to you in everything
Talk about you to his friends
Talk to you a lot
Tell you that you're really pretty (only if he's not the shy type)
So he may you never know ;)
Good luck and I hope Ihelped
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this girl is ALWAYS staring me down. shes a wannabe bad ***. she stares me down, gives me cold looks,and shes always talking about me , I hear her all of the time, shes not a good whisperer. She talks about me to her friends and they don't even talk about me or have a problem with me. I am not a mean person at all, I don't fight and argue with people and I have no idea why this girl doesn't like me. She gets mad when her friends come over and talk to me. It really gets on my nerves cuz I take 3 classes with her and shes always staring me down and giving me mean looks. I have never done anything to her and I overhear her all of the time talking about me to somebody, I hear her every time. She gets pissed when her friends talk to me and I overheard her telling them she doesn't like when they talk to me. I cant stand it when I walk into class and shes staring me down and giving me mean looks, its annoying and shes been doing it all school year. im not good at confronting people, I don't like arguing and fighting. I Have never been a b**ch to anyone lol. please help. what should i say/do?
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Keep ignoring this behavior. As she mostly likly has a big crush on you.
1. staring
2. tellig her friends to stay away
3. being mean
These are all main signs she likes you so if you catch her looking your way smile and be kind. If she's mean then ignore her.
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how to make a girlfriend ?
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Get to know the person really well first and become good friends then ask them out but it does take time.
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I am a senior in high school. Female. I have know this particular boy since the 7th grade. This year he is in my Government class. He seemed so cute at first and we started texting as more than friends. Maybe he didn't get the memo that we were flirting hard. Then one day in class, I saw his lock screen on his Iphone set as a picture of my Freshman cousin.. So he laughed and said he was just joking but later he told me he was talking to her.
A few days later he told me he was taking her on a date but that she stood him up so that he no longer liked him. I didn't care. Me and my cousin aren't close at all
So we started talking again for about 2 weeks until he makes it quiet clear that he ONLY wants sex from me. He, at first, told me he wanted sex and I, for some reason, didn't want to disappoint him so I played along and acted as if I would actually do that. But then he texted me and wanted me to sneak over, and when I didn't he told me that if we didn't have sex that he wouldn't talk to me anymore. So yes, He is an asshole. I know.
But WHY can't I stop thinking about him, Facebook stalking him, flirting with him in class (despite him making fun of me), and wishing SO BAD he would like me?! (link)
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Let me make this clear...This guy impacted your life. All he wanted was sex and nothing more s stayaway from him as he is not responsible or cares about you. FORGET HIM. Thinkabout different things right now you may feel bad for leaving or you may feel hurt and want him since you have gotten used to him and things are different now. This same thing happened to me and i stil think about and wish he likes me but I think about other things to get him off my mind you mayas also be frightened but he wasn't a good friend at all. So keep your self safe and don't let him impact your life right now anymore.
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I'm thirteen and my boyfriend just recently broke up with me. When I asked him why, he said it was because I was too obsessive.
Whenever we're together, we share jokes and tell what's happening in our lives. I text him whenever there's a problem or if something important is going to happen to me. I don't recall buying gifts for him or making his picture my desktop background, while he buys me gifts and makes my picture his desktop background. I treat him like a best friend except that I really like him, while he treats me like he loves me.
Am I obsessive? What will I do for everything to be okay again?
Am I obsessive? (link)
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There are differnt ways you could mean obsessive so ask him in what way. I think he may be using this as an excuse to brake up with you and if you realize he starts to be a jerk to you then maybe you'll realize you relly don't want to go out with him. Keep in mind that everything happena for a reason. 13 is young so you will have plenty of more boyfriends in your life :)
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Ok so I'm in 5th grade (which your prob wondering to young for arelationship but I do have a Facebook) so like 5 people asked me out and two of them have a Facebook so I don't like any of them but one but I never said yes I would go out with him cuz it was a text so instead of telling the other people no I didn't answer I tried to hide my relationship status but they keep texting me on fb and I don't wanna say no and I don't wanna say yes I like the other dude (and please don't say I'm to young thereisalot of people my age with boyfriends) please help!!!!!!!!!!
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A realationship at this age I believe is totally fake. Sorry I know you wish it were all like the movies but it's not love it's forced. It's stupid to have a realtionship when you don't know what it truely is. If your debating saying yes then you don't really like that peraon enough to be with them. If you're to afraid to yes because your embarrassed well everyone's goin' to find out sooner or later because guys can not keep secrets. But it's all up to you what you do and don't let other people get in the way.
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There's a guy I like and I've caught him staring at me quite a few times. He has seen my crazy side like when I am around my close friends, is that bad? But I was stading behind him during this class thing we were doing and I got this hate vibe coming from him. I get that from every guy I like and I HATE it!! It makes me just want to give up. Why does this happen with every guy I like? (link)
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What kind of hate vibe do you think it was? Maybe he wasn't doing it maybe he actually doesn't hate you. I think your being to hard on your self and that you should be your self around everyone and they will soon except your ways.
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I asked a question like this about another guy but now another one has popped up...Well he started sitting with me at lunch and talks to me a lot. His hair was pretty today, lol:) I saw him in the mall once and after that he started trying to take my food and he would throw other food at me. Haha but I got my revenge... I heard about the if he bugs you he likes you thing. But just getting another P.O.V. :) He doesn't bother anybody else, excpet when he sat on my friends binder when she was getting lunch.....Well ya that's it THANKS!!!! (link)
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It seems like he does like you if he's teasing you. If he talks to you a lot also then he probably does like you :) See how he reacts when you tease him and play cose attention to find out more:)
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I REALLY really like this guy. (Were both 11) Were friends and stuff, but I want to tell him I like him; I actuallt think I LOVE him... What do I do? (link)
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I just turned 12 but this happened to me and i told the guy i liked him and it turned out he liked me too. If yu have a phone you could make it seem mysterios and say "i wanted to tell you ssomething" then tell him. Or if u dont have a phone walk up to him and say it in a sweet, nice way. Just remember that boys can't keep secrets!! Haha so good luck and hope it turns out ok
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So, long story short..
My 11 (almost 12) year old cousin REALLY likes a boy in her class. She's in elementry, going onto Jr. high in a few months. Sooo, this is what she said is going on:
-He stares at her pretty much ALL the time
-He sits next to her in chorus, lunch, ect.
-He seems to be like RIGHT next to her.
-He makes her laugh A LOT
Please give me answers. She won't stop thinking and talking about him. They've known each other for 4 years! (link)
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It's most likely he does like her if he's doing this. When your in middle school or jr. high when a boy looks at you, sits with you and talks to you he likes you. But ahe will find out soon because boys can not keep a secret and im 12 in middle school right now (just started) and all the boys who likes or liked me did all this then word got around (like i sad boys cant keep a secret) and i knew they did from people telling me. So looks to me this guy wants to be friends with her and most likely has a little crush
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I like this guy in my class.
He always makes me laugh, and he always seems to be right by me. I've known (and liked) him for 4 years. Do you think he likes me? Help! (link)
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We cant help you if you don't share what he does to you or thoughts that make you think he likes you, we also need you age as all age groups are different once we have this information we will help you and share our opinions :)
-Thanks
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I like this boy in my class. I don't know if he likes me back. We are friends. And chat on bbm. I want him to like me coz he is really cute. I don't want to flirt. Plz help me. I told him and he was like o oky. Then I asked if he was mad at me then he said no. He really chat a lot with me on bbm. And he makes me laugh a lot. And if I need to flirt I want to know how. 13 /F (link)
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Flirting is talking in a cute way about any topic. You could try it if you want. Try and make the guy interested in you. Talk to him and the people around you guys and he will most likly be more interested with a-lot-of-people-conversation and then want to make conversation with you. Just be your self, not annying, little humorous and try! Good luck.
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Theres this guy i kinda like and I have his phone number. I've seen him staring at me a few times before and we have only talked like twice before. I want to text him but is he gona think I'm wierd for just texting him after all this time we haven't talked? (link)
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This is exactly like my friends situation. Start of by saying "hi it's blah" then he'll be like "hi" Then u could say something like "I wanted to tell you something" Then he'll ask what and you say you like him. Ok, to embarassing? Well, this is what i did for my friends. So they guy she liked had only talked with her a little. But i had gone to school with this kid before and he was my brothers good friend and a good friend of mine too. So I txted him and said "Text (my friends name) and don't tell her who it is cause i wanna ply a trick" So he did and she pretended she was cluless then she pretended to take a wild guess then got his # and she txts him today. If you don't have any friends like that then just say hi. It won't be embarrassing or humiliating as it is as first. What's the worst that could happen. Don't be shy :)
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Okay well I like my friend. And lately, it seems confusing. One day he'll be my friend and sit next to me and talk to me and act like he really likes me, and then the next day he won't acknowledge me. So tell me, does he like me? (link)
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It's possible he does. Look for signals. Does he flirt with you a lot? Does he stare your way? Have you heard him talking about you or any rumors about him liking you? Maybe he's just a bit shy. Just don't be shy yourslef and be yourself and look for signals.
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So my boyfriend and I have been going out for a little over two months and we haven't kissed. I know he wants to kiss me, because he has said so before. I'm just nervous because what if I do something wrong? He will be my first kiss and it will probably be after school, in front of all our friends. Oh and so you know I'm in seventh grade so I'm not that young. Also, please nothing about " You're too young, you don't know what love is " because last time I checked you don't have to be a certain age to love someone. Thanks c: (link)
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Don't be nervous and open your heart. If he wants to kiss and you want to kiss then go for it! It takes two and I agree you don't have to e a certain age to love someone you just got to know what love is. Nothing's perfect, especially your first time at it. So here's some tips;
Make it enjoyable for both of you
Don't show off
Make romantic
Don't over do it
&have fun!
Hope I helped and good luck with thaat kiss
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How do I ask out a guy? (link)
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Well first got to get to know him. After you know him well you should know the right time the say "will yyou go out with me?"
Good luck :)
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Well hey thanks for reading this well I'm on middle school and I'm not to Shure how to express my self all the time im really quite but I don't know what to say and and some think I'm boring but I'm not Im really not quite on the house or when I'm with my friends and I want to all see that I'm not boring I liked to have fun not be boring how can I show them I'm not boring and please don't tell me to be myself
If you read this thanks for taking your time (link)
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Find interesting topics to talk about that you think are cool or exciting.
Tell me people funng storys about your life or you or if you don't have any make a joke. Try and laugh a ton! Sing or dance around people amd don't be shy! Good luck :)
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my friends are popular but i"am not that much. so when i hang out with their friends they ignore me I try to talk but its like im not even their. what should i do?????? (link)
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Seems like their not being good friends but their not really being a friend find other people to hang out with and that are nice and don't ignore u. It's not all about popularity. Sorry and good luck
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